Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:45pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson: I always thought you were smart, but unfortunately, you disappointed me. You go by making comments about offline and online as though there are no other valid points you could make on the subject matter. You don't know me and I don't care to know who you are either. This discussion has nothing to do with that.
You talked about the women I fraternize with and I laugh at you. From the markets, every nooks and cranny down to workplace, social Media and what-have-you, there can be no better randomness to make this assertion.
Going by my ideology, do you think I will likely keep close female friends to start with? I know it's a total BS!
Ishilove, I respect you not because you are a woman, but because of your popularity on this forum (I never took out time to ascertain the reason behind your popularity though, and I really don't care about that though) but do not think that when someone comes up with discussions like this on a public forum, it means they do not measure up. This is where you prove my assertion about your gender with a great conviction to anyone seeing your replies on this thread. It further proves that your opinions are always emotionally induced and has no logical backing.
How on earth does this thread have to do with who is behind the post in offline? Whether the person measures up or not? Lols.
Anyways, take good care of yourself. You'll be fine. I respect legends and I know you are one here. She's not a legend and many aren't. Don't look up to women...take them as it lasts or goes. Old man says any man who uses a woman as 'ajoo' is carrying his load on bare head. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:39pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Babe chill na, see how you exposed his idiocy.  It is not by name calling. You won't even want your son to experience what you give husband. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:37pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:28pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: So you are insinuating that Men do not have minds of their own?
The Illogical beings are controlling the logical beings  Women manipulate men. Men with their own minds are hated by women. Have you read The Manipulated Man? |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:20pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: No, they commit crimes because they are irrational and illogical creatures and seeking immediate gratification.  |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:14pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: OP, I hope your fellow male robs or kidnaps or brutally assaults you or commits any other violent crime that males are known for doing against you, so that you can truly appreciate how logical men are when they are done with you.
Jobless and frustrated entity forming woke.
Rubbish. I blame nairaland mods for moving your asinine topic to front page. Men commit those crimes to please you. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:12pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Autobot05: No mind them bro .. na why I no dey pity them when they reach 30 and start looking for just any man to marry them.. or when all these Yahoo boys use them
Those real big guys sef no too dey reason them seriously sef . If you are among the top 10% men, na you dey select dey push them out. Do as you like she go endure. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Autobot05: Mark's wife ( Priscilla) is disciplined . She's not a liability like you and your sisters here and she assists mark in every way she can. And he's proud of her
Tell your sisters to stop being liabilities and learn to bring something to the table so y'all wont depend on men to do what your fathers failed to do for y'all 
I never stated that love should be associated with hardship and suffering .. it's your money/ easy life obsessed mind that thought of it that way
Wont be bad if you buy the Benz or jet and cruise in it with your guy. True Wealth is built it doesnt happen overnight They believe it should be them that get the 20% of men in that category. 80% of women is chasing 10% of men calling it love. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 4:27pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson: Thanks for your well thought-out advice. It is duly noted. The only problem here is that, our temperaments exudes itself when a lot of things are tolerated. I personally am a no-nonsense-person who could barely have the same tolerance as you. This is where I know too well that I haven't stretched out (tolerance).
Practically, I really have to adapt with them since I need to keep HATE away from me. Obviously from all the responses here, I can see that they are really who they are, and there is absolutely nothing I can do about that. This is the sad part of it. Don't try to understand them. Just get what you want from them respectfully and ignore all that bs while holding your cash. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 3:38pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
danowena: I will would like to be added as well. |
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by aestake: 12:01pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
lonikit: Is it true that such children must remain single to be derivatives Yep! |
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by aestake: 1:45am On Feb 05, 2023 |
lonikit: Thank you. But can you explain more sir. How do I calculate it google it bro and watch youtube. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 3:07pm On Feb 04, 2023 |
Profgordons: You can learn French then, easier than finding love Love with immigration values or just love?  |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 3:06pm On Feb 04, 2023 |
Zeewirld: ....Did you just write that "love is hard to find"....I think you need to check yourself,and define what your values are.. You need to determine what you need/looking for in a partner.
In addition,I think you need to work more on your mindset.A lot of battles are won from the mind first Marriage is not for everyone. Marriage shouldn't be mainly associated with immigration too. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 11:01pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Savagethe21st: no they cut from 480 upwards for software engineers I meant are you in the pool? They may do an IT only draw. You never know...other provinces can as well. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 10:55pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Savagethe21st: yes I am a software engineer in a nigerian fintech Baba, enter pool yesterday. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 10:55pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
greenverte: It is not a must to get your name changed after marriage, so you can still maintain same name through out the process. I don't know how to make people know this. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 10:53pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Savagethe21st: I feel very sad with the high cutoff scores. I have only bachelor's degree, I don't have a job offer,I am not married, I have no relative in Canada, I do not have a Canadian certification neither do I know french as a second language. Even if I get a perfect score in ielts my crs will be 441. But you work in Nigeria? NOC? Enter the pool first. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 10:33pm On Feb 03, 2023*. Modified: 11:09pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Chechem: Please throw more light because I am still confused. Though we are legally married but I am sponsoring myself for the studies, I only mentioned her in the application because I did not want it to seem like I hid any information, so that it will not be term misrepresentation when they eventually find out.
However, please bro, is there a policy that says if I am married to a PR that is serving a spousal ban, then I can not enter Canada through study route?
