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Its a faze. . . We all pass through that sometime in our life. I for one said I won't kiss any boy cos its irritating imagining their dirty mouth on mine. . . But in time that point of view changed.
But its dangerous nursing that idea for long cos it'll lead to believing it and she might just be a virgin forever. . .
Marriage Don't she knows she has to be intimate wit her husband Ha! She's contradicting herself o.

kpolli:
me i didnt pass it o, i wont lie

Why na. . . No worry read well u go am this time. . .

kpolli:
african queen, u be jamb examiner
your questions ehn,

atleast people dey pass jamb

Thanks guys. . . You're the best. . .

I guess its better I stay. . .

9-11:
Scenarios:
Go
If you go you'll definitely be banged . You'll enjoy it but the moment you leave the house you'll feel like sh1t, hate yourself and wish you hadn't gone. The words: I'm a fool will keep echoing in your ears for days.

Stay
If you stay you'll miss him and almost go crazy. You might even start believing the lie that nothing might have happened. But after a couple of hours you'll start thinking clearly and might even be proud of yourself for being able to control your emotions.

Those are the most likely scenarios so what's it gonna be babe?

what if we meet up somewhere like a fast food joint?

What would u do if your ex invited you to his apartment and you're still in love with him and he's engaged but the girl doesn't live with him. Will you go?

kellysopy:
There is this my girl friend I had though a platonic one while in school, we were very close to the extent that we could even sleep together in the same room without any show. Her parents and siblings know me too well, in fact, I even visit and spend weekends in her family house in Ibadan. Currently, I am married to another girl that we met during our service year and we recently moved to Ibadan from Lagos as a result of my transfer.

That my old friend now wants to visit me in my house to see my wife and probably have a chat with her and my wife is objecting to it. Is my wife not taking things too far? Is anything wrong if she visit? Your advice please.

One question: how would u feel if it is ur wife that is doing exactly what you re doing?

sasago:
To be honest, I am looking for someone who is sweet ,loving caring honest, affectionate,good personality bubbly sense of humour. Last month, I came across an age gap dating site called "AgeGapLove`.co`m", I wan curious about it and joined.

I got several winks and emails there. The blogs and forums are active. They also have chatrooms. Hmmmm, Seems they are all serious. Then I met him. I call him "MR. R". He called me "Baby". But he is 14 years older than me. You know, I am only 21 years old. Should I go on this relationship or give up?

Give me some advices please,  I need help.

There's nothing wrong in dating an older guy. My prob is the means u met d guy. . . I for one don't support internet relationship cos its full of scam. . . So dear be very, extra careful wit this guy. Don't let his sweet words fool you, strip off the sheep wrapping if u'll find a wolf there.

eldee:
WOW!!! That's such an 'educated' way to answer a query.

No wonder you started the topic.

I see. . .

Pennywise:
So if your destiny is to be poor, no use trying to work hard. Just lay back and take things easy

your eye dey pain you? Read well and grasp the meaning of what he's trying to say. . .

eldee:
No one has proven you wrong because no one is obliged to.
And the burden of proof is on you to check your generalisation before starting a topic with 'Guys'.

hmmm. . . Tough much

Missy B:
Maybe we should start by defining what 'Education' is.

Does one have to possess a degree in order to be classified as 'Educated'?
What about those half-baked graduates that can't recite the 2 times table
without looking at a sheet of paper?
Do we see them as educated people simply because  they've been around the 4 corners of a school?

We must first settle who an Educated person is,
before answering any question related to it.

I like that. . .

eldee:
If you already had pre-conceived opinions, why did you bother asking??

I wanted to see if someone would prove me wrong. . . So far no one have come close to that. . . Its sad for liabilities. . .

Sonofpeace:
Who need liability in his or her life? Or do you?

you marry an asset but cheat wit a liability. . . U don't need liability but u have fun wit it.

madlady:
This is why your one of my best posters.

Let me add a few more to your list (for the London black girls) .

6. Must own their own home.

7. Must have "Swagger" imprinted on their forehead.

8. Must dress like a 


@Poster,

Some guys can spot a girl who will be an asset to them.

I think that's wat they want these days. . . Asset not love partners. It all abt business. . . They can't afford liabilities. . . Its kinda funny.

Will you be able to have a real relationship or marry a girl who is uneducated but smart, not working but have hopes on starting something soon? Or is a bsc degree a license to a real relationship/marriage?

Will you be able to have a real relationship or marry a girl who is uneducated but smart, not working but have hopes on starting something soon? Or is a bsc degree a license to a real relationship/marriage?

adonisgold:
@poster, if I may ask, which of these people are u?

I am the narrator.

