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No be all women sha. . . My brother wife use my elder sist as chief brides mate and my sist looked stunning just like d bride. . . Woman Wey really fine no go worry abt stuff like dat. . .

Mayflowa:
Yes, this is undisputable. Missy B has a lot of disciples dotting on her on NL. She has so mastered the act of flirtation and seduction that some guys are truely falling for her charm. She takes them to the imaginable high heaven and create passion and emotion in these guys. The list of the NL guys dying to have a nite out with her are Snowdrop, Sauron, Tkb, 9-11, the list is still counting.

What do u think?

Aproko Wey tin concern u. . . U just dey open ur dirty mouth dey talk anyhow. . . E dey pain u say nobody dey trip for u? Haba! So u no get work again na to dey monitor people eh? I sorry for you sha and for the person Wey dey friend you

Your mom tried to kill ur fiance/fiancee unknowingly because of wealth, she had no idea it was him/her or that the ritual will kill him/her and you got to know. In other to save ur fiance/fiancee ur mom must die, for u to save ur mom ur fiance/fiancee must die. . . You are faced with this dilemma. . . Who would you save?

If we are given a second chance to live an event of our life all over again. . . What would you change?

olajidson:
i dont know what to do, i caught my pastor banging my finance a day after our wedding day?
and he kips begging that it is the Devil's work. this is d same pastor that prayed and said to me that, she is my wife to be?
pls tell me what to do?

This is a very funny and unreal story. . . Assuming its true, u should break-up/divorce ur fiancée/wife. As for the pastor let God be the judge. Change church and dis time pray God directs u to his true follower. Good luck.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
in today's world, there is nothing wrong with online dating as long as:
1) you dont rely on it only to meet a partner.
2)[/b]you understand that it should only be a way to get the first contact with someone,the rest should be face to face.
[b]3) you understand that many people misrepresent themselves and therefore you should accept that anyone could be typing on the other side of that screen, even your grandmother.
4)[/b]not everybody is right/ready for online dating.
[b]5) its a well known fact that more than 40% of people using online dating are either married or already in a relationship.
6) if you are not the most attractive man out there and some hot chick contacts you out of the blue, its probably a scam!

7) He/she may be only interested in having a fling.
99.9% of what he/she is saying might be a lie, . . . .
The list goes on and on. . . The disadvantage is way higher than the advantage. . . Is it right to date online? I'll say it depends on you. . . But always expect the worse so u won't be disappointed. . .

Hmmm. . . What u don't know won't kill you o. Assuming u mind ur biz and face the girl u would be happy but no u have to know if she's cheating now see the result. . . The child is innocent to all this so abortion is not an option. You love the girl right? Take care of her and the baby. If u still doubt her after she put to bed do a DNA test to know if the baby is Urs.
But the girl sha. . . 6guys! Yish.

Since he doesn't compare u wit them, and he only talk abt them to make point u should be happy. . . He likes u alot and trust you that's why he's open and its a very good sign. Guys don't open up easy. . . Besides u were friends before so he feels comfortable around you. . . But if it bothers u, tell him to stop. Me and my bf talk abt our past sometimes and its fun.

Pls guys she asked for advice not insult. . .
Poster. . . What u re doing is not cool at all, its like jumping from fry pan to fire. . . U should be thinking abt ur child and the best way to care for him/her. Age has nothing to do wit anything cos u re a mother and the child's priority comes 1st. Learn to be matured and stop thinking u re young girl. . . Grow up!

I've heard of this kind gist before. . . Its a way of telling u she'll bring u good tidings. . . Most girls believe they re daughters of wealth and can give it to someone they care abt. But its scary, mysterious and dangerous. . . Pls ask her to interpret o and make u no enter the place else. . . Na you sabi

Berry

Kgdavid:
good people of nairaland come and see wat my eyes are seeing. i posted email address i use for business for a few hours on some thread in the sports section and then took it down. within a day i received this mail


From: happinessappolo@yahoo.com
Subject: Friendship.
To:

Hello
My name is shellia.i saw your Profile at (www.nairaland.com) and became intrested in you,i will also like to know you more,and if you can send an email to my email address,i will give you my pictures here I believe we can move from here! Am waiting for your mail
to my email address above because i have alot to tell you,

good people of nairaland i have another email on my profile so when i received this mail i knew something sinister was up as the email i received this message on was posted in a thread where money was being discussed .this was my reply:



hello, i'm flattered by your interest. i would like to see your pics and if i may ask what is your nairaland username?



