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Its none of your biz and your uncle isn't complaining. Besides how did u know she was not a virgin? Were u there when they were having sex? U re just a hater. . . Don't drink panadol in another's man headache o. . .

I'll be angry dey didn't invite me. . .

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt]<sup>mmm. . . . . i wonder what have come over you. honestly speaking you surprise me ooo. . . . didn't know how to place this but please , give peace a break -- so far , i haven't insult you on this forum , you're the one who called me an abusive name and didn't find an offense in it even though i don't like such .well , stop misunderstanding me okay? , it isn't the right time to quarrel. . . . was only trying to correct you and don't mean to provoke you .

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Glad u re not up for a fight cos seriously have no time for such. . . I understand u glad we're cool. . . Ciao

bolalonu:
@ african_queen, any advice,suggestion, opinion. Pls I need anything I can get right now cos am emotionally down,

I've not been in such situation before. I think he's just nervous abt the whole wedding stuff. Well just give him time and pampa him alot, show him love and try as much as u can not to nag or complain too much. Finally communication is the key. . . Have a heart to heart talk with him. Do most of the listening not talking. Hope this will help.

If she really loves him and she's sure he loves her twice more then she should marry him. After all her family won't stay with her in her husband's house. Outcast. . . Wacked!

Hmmm. . . .

Hmmmm. . .

Faher:
You're getting it all wrong
Contrary to popular belief, not all spenders are fools.
They always know what they're doing
Even though they make you think you're in control

I'm not saying they re fools. . . I'm just saying they re insecure

One man meat is another man poison. What is good for u might not be good for another person. U just don't accept anybody.

You guys just MET and u were TALKING. U should know she either joking or crazy

So in essence what some of you guys are saying is that a real and serious relationship must involve disagreement? What if there's nothing to argue abt? Eg, he likes green and wants to paint the house green. I like green and let him paint it green. So because I want us to argue I'll then say no don't paint it green I prefer blue. . . That's looking for trouble isn't it?

SA Lady:
@African_queen I beg to differ you know. Spenders are aware of all the things money can buy these days and its all easy come easy go e.g. today your anger costs a cheap dozen roses. Yes! my sister with a spender your anger is invalid it can always be baught away. Even the ugliest and dummest bonobo in town knows that as long as he's pockets are deep he can get the hottest chick around, and by then we all know your days are numbered he is already on the look out for the next hottest chick right in your neigborhood.

d bigrod:
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Then he's not a real spender, just a cautious one.

Rocktation:
@CHRISHENZO - You definitely need my help right now cos you seem like one who's had his heart ran over 10 times, by a truck. I can hook you up with someone who knows someone that knows a CHEAP counsellor/therapist for jaded hearts like yours. So hold your breath. � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � � �@GOOGLES & AFRO.Q - My point exactly. She's got her pride to protect & just might not have asked him again. But if she had, & he couldn't refuse her, well then, that would have been his qualms. But you talk about derogatory? What makes accepting free money derogatory, when accepting free sleep with isn't? Cos i bet if he'd hit that before giving the money, we wouldn't be hearing this on nairaland by now (poster, no hard feelings). Plus, there isn't a single matured lady in existence, that has never 'taxed' a guy, irrespective of the varying tacts we implement. Call it the way of life. So just because it's 4k in her case now (which still isn't outrageous), doesn't beckon on everyone to start running temperatures. �

The girl have no class nor pride, as a lady u don't go abt asking just anybody for cash no no no u don't. She even point out the fact that the guy works in a good company which shows that's all she's interested in. No pride no class just an easy ass

Onchedu:
Unless of course he got struck by lightening and now has amnesia as a result of the accident.

lol. . . Funny.

Easier said than done. . . Dear u wear the shoe u know where it hurts. 1st of all Its not your fault B. . . Love has a way wit us. U have two choices. . . 1. Stay wit him having in mind that one day ur fairy tale will end suddenly & u'll find urself lonely and in pains. . . 2. Leave him and bear the pains u won't be so lonely cos u'll have comfort. Remember dear, sweet taste don't last long in the mouth, if u don't brush it out it will sour and begin to smell. . .

