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Mariangeles:
Fried beans and plantain

Prestonn:
House door ... almost every week, I do invite friends to dinner or lunch... so my door is always open.

Is that restaurant same as Fingalicking? I once had lunch there, but in Miami.

SweetCunt97:
Curious, do these ladies pay for the meals or you pay for the meals?
[quote author=Mvena post=91480334]Finally that you bought her food or finally that she's eating �

Prestonn:
Thanks.. Any time you're ready. My door is always open to visitors

BlueRayDick:
Lunch: Fried rice + Stew + egg + snail

Alennsar:
sir please what is this?

michru:
Like Àmàlà made into donut?

IVORY2009:
Akeem, what is this?

EastGold:
The match sweet me die

Dyt:
Akeem and his meals

That's bread, cheese and strawberry/banana?

Is that even filling?

Dyt:
Your signature


More misery for Arsenal, and a desperately poor result for the Gunners.

3KINGZ18:
Cool

But guy wait you use okro along with ogbono inside one soup?

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

GboyegaD:
If that is what it comes as to you, it isn't my business. The last I checked, this isn't a competition ground. You do not need to talk down on people's food to make you great.

Victornezzar:
Who's this guy

cococandy:
Stop

Mariangeles:
You started out well. What happened?

pippimp:
You laugh. Dude, that party jollof you salivate over, that na the secret ingredient.

pippimp:
Can't freaking sleep. So i'm going to share how i make my no fail Jollof rice.

1. Cook your chicken ensuring you have enough of maggi, curry and thyme in it. Also make sure you have enough water left in it to cook the rice. This stage is very important, because the success or failure of the jollof is dependent on how good your stock is.

2. Once it's done, remove the chicken, and set the stock aside.

3. Fry your chicken.

4. Blend your tomato/pepper mix.

5. Put your pot on your stove and add some vegetable oil to heat up.

6. Dice up half an onion and add to the oil to caramelize.

7. Open one tin tomato and once the onion mix caramelizes add the tin tomato and fry it. This part is