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Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

Firstly, I want to thank God Almighty for The Opportunity of Self Consciousness and Realization of You wanting to TRULY Stop the Act of Masturbation.

I want to thank God for also providing this topic in the front page as an opportunity to discuss about "Masturbation" which is an important subject matter in this era of digitalization.



Yesternight, I had prepared some topics to create as Threads on The Subject Matter of Masturbation as You can observe in the screenshot below.



So, I praise The Holy Spirit for inspiring me before hand on this subject matter.


I already understand that God Almighty is ready to Help as Many People Who are Genuinely ready to Stop.






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Now, let's get started with How You Can EASILY Stop Masturbation Today and Quickly.


If you want to easily stop masturbating, The Fact is that You have To Understand The Purpose/Origination of MASTURBATION.

Without Knowing This, you can't solve your Addiction Problem.

Simply because; When The Purpose of A Thing is Not Known, Abuse of it is not Undeniable.




Now, Since you are out here to outcry your Masturbation Addiction, I'm sure you are already experiencing by yourself the negative effect it is having on your life already.



So, your problem is already half solved.



What is remaining of you is to Completely Replace This Addiction with another TREASURE because No Matter How Much You Decide To Quit Masturbating without Replacing Your Entire Mindset/Faculty of Thoughts with another TREASURE, You will Always Find Yourself going back to it.



So here are my points:


I'll help you understand The Origin/Purpose of Masturbation.


I'll help you understand reasons why you should Quit Masturbating.

I'll help you replace your ADDICTION with the Right TREASURE.


I'll give you real life stories and personal convictions about Masturbation.

I'll carry you on a 14 days and 3 Months Exercise as They will be necessary to helping you abstain Completely from Masturbation.





You may need to write to me personally on WhatsApp or We discuss about the problem on phone if you like.

Flier:
Lol that was March 31 2011,told my girl friend that I had sex with her sis... could have died by now had it been I didn’t tell her the truth before I started eating .
The evil lady poisoned my food

Haaaa. You can't marry such a lady oo

isaiah4life:
Pranked a young chap about his dad health. He ran like a mad dog to meet his dad at home.

As he approached the junction to his house, he was knocked down by a moving car.

I was running and laughing behind him. Unknown to me he has been hit by a car. When I approached the junction, I saw people surrounding someone. Out of curiosity, I went to feed my eyes. Only to see my friend on the floor with blooding gushing out from his leg.

Today, he can't walk properly. I received the beating of my life that day.

From that day till this day, I vowed never to prank anyone again.

This is pitiable.

Skyfornia:
There was a lady that was madly in love with me but I wasn't feeling her...we were both living in asaba before I relocated to another state. So on this very April 1st, I lied to her that I'm in asaba and currently hanging out in a popular bar, she asked if she can come join me and I said yes..according to her, it was raining heavily in asaba that night but she defiled all odds and entered the rain to come meet her lover(me)...she got to the bar and asked for my spot, I told her to come upstairs, she came upstairs and couldn't find me, she was shivering cause of cold...she said she is upstairs and can't see me, I told her to come to the toilet that I went to pee...omo the girl was doing as instructed cause she was madly in love and eager to see me...it was when she entered the toilet and couldn't find me that I told her it is a prank(April fool)...

This girl never forgive me up till today even though she is married now...though I regretted my actions.

Any time we spoke on phone she always remind me of that incident and will end up asking me to send her airtime so she will forgive me...I have been sending airtime o and she still never forgive or forget

She named her first child ( a boy) after me...

This is insightful and a great read.

Mihaug:
Exactly 1 year ago, my ex serve me breakfast . I thought it was an april fool joke, babe kept to her decision the following day, and the day after, and the day after that one. E con finally hit me say I be fool true true...

lol

Iamvetlander:
Who want popcorn?

Me. And Don't prank me

adomuwiner:
Keep the good work going,God bless
My question is that it's easier to import but another thing to sell them.any solutions

Thank You Greatly, and God Blesses You Abundantly too.


Yes, it is easier to Import.

It is also not Difficult to Sell items that you import so far you understand THE PRINCIPLES of SELLING.