Hmmmm

9yrs is too long for him to break up wit her just like that. . . My dear I suggest u give him space and let him sort himself out.

ThoniaSlim:
I don't blame the guy! I blame the girl for staying that long! The max is 2yrs. If at the end of two years the relationship isn't defined or heading any where, my dear BOUNCE!

Exactly.

ronniesarl:
thanx soooo much ebony the lady he intends marrying refused to introduce my cousin to her parents, says he suspects she is dating another guy. i told him to let her go if she is not interested, but said he is not getting younger.

Pls advice him not to rush into anything he's 42 not 72 men clocks don't tick. He should be patient and open. He should not have the negative thinking that the past has caught up wit him. There's still hope. . .

~Sauron~:
And you are a pubic louse.

I won't waste my time wit u cos u have pee in ur brain

Well if u can't tell him, show him. Actions speaks louder than voice or is it words?  

~Sauron~:
Rubbish talks. . . .

Only a confirmed simpleton of a man will find himself in such situation.
Women are the cheapest commodity ever - I could marry 12 babes in each state in Nigeria if i want to.

Any man(able/disabled) with money can marry any woman in NIGERIA.
Una too cheap!!!

u re a jerk.
@topic. The guy is not ready to grow up. . . He's not ready for marriage.

Creamish:
mine was sum yrs back. . . was outside my gate with sum chicks (my neighbours) and we were stroking everyone who walked past us . . (u know how interesting gossips can be  ) . . some cute guys were strolling and they came towards our direction. . .I was lookinf fly wit ma short white skirt n white top (wetin de reign doz dayz) . . one of dem boyz was tryn to toast me. . .so i started walking backwards and giving him some hard-to-get moves/yarns . . dint know d gutter wasnt properly covered . . fell into d gutter. . wit d damp black water and all d colonies of mature algae! . . d laughter i heard above me was just terrible . .     

dint want to get out . .   

hahahahahaha!!

Yawn. . . .

Emmayur:
thanks everyone for your advice.Let me say that the woman had a brother-in-law who well even i felt she was trying to help out.But for the girl i am concerned about,she is a daughter to the woman's friend.I really want to know if it is wise to date her, she has been supporting me even against her mother's friend's(who is responsible for her bills)will.

Don't understand a word u said

jay bee:
What u r basically saying is collecting the friend's number will automatically transcends into royal rumble. Common, where is the benefit of the doubt?
Has he shown interest in the lady in question before?
Has he made side comments about the friend before?
Does he look at her any different?
We don't know all the details and for all we care the friend could have been the one that did the offering.
Na wa oh

Na clap dem use take dey enter dance. . . From call to rumble.

andromida:
@ poster have you talkd to this chick yet told her bluntly how you feel abt what she said
do you really like this gal,she might have just savd your future marriage by telling you the truth.
you already knw her flaw that she is blunt (it seems to the extreme) so why are you suprised she told you the truth about how she feels abt your performance.
never work on assumptions about why anybody did anything always work with facts she may have talked without enough consideration for your feeling but that does not make her a slut.
Do pls work on the areas she has commented as your shortcomings.

My tots exactly

Ujujoan:
He's not insecure, just a controlling SOB!

Yeah he wants to call all the shots like being a boss. . .

Gudgurl:
I wil cal it emotional frequency. He has bin doin it (cheatin nd stufs) but he do ask 4 4givnes nd i always because of d luv. 2yrs rlatnship!!!

Sweetie the sad truth is once a cheat is always a cheat. If he cheated on u in the past what makes u think he'll change? Except u want to be a prisoner in ur own house wit him calling all the shots I say dump his cheating ass. He starts wit phone now what will he do when u're married? Then he'll start selecting the people u visit, what to wear, and stuff. . . He might even decide to take ur phone, what would u do then. . .

omega25red:
Would you want someone to tell you if your wife/husband is cheating depending on your answer, that would be your mode of operation. ( do onto others as you will want others to do to you) In these types of situation though i always say stay out of their business because things done in the dark will always find light

Exactly