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RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Know If Your Ex Wants You Back by ajailer(m): 8:12am On Mar 21, 2013
Nice try sha
Christianity EtcRe: Church With Wealthy Single Ladies In Lagos? by ajailer(m): 8:16am On Feb 17, 2013
Guys wid missplaced priorities sha....u lookn for a ready made ladies,smh....God is watchn u sha
CareerRe: Dangote Paid Graduate Drivers N30,000 For 3-Months Training by ajailer(m): 1:31pm On Jan 31, 2013
Advert space for rent
Dangote group of coy most prefferably
Price slashed to 30k
RomanceRe: Valentines Day 2013 by ajailer(m): 10:18am On Jan 30, 2013
Me I gat no gf....my ex been busy sef letting everybody know on bbm dat now she has a date for val....imagine sha,after so many nice things I did for her n she had to dump me cos of my anger issues

Women sha,dat still won't stop me from being nice....I ll just have to deal wid my anger b4 I go into anoda serious relationship

NOBODY IS PERFECT BTW,SOME PPL WON'T JUST LIKE U FOR UR IMPERFECTIONS
HealthRe: Medical Drugs by ajailer(op): 9:02pm On Jan 26, 2013
No response since....no wonder I don't come here
cry cry cry cry cry cry
HealthMedical Drugs by ajailer(op): 7:42pm On Jan 26, 2013
Hello here,
Today I heard someone say that we all need to be using drugs cos of the type of hectic lifestyle that we all live in lagos,wether ur bodi is in pain or not we all must be using drugs so that the body does not age quickly....that even if its a body supplementary drug dat has Iodine,calcium or a blood booster

Now my dilenma is that I don't take drugs,even ordinary paracetamol I don't take as I rarely have headache except am ill....can this really be true??
PoliticsRe: What Obasanjo And Yar’adua Told Me-soludo by ajailer(m): 11:05am On Jan 21, 2013
lucenzo: With all these reports coming in, it shows that Baba was a prayer warrior. Baba combines both God and devil.
Baba will always be my mentor any day...i just like d ways he combines the good with the evil,life's like that anyways n am also trying to do thatgrin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: The Unfortunate News Charles My Friend Heard This Night by ajailer(m): 5:40pm On Jan 19, 2013
Hmm...keep us posted...silly girls like dat everywhr
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Become Funny When Optionless Set In? by ajailer(m): 9:00pm On Jan 15, 2013
It does not happen to all of them tho...some still maintain their dignity even wen in their early 30s'
RomanceTwitter Stalking by ajailer(op): 8:51pm On Jan 15, 2013
Hi guys...just wanna know how often u stalk ppl's twitter handles especially that of the opposite sex...for me i gat who i stalk n i wonder is it abnormal or do other ppl do it as well
RomanceRe: Am I Just One Of His Many Gfs by ajailer(m): 6:29am On Jan 11, 2013
Sorry dat's happening to u gurl...sometimes we all fall for d wrong set of ppl but we just have to move on anyways.....

Mind addn me up on ur handle....dis mine mine...@choc_wizzle....i'd apprct it
RomanceRe: What Are Those Things You Have Deciced To/not Do In Your Nxt Relationship by ajailer(op): 5:05pm On Jan 07, 2013
megawax8: hav jst bin in 2 relationships bt i alwayz try to kip my ex's quite close afta d breakup.....we kinda tel each oda wher he/she nids to work on n wat m told is wat i do/dnt do in my next relationship........
I guess u r one of the few lucky ones whose ex will open up n talk about those things you did dat they did not like or those areas where u still need to work up on.......lotta ex wont just open up cos they might be having some sort of guilty conscience feelings or something like dat.......,n if dis is d case i guess u av to look inward and access where it all went wrong
RomanceWhat Are Those Things You Have Deciced To/not Do In Your Nxt Relationship by ajailer(op): 6:29pm On Jan 06, 2013
Well at the end of every relationship,especially if you are the one that got jilted,a lot of things go through ur mind n u are like wat happened,where did i get it wrong....was i too loving,was i too nice,or was it that you just were not on d same page wid ur ex....for me av decided to write mine down n hopefully move on wid it
1)Money:Being a Mr nice guy n always wanting to satisfy ur partner's need financially has only a negative effect,girls still wont give a damn if u spend millions for her,for her,money dont buy love so she will just see u as an end to a means.....for me,money is no longer a criteria for sustaining a relationship so am cutting dat out,if she trully likes me then i wont have to impress her with my money but if she's only after my money,then bye bye to her.
2)Anger:getting angry at the slightest provocation is a very negative trait,infact it bothers on pride....ppl tend to see u as being abusive n all that so i av decided to be always calm now n talk things out before reacting n not reacting first n now trying to talk things out after the damage has already been done.
3)Knowing what i want and talking about it n not assuming:At the begining of an affair,ladies expect you as d man to be d one dat will define d relationship maybe its just friends,friends wid benefits or lovers.Now failing to do dis gives d lady a chance to start doubting your intentions and they start loosing interest in the whole thing n before u know u get quartered in d friends zone permanently,only if u are an amazing guy will u be able to get out from d friends zone into lovers....but then dat does not mean it doesnt happen alot.
4)Communication:Ever wondered y a girl dat was feeln u suddenly lost all feelings for u??.Now this comes in the form of telln her how you feel about her..never be scared to let her know dat you really like her n might b falling in love n cant live without thinking bout her,talk about your feelings together,do dis as early as possible at the begining of the affair n i assure you dat dis will drive her nuts and it will give her d assurerance dat her feelings wont be taken for granted.....now ladies love disgrin
5)Respect n Trust her:If u respect her then u ll always support her in all her endeavours..u ll always give her a healthy personal space,take her for her words.