One of Such Principles is To SELL WHAT SELLS.

However; this is not enough.


Another Principle of Selling FAST and PROFITABLY is To Sell Consumables.


Lastly, I will leave you with the 3rd Principle of Selling FAST and PROFITABLY which is: Selling Highly Consumable Petty Items.




I will be coming up with a list of 50 Petty Items that are HIGHLY LUCRATIVE and Sells FAST.



This will help those who are ready to import items through me or go into profitable businesses that can quickly Elevate their Financial Situation.

Many of these products are Seen and Used On a Daily Basis by Everyone but Only a Very Few People are Responsible for Their Importation and Distribution in The Country simply because Many People haven't Built Up Their Mentality of Building Structures to Sell These Items.



Now back to your main question; it is easy to Sell Your items when You Build on The Selling Mentality that People Buy Products that are Valuable to them.


So, To Easily Sell Your Items; They must meet people's Demand. So, your Primary business is to Import and Sell Products that meets people's Demand.


Now the next stage will be for you to Determine The Methods of How You want to Sell Your Items.

And to keep it simple for you, there are 2 Methods of Selling Your Items, they are:

- Offline Method

- Online Method.



You have got to Utilize Both Methods of Sales to Maximise Your Sales and Profits.




Now; The Bone of Contention is How To Effectively Sell Offline and Online.


To achieve this; you will have to create The Right Structures, Systems, Scopes and Strategies needed for you to Sell Your Items without Hassle or Sweats.



I'll be teaching on how to create the right Structures, Systems, Scopes and Strategies much later as I proceed.




In Summary;


To make great sales of your products depends on The Kind of Mentality You Build around Your Products.




I'll be explaining More on this later.

Bouncing2:
Gosh
Very insightful

So how do i really go about this?

Thanks for the Compliment.

You can get started by choosing the products you want to sell.

It is great to venture into at least 3 Products to sell so that you can leverage your profits on their sales turnover.


This is the reason I'm taking my time to provide to you and others 5 Hot Selling Products which I've personally Tested and Strongly Overviewed over my years of Experience.




So, it begins with Choosing The Products You want to Sell Offline in Your Locality. This comes down to you asking yourself the question of "What Products will sell Most in Your Locality and Why ?"


If you have any products in mind that I did not list on here; you can convey the message to me as I can also help you import them.






One of The Secret to Wealth Creation is To "SELL WHAT SELLS".

glimpse33:
His Name; Etegene Japheth Chukwunalu
Our Flat Head Brother from the Yeast
Drug, Abortions, Crime and Blood Money specialist.

Igbo Ajoka

Tribalism is one of Our Biggest Problems in Nigeria. This is the reason for our retrogression as a country.

As meaningful Youths, We are supposed to Utilize Technology and The Internet to Connect, Unite and Promote Societal Solutions instead of Building Negative Barriers for Ourselves.


This has led us to nowhere and will not lead us to anywhere.

maxtop:
I hope those people have not touched the rail again. have said it, nothing good will ever come out from the northern states. They are evil reincarnated ....

Christians are supposed to be Christ-like.

Your statement above is not Christ-like.

MrBrownJay1:
here is a clue as to why the above in bold is far from the truth.... diverse cultures and traditions have a very wide different view as to what makes a great marriage (or not). Mormons read your holybook and say that god told them to marry wives as young as 10yrs old and/or marry multiple wives, while some other xtians branch look down on such act; some hindus believe that a woman can marry multiple husbands thus fraternal polyandry is practiced among various Tibetans religion in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India etc, while many xtians look down upon it.

the common sense of humanity around marriage (that you talk about) is NOT so common, and what you may see as rightful may not be for everyone out there. OPEN YOUR MIND, respect others and their life wishes and stop trying to enforce your views unto others.

I have kept an opened mind all through our conversation if you have observed.

I respect the views of cultures and other people.


As a Life Journalist, I understand that people's views and religious beliefs are very different and many people's views around Christianity or any particular religion are mostly Contracdictory.


I am not shoving any belief on anyone. For I've not come to this world to condemn anyone but to help people make amendments through my Righteous Teachings.



