Onetenth:
Thank you everyone who showed interest in helping me. Someone from here messaged to help me, and he/she sent me the whole of the money to pay my brother school fee. Please help me send a prayer to him/her I can't thank the person enough.

This act of kindness has once again rekindled my hope in humanity. God will greatly bless the kind soul. His/her life will be filled with good tidings and the Lord will grant pleasant surprises to him/her.

Most times I think it has depth,other times I find it too serious

I can relate to the radio thing.. I guess Nigerians generally have a way of making you feel odd for doing some things that interest you. Funnily enough, I've had people call me names like archaic or obsolete because I use Nairaland and similar forums like reddit or quora than Instagram, Snapchat and the rest, I don't even know how to use most of them. So, my dear lady, just do what interests and informs you.

Dankovich1:
That's a man with a huge balls.

Ah say "e no easy ehhe" in Psquare's voice


Please for those who seem to follow up her trend on IG, is her husband a medical practitioner?....just curious to know.

Yes, he is

Happy birthday Daddy...God's goodness looks good on you

Happy birthday Daddy...80years looks really good on you

So you couldn't think of another thing? Must you say he was chased out of power? The man is keeping a low profile and staying off scandals but you people still won't rest. This is what some of your old politicians should do but nah, they want to die in the limelight

You have really really tried for those children, even some parents don't do as much you've done. The two older siblings are just plain wicked and irresponsible like their father because they don't need anyone to cajole them into shouldering their younger siblings' education.

I believe you also have bills to pay and your life to build, this one that they hardly pick your calls, better start saving up for yourself and your immediate family. Strongly refer the younger siblings to them, that is their responsibility. Only a staunch ingrate would say you haven't tried fir them

This man is in for a long thing

I got wary of reading stories on zikoko because of these their queer stories, only for nairaland to start reposting these stories... y'all sha want to force this thing on us

Old but still very good....this thread brings hope to someone like me who's on the verge of giving up on being able to love and trust again

9years already? Wawwuu...I remember how pained I felt when she died. Keep resting Goldie

Mom007:
My dear lady and any other lady out there... Avoid long drawn out relationships. 4 years? Are u looking to get a bsc out of it? How many times have you had premarital sex in those 4yrs? Then he comes at u with this BS story so as to get you to dump him and he moves on guilt free... Let's even assume his lies are true, the best you can do is back off from that situation! Never sleep with him again lest whatever he is dealing with comes after you. Avoid premarital sex ladies, can't you get it? Shebi one lady was crying on NL this morning that the bf used her for rituals after 4 yrs relationship... I tot it was you sef until I read through your story.
You said you prayed with/for him... To which God? Let me tell you a very hard and uncomfortable truth, the only prayer God wants to hear from fornicators is a prayer of genuine repentance and acceptance of Christ as Savior! Any other prayer you are praying while living in sin is a very long tin! Be guided and take dressing.

I really appreciate your input ma'am...I have learnt from what happened and I'm working on becoming a better lady for myself.

DontBullshitMe:
Another "Seun must eat" thread.

Please I didn't make this up and I owe seun nothing, neither does he owe me anything. My thread is as real as the day

jaeyking:
The part about the dream and all that
Well it could all be a ruse just to get away from u

I know right

faithfull18:
Long read, what if he was lying? and just wanted to find a way to break up with you?

The part of a lady saving her phone number by herself, he could have changed it after that to his normal way of saving contacts, he didn't.

Just let him be.

I really apologize for the length...I have thought of the fact that he could lying, I even told him he could be but he broke down and said he has no reason to go that low because of a break up, he said he didn't plan to ruin what we had.
Against every alarm going off in my head, I strongly believe he isn't lying.
As far as I'm concerned, I am done with anything we ever had together

SenecaTheYonger:
Not gonna lie, you write really well and your punctuation usage is 10/10.

I think you’ve made the right moves so far.

You gave him a second chance, prayed for him, he still went back.

Thanks for the compliment and input.

fineboynl:
The truth is alot of girls are desperate......Sorry dear. Just move on. You have lost this one except you want to fight dirty and don't even dare a pregnant woman. She can go far to achieve anything at this moment.

I really don't know what to think of the situation, it was too drastic and sudden, he gave me no soft landing at all...like 4years gone just like that??
I wish I could fight for him but nah, I can't tread that path for him again. I hold absolutely nothing against him and I hope he finds true peace

Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

This matter strong like agbo and erujeje mixed together.

