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You're seriously considering a relationship during this current period we find ourselves?

Abort mission, it is for your safety.

Nice thoughts!
What is the way forward?

LastMumu:
If I hear say na her, if I hear, make my dick bend, make all my akamu dry.

E be like say you ma sef wan dey believe her o. Chai

That babe dey write like person wey dem born for Yankee for your eyes so?

Falls from ewedu stand... Basketmouth dey call you

Am I the only one who noticed majority of the contributors to the post are females?

Anabell2:
Isn't that rich coming from a Scammer like you https://www.nairaland.com/3267015/how-defrauded-abiodun-badmus-chinese#48174557

cc

Capitano1

You are such a bad-arse, you remind me of the Deadpool character - cool and ruthless.

Dyt:
They haf cumm finish na

Abeg abeg abeg, I be small pikin

Dyt:
They haf cumm finish na

Abeg abeg abeg, I be small pikin

Dyt:
As in see this after one woman
I am sexy and I know it

I smh once more, be toying with Vaseline crew. They are coming for you

Dyt:
But I am far hawter

Smh

Guys, please I need your guidance with registration as ICAN's website seems not to be explicit to my liking & I've tried reaching them through mails and calls without success.
Cc every individual on this thread

mandonnels:
i just registered, am yet to get a student reg number. will really appreciate that. nelsonebomah@gmail.com thanks

Sent you a PM

dominique:
What he did was more or less a consultant work, should that have cost him his job?

As much as i like him, I didn't expect him to out-perform Roy Hodgeson or Steve McLaren. He would have delivered mediocre results like his predecessors (IMO). Southgate is a worse replacement. I wonder when the FA will start getting it right.

Southgate's appointment is temporary except he suddenly becomes the English version of Pep Guardiola in the matches within the scope of his appointment.

Bad mouthing your predecessor and your boss will definitely cost you your job.

21 and already working. Aswear I need to go and wash my head.
I think the Op did well by rejecting his proposal considering his knee-jerk reaction to the rejection. Come on this is somebody you are planning to spend the rest of your life with and you went all guns blazing with accusations.

Dear Op, it's your life and your concern is your happiness, if you feel getting married now & to him will compromise that happiness. Take a chill pill

RadicallyBlunt:
OP COMPARE THESE 2 LIVES BELOW

YOUR LIFE AT PRESENT;

You're just 21

You're a graduate at 21

You have a well paid job

You have a man who definitely has a well paid job too and ready for marriage

You probably would be a grand mother by 45 and b4 retirement ur last child is married

THE LIFE OF ABOUT 80% NAIJA GIRLS AT PRESENT

They're 30

They've graduated and still searching for job. Infact planning to learn tailoring after years of post nysc unemployment as certificate isn't yielding any good income

They have dated minimum of 5 guys who promised marriage and failed but knack their kpekus katakata..many rods have paddled d canoe


Some saw serious guys who are ready for marriage but snurbed them with yanga just like you're doing now.

The present guy they luckily found is either a garri marketer or doing casual labour at a factory at age 35. But will package like banker or unilever snr staff


Some are even educated than their guys but still try to manage him since there's no other guy and can't afford to lose him

Now op judge by urself, which of these 2 lives would you choose now and in the next world?

OK na, when the time comes

Cc Incrizz

Guys! I need help with directions to the head office from Oshodi... Thanks

The irony is if they both end up together, the dude will find it difficult to trust her as he might harbor the thought of the lady behaving in a similar manner when minor issues arise between them. Every malam to his own kettle though.

If this is not wickedness I don't know what else is, how can you not invite me to partake in the wedding jollof

May the peace of Christ be on you both forever and ever

Incrizz:
Lol...yup.
Felt so nice. Spread from the center of my heart out round it. I guess that's deeper than a blush?

Aha, now I can sleep well tonight... And yea it's a super duper blush
Do have a good night rest & a great week ahead

Seks & controversy are the two bestsellers...
See traffic

Incrizz:

Is that a hint of a blush that I see
Happy Sunday ma'am

Nawa o

Incrizz:
Something of the sort.
Looking back, I wish they were in the living room in the evenings, with us, all of us watching TV together.
I miss that as per, I never got to experience it until in my adulthood.
The few times Mum was around and we got to do stuff together or I got to play with daddy's feet are some of my best memories ever.

Lol..

Now I understand better...
The good thing is even though you didn't get to experience that kind of life as frequently as you would have wanted, you turned out great.

That's a plus right?

I like the fact that you are family oriented, it's an attractive color on you

Incrizz:
i realised i didnt mention or quote you so, you weren't notified. Sorry.

hahaha her negative side blinded from the positive.

That you understand the whole Momma and Dada point i was trying to make will leave me sleeping peacefully tonight...........


