pansophist:


Can you send it again? and please mention your username. Thanks

pansophist:


The difference is that women are not paying for the sex. That's the point. Sex for women is like air, it's everywhere. Even mad women de collect, talk more of a normal woman.

Although the female version for involuntary celibacy would be what I described as "involuntary homelessness". It's a term I made up sha.

It's the desire and despiration to get married and move into a man's house, but for where? Aunty wait outside, no space.

Same way you'll see men in brothels to cure their sexlessness, for women it's church, and for the fetish ones, babalawo shrine.

pansophist:
Facebook is going down, that's why. The cuts are an euphemism for slow growth, and more people leaving instead of joining Facebook.

pansophist:


African men are NOT the most sought-after men by caucasian women. Where una de see this lie sef?

Ok let me put it another way. If the only thing going on for you is that you are black, or even worse, come big like Mr. Ibu, then sorry is thy name

chatinent:
May God punish all idiots who are abroad but are plotting to advise people to remain in Nigeria!

Me wey bi if I kuma get the connection this uncle get, na to dey open way for people to come...you know, no condition is permanent naim this uncle dey lock door throwaway key! At least, if you don't want them to come directly where you are...,devil, open the way for them to go elsewhere naw! Una still dey carry the attitude una dey give Nigerians there dey give people wey no dey there!

What sort of ekwensublability is this! How old is your witchcraft!

Fine lady, any how you fit do, please and please, escape from this country! If you can survive here, you can survive there! Pikin wey go strong go strong; no be until dem name am Samson.Their petty jobs and some other petty jobs you can do on the minimum wage, wetin you fit accumulate monthly na wetin most bankers dey earn for Naija per annum.

No gree make that black mamba deceive you o. Who no get dey choose plate for party? Who dey owe landlord dey wear cardigan? Shoo!

Eba dey hot, eba dey hot but you no gree comot hand. Baba, cast and bind every advice like this: reject am, disown the person, avoid the person...no matter who they are! They don't mean well for you! True, say cat sabi swim no make am catfish but e no mean say e no fit still catch fish! You fit bi traffic car washer abroad dey build duplex for Naija. Na experience wey climb orientation I dey give una. Many boys for we school that year wey dey claim rubbish, na toilet dem dey wash dey claim vacation dey carry Benz dey intmidate professor wey no know the cost of rim. Escape from Nigeria! You will always see jobs..and with time, other freelance jobs will come by.


If you are a hustler, you will definitely survive and survive others. Las las, crocodile na lizard wey join army.


Just ensure your ambition revolves around escaping from Nigeria! Jollof rice wey dey for bottom of pot today go dey for top of cooler tomorrow.

See you at the airport, fam. ✌️

donaldking10:
only in IMSU.
if you know, you know.

pansophist:


Autarky?

MyAmericandream:

So FPE graduates Dey nairaland?

GboyegaD:
The Federal Polytechnic, Ede - Statistics;
Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife - Economics;
University of North Texas, Denton, TX - Economics;
Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI - Business Analytics;
University of Calgary, Calgary, AB - Economics.