Please feel free to share your matured comments,wat u have learnt from ur past relationships n ow to be a better person in the next one
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Gets Angry Easily And This Makes Him Flare Up.is This Love? by ajailer(m): 4:53pm On Jan 06, 2013
He might love u but anger might also be an issue for him...let me say am also like dis n i lost someone i really liked due to d fact dat i flare up easily....my advice is for you to let him know dat dis is affectn d way u view d relationship n help him deal wid it lovingly....am sure dat if he trully loves you then he will make an effort to be a better person for you..
RomanceRe: Are These The True Characteristics Of Love? by ajailer(m): 3:36pm On Jan 06, 2013
MsBeauty Aghedo: She has tried talking to him and he promised to changed but didn't. She has tolerated this ill treatment for over 4months while their relationship is 5mnths old. She is 23yrs from Edo state and the guy is 33yrs old from Anambra state. Isn't she too young for such an arrogant treatment?
She is not too young dear,its just a case of a bad guy and a gud girl...give him wat he wants n he will still treat her dis way
Christianity EtcRe: Is Church Attendance Compulsory? by ajailer(m): 10:45am On Jan 06, 2013
[quote author=Atheist:-D]I actually liked the story. It was nice and cosy. smiley

The truth however is church these days is just another place for disillusionment and mass scamming. The enterprising of churches is scary. All manner of church related businesses operate outside the church and members put pressure on you to spend.

It might just be better to stay alone in that field.[/quote]Though am a believer but i get worried alot by the stories of the lavish lifestyles our pastors live while majority of their congregation pay for all these through their nose...been a while av been to church cos rationally i just cant bring myself to believe wat is being tot in the church these days that we should just keep on sowing into the church,now i prefer donating my money to the motherless and i'd rather fast,wake up @ nite n pray to God on my own and maybe listen to sermons being preached on Tv.

Yomieluv: Where two or more are gathered,am in their midst,says the Lord.
This shows the importance of worshiping among brethens,where lost souls,and backsliders can be revived

Do not forsake the gathering of the righteous.
U can always have a fellowship anywhere maybe @ ur house with two or more faithful brethrens...fellowship does not av to be @ the church alone
RomanceRe: Your Candid Opinion On This by ajailer(m): 10:07pm On Jan 05, 2013
Give her d space like u said u want to n she will prolly change her mind towards u since she said she really likes u as a friend....most girls get too heady wen they av lots of guys around them but that does not mean she wont say yes later wen she senses that u r pulln awaya from her......for the dp part,forget it as it might not mean much attimes esp wen she never admitted dat d guy is her bf....it might just be dat she was avn a crush on him then
RomanceRe: When A Girl Is Saying No But Her Actions Is Saying Yes by ajailer(m): 9:49pm On Jan 05, 2013
Give her d space,let her be and i bet she will come after you...ladies luv d chase. Bt wen they c guys turn around they ll def come after u
RomanceRe: Are These The True Characteristics Of Love? by ajailer(m): 10:34am On Jan 04, 2013
He def has some other girls catchn his attention as i guess u r d one dat does not want d intimacy part with him n he is intentionally playn scarce with u...him not calln,textn n replyn ur pings is enuff to let u know dat he is not in love.