Why not ask? If it's too intrusive I'll let you know.

Hahaha, pleasure to be of service

Considering I came across a similar discuss on one of your threads (the Mom & Dad part). I'm curious as regards the influence behind you been a champion of this cause, did you grow up in a home where both parents were the career type?

Motun03:
lol n wat has my hairline got to do with dz? jeez

Oya ma binu

Incrizz:
My gosh! I object
Venus doesn't describe me at all.
I don't have a streak of vegeance, or revenge or cruelness in me.



Xena? I don't relate
Lol...except that I wouldn't want my kids to go through any childhood experience that I went through and considered unpleasant.
Like, I still don't get why a Mama and Dada have to BOTH be out ALL DAY, chasing after cash for the sole purspose of trying to make ends meet (which never really seems to happen) while the househelp does the raising up of kids. Mama can own her business and train her kids please -I just don't get it, maybe you can help me understand?

Hahaha, looks like I'm totally off but how come you went all gangster on her negative side but said nothing about the positives?

Seems I didn't get the Xena role across properly, she was a villain who later turned to the good path hence the redemption mission, it's her Warrior like qualities that is the basis of comparison though.

As regards the last part, I am in support of your views somebody needs to be home with the kids, it's now a choice between the Mama and the Dada.
Ideal situation:

The Mother runs a business that gives her the opportunity to spend quality time with the kids while the Dad is the career type.

A situation where the dad is the business one while the mom tows the career path shouldn't be ruled out either.

All in all there is the need to spend time with the Kids, nothing can replace that parental love, although I can categorically say that ideal arrangement seems to be an anomaly in the Nigerian setting judging by one or two scenarios around me but I can't judge since the goal is working towards ensuring comfort for these kids.

I would like to ask a question as regards the last bit though but I don't want to appear intrusive

PS - didn't get your mention on time

Too slow, too narrow. Meanwhile I just don't want to see Cahill near this first team again.

You are getting sacked in the morning

Incrizz:
Lol..

Not cool jor...

As promised.. Venus is the Roman goddess whose functions encompassed love, beauty, sex , fertility, prosperity, victory, and desire.

Now the part I feel describes you -
She could be vengeful, she could be sweet, she could be cruel or mischievous or kind. As a deity, Venus could be frustrating at times.

Xena happened to be a warrior on a redemption mission from her cruel past.

A combination of Xena's warrior qualities and the sweet nature of Venus...

Objections?

We shall all meet at the feet of the Lord.

Incrizz:
Precisely.

Doing compliments? I don't understand that, what does it mean?

"Test"? "commitment"? Those are strong words from what I'm trying to say. Guys are strong in a way a woman's not. You just want to have a feel of it. And it's not on purpose. It's an unconscious act, I have just learned to recognise when it's happening.
Especially when the guy is cool calm collected. It doesn't happen with every guy because some guys exude that strength without effort, unconsciously, all the time.
It's when the lady has never sensed it that she may start to act up just to have a feel of it from her man o.

Let me play a scenario,
She snatches the remote anytime you are engrossed, watching and does something silly like changing the channel.
It's becoming a habit and you're getting irritated so, you tell her and let her know you're not condoling it further. If she is satisfied, she doesn't try it again.
If she is not, she takes it further.
But she is not doing it on purpose.

She does it again and walks away, so you immediately go after her and wrestle the remote out of her hand. If this is satisfactory for her it all ends here. But if she not, as soon as you wresle the remote out of her hand, she gives you a very hot slap
(I'm just painting worst case scenario, not permitting violence against men)

For some ladies, it will be so satisfactory, to watch you raise your hand in the air as if you want to hit back, with your veins popping and your eyes filled with the fire of anger but you stop, and walk away or say something like, "don't you ever I repeat, EVER, try that again in your life or you would regret the day you were born (or whatever it is you have to say)

If you don't show a reaction where she can feel all your manly glory, she may slap you again and again when ever she feels like, as per she keeps pushing you again and again to do something..you know..drastic hehe

But a lot of men miss it by returning the slap or giving her two in quick succession ROTFL.
There is something she is looking for, she just wants to feel your authority, your strength or whatever it is that I'm trying to explain.

Doing it without getting violent (for a woman you love and you know truly loves you) usually cures that "craze" or thirst.

Yes your number 2 is part of it.

"Play fight" or getting rough with your lady makes a lot of sense. She wouldn't need to misbehave or be rude to have this thirst quenched (erm..I think)

I slept well, thank you.

Cool, will get back to you on that...

Never mind, I was teasing you..

Hahaha, I now perfectly understand what you are saying and I can't help but imagine. Your choice of word (intense) to describe it is apt.

Errr, you conveniently sidetracked the ending part of my previous post