I believe beyond relationship, you guys are friends, and what does a friend do when his/her friend needs help? They don't abandon them.

Help him. In anyway you can. Do so, while making it clear that the relationship is over.

Shalom.

We were friends even before we started dating and that's why I'm looking beyond the betrayal. But as it is now, my hands are tied. There's very little I can do to help other than to continue praying for him if he is really in a mess

Bigredmachine:
He too long wetin self... But I go try read am



My sister... Something must happen for another thing to happen... It's so unfortunate ur now ex guy failed or fell by the way side of ur kind, she played her game well and she won the match so comfortably... Your guy will forever regret this action... But there's little or nothing he could do, when a woman is out there to destroy she can do anything...

As for spiritual attact bla bla bla... I will leave that to the more I experienced people... But you should be thanking God you are not part of the mess... It would be hard dear, but you just have to pick up urself and move on with life... I just pray God will guide you well next time...

Thanks for your words. It is very hard I must say, I didn't know heartbreak felt this bad. I definitely trust God to strengthen me through this period

Hello everyone...I'm in dire need of your critical and honest opinions. It is going to be a long read, I deeply apologize in advance.

My relationship of about four years ended a week ago and the circumstances surrounding the break up were highly unforeseen, everything happened too quickly.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about four years, we were very intentional about each other. Our love was a very deep one, we connected on a lot of levels, shared mutual friends, I know his family and he knows some of mine and we hardly had issues save for the usual petty squabbles which we resolved ASAP.

But the whole trouble started less than 3 weeks ago. We had our usual conversations the Sunday preceeding the week everything went downhill, everything was absolutely well between us. By the following Monday evening, I tried reaching out to him to catch up on how his day went, he didn't answer his phone. I chatted him up but his response was very unlike him. I thought he was just stressed from work and would get back to himself in no time.

However, he failed to do as I expected and I became very worried and disturbed, this was already going to 2 weeks. I had to call him up one night and asked him to tell me what ever the problem is, I honestly felt he was going through some deep stuff. He later got in touch with me and promised to come by my place the next day so he could explain himself in person.

He came as promised, he appeared very gloomy and was far from his normal self. We got talking in his car, he kept saying he doesn't understand himself anymore and he messed up badly this time around.

He dropped the news that he had something with another girl in that space of less than two weeks. He said it was going to be an innocent hangout but he can't even tell how everything went down eventually, the girl later slept over at his place.
He broke down in tears, told me that he couldn't stand the guilt of what he did, didnt want to drag me into the mess and that was why he couldn't bring himself to talk to me or act like nothing happened.

There's a more disturbing side to what he later told me. He said he had what seemed like a spiritual attack in the middle of the night. Apparently, the girl was in the house when it happened (he stays in the house alone). According to him, the inverter in the house went off and he left the room where they were together to sleep in one of the sitting areas in the house because of heat. He was asleep when he sensed something very heavy and unusual, he opened his eyes and right in front of him was a dark, tall and hairy creature. The thing kept staring at him and he felt being drained, couldn't move or say a word till it walked away. He was completely scared, he summoned strength, stood up , ran into another room and made some frantic calls to their church priests and they prayed with him. He insisted it wasn't a dream, that he was wide awake when he saw what he saw. He also added that he looked into the room the girl was sleeping, she was still asleep and most likely didn't know what happened to him.

He told me he hasn't been himself since that experience and would genuinely not have told me anything but he has been really scared.
I got really worried at this point and had ask who the girl is. He finally opened up that he met her last year, they chatted for a while but they somehow lost contacts since last year, only for them to reconnect not too long ago this year, hence, the initial hangout. I asked how well he knows her but he broke down again and said he barely knows her, doesn't know her school or anything.

I was completely heartbroken and wondered how he could soil four years in less than 2 weeks. We cried together and he pleaded with me, that I have done nothing but loved and stood by him throughout the years.
At that point to be honest, I was pained but I was less concerned about the fact that he cheated on me, I was deeply scared and worried about the attack. He said he has been having some routine prayer sessions and he also asked me to pray with him in the car, I did pray for him with all of my heart. He thanked me profusely and burst into another heart-rending crying session. I had to console and encourage him, that he should try to draw closer to God this period and he is going to be fine again.

