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Culture › Re: Igbo Kwenu! kwezuo Nu! Join Us If You're Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/Lady by agabaI23(m): 12:53am On Sep 23, 2009 |
[quote author=$osisi link=topic=225819.msg4593525#msg4593525 date=1253661646]Ewoo nwanne m Andre Ndewo[/quote]Echere m na I bu onye avutu na obowo? Ka o bu di gi si Avutu? I na-abuzu onye umuahia? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Football League 2009/2010 by agabaI23(m): 12:51am On Sep 23, 2009 |
hahaha eldee: Wow . . . that was a good cheap shot. Tell me your league position so I'll see if I can accept your invitation to battle  No 11 I am not inviting you to battle though  |
Health › Re: Why Doctors Go On Strike by agabaI23(m): 12:44am On Sep 23, 2009 |
@Iyara I de hail! Iyara: @agabaI23 Nice one. Polite, informed and intelligent even when in disagreement.
1) As regards Pentazocine, it is actually contraindicated in head injuries along with some other opioid analgesics. Good job Iyara: 2) The issue of relative remuneration is dicey. Majority of doctor's take home pay is call duty allowance. That money is for the extra hours we put in. A form of overtime if you choose to call it that. Without it, we're paid well below other civil servants. So calculating the hours we actually work and dividing by our salaries makes us earn less than menial workers in Nigeria, as an earlier poster has mentioned. I agree with you that the call duty is for the extra hours you put out of normal working period. However, I do not quite agree with the bolded portion. We have the normal period taken by everybody and the extra period. The extra hours has been taken care of in the form of call duty allowance. Now let us look at the normal work period. The reason you should receive more than others who do the same number of hours like you should not be based on the hours put in because there is always someone there with you. It should be because there is a critical decision(s) that should be taken by you based on your knowledge and that you require a mind and brain that is well catered for and 'devoid' of worries to arrive at the best decision. Aptly put, it means they should be comfortable. In the present day Nigeria, at least 200K for a start will be OK. Most HO's thos who are on CONTIS in particular are not far away from 200K a month. Talking about the number of hours may not hold much water. Now come to think of it sometimes you do not even have to put in so many hours in a normal work period after ward round except in a hospital that has high patient traffic such as some teaching hospitals. Iyara: There are others in the civil service who earn way more than us in salary and other benefits. I'll try to confirm. Certain parastatals have a different salary structure e.g. NLNG. I must remember to ask my military friends how much they take home. That your guy claiming N250k; not true, unless he has more than one job The federal govt queried the disparity in NLNG and NNPC recently and believe you me, that of NNPC has been reduced while they employed more people. I have a friend in NNPC. It is no longer what it was. In fact a fresh grad in NNPC officially takes home around 90K but less than 100K. I doubt if the jumbo salary structure of NLNG will be left out. @Reindeer, lol I am the one that talked about house officers and overwork. In the same post or in an earlier post where I made the same statement I also added . . . 'unless you are under-staffed' because I am aware of such situations. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Football League 2009/2010 by agabaI23(m): 12:14am On Sep 23, 2009 |
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Politics › Re: Tomb Art From Ancient Egypt: A Black African Civilization (pics) by agabaI23(m): 12:12am On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ezeagu is taking over from Becomerich in map reading!  @Rossike Nice job. I will have time to read the first pag thoroughly. So much info . . .! |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 4 (The Official Thread) by agabaI23(m): 5:36pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
Is their any channel showing this in the UK? Can one see it online anywhere? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Football League 2009/2010 by agabaI23(m): 5:31pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
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Food › Re: Nigerian Restaurants In London by agabaI23(m): 5:24pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
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Family › Re: Should American Wife Have To Make Change Before Going To Nigeria? by agabaI23(m): 5:17pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
chaircover: The blessed; no disrespect but your font and colour does make reading your posts quite difficult.
personally, I scan your posts and dont read the whole thing from start to finish which is a shame because I am sure you must have some very good points/advise/opinions.