he then replied


My dear,
How is your day? Mine is fine over here in Dakar, Thanks for your mail.
Like I said my name is Shellia Duncan ,Am 23yrs single tall and fair in complexion, Very good looking girl that is very sharing, giving, caring and loving girl, above all God fearing and trusted.I really want to have a good relationship with you.A relationship of deep feeling that will construct a mutual understanding ,I'm from ivory coast in west Africa and presently I am residing in the refugee camp here in Dakar as a result of the civil war going on in my country.My late father Dr Daniel Kablan Duncan was former Prime Minister of Côte d'Ivoire,and presently the Maneging director of Duncan's Fan industrial company before the rebels attacked my house one early morning killing my mother and my father.It was only me that is alive now and we managed to make our way to near by country Senegal where we are living now in a refugee camp.I send and receive e-mails in the office of our Reverend,He has been so kind to me since i became close to him during one of his visitations to the clinic in the camp when i was sick. I would like to know more about you. Your likes and dislikes,your hobbies and what you are doing presently.I will tell you more about myself in my next mail.Attached here is my picture .Hoping to hear from you soonest.
Miss Shellia.



i didnt know i was that hot


MAGA NO NEED PAY OOOOOOO

Haaaaaaa!!! Even you! I got same mail and I told her; hey girl I'm not gay. . . You look good though. Then she sent the second mail. . . Lol. . . The person is so dumb. . . U can't scam like that. Lol. . . Naija!

Lies, lies, lies. . . Everybody lies. Its human nature, we can't always help it. . . Does it make relationship last long? No! It kills the trust and love. . . It kills the relationship. If u lie to cover one thing. . . U'll continue to lie on top of the lie. . . Men if I go eh. . . Hmmm. . . I've lied though but I always come clean later. Its not something I'm proud of.

Which ever u pick u'll be wondering for the rest of ur life if its the right one. . . Write out the qualities you want in a good wife compare and choose or better still go for a fresh relationship. . . Love and trust works hand in hand. If u trust a person it means you love her enough to place such trust on her. If u love someone it means u trust the person enough to give her ur heart. . . Love and trust are like two side of a coin

You guys are way too young for something like this. . . If I'm her brother I would never ever allow it. . . But then who knows. . . U have to tell him though, use wise tactic.

papine:
your reaction

What abt it?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
this story is confusing:
1) she wants to know once and for all if he was trustworthy but when she finds out that he wasnt, she still wants him to breakup with Pat FOR HER. . . . . . shouldnt she be running away from this guy once and for all?
2) Cherry was still talking about "being serious" with this loser even after he dumped her for her friend?
3) if she wasnt ready to break up (not strong enough) then whats the reason for this whole game/trap?

like they say, if you hang with snakes, you will eventually get bitten!

Like I said she's stupid, she believes he won't fall and again he's her 1st love in every way. . . Its not easy letting go of the 1st. I just wish things were diff for her. . . She don't know how to tell him abt the prank or if he'll believe her. . . I was thinking abt talking to him, is that right?

aktunde:
@ Ladylocs,

Honestly, I do not care how the guy got her number, and neither do I care if she gave him or not. Other guys who I don't even know call her, and I have never given a hoot about that because I do not want to give myself any unnecessary headache because of all that. I believe in relationships, what will be will be, regardless of the close marking you give your girl or guy. So, button line, I don't care if she gave him or other guys her number. The things that amaze me are as follows;

(1) Is it not shameful for a guy working in a bank, to be flashing a 400 level student (girl)? If they must talk on the phone, who should call who? Who should flash who?

Personally, I hate flashing. i don't flash people. I even feel shameful to flash my own girl friend, and not to talk of other girls. If my gf attempts to call me, I drop her call and call her back. That is they way it should be, if you are working but dating a student.

(2) If he must snatch another man's girl, can't he just at least spend some money? Flashing is free. Then MTN "CALL ME I LOVE YOU" is also free. I expect him to know that an average girl wouldn't like to hang out with someone that stingy. Can't he just spare N7. and type "I LOVE YOU" so as to avoid the "CALL ME" part of the free text? Why would he expect her to call him? Is it pride or he is shameless?

Rather than feeling jealous or unsecured, those two scenarios disgust me and honestly the guy needs proper beating. Not for trying to snatch my girl, but for disgracing men and rubbing the name of his fellow bankers in the mud.

CONCLUSION

Well, I have told my girl to handle the guy herself or go to the bank. The only reason why I might have anything form of encounter with the guy is probably at the scene where some beatings would be organised for him if he doesn't stop his madness. Thank you all for your suggestions!

Wow! Good arguement. . . U could win a debate contest.
Well spoken but dis guys are mad people. From my experience ignoring him is best, confronting him wil only add fuel to the already burning fire. . . This kind of guys are mentally deluded and will stop at nothing. . . Lets just pray in time he'll get bored. . . Thanks for believing in ur girl. . .