civboy:
I am in my 20s too and yes, it is really hard and I have a lot of worries, bad news, burdens, stress and chaos in my life to manage. But let me share what helps me stay afloat, as it comes to mind, with no particular order:
- cut out everything that drains your time, energy and money but doesn't improve your life. If it costs you time, money or energy and after you are done, you don't have more money or at least a feeling of happiness or rest, then it shouldn't be in your life. For me, I had to cut out porn, masturbation, flirting, hookups, some people, eating too much, spending too much time on social media, debating with people who aren't rational and a bunch of bad habits like sleeping late, etc... Of course, sometimes you will desire these things, but find pleasures that benefit you better like intense sport or reading things that interest you. Some things, you can do without them so just cut them out, TV, netflix, instagram, watching soccer and whatever, celebrity news and gossips, etc... I often see it wasting the time of many friends and mates.
- don't waste time thinking that you have to find your "calling", destiny or stuff like this, or even the will of God for your life if you are religious. Ask a lot of successful or old people, you will see that none of them succeeded by looking for that kind of things. They all started by doing excellently what was in front of them, and looking for important things to do or learn, and opportunities to seize, and then harwork, excellence and a lot of luck brought them to success. So get out of your head, stop making plan after plan, start practically looking for the best things you can do right now and get busy doing them, and if you keep doing the best things excellently, and if luck comes your way (don't worry since you cannot control that part), then eventually you will succeed.
- when you get bad news or a problem pops up in your life, give yourself time to digest your emotions first, maybe a whole afternoon, an entire day or a week. And then when the time to cry and complain is over, sit down and start looking for solutions and help. Think and do, think and do again, think and do again, never think a lot to never do anything and never rush to do whatever without thinking first, do both and be brave to accept whatever result life will give you. Do your best and accept the rest; that's the only thing you can do, learn to be okay with that.
- prioritize money; as you grow older, you will have time to figure out religion, healthcare, relationships, intellectual interests, politics, your mission on earth, your hobbies and whatever but start with money, dedicate 8 to 12 hours everyday for hustle, a fourth of the time to learn about making and securing money and the three fourths to actually work and make money. If you are financially stable in your 30s, you will see that everything else will fall into place more easily. We grew in a culture where money was a taboo and we weren't taught how important it is.
I have been living by these principles for some time and it makes a great difference. Worries decrease when you are not sabotaging your own life, when you are busy trying to progress and when you allow a time to grieve for your problems and then focus on tackling them and learn to accept the results, knowing that you did your part.

WoundedLamb:


Anxiety at certain stages of our lives is normal.

After graduation, the fear of being poor arises. This comes with the pressure to succeed in life. While it's a very uncomfortable period in our lives, it's normal, and the truth is, people naturally outgrow it. I know it's tempting to sound like motivational speakers and tell you we did this or that, but like I said, it's a phase you'd naturally pass if/when you get busy. All you need is a sense of "doing". You need to convince yourself you're doing your best (or start doing your best if you aren't already). In my opinion, having a plan and ensuring whatever you're doing at the moment leads to the success of that plan is the best way to quickly get out of this phase. It only sticks with those who end up not having any job that gives them that sense of "doing" and it easily turns into depression for such people.

This anxiety happens to the best (in fact, it's more common in ambitious people). So I suggest you embrace it and use it as a source of motivation. You'll experience something similar if not worse towards the age of 45 when you start comparing your life so far with what you wanted it to be. It is called mid-life crises, and whatever you do with this early-life anxiety will have an impact on how severe that one will be.

You seem like a focused person, and I have no doubts you'll succeed in life. Best of luck!

merits:


Nothing special just remain focus and stead fast to your daily prayers.

Meanwhile avoid V-jay for now, bcuz this can distablise and ruin your future completely.

dauddy97:
Still in my twenties. I'm using this time to learn and up skill myself.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Zelenski my niggarrrr

Turn my alcoholic drink with happiness while puffin my weed concurrently or rather simultaneously


Zelenski my nigggarrrrrr


Efcc never touch me....because I nor get better money
I just dey Ukraine dey huzzle make my money for long

I just need to double my huzzle So that when efcc come my compound them nor go carry everybody leave me behind..

MadamVanessa:



Lol


During sex, a guy instead of focusing on what he was doing ,focus to hit the right spot, he will stupidly ask locally" are you liking it" wtf

Fahdiga:
Same way nairaland will post throwback picture of I and my son when he becomes the president

Iyaebe:
Las las Chioma dumped him.E choke,choken’t it?

Candidlady:





Iguess ...

Happy chi dumped his sorry A$$..

Iyaebe:
But she’s right,why spend on frivolities when a human is in dare need of it.lol

Feggie3:
But can you say it without crying