Kelsey was staying with her elder sister Rose in warri. . . Mama Amaka the neighbour likes Kelsey alot cos of the way she dresses and talks. Kelsey have a red bag but no red shoe, mama Amaka has a friend who sells clothes and shoes. She told the friend Joy to bring only a red shoe that she's sure Kelsey her neighbour will like them. Only for Joy to come with Ghana must go bag filled with clothes, bags and shoes. Kelsey saw the things and couldn't resist. She bought goods worth N27000 in Rose house, Rose was aware Kelsey was buyin stuff but was not aware of the amount. Joy did not ask Rose if Kelsey can pay she was blinded by kelseys talk and boast. Too blinded Joy took Kelsey to her house to buy more stuff. Everything Kelsey bought was N40000 all credit. She promised to pay N10000 every month no down payment. Joy told mama Amaka abt the transaction and she told Joy, don't worry its a small cash for Kelsey. After a week of the transaction Kelsey disappeared from warri, nobody know where she is not even Rose her elder sist. When Joy started asking for her money Rose asked her how much and was shocked at the amount. She said Kelsey do not have such money! Now kelsey is somewhere enjoying herself, boasting she won't pay a dime while Rose is being troubled. Rose says she can not pay cos she didn't buy the stuff, although the transaction started in her house she was not aware of the amount and Joy did not inform her or ask if Kelsey would be able to pay. Now, Joy is threatenin Rose and her whole family if they don't pay. . . In this situation whats the way forward? Should Rose pay for the goods she knows nothing abt or should Joy accept her loss? Pls help!!!

There's nowhere in the bible that says women are weaker vessels rather what is says is; '. . . Giving honour unto the wife, AS UNTO THE WEAKER VESSEL. . . ' not cause she's a weaker vessel. What it means there is the man should treat a woman wit care, kindness, respect and love not like an invalid.

The second quote is; 'let the woman learn in silence. . . ' yes it is good to learn in silence cause its then u'll know. It went further to state the reason why women should learn in silence and not teach or have authority over men in verse 13 of 1Timothy 2 it says; 'for Adam was formed 1st then eve.' Adam was 1st created so women are to give him that respect as elder. It happens in our everyday life when our elders speak do we speak or try to teach them? No! We listen and learn in silence.
That's what we teach our kids everyday, respect!

See leg o. . . The guy dey expect red wine u come carry zobo give am, wat do u expect he'll say? To me its a polite way of saying no thanks.

slimdaur:
i was like "take it easy girl, breathe in, breathe out" (did that for abt 5mins) went into shock for about 2days! then cried my broken heart out!!! funny thing is i was writing my 2nd semeter exams! you can imagine what that result was like (my mom must never hear dis )

I can imagine girl. . . *whispers* don't worry ur secret is safe wit me.

When you give advice to some people they'll think you don't know nothing. . . Or you're too young to know stuff or you're just jealous. . . But then u keep on giving advice after all what re friends for?

ElRazur:
More reason why I think she is dumb.

Being in love do not remove one's common sense on certain issue in my opinion.

Look, my words may be harsh, but she needs to get her life together again and fast.

she's confused. She wants to start a biz d guy refused to finance her. She said work is out of the question cos of her kids. I don't know what else to tell her. . . She don't have a dime to her name which is very dangerous. . . Nobody knows tomorrow.

ElRazur:
No offence, but she is dumber than I previously thought.

How the hell do you listen to someone on that kind of thing? If any woman in similar situation is reading, let this be a lesson.

she was in love

ElRazur:
Is she not doing anything with her life? I think in a relationship, both sides should contribute. As a man, I do not want liability - trust me on this. It will be nice for a woman to be able to do something too you know.

I don't know the guy, but he probably feels she should be able to do a few things for herself.

she had her own biz before she met him. . . A laundry shop. He told her to stop cos it a majority of men that patronize.

ElRazur:
By the way, how does she feel about abortion? Is this something she have mentioned to you?

abortion is out of the question. She's almost due. . . She afraid if she leaves him there would be no other for her.

He paid for the house yes but daily necessity its a problem. Forgot to mention he's a divorcé

A very close friend of mine got pregnant for a guy who've been looking for a child for years. . . She gave birth to a baby boy. The guy rented an apartment for her and sent her to school. The only thing is he doesn't care about her. Doesn't give her cash and believe me he got plenty of it. He won't marry her properly, said he wants to take his time. He went ahead and got another girl pregnant which was a shock to his family who disapprove. Now she pregnant for him again and he's acting indifferent. . . What do you think she should do?

I'll go for Mercy.

I laugh uncontrolably and went home to get drunk. . .