For instance; it is anyone's business to marry as many wives as he likes. It is not a Sin before God Almighty as many people will think it is. However; there is a RIGHT WAY To Go About Marrying Many Wives if You So Desire.


In Today's World, Many Christians will Cheat on their Wives by having secret affairs with other Women simply because They Built The Foundation of Their Marriages on Hypocrisy.

Please Note: The same thing goes with Women too.



They simply lack The Confidence to Marry according to their WILL. They lack this CONFIDENCE because of their Poor Understanding of what Marriage should be All About.

When The Purpose of A Thing is Not Understood, Abuse is Inevitable.

So, what is the Essence of Going into Marriage when You do not know the ESSENCE of It ?



There are RIGHT WAYS of Doing Things.

There are WRONG WAYS of Doing Them too.



So, if The Right Things are not Done in The Right Ways; They will eventually Go Wrong.

Kobojunkie:
Your Sensitization message reads more like the usual pagan hogwash which only seems to resonate with the ignorant and gullible-minded.

He that thinks He Knows but do not Know that he doesn't Know is Most of All IGNORANT and GULLIBLE-MINDED.



Understanding doesn't come from Rebelliousness.

It comes from Wisdom which is Profitable to Direct All Your Ways.


Your ONLY Avenue to Understanding The Things of The Spirit is to Understand That You are Spirit. And The Only way to Receive Understanding is to be Meek/Humble so that you may receive The HOLY SPIRIT into Your Conscience which will not leave you to rely on your own thinking but His Righteous Directions.

Conclusively; God is not looking for Who to disgrace but who to Empower and that person is You and I.


So, Give Your Services unto Him, so that you receive The Grace to be empowered.

Place Your Believe and Trust on Him. Obey His Words. And He shall not let you down.


You'll begin to receive answers to your prayers.

What Your Servitude to God does in Your Life:


Serving God makes You Unhurtable.


You need that mentality because the scripture says so.


Luke 10:19 ( Behold, I give unto You Power to Trend over Scorpion ....)




We Serve Our Way into Freedom from Generational Curses.

Exodus 23:25
Genesis 12: 3

April 1, 2022.


Anchor Sciprture: Act 3: 19 - 22.



In the name of Jesus; This Month shall mark a beginning of a New Beginning in Your Life.




Many people are unable to tap into God's Exceeding Grace simply because Many people do not Believe in HIM.


I pray that you receive the Power to Overcome Your Unbelief that has Prevented You from Receiving God's Blessings in Your Life.


Many people are losing out of God's Agenda simply because of their Unbelief.


God does not speak according to what He Can Do; He Speaks according To What He WILL Do.

Hence; If We are to enjoy from His WILL, then We must have Faith in Him.

NwaNimo1:
If this malnourished man did as described.....

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....Tinubu can fight five!

Lol... I can tell.

MrBrownJay1:
many people dont believe in your holybook or whats written in it, thus they couldnt care less about the greatness in marriage it offers. as i said earlier, stop thinking that everyone is religious and/or stop caring about what non religious people do. to each their own!

The Belief around Marriage is not only confined in These So called Holy Books.


They spread across The COMMON SENSE of Humanity through Diverse Cultures, Traditions and Religions.

Kobojunkie:
Paganism refers to ideas that are not born of, or founded in a specific religion, philosophy, neither the science of men for that matter.

You claim your ideas adhere to a standard as far as truth and righteousness, then submit that this standard you speak of is infact arbitrary- unfounded - when you suggest it is to be of what you call the "Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World".

Here is The Sensitization Message:



Africans and People of The World generally needs The RIGHT Spiritual and Financial Enlightenment.


*ENLIGHTENMENT* Supersedes *EDUCATION*.


ENLIGHTENMENT is The PURE TRUTH.

EDUCATION Acts Like A PERCEIVED or PACKAGED TRUTH.



Men and Women of The World are Supposed To Live A Life of Spiritual and Financial Freedom because of The Abundance That The Scriptures already Mandated We Dominate Over.

Genesis 9:7 says:

"Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it, and have dominion …"




As You can SEE; This Scriptural Verse already Assures Us of Our Potentials to Multiply and SUBDUE The Earth.