Since the night he told me everything, we've just been checking on each other and he said he's been indoor a lot since then and still can't sleep or stay alone in the dark.
Now to the very ending part of my tale, I asked him to come around my place last night. He came and whilst we were talking, his phone rang and he got out of the car to receive the call. He came back in to the car and again, his phone rang and he had to tell me the girl was the one calling. I became very livid and surprised that he's still in touch with her even after the whole attack episode cos we can't even tell where it came from.

I asked him to show me her name, he succumbed. My people, my boyfriend saved this girl's name and added kissing emojis. Something he never ever does, he is the type that saves every contact with their full name, including his siblings. Save for the nicknames he saved my number and his bro with, I hardly saw nicknames on his contact list talk less of adding emojis. I knew that was the height of it all and asked him how, he said it was the girl that took his phone and saved her number like that. I'm like, what? In a space of how many weeks and she's got that kinda control on you already?

I told him the action any right thinking person would have taken after the attack would be to, atleast keep away from her and even me cos who knows where it all came from. He said he tried cos he hasn't even been getting jobs since this whole thing started but the issue now is, the girl is claiming she's pregnant for him and has been all over him, professing love and all in the space of less than 3weeks. According to him, he has told just a friend apart from me..he hasn't informed any of his siblings and been keeping to himself, trying to figure how he got into all the mess.

I know my story doesn't add up cos he could be lying about everything. But then, this guy is someone I can vouch for his integrity and bluntness, he'd never stoop so low and start telling all these scary lies just to do away with me. It costs him absolutely nothing to just tell me, he's done with us and walk away.

We knew we were completely done with each other last night and I'm just thankful that I didn't get myself into any mess with him, no bad feeling at all. I feel more of pity for him cos this incident could totally change the course of his life, he is a struggling young guy still trying to find his right footing in life. I'm more worried that he hasn't told his brother any of this, (they are pretty close but his bro doesn't stay in the country) more like he is shielding everything and dying in silence.

He betrayed my love for him and I'm moving on fine, albeit, hard. I just don't want a situation whereby the whole thing is beyond mere eyes and he is weak, he is keeping to himself without talking out so his loved ones could take necessary actions.

I'm not even sure I want this to get to the front page, I only want honest and critical views. I'm posting this again in the family section because I seek mature opinions, please.

Lalasticlala, Pocohantas, cococandy, ishilove etc

amnesty7:
In any case, wishing you all the best. I could not read the long essay.

Please do, I'm sorry.

Bigredmachine:
He too long wetin self... But I go try read am

I'm really sorry about the length of my post..please read and give your opinion. Thanks

Hello everyone...I'm in dire need of your critical and honest opinions. It is going to be a long read, I deeply apologize in advance.

My relationship of about four years ended a week ago and the circumstances surrounding the break up were highly unforeseen, everything happened too quickly.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about four years, we were very intentional about each other. Our love was a very deep one, we connected on a lot of levels, shared mutual friends, I know his family and he knows some of mine and we hardly had issues save for the usual petty squabbles which we resolved ASAP.

But the whole trouble started less than 3 weeks ago. We had our usual conversations the Sunday preceeding the week everything went downhill, everything was absolutely well between us. By the following Monday evening, I tried reaching out to him to catch up on how his day went, he didn't answer his phone. I chatted him up but his response was very unlike him. I thought he was just stressed from work and would get back to himself in no time.

However, he failed to do as I expected and I became very worried and disturbed, this was already going to 2 weeks. I had to call him up one night and asked him to tell me what ever the problem is, I honestly felt he was going through some deep stuff. He later got in touch with me and promised to come by my place the next day so he could explain himself in person.

He came as promised, he appeared very gloomy and was far from his normal self. We got talking in his car, he kept saying he doesn't understand himself anymore and he messed up badly this time around.

He dropped the news that he had something with another girl in that space of less than two weeks. He said it was going to be an innocent hangout but he can't even tell how everything went down eventually, the girl later slept over at his place.
He broke down in tears, told me that he couldn't stand the guilt of what he did, didnt want to drag me into the mess and that was why he couldn't bring himself to talk to me or act like nothing happened.

There's a more disturbing side to what he later told me. He said he had what seemed like a spiritual attack in the middle of the night. Apparently, the girl was in the house when it happened (he stays in the house alone). According to him, the inverter in the house went off and he left the room where they were together to sleep in one of the sitting areas in the house because of heat. He was asleep when he sensed something very heavy and unusual, he opened his eyes and right in front of him was a dark, tall and hairy creature. The thing kept staring at him and he felt being drained, couldn't move or say a word till it walked away. He was completely scared, he summoned strength, stood up , ran into another room and made some frantic calls to their church priests and they prayed with him. He insisted it wasn't a dream, that he was wide awake when he saw what he saw. He also added that he looked into the room the girl was sleeping, she was still asleep and most likely didn't know what happened to him.

