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Why cant Nigeria go back to the era of regional govt in the 60’s instead of splitting?We need to create strong regions and a weak centre. |
delzbaba:After the 4th wife he cant marry again |
First harvest of jute leaves(Ewedu) after 3 weeks and 2days of planting
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Charleys:Tell us the city or village in Osun state to verify your claims.why didnt you site your farmland in Igboland? You know the market is in Yorubaland. Do Igbo senators commission boreholes? See our senators commissioning boreholes Senator Buhari commissions boreholes in Oke-Ogun communities https://newspeakonline.com/senator-buhari-commissions-boreholes-in-oke-ogun-communities/ Senator donates borehole to community https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/senator-donates-borehole-to-community/amp/ |
Elliotwaveforec:Operation feed yourself |
His Excellency,President Bola Tinubu of federal republic of Nigeria. |
Charleys:So Farming in Yorubaland now qualify you as a developer,you are very funny,.You constructed the well for your own sake as irrigation for your plants and the community took advantage of it. Other Nigerians do that in Igboland but dont see it as a big deal. You can only be a developer in Yorubaland if you site big companies there. Fulani is developing Igboland because their cows provide manure for your farmland and cheap meat. |
Juliusmalema:Imo state is a no mans land.The hausa/Fulanis can claim it as their own. |
osazsky:You are a sadist.Herdsmen will continue to rape your Edo women and destroy your farmlands..Bon apetitie to your slavery to the fulani caliphate. |
Ogungbemi01:What if you dont get Oduduwa republic for the next 30 years?.Eritrea fought Ethiopia for 30 years before gaining indepence while South Sudan fought a war too. Yorubas must never go to war unprepared unless you want toq become slaves to fulanis for a long time. Oduduwa rep agitators must get their country on or before 2023.Once it is 2023 and no achievement on your republic, we must head to the polls. Otoge to fulani rule over the majority in Nigeria. |
Breaking those barriers All over the world Was not an easy thing Yesterday your mouth was shut yeah Couldn't make a sound eh boy But it's such a good feeling today When I can hear them from Across the ocean singing this song That the whole world should be singing All the time We' re... Different colours / one people Different colours / one people Hey you government Never try to seperate the people Hey you politician Never try to seperate the people They were created in the image of God And who are you to seperate them Bible says, he made man in his image But it didn't say black or white Look at me you see BLACK I look at you I see WHITE Now is the time to kick that away And join me in my song We' re... Different colours / one people Different colours / one people Hey you politician Never seperate the people here Hey you man hey you man Never try to seperate the people Some were from America We were from South Africa Some were from Japan We were from China Some were from Australia We were from the U.K. Some were from Zimbabwe We were from Ghana Some were from Jamaica We were from Russia Some were from Aha-ha-ha We were from Uhu-hu-hu We' re... Different colours / one people Different colours / one people Source: LyricFind Songwriters: Lucky Dube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4csXJXHVGA |
kennykruzmason:Yes |
JidennaJason:He go carry your IPob drug traffickers from Malaysia,thailand And china enter kirikiri join am. |
360clips:Stupid thread degrading Africans. |
pointblank247:Tinubu and Buhari no sabi Igbos wey won die ontop their matter too.All politicians must be held accountable for their actions and they must serve their people. |
tit:Them no fit na military zone so they must keep off. ![]() |
gawu1:Growing food should be everybody’s business in Nigeria because we eat three or more times a day.There is no competition in this about who contribute food pass the other. To attain food sufficiency and cheap food,every Nigeria must grow something not matter how little. I have some European friends who see Africa as a gold mine.If Europeans lived in Nigeria,food will be the cheapest commodity in the country because of our fertlie land. |
JidennaJason:You can take Iskilu to igboland to finish his job. |
thebosstrevor1:If all Southerners plant in their gardens and farmlands,food will be a lot cheaper than the produce from the North. I plan to go into large scale farming and Animal husbandry in the nearest future. The hunger vaccine is Agriculture. |