However; We cannot SUBDUE The Earth if We don't REPLENISH It.



Many People do not REPLENISH The Earth; Hence They Live in Spiritual and Financial Poverty.


They Make Their Spiritual And Financial Poverty Tougher for Themselves even as They MULTIPLY without Having The Mentality to REPLENISH The Earth.



What Does REPLENISHING The Earth have to Do with Your Spiritual and Financial Freedom ?



Well; Now The Answers To This Question is What Distinguishes ENLIGHTENMENT from EDUCATION.


However;


The PURE TRUTH To This Question is That REPLENISHING THE EARTH Means ENGAGING IN THE AGRICULTURE of Growing Plants and Animals for Us To Subdue and Dominate Over.

This Simple Instruction is necessary for The Advancement of The Kingdom of God on Earth.


As You can see;
The Scripture already gives THE EASY SOLUTION to The Issue of Financial Stagnancy, Backwardness and The Poverty of Hunger and Starvation.





However; People continue to Suffer Themselves because They Lack Knowledge.

For instance;

In Africa; Many People do absurd things like killing other Human Beings for the purpose of Making Money.

Many people are involved in Armed Robbery, Kidnapping and other Evils for The sake of Making Money.

This is because They are being MANIPULATED and MISEDUCATED by Their DEVIL.


Many Christians remain Financially Poor because They also Lack UNDERSTANDING as a Result of Their Spiritual Poverty.



So Here is The TRUE ENLIGHTENMENT That The Bible Reveals in Genesis 9:7 :

No Matter Your Occupation in Life; No Matter What You Do; Engage in Agriculture. Engage in The Agriculture of Growing Foods and Rearing Animals so that There will be no Famine in The Land.


If We as Humans don't Build Upon This Mentality which The Scriptures Mandate; We will continue to Experience More Societal Decay in The World which will not Lead To The Advancement of The Kingdom of God.



This is The 21st Century; We are in BEST of Times to Achieve Our Kingdom Advancement Goals than Any Other Time that have Passed Away.



To Achieve Spiritual and Financial Prosperity which We Need; We Must Seek First The Kingdom of God (Mathew 6:33) and Engage in Agriculture and Other Dominions (Genesis 9:7).





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No Matter Anything You Do; Begin Your Day with The Foundation of God so that All That You Do For That Day shall be Prosperous.

This is another Simple Principle of The Scriptures.










I've Titled The Financial Aspect of Wealth Creation as The FINANCIAL VOWELS of Wealth which includes:

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To Your Success,



~ Messiah of Africa.

Kobojunkie:
Paganism refers to ideas that are not born of, or founded in a specific religion, philosophy, neither the science of men for that matter.

You claim your ideas adhere to a standard as far as truth and righteousness, then submit that this standard you speak of is infact arbitrary- unfounded - when you suggest it is to be of what you call the "Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World".

It is exactly as I've Described.



I'll drop you a Sensitization Message that will Subtly Explains To You About My Personality so that you may clearly understand My Purpose on Earth so far You Keep an Opened Mind.

MrBrownJay1:
again, the question was EXPLAIN TO US ALL HOW/WHY CASUAL SEX IS THE ROOT OF FAILED MARRIAGE....and you didnt. so pls, care to answer the question in detail.



sadly, you dont need to get married to have a great life (and even have kids) with your unmarried lover, do you?!

I'm not Arguing it that it that you don't need to get married to have a great life ...


However; There is a Greater Life That comes with Marrying Your Right Partner.



The Scripture records it that "He that Finds a WIFE finds a Good Thing and Obtaineth Mercy From The Most High".




So, what could have been Greater for You could be Cut Short when You Engage in Improper Marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Aka... Pagan ideas then!

What's your definition of Pagan ?

Simply put; "What does Paganism mean to you ?"


You seem to find it as a proper definition to root my ideologies ??!

MrBrownJay1:
again, the question was EXPLAIN TO US ALL HOW/WHY CASUAL SEX IS THE ROOT OF FAILED MARRIAGE....and you didnt. so pls, care to answer the question in detail.



sadly, you dont need to get married to have a great life (and even have kids) with your unmarried lover, do you?!