He told me he hasn't been himself since that experience and would genuinely not have told me anything but he has been really scared.
I got really worried at this point and had ask who the girl is. He finally opened up that he met her last year, they chatted for a while but they somehow lost contacts since last year, only for them to reconnect not too long ago this year, hence, the initial hangout. I asked how well he knows her but he broke down again and said he barely knows her, doesn't know her school or anything.

I was completely heartbroken and wondered how he could soil four years in less than 2 weeks. We cried together and he pleaded with me, that I have done nothing but loved and stood by him throughout the years.
At that point to be honest, I was pained but I was less concerned about the fact that he cheated on me, I was deeply scared and worried about the attack. He said he has been having some routine prayer sessions and he also asked me to pray with him in the car, I did pray for him with all of my heart. He thanked me profusely and burst into another heart-rending crying session. I had to console and encourage him, that he should try to draw closer to God this period and he is going to be fine again.

Since the night he told me everything, we've just been checking on each other and he said he's been indoor a lot since then and still can't sleep or stay alone in the dark.
Now to the very ending part of my tale, I asked him to come around my place last night. He came and whilst we were talking, his phone rang and he got out of the car to receive the call. He came back in to the car and again, his phone rang and he had to tell me the girl was the one calling. I became very livid and surprised that he's still in touch with her even after the whole attack episode cos we can't even tell where it came from.

I asked him to show me her name, he succumbed. My people, my boyfriend saved this girl's name and added kissing emojis. Something he never ever does, he is the type that saves every contact with their full name, including his siblings. Save for the nicknames he saved my number and his bro with, I hardly saw nicknames on his contact list talk less of adding emojis. I knew that was the height of it all and asked him how, he said it was the girl that took his phone and saved her number like that. I'm like, what? In a space of how many weeks and she's got that kinda control on you already?

I told him the action any right thinking person would have taken after the attack would be to, atleast keep away from her and even me cos who knows where it all came from. He said he tried cos he hasn't even been getting jobs since this whole thing started but the issue now is, the girl is claiming she's pregnant for him and has been all over him, professing love and all in the space of less than 3weeks. According to him, he has told just a friend apart from me..he hasn't informed any of his siblings and been keeping to himself, trying to figure how he got into all the mess.

I know my story doesn't add up But then, this guy is someone I can vouch for his integrity and bluntness, he'd never stoop so low and start telling all these scary lies just to do away with me. It costs him absolutely nothing to just tell me, he's done with us and walk away.

We knew we were completely done with each other last night and I'm just thankful that I didn't get myself into any mess with him, no bad feeling at all. I feel more of pity for him cos this incident could totally change the course of his life, he is a struggling young guy still trying to find his right footing in life. I'm more worried that he hasn't told his brother any of this, (they are pretty close but his bro doesn't stay in the country) more like he is shielding everything and dying in silence.

He betrayed my love for him and I'm moving on fine, albeit, hard. I just don't want a situation whereby the whole thing is beyond mere eyes and he is weak, he is keeping to himself without talking out so his loved ones could take necessary actions.

I'm not even sure I want this to get to the front page, I only want honest and critical views
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Hi everyone please a friend of mine was robbed at gunpoint and eventually shot in his arm. He was taken to the hospital and he is back to his feet. But the pellets are still in some parts of his body. Although he complained to the doctor; he was told to bring an additional 60k to remove these pellets after the bill of more than 120k.
However, someone suggested that he should do it the traditional way. That there is a way of 'calling out' the pellets from his body. So, he needs a wider opinion on this. Is this method effective? What is the procedure like? Are there any side effects, spiritual or physical?

Please I'd love to get mature and concerned comments because I'll be sharing the link of the thread to him so that he can read, he isn't a nairaland member.

Lalasticlala, please help me move this to the front page. Thanks

I love her hair

refiner:


nop not her!.....


she looks like her!...so she said!

OK I agree say dem b twins sef

bolt000:

yes o.. U are the only one.

Then I've gat beta eyes than u people

ehix89:
she is jzt pretty like dat

I hear

Am I the only noticing this? No b Anna banner dey for sasuwa dp so