If Dbanj can do it then she can. Its all about d beat n being an entertainer abi

Hmmmmm A poor couple in nigeria must ve been told they delivered a still born Child for this couple to get this baby. Karma must catch up wit this couple cos they r obviously lying. Who leaves d UK for IVF in Nigeria? Cos I know people that traveled to d UK for successful IVF.

Guess the Judge didn't want the hassle of locatin d real parents. Victim of Scam in Deed.

keepingmum: @Cnn - i reported the issue 2 his parents but his mother said i shld endure whilst his father said he shld rtn 2 9ja b4 "a woman starts 2 control him because shes d breadwinner". Forgettin dt their son refuses 2 get A job (not a profeSSIONAL job, just any job 2 help out wit d bills). Lest i forget, my SIL who was married 3 yrs, her hubby lost his job and within 10 mths, my inlaws went n took their daughter n her 2 kids back dt their daughter cannot suffer wit a man who cant look after his family yet wants 2 enjoy d comforts of marriage.
My immediate familybr aware n numerous times hv helped us financially wen i call but how long'll dt carry on 4?

What a family u married into. bunch of hypocrites.pls do what make u happy . YOLO

keepingmum: Honestly we spoke about divorce and his exacts words were i either allow him take our son with him or i keep our son and he'll have no contact with the boy.
Clearly i would b stupid 2 allow him go with the biy because he had no means of taking care if himself how much more a child. Except he dumps d boy on his parents which i diapprove as i am capable of fending for our son.
And if i choose 2 keep iur son, he has said he has no desire 2 visit or see the boy in d event of a separation or divorce. I know my son will struggle with that because this is a child that regards his dad as hes best frnd. He spends alot of his time with his dad as i work. Besides i am a firm believer that every child, particularly male children need a father in their life, deadbeat or not.

Whoa u are in a tight spot.whatever u do dont leave ur son.as a mother the worst thing that can happen is for another woman to look after my son while i u r alive no other woman will care for your son the way u would.and if ur hubby truly love his son he wont stop visiting him if u guys get separated.also instead of getting divorce u can try legal separation as it will help you both realize whats truly important if that doesn't work then u can consider divorce.

keepingmum: I just want to say thank you all to every1 who contributed to my solicited advice. God bless you all. I pray you dont find yourselves in the situation i am in.
In september, i turned 8 yrs in marriage. Still married to a jobless man. Attended a few interviews for better payin jobs only for my hubby to tell me i cant move town for xyz reasons.
My FIL has told my hubby to rtn 2 nigeria because he doesnt want his son controlled by a woman. And to those who think i married my hubby for papers, i did not. He is not a citizen.
We r not citizens. Heck we got married in 9ja. I was 18 going on 19 wen i married.
I would like to hv a 2nd child but i cant because falling pregnant at this time is just irresponsible of me.
Alot has happened over the past yr and it just hurts me so baf. I was a good girl, i had 2 bf's b4 marriage. Very intelligent n sociable n brought up with good morals. I spent 3 yrs in uni b4 i got married and i married a virgin. I had rich men wanting to date/marry me but i ignored wealth n choose potential n love.
Right now i feel alot of hurt, regret, disappointment. I just pray God helps me.

Hi a lot of time has gone by since ur original and its sad to see things have not improved. i have a friend going through the same issue with her husband saying jobs are beneath him.it can be really frustrating.i also have a friend that was a single mom in the UK but had to relocate to Nigeria cos to her being a single mom in the UK is pretty difficult.unlike in Nigeria where u can employ a full time nanny and u have the support of family members. also on the issue of Joint custody with your husband i suggest u go for full custody with visitation right for him cos with joint custody ur child cant travel without his written consent and all and it might be an issue if he gets upset and bitter after the divorce.I understand how u feel about a husband that doesn't provide for his family no woman will be happy in such home.and in such situations it gets harder cos the mans ego wont like it so hes gonna give u issues n try to put u down at any opportunity just to enable him feel like the "Man in the house"

Good Luck with ur future.

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As a married woman I agree to 70:30 or 80:20 ratio .

Chocolate and vanilla marble cake
Ingredients
225 g butter, at room temperature
225 g caster sugar
4 eggs
2 tsp vanilla extract
225 g plain flour
2 tsp baking powder
50 ml milk
50 g cocoa powder, sifted
Method
1. Preheat the oven to 180C/gas 4. Butter and flour the sides of a 20cm cake tin and line the base with greaseproof paper.
2. Cream the butter in a large bowl or in an electric food mixer until soft. Add the sugar and beat until the mixture is light and fluffy.
3. Whisk the eggs and vanilla extract together in a small bowl. Gradually add the eggs to the butter mixture, beating all the time. Sift in the flour and baking powder and fold in gently to mix, then add the milk and mix gently to combine.
4. Tip half of the cake mixture into another large bowl and, into this bowl, fold in the sifted cocoa powder.
5. Place the cake mixtures into the prepared tin by alternating spoonfuls of the vanilla batter with the chocolate batter, then with a skewer or similar implement, gently draw swirls through the cake mixture to ‘marblise’ it. Don’t overmix or you won’t have that wonderful marble effect. Bake in the oven for 45 minutes or until a skewer inserted into the middle comes out clean.
6. Turn the cake out onto a wire rack and allow to cool before serving.

Hello Guys. I recently took up baking as a hobby and i find its so easy and am loving it cos i can give em out as gifts to friends and my family love it. so i tot i should start a tread for Cake lovers like me where we could share recipes n tips. so recipes welcomed.

If u are not in anyway related to the family pls mind your business. the fact that someone regularly buys ticket to Nigeria from you does not make u a detective. by your own writing u seem to be nosy.you could try and get a hobby or something. just wondering if the case was reverse will you be so willing to tell the wife.i ve seen cases where this backfire and the husband ends up hating u.cos nobody likes a gossip n a bearer of bad news.

[b][/b]In reply to Olanrewaju Ajanaku, the defence counsel’s allegation that the pathologist was the one that inflicted the stab wounds on the deceased when the corpse was in his custody, he asked how he could do that when he was not insane.

Whoa Truly Sad. 76 times hmmmmmm.meanwhile how can his lawyers defense be dat d pathologist did d stabbing.

May her soul continue to RIP