It will also help if you left gaps between paragraphs.  Oyibo di uto bu maka ndi ma ede ya. |
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Food › Re: Nigerian Restaurants In London by agabaI23(m): 10:41am On Sep 22, 2009 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Man City: 4-3 (20 September, 2009) by agabaI23(m): 5:06pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Tmoni: In the words of Jay Z
"United runs this town" today and everyday,
We need to pepper Stoke & Sunderland, wen Chelsea dey play d likes of Everton & Aston Villa?? The Igbos say ' obere nsi na-emebi ike' meaning that small shit de spoil nyash. Those small clubs sometimes throw up surprises. You struggled to beat Wolves with only one goal but score 4 against Man city. |
Culture › Re: Igbo Kwenu! kwezuo Nu! Join Us If You're Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/Lady by agabaI23(m): 5:02pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Dalunu ndi nwe mmadu.
Jidenu ka unu ji n'ihi na onye asi ya jide ka o ji na-eme ihe di mma. |
Jokes Etc › Re: All Nl Ladies Pick Ur Favourite Husband by agabaI23(m): 3:48pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
lysaa: u're awfully good dude, as if u are a factor anyways. . u call the campaigners and i deal with them for caging your mankey behind all day. How can i train u in a cage  Hmm campaigners do not cage they liberate . . .  I am a factor in fact I am the HCF |
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Jokes Etc › Re: All Nl Ladies Pick Ur Favourite Husband by agabaI23(m): 3:14pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
lysaa: that doesnt count on me darling. . and i don't beat mankeys, i train em.  Very fast uturn babe, you promised me a thorough beating. Or were you refering to them mankeys when you promised the beating  It is good you do not beat monkeys or else you have animal right campaigners to deal with  How do you train them  |
Jokes Etc › Re: All Nl Ladies Pick Ur Favourite Husband by agabaI23(m): 3:01pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
lysaa: sharrap! u reeeash to score me? agaba I will beat u well well one day o, mind yasef.  When I have already done that. As for the beating, I can't wait. Bring it on babe!  |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Football League 2009/2010 by agabaI23(m): 2:55pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Wow Chung li with 80 points. Ducks can really fly. |
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Politics › Re: Campaign Funds. by agabaI23(op): 2:47pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
CitizenY
Thank you very much. Nice one there.
Guys lets think and make this work. We can do it! When we are done with our contribution, we can collate the ideas and agree on the best way forward. We are gonna do something. |
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Family › Re: Should American Wife Have To Make Change Before Going To Nigeria? by agabaI23(m): 2:10am On Sep 21, 2009 |
Busybody in the house everybody take cover. Be careful with what you say  |
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Family › Re: Should American Wife Have To Make Change Before Going To Nigeria? by agabaI23(m): 1:53am On Sep 21, 2009 |
According to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=66979.msg1304657#msg1304657and this post from the thread My husband has not been home in 15 years so we went to Abuja to visit. I met all the family and had a great time. Everyone complimented me on how pretty I was, so when his particular brother always looking at me lustfully - I ignored it - and try not to have a big head for being attractive.
My husband and I were given this brother's room to stay for our visit. The night before we came back to the US. he and all his brothers, and cousins, and old pals from school went out to party and drink. This one brother came back to the house early because he had work the next day.
He came into the bedroom and I was there asleep. At first I thought it was my husband, but the way he approach me for sex was not my husband style - and my husband already told me no sex for us in his family's house.
I said "Who is this?" - he said "I know you want me - i've been catching your eye too". He was very drunk I think from the smell of his breath. This man forced himself on me sexually. I DID Fight him to get off me, but I never screamed because I did not want to wake the house or be caught in this horrible situation. Finally I lay there and hoped it would end quickly.
Later My hubby came back and I pretended to be asleep. I was shocked.
The next day we were at the airport to fly back to the US. I was very quiet and acting sad He thought I was just sick.
I never told my husband what happened. I was too scared and ashamed. The thought that I would even claim this has happened to me would tear his family apart - and he was just seeing them after 15 years of absence.
Now it's 3 months later and I am pregnant. My husband had a vasectomy 3 years ago so I cannot tell my husband I am pregnant - talk less of saying I am pregnant cause his own flesh and blood attacked me during our trip to his home.
I don't know if this brother planned to do this since I was leaving the country the next day, or maybe because he was drunk and knew no better - I really do not care. I feel like a used animal and my husband may beat or divorce me when he learns I am pregnant because he will think I have committed adultery.
WHAT DO I DO? You have visited naija which is what I was trying to recall above. Let us assume that you travelled then with a visiting Visa, why would you tell us you are going to see his brothers and sisters for the first time when one of the brothers raped you? What are trying to find out? Something does not add up here. I stand to be corrected though. |