My Write-ups on this thread already have done Justice to this question if you Settle Your Mind To Read Through Our Conversations with an Opened Mind.




Particularly; My First and Opening Post of This Thread explains Your Question.

Kobojunkie:
Aka... Pagan ideas then!

What's your definition of Pagan ?

Simply put; "What does Paganism mean to you ?"


You seem to find it as a proper definition to root my ideologies ??!

Kenog4real:
I remember back then in secondary school. We use to have this portable radio called palito. Having one then shows you are big boy. That was before the advent of Walkman . We love to listen to some of the loving radio stations programs then especially in the night. When we left school, some continues to listen with their phone as palito and Walkman dependa on one having to buy batteries every time. But as the year goes by and there is advancement in almost everything, I personally that love to stay awake to listen to those loving programs with the classic musics and also listen to sport news especially on Monday morning from different stations even though I watched all the weekend matches found it a little boring to listen to radio programs now.

So guys with the radio app coming with every of the phones we use now, when last did you listen to Radio.

Honestly, it has been pretty long.

And it is not healthy for me.


The Radio is so soothing and offers many Untapped Financial Opportunities.



I'll consciously work on listening to music on a daily very soon.


Thanks for this conscious reminder.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you have lost me here.

My Premise is a Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World.


I relate with you from The Omniscient Point of View.

MrBrownJay1:
explain to me (as if i was a 5yr old) how does casual sex got anything to do with failed relationship/marriages/families etc, especially when we all know that many people who aint into casual sex ALSO do fail in these departments? are you claiming that all failed R7ships, marriages and/or families are due to casual sex?!?

Yes, Casual Sex is The Root Cause of The Untrust that Cripples The Established Relationship between People.


Now, You are getting my point now.

Sex is not just Physical as Most People Think they are.


They are Sacred and They have got a Great Spiritual Inclination with The Souls of Mates.

MrBrownJay1:
you are right about the above in bold, but thats because A) non virgins were stoned to death and B) women were slave to their husband and had no say in their marriage- thankfully times have greatly changed now.



you do know that there is a sodom and gomora since biblical days, right? lets us not use sexual freedom as a reason for whats happening today... but you are right to say that times are fast growing/changing. as i said earlier, we live faster lives and our attention span is reduced, so today its no big deal to fukc someone and forget about them tomorrow.

It's no big deal to have Casual Sex with just anyone simply because Men and Women Find it difficult to Abstain from Sexual Impurity as a result of the Lustful Desire of Their Flesh.


Now; The Result ?


An Increasing Amount of Failed Relationships,

An Increasing amount of Untrust.

An Increasing Amount of Failed Marriages.

An Increasing Amount of Failed Families and Countries.

Kobojunkie:
You say you are gifted with the Spirit of understanding, and since none of what you claim is of science, I will ask NY what god or deity?,

My claims are of Science.

They are Omniscient. All that I tell you are a sum of All Arts and Science of The World.

Kobojunkie:
Sensitive topic indeed. And what standard do these proclamations of you abide by?

Yes, It is indeed a very Sensitive Topic.


The Standard of TRUTH and RIGHTEOUSNESS.

Kobojunkie:
1. What is this purpose you have believe marriage serves and whose standard is this you pretend to speak of where marriage is concerned?

2. Covenant of the virginity of the Wombmen? What is this? A pagan religion of some sort?

3. What pagan sect do you speak these words on behalf of?

3) I'm not a pagan. I'm a Spiritual and Financial Rabbi.


I help people achieve Spiritual and Financial Freedom through My Teachings.

Kobojunkie:
Wasted sex and failed marriages? WOW... do you belong to some kind of "holy sex" cult or something?

Yes. You'll understand clearly when you realign my statements with All of My Posts.

This is a very sensitive topic you may not understand in a hurry until you have got the mind of a Discerner.

Kobojunkie:
1. What is this purpose you have believe marriage serves and whose standard is this you pretend to speak of where marriage is concerned?

2. Covenant of the virginity of the Wombmen? What is this? A pagan religion of some sort?

3. What pagan sect do you speak these words on behalf of?

As an Historian gifted with The Spirit of Understanding - These things that I write are Factual.