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Romance › Re: Infidelity: Two Kenyan Men Agree To Exchange Their Wives As Settlement by AfroBeatDiary: 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2021
Revenge marriage
Crime › Re: Lagos Police On Chidinma Ojukwu's Video: 'No More Comments' by AfroBeatDiary: 9:37pm On Jul 12, 2021
Was the interview not granted under their nose, they are playing a script to change the narration if the murder, now they've succeed. Naija shaar.
Career › Re: #nairalife: The Makeup Artist Staying Hopeful At ₦50k/month by AfroBeatDiary: 9:32pm On Jul 12, 2021
Normal normal
Christianity Etc › Re: Masquerade Dances With Pastors And Church Members In Church (Photos, Video) by AfroBeatDiary: 9:54pm On Jul 11, 2021
Skit
Sports › Re: UFC: Conor Mcgregor Injures Ankle, Poirier Wins UFC 264 Showdown (Graphic Video) by AfroBeatDiary: 8:45pm On Jul 11, 2021
Mehn
Education › Re: Long, Black Snake Killed In UNILAG Postgraduate Hostel by AfroBeatDiary: 6:39pm On Jul 10, 2021
The female is around
Celebrities › Re: Angelique Kidjo Defends Burna Boy’s ”Arrogance” (Video) by AfroBeatDiary: 2:52pm On Jul 08, 2021
Is okay
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Michael Bassey Caught With Human Skull In Cross River State (Photos) by AfroBeatDiary: 8:58am On Jul 07, 2021
Omo
Politics › Re: Yoruba Nation Protesters Storm Ojota, Lagos (Pictures) by AfroBeatDiary: 12:25pm On Jul 03, 2021
Wow... Sunday Igboho will be very motivated!
Car Talk › Re: Seller crashes Customer’s Ferrari in Abuja, just before it was purchased. by AfroBeatDiary: 10:08pm On Jun 26, 2021
Thank God say the glass no break
Foreign Affairs › Re: Multi-Storey Building Partially Collapses In Miami, Many Feared Dead (Pictures) by AfroBeatDiary: 11:49am On Jun 25, 2021
Abi na dangote cement dem use?
Family › Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by AfroBeatDiary: 11:36am On Jun 25, 2021
A lot of reasons.

She won't watch porn with him.
She won't let him do anal.
She criticises him for his weird sexual fantasies.
She is a career woman who dictates when oga to get down and the pace he will thrust madam.
She fight oga because he smokes Igbo and could go 3 days without talking to oga. Should I go on?


This incident is just very unfortunate but many will run their mouth to judge this man but they know not his personal struggle.
Crime › Re: Usifo Ataga: Chidinma's Father Arrested, Lecturers, Classmates Shocked by AfroBeatDiary: 11:29am On Jun 25, 2021
Who will believe this damsel smoke? SK and loud are very bad combo and I'm sure they'll use a local reasoner.

Politics › Re: AK-47 Bullet Pierces Abia Court Roof During Session In Umuahia by AfroBeatDiary: 12:55pm On Jun 19, 2021
A nation
Politics › Re: US, UK, EU Envoys Reject FG Position On Twitter Ban After Meeting by AfroBeatDiary: 11:28pm On Jun 07, 2021
Crowwe
Celebrities › Re: Yeni Kuti Celebrates Her 60th Birthday (Photos) by AfroBeatDiary: 2:04pm On May 24, 2021
Blogger werey, wey d cleavage?
TV/Movies › Re: A Nairalander's Short Film On Pedophilia by AfroBeatDiary: 11:05am On May 22, 2021
Uncle TJ na mad man, walai
TV/Movies › Re: A Nairalander's Short Film On Pedophilia by AfroBeatDiary: 11:00am On May 22, 2021
Nice initiative, how can I join your crew?
Politics › Re: Passport Pain: Immigration Officials Feed Fat From FG’s Failure by AfroBeatDiary: 9:13am On May 22, 2021
Cromagnon:
Your cousin is either lying to you or doesn't know what she's Saying
Yes. I Knw that.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Should I Recommend Ex Girlfriend For This Job? by AfroBeatDiary: 6:39pm On May 20, 2021
Don't recommend her, if you do, she will fvcck your boss and ruin your reputation.

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.
Politics › Re: Gov Abiodun Suspends Aide, Abidemi Rufai Over Alleged $350,000 Fraud In US by AfroBeatDiary: 1:12am On May 20, 2021
These are the people that roll with the government, with governor in his office.
Politics › Re: Passport Pain: Immigration Officials Feed Fat From FG’s Failure by AfroBeatDiary: 12:58am On May 20, 2021
Cromagnon:
Not really.
How much is passport I'm America. Why then do you expect Nigerian passport to be 17k Naira.
Demand and supply holds true world over
My cousin got a passport for her baby, it cost her 35$
Celebrities › Re: Jidenna Compared To Jason Momoa In New Pictures by AfroBeatDiary: 3:05pm On May 19, 2021
Dopplegangger
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Leads #HarassBuhariOutOfParis Protest In France (Pictures) by AfroBeatDiary:
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Breaks Up With Lucia Loi, His Girlfriend Over Lockdown Pressures by AfroBeatDiary: 11:23am On May 18, 2021
Pressure from lockdown means someone was servicing here during lockdown

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