Dangote is rated as the richest man in Nigeria and Africa because he is a manufacturer and employer of labour in Nigeria and Africa backed by Government. He enjoys tax breaks etc and all the perks of being an indigenous manufacturing company.He enjoys loan facilities from banks and investors. To be next Dangote or Adenuga ,you need to be a manufacturer of products imported into Nigeria from China,India,Bangladesh.Nigeria is the biggest market in Africa with over 200 million inhabitants.We as a country need to industrialise to become a rich nation and banish unemployment and poverty. Industries where Nigerians can be the next billionaires are: 1.Large scale production of quality Men and Women’s underwears. 2.Food storage and preservation. 3.Quality Beddings and home accessories. 4.Confectionaries. 5.Electronics. 6.Car accessories. 7.Hygiene products. 8.Recycling of plastic,electronic and organic waste. 9.Dairy industry. 10.Perfumes 11.Ready made Kiddies wears and shoes. 12.Skill acquistion centres on specialised training, 13.Home accesories. Add yours
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drake2:Mr man,this is subsistence farming.I dont sell them. |
hucknall:Stop protecting scam artist pretending to be a christian.The pastor is not a follower of christ.Lets shame the devil so he can be ashamed. The religious cabals are the greatest threat to the Nigerian society because they improverish people into penury more than the politicians. |
Islie:Na Ganduje package this one for his inlaws. ![]() |
thebosstrevor1:Many boko haram victims flooded lagos too to do Okada business. |
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ola6:Thank you |
Two weeks before and after the food blockade,I started to plant behind my rented apartment.I planted maize,pepper,tomatoes,potatoes,spinach,groundnut,Jute leaves,Okro,Habanero pepper. Today i got my first Spinach harvest after 3 weeks of planting. Mynd44
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BluDesk:Churches and Islamic organisation in Nigeria are cult Organisations.They are devoid of spirituality nor understand God. |
thebosstrevor1:Too much migration causes culture clashes.People fighting for limited resources.The North and the Southwest might have to checkmate the influx of too many Idps into their state. Some Igbos might run to Cameroon or Ghana |
Rugaria:Owambe have oil in Itshekiri and ondo land so he will not be starved of oil.Odua nation is a blessed nation. |
Narcissism at play in the Nigerian household A narcissistic man meets a woman, he love bomb her to fall in love with him,he then devalues,gaslight and discard her and vice versa.The cycle continues with every other woman he meets. In another scenario,A narcissitic man or woman marries for the benefit they derive from their partner not love like money,beauty, social class. They have children and raise them in a troubled environment of fights,curses,violence. The children are divided into the golden child,flying monkeys and the scape goat.These children from troubled homes(have a dependency trait) are preys to other Narcissists or predators who will lovebomb them into evil vices like cultism,prostitution,drugs etc. The religious narcissism: Perhaps they are the pastor/Sheikh or someone in a leadership position within the church/Jammah. Or maybe they are a church member/sect member, who attends services/meetings faithfully. Below are 7 reasons why narcissists love church. 1.) THEY LOVE THE ATTENTION Narcissists often see church as a valuable source of attention. Their excessive need for attention is known as narcissistic supply! Just like a leech, narcissists gain their energy from the admiration of those around them. Church is the perfect place for the narcissist to be able to parade their accomplishments and spiritual sincerity to others. Their “religious works” are usually met with praise and accolades from others. “Thank God for you! You have such a servant’s heart.” “Wow! You are such a man/woman of God!” “Thank-you! You are such a caring and selfless person.” The narcissist LOVES this! They see church is a social club of people who are willing to dole out the praise if they “walk the walk” and check the boxes. 2.) THE CHURCH WILL RARELY KICK THEM OUT In the majority of cases, narcissists don’t do anything unlawful. Illegal behavior should always be met with immediate involvement of law enforcement. Usually, narcissists get a name for being the “Trouble Makers” because of their manipulation, lies, spreading of gossip, guilt-tripping, and self-righteous superiority. Even if other people at church start to notice the manipulative tactics of the narcissist, they will rarely inform the narcissist that they aren’t welcome anymore. Church has an open door to everyone! Come as you are! All are welcome! The narcissist thrives in this type of environment. Regardless of their actions, they are usually tolerated (and avoided) by other church-goers. 