Ujujoan:
What do you mean by NOBODY to take care of the sister's children? What about her sister's husband? His family memebrs? She has given in enough already, I think it's time for someone else to take over

The husband works and travel alot. . . He's barely in town and he doesn't trust his family members. He warns his wife not to get close to them.
Her mom said she can't care for the child cos she's busy wit stuff and she's too old to care for a little child. . . The other elder sist says her house is filled wit kids can't take another in.
It all leaves it on Kayla. . .

jarkbauer:
how did he do it with 500k.venue food drinks gown rings suits cloth box all for 500k!

It was a simple affair consist of family and close friends. 100guest in all. . . We tot it wouldn't work but it did and it was fun. Wedding is not abt wearing the most expensive dress or drinking the most expensive wine or having friends talk abt it cost of its glamour. . . Its abt being special and happy. . . Abt finally becoming one wit the one you love. If u have that in mind I tell 200k will be able to cover ur wedding. . .

True story but not real names. . .
Kayla is 21, jobless, not in school, no relationship. . . Why? Because she stays at home and act as a nanny for her elder sist who don't really care. She takes care of the kids like her own, she struggled and gained admission to a private poly, nobody cares, nobody contributed. She couldn't continue so she stopped came back home and continue nanny job. Now she has the opportunity of a life time in lag but her sist is terribly ill, nobody to look after the kid. . . She's faced with a dilemma. . . What should she do? Should she make another sacrifices that'll probably cost her future and probably get no thanks or should she think of herself? Her mom says she's selfish by leaving, her sist says she wicked. . . She's lost. . . Show her light. . .

kpolli:
na so u go talk now, but later we go see u for E!

I pray o. . . Got to sign out. . . You have yahoo? Add me. . .

Cherry a friend of mine wanted to play pranks on her guy Mark. . . She said she suspects he cheats and can't resist any gal. . . She asked me to toast d guy, I refused cos I hate playing people. I asked her not to play such dangerous games she won't listen to me. . . She and one of her friend Pat played the prank, the friend toasted the guy and the guy fell flat for her. . . Now Pat her so called friend ask the guy to break up wit his Cherry the girlfriend if he wants to get serious wit her. . . He did just dat. . . Cherry asked Pat to let go of the guy but Pat laughed and said its not in her hands cos the guy is in love wit her and she thinks she love him too. . . Should my Cherry come clean and tell the Mark it was a little prank gone bad? Or she should just let go? For me I'll tell her to let go cos she'll be like a joke if she tells the guy abt the prank. . . She's silly but she's also my friend. . . What should she do?

kpolli:
things just dey, work no too dey plenty so i fit play small, hws u?

I just dey like who no dey o. . .

My brother had a N500k wedding and everybody was more than happy. . . 1.5m is too much oooo. She should be jubilating its not as if she's contributing a dime. . . Some girls na wa o

5 solid years you endured, 5 solid years u've been patient, 5 solid years he didn't change. . . What makes you think he'll change now. . . Once a cheat is always a cheat.
Guys cheat alot, some have the decency to hide it, some flaunt it, some feel ashame abt it, some feel proud abt it. . .
There are nice guys out there, good things don't come easy but when they come they never get away. . .
Leaving him was the best decision, u know why? Cause you are a queen and deserve to be treated as such. . .
A relationship is meant to be enjoyed not endured. . . Just keep encouraging yourself. It'll hurt, you'll feel ur world is down. . . But u wake up one morning and realise your world was never down. In time dear everything will be fine. . . Time heals all ills.
Try create activities for yourself or try expressing ur feelings in words and write them down, it helped me. . . Smile often even when u feel like crying. . . Take strolls and see natures. . . Don't jump quickly to a new relationship. . . Take your time.
Your prince charming will come for you. . .

Dr. Lorenz:
Surprisingly, i havnt seen any female response. Perhaps, since the guy works in a bank, they wouldn't mind calling the guy as long as the guy's the one doing the toasting. These days girls do crazy things, its a crazy world out there bro,

To your topic, i think you should stop the nonsense the guy's doing before it gets out of hand. Now he's using text messages however free, who knows what he'll do next? And how strong is your gf's resolve?

Some guys are just too full of themselves and i hate guys like that. He probably thinks the usual pressure would work on her, but who knows, a stitch in time my friend saves nine.

No matter how crazy the world is, a sane girl won't call a guy to toast her. . .
The guy is a jerk and no sane girl will fall for that type of approach.
Funny I've had such experience almost exactly, talking to dem just fuel their stupidity. They'll stop at nothing. . . Dear just change ur number cos even if you beat him up. . . He still have the no and it'll get worse. . . Trust me it always get worse wit jerks like this. . . They like seeing you suffering.
Guy!!! Hmmm. . . Guy!!!

kpolli:
shey na swear, me wey don graduate teeeeeh!!!!!

I know na. . . How's things. . .