Btw i think ur name sounds familair
CelebritiesDavido Part Ways With His Manager,asa Asika by ajailer(op): 8:30pm On Jan 03, 2013
It went public on New year’s eve, that the Omo baba Olowo, has parted with his manager. Now, both parties have confirmed it.

Here is an official press release on Asa’s next steps.

Asa Asika is a very well known name in the entertainment industry; in Africa and beyond. He is a hardworking driven young man whose meteoric rise in the entertainment industry is unprecedented.

Identifying his passion for entertainment at a young age and gifted with networking and project management abilities, he honed his skills under the tutelage of his uncle, Obi Asika the Storm 360 CEO for a period of about five years.

At Storm he became involved in all aspects of the business of entertainment and this enabled him understand how best to eventually manage upcoming artists and lead them to stardom. During his time at Storm he worked on the following shows and with the following artistes – The Homecoming with MTN, For The love of music concert with Samsung, Asa at The Palms, eLDee, Ikechukwu, Naeto C, Sasha P, to mention a few.

In an attempt to diversify and become involved in other profitable business opportunities, he forayed into the bar/nightclub industry by becoming involved with the popular club Rehab. His immense drive and popularity contributed to the incredible success of the club, making it one of the most frequented venues in Lagos.

Asa Asika is most probably best known today as the manager of the artiste known as Davido- whose growth from aspiring musician to one of the biggest artists in Nigeria he undoubtedly contributed immeasurably to. Although they have parted ways, it was amicable and they remain friends with a mutual respect for one other.

Asa has since moved onto other projects and is set to break more ground in worldwide showbiz.
FamilyRe: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by ajailer(m): 9:45pm On Jan 02, 2013
Hanihairy: Hmm....na wa oh. One day sumone wil wake up n wil want 2 knw if he can really ease himself wifout first undressing n d first place 2 air such a topic wil b on nairaland.....were are the good old days
On d contrary dis is a very mature n serious issue
FamilyRe: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by ajailer(m): 8:36pm On Jan 02, 2013
Its a bog NO NO for me....the human heart is desperatately wicked o,u just wanna expose ur dear baby to a harsh world at an age too early for d baby to be able to handle all dat comes wid it...talk bout relatives from d other side of ur sis's spouce tryn to make her feel unwelcomed in ur sis's house....am a perfect exampla,my mum's elder sis did dis same thing to my mum....wen i was under 2yrs old she started pestern my mum for me of which she eventually agreed to let me stayn wid them.....it was there dat i had a very fatal accident that almost cost me my life,now av gat scars all over my chest n hand n dis accident happened wen i was not even 3yrs....my maternal grand pa told my mum to take me back but she just refused thinking dat shebi na her sister i was stayn wid.......to cut a long story short,am still tryn to get my life back on track...........talk about maltreatment,lack of care,no sense of identity cos those who r really interested in u becomn somebody in life u did not grow up around them.....abeg just leave her jor cos dis ur friend might even go to d extent of telln dis her elder sis wat u've been telln her.......experience is d best teacher is d bitter truth
SportsRe: Osaze Apology: Why I Blasted Keshi, Nff, Osaze Reveals; Apologises For Outburst by ajailer(m): 7:25am On Dec 31, 2012
ebamma 3: Just three words 'medicine after death'
Exactly wat was on my mind wen i saw d topic.....
RomanceRe: Will You Hack Your Boyfriend's Or Girlfriend's Facebook Account If You Can? by ajailer(m): 8:52am On Dec 30, 2012
Yes i will if i can cos in relationships of now adays,lots of issues have to be dealt with..trust being the main thing....abeg share d knowledge bro make i know my status before it will be too late wink
RomanceRe: Your Most Embarassing Moment With Your Lover by ajailer(m): 11:20am On Dec 25, 2012
Mine was wen i took my ex chick to dis eatery whr we always go...she ordered her food n i did likewise only for d bill to come n i discovered dat i didnt av d money to cover it all...my ex was obviously embarassed but wif a bold face i told d server girl dat i would like to return a drink...one thing n d other happened along d way sha n we now discovered dat it was actually d server girl dat had over inflated my money intentionally so as to chop small money from me.....wen i discovered dis,i got so furious n was bent on making d girl loose her job dat day cause she really embarassed me,it was even my dis same ex dat started beggn me for her cause i was ready to cost her d job....@ d end of d day,i did nofin n even d server girl had to move away from d vicinity while i was still there.....

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