3.) THEY LOVE USING THE BIBLE/QURAN AS A WEAPON The religious narcissist LOVES using Bible/Quranic verses to their advantage. The narcissist LOVES to talk about forgiveness and kindness. Twisting Bible/Quranic verses to meet their own selfish agenda is a favorite tactic! Examples: Matthew 5:39 “ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also.” Ephesians 4:32 “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Luke 6:37 “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” If the people around he narcissist are not fully aware of their manipulative tactics, they may feel “convicted” or “guilted” into feeling bad for their negative feelings towards them. Male narcissists often use Bible/Quranic verses to degrade, control, and sometimes abuse women. They will quote verses about submission, obedience, silence, etc. They abuse the Bible/Quran to degrade women into lowering themselves into a place under their authority – referred to as “their proper place” by these sexist narcs. In religious environments, women have always been easy targets. And the narcissist takes full advantage of this! Regardless of what the narcissist does, their favorite weapon is FORGIVENESS. They will quote Matthew 18:22, where Christ instructs His followers to forgive people “70×7”. With self-righteous indignation, the narcissist will remind you of your religious responsibility to forgive wrongdoings! In other words, “No matter what I do to you or say about you, you have to forgive me!” Related Article: What Does The Bible Say About Cutting People Off (Going No Contact)? 4.) CHURCH/Jammah IS AN AMAZING SOURCE OF GOSSIP In church settings, people are often open and vulnerable about their personal lives. During a smaller church service or a church class, the narcissist will often be able to hear about other’s family struggles, relationship issues, financial burdens, personal issues, etc. The narcissist LOVES knowing other people’s vulnerabilities and weak spots! To them, this gives them power and leverage to be able to “play that person” for attention. Later on, they may present themselves as someone who has “totally been there” and can help that person. This way they can talk and talk about themselves and all their experience, gaining a new source of attention (narcissistic supply). Remember, the narcissist loves talking about themselves! Their conversation are usually full of the words “I”, “my”, and “me”! If the person they are talking to wants to change the subject or talk about themselves, the narcissist is quick to interrupt and guide the conversation back to themselves. On the other hand, they love to gossip about other people in the church! “Did you know what happened to her the other day? Honestly, she brought it on herself!” “Did you see what she was wearing? Basically asking to get assaulted!” “I feel bad what happened to him, but he honestly deserved it. Not a good guy at all.” Narcissists usually gets known as the “Trouble Makers” in the church, always spreading the latest gossip and presenting themselves as the SME (subject matter expert) on everything they hear about. Related Article: Narcissistic Gaslighting: 33 Things A Narcissist Will Say To Manipulate You 5.) THEY’VE GOT A CAPTIVE AUDIENCE Jackpot for the narcissist! Many churches give opportunities for their members to speak, pray out-loud, or teach a class. This is the perfect opportunity for the narcissist to get some attention for themselves. They will use these opportunities to talk about themselves, brag about their superior spirituality, talk about how many obstacles they have overcome, or even paint themselves out to be the victim of a specific circumstance. Narcissistic pastors and spiritual leaders abuse their authority all the time by gaining attention, admiration, or even sympathy from their captive audience (the church members sitting in front of them). 6.) CHURCH IS AN AMAZING PLACE TO BE A VICTIM Church is an incredible place to gain sympathy, assistance, and emotional support. If no-one suspects the narcissist of playing the victim (for attention), they can gain a LOT of narcissistic supply. “I’m so sorry that happened to you! You are such a wonderful person.” “How could that person have hurt you so horribly? They will reap what they sow!” “You poor thing! We are here to help you. If you need anything, just ask.” There is nothing like a large group of people who will pity and sympathize with their “helpless victim” stories! If people catch on to the narcissist’s manipulative tactics, it is easy for them to play the victim by saying, “I thought you wanted to help me! I trusted you!” 7.) CHURCH-HOPPING IS EASY …although it can be difficult in a smaller town. Once the narcissist builds a bad name in one church and ostracizes themselves from everyone, it is relatively easy for them to pick up and leave! On to the next church/Jammah – aka source of narcissistic supply! A whole new congregation of people to gain attention from, manipulate, gossip about, and play the victim to. They can paint themselves in whatever light they want to! The victim, the saint, the professional, the spiritual leader, etc. To the narcissist, there is no such thing as “enough attention”. They will go wherever they can gain as much admiration as possible. Unfortunately, the church/Jammah is often a safe haven for the toxic behavior of the narcissist. https://tradingaverage.com/7-reasons-narcissists-love-church/
