kingthreat: See as the guy just wait like sheep to be slaughtered. Is cultism not just very stupid? I thank God everyday for not putting me in the situation that I had to join this useless thing. See the young man,, student of University of Ibadan just wasting his life over nonesense. If you are oin this shyt, you better change your environment and leave now. Nigerian Korofo, Odin, Grandpa, Jakujaku will not save you and only suck the bloods of the members. Say no to cultism.
Its Eiye boys in Ikorodu that did this nonsense. Ikorodu no be better place o. Names were mentioned in the video, if police investigates this, they can find the killers easily.
PrinzCarter: What is the man writing, do you know how much an artist makes for just shooting one video n posting on YouTube, go n search for lil Wayne ft Eminem -drop the world its over 10yrs n it has 250million views dats n ppl keep streaming it, dats money, if an artist drops one track a vid nd it goes viral let's say his career went down , how does he survive? , he starts making songs to see if he can get to d top back he drops vids so dat ppl can watch n he gets paid on YouTube dey are lots of artist doing dis eg 9ice, faze, erigga, etc wat Jude did n sum record label are doing is nt gd dey are just been greedy
Be wise ... See what it takes to make money on YouTube. It’s more of awareness to make more money else where
The thing is most upcoming artists are overly excited when they see a record label is trying to sign them.
They won't even read the contract they are signing thoroughly or use a lawyer which can put them through... They are always too eager because they see it as an avenue to reach the top. It is after they sign the contract they will know the soup they are in.
I just hope the upcoming artists won't be desperate in getting signed and at least go through the contract they are signing so they won't be a Modern slave
Wether they read or not.
In business you must offset capital before you chop or share gain. And this record label have accountants who stores and record every receipt and bribe spent to promote an artiste
KingSatan: As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
a woman will bring out her list and write that she needs 10 qualities in a man.
she finally sees a man with 9 qualities and enter a relationship with him.
her eyes will still at the missing one "like a missing ceiling" and when she finds the man withy the missing one,even if its 1/10 of her list,just that one, she will cheat!.
but because its just 1/10, she will not divorce the one with 9/10 until she is caught.
drugcartel: I knew there was more the sister wasn't saying the moment she accused the Nurse, Dr and hospital social worker of defrauding her brother. Can't believe some sister's can be so evil to the extent of defrauding the brother of 12 million, You are not the next of kin, but you claimed to care for him, if you so much care for him why weren't you at the hospital with him, The moment men and women maintain their lane, respect themselves and stop involving themselves in their siblings marriage(especially in marriages where their siblings are bread winner) , that's the moment more than 80% of African marriage will be enjoyed and not endured. It's always about money for them, they are annoyed because their sister spends on her lazy husband that earns nothing and is busy enjoying their sisters money despite the fact he didn't contribute a dime when she was in school or their brother spends on his good for nothing wife that didn't know how they suffered for his light to shine. Oga and Madam, learn to born as you can cater for, and leave your siblings marriage in peace, the man is still much alive and the sister is already struggling for his wealth, what happens if........... (But God forbid it). Mind your business and keep your mouth off your siblings relationship, it's funny how these type of siblings become extremely loyal and respect their husband /wife's family but will want to destroy their siblings own. I don't blame them, I only blame the Fools that give them right for such cos as for me, I place them where they belong.
this story strong o.
but how can someone who is not related by blood be a next of kin ?" it is rare .
When una hear say out of 5 pikin wey she norm none belong to the man, na when one of the medical doctor wey be him pikin for USA wan carry all of them come over na him dna show .
Una go shock.
But first let hear what have him the effrontery to invite the world to withness what he did.
femijamz: Mr Man I know how you feel. Am once in your shoe, I masturbated for over 15yrs, ur problem is erectile dyfunction which cause by masturbation. I also have similar problem for many years which make me spent over 50k to treatment myself but still it doesn't work out. But I later find solutions by myself which I no spend #1, right now am happily married with a kid
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I remember when this greating with elbow was reigning because of corona virus , as a ju man I was doing it with people until someone tell me “ you no Dey fear abi”
I check and found out it’s egede greeting of .
My point: this is not enough to say he is a cultist.