Also my refusal letter only stated that I have significant ties in Canada and they are not sure that I will leave after studies. If I explain why I will leave after studies in my LOE and upload additional documents like police clearance certificate, birth certificates of all my siblings, affidavit of return and affidavit from my wife undertaken to make sure that I return after my studies, do you think I will have a chance of approval?
I have ordered for my notes anyway. Bros, what is termed misinformation would have been if you filled out the forms and submitted the application without mentioning your wife and her status. You did so and it was the right thing to do. However, her temporary ban on bringing in a non-visa-exempt spouse is your problem as well. Let me clear it better for you-if your big brother used B1/B2 to enter USA and refused to come back, within the period he hasn't naturalized, all your family members may never get any kind of visa to America. You have to wait for him to find love with an American or sponsorship from an employer and become a citizen. I know we are talking about Canada. If you have another way of coming here, no problem. Right now, her ban is your ban! She can come and be with you in Nigeria or visit until that ban is lifted. She knows about this ban, and that is why most sponsored divorced people find love among citizens here or those who won't need sponsorship or any visa or stick with their true love no matter what. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 7:55pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
TOPAI7: If your wife resides in Canada, why can't she apply for a spousal work permit or residency for you?
Just look for other alternatives to enter Canada legally She was sponsored and now she has to wait for some years to be eligible to sponsor another person. She can be remarried though. However, if the new spouse doesn't need a visa or is a CC or PR then no immigration thingy is involved. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 7:52pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
nana101: Hello. Can you throw in more light on this fellow’s situation that his wife is not being able to sponsor him please? If you're sponsored and the marriage collapsed with say a divorce and you marry again and wants to sponsor the new spouse, you can marry but have to wait till 4 years to be able to sponsor the latest spouse. |
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by aestake: 5:15pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
lonikit: Please I need a honest answer on this issue. If one is in f4 category. I mean your sibling petitioned for u. Can your older children be derivatives? I mean at the time your petition is current, your children are older then 21years, can they still be derivates or you will need to apply for them when u become a citizen Yes, but you have to do the CSPA calculation first. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 5:12pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Chechem: I know about this, she can't sponsor me at the moment as she was sponsored.
Thanks very much bro. I suspected this. No other way untill the years elapse. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 3:38pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
braine: This is my own case. I got the NOI, but I will lose 5 out of my current 482 in April. Quite confusing on way forward whether to wait for federal or just go ahead with this. That 1,500CAD is a lot. You will be fine. Just don't submit yet. Or use stage2. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 3:35pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Profgordons: They are trying to outsmart the other Provinces, they know the scores are going to come down and those desired professionals are going to be scattered to other Provinces through Federal so why not grab them early. Fact is that even without doing anything unless your birthday is close or IELTS expiring, it is almost certain that those who got nominations now will still get FSW in few weeks. Now it is left to balls and gut feelings. But about 2/3 of those professionals still end up in Ontario anyway. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 3:32pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Ifakiland: Hi guys, So my wife is the main applicant, were presently on 486, we will loose 5pt next week when she clocks 30 and be down to 481. We got ontairo NOI yesterday....I wanna ask if I still need to rewrite my ielts that will expire next week or I should forgo it since the pending 600pt additional from the NOI will cover it....also is the CAD1500 for only the main applicant or dependents too will pay... Thank you. Only PA pays that cash. Your IELTS expiry may not matter but try to submit before that. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 3:26pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Chechem: My wife is also suggesting if she can make an affidavit with an attorney over there, vouching for me, stating that I will not overstay and that she will make sure that I do not remaining in Canada after my study permit expires... Do you think this will help?
Also, going for visiting visa after being rejected for study permit, is it a good idea? Wont it raise eyebrows? Bros, so long as your wife is a PR, you may not get any TRV. Stop wasting your money and time. Go for family class application. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 3:24pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Chechem: You mean sponsor my studies?
In the application that got refused, I was self sponsored. Family Sponsorship. Come as a permanent resident and study as a local. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by aestake: 10:01am On Feb 03, 2023 |
Chechem: She is a permanent resident, but she can't sponsor me through spousal sponsorship, I applied for study permit.
Don't you think the reason is very clear? Let her sponsor you. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 9:48am On Feb 03, 2023 |
greenverte: OINP will reject your application outrightly if your submitted doc are not complete.
The only way is to wait till 40th day before submitting as you have 45 days to submit.
There is a helpful group on telegram specifically for Nigerians that got NOI from ON. Contact @mzexplore on telegram to add your sister up. I did it and so many during my time did it. I wonder why they always compete so closely with the federal govt. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 1:46am On Feb 03, 2023 |
OgechiBae: Yes. That's what we are considering. Kinda delay the submission of the NOI ( but ensure to submit within the 45 Calendar days window) while waiting for possible ITA from Federal. Yea .. that's stage1. What I said is stage2. Saving ONIP fee is necessary. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by aestake: 12:45am On Feb 03, 2023*. Modified: 1:36am On Feb 03, 2023 |
Goulak: please how? Deliberately omit a document or a passport page. Ontario must ask you for it. You keep missing it while watching if ITA will rapture you, Then Ontario refunds you when you fail to correct your deliberate mistakes. Search this thread and make sure ONIP rules are still same. |