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Poverty is a state of being extremely poor whereby the poor are disempowered,subjugated and control by the rich and powerful in the society.Poverty is an artificial creation whereby resources are hoarded in the hands of mafia like individuals to dominate and subjugate others. The poor feels intimidated by his lack of means and submit to the whims and dictates of the rich and powerful(elites).These elites come in form of religious leaders,businessmen,political leaders etc. Prolonged period of poverty and hardship in a person’s life causes people to have a mental disorder called Narcissistic personality disorder in some cases. As an poor individual,you begin to acclamatize with unnatural events and scarcity of resources like food,money,neccessaries. The religious leaders always tell you,it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God but the keep piling up wealth to be in comfort every day of their lives.The founder nations of our religions live in abundance not in scarcity. The effects of poverty is damaging to the mental state and mindset of an individual in the following ways. 1. When he is faced to make money whether legitimate or not,He focuses on the short term goals and not the consequences of their actions. I.e drug trafficking and prostitution etc. 2.They will do whatever it takes to leave the social class of the downtrodden to climb the social ladder,they donot care about the price to pay for such. 3.Some lack empathy to fellow poor people i.e if a poor person should approach him for help for not eating for 2 days,he will see it as no big deal because he had to deal with such scenarios in the past. Narcissitic personality disorder: A disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance. Narcissistic personality disorder is found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a combination of genetic and environmental factors. Attributes Of A person suffering from Narcissistic personality disorder. 1. These narcissistic people have parasitic effects on society.They have the “entitlement mentality”. 2. When in charge of companies they commit fraud, demoralize employees, and devalue stock. 3.When in charge of countries they increase poverty, siphon Government funds,violence, and increase death rates. 4. Narcissists fit conventional stereotypes of leadership: Because of their ability to accumulate power and influence, narcissists enjoy a prominent spot in laypeople’s views about leadership. However, the idea that leaders must be overconfident, charismatic, or selfish in order to be effective is in stark contrast with reality. Yes, these characteristics help them emerge as leaders, but they are also the cause of their dishonest and incompetent behaviors once they get to the top. Whether in sports, business, education or politics, effective leadership requires building high-performing teams and, when it comes to that, the critical ingredients for success are competence rather than confidence, altruism rather than egotism, and integrity rather than charisma. In other words, the real essence of good leadership is the exact opposite of what the Hollywood version of leadership implies. Until we understand this, we will unfortunately continue to invite narcissists to the top while overlooking more competent and healthier alternatives. 5.Narcissists manipulate credit and blame in their favor: Through a mix of shameless self-promotion and a guilt-free, Machiavellian agenda, narcissists are quick to take credit for others’ achievements and blame colleagues and subordinates for their own failures. As Ben Dattner notes, narcissistic managers “lead with the main purpose of receiving personal credit or glory. When things go wrong or they make mistakes, they deny or distort information and ‘rewrite history’ in order to avoid getting blamed.” What makes narcissists so effective at this is their complete conviction that they are actually special. In Dattner’s words: “they believe that they deserve credit for simply being who they are, regardless of their actual contributions or achievements.” Such delusions of grandeur allow narcissists to be more effective manipulators than individuals who are politically savvy but inhibited by their inability to distort reality or morality in their favor. It is always easier to fool others when you have already fooled yourself; it is always harder to feel guilty when you think you are innocent. Corruption is a symptom of Decadent Nigerian society while poverty and narcissism is the root causes of Nigeria’s problem. https://www.google.com/amp/s/hbr.org/amp/2014/01/why-we-love-narcissists Mynd44 |
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. Thumps up to the person that named this continent, he really got the name for it's kind of people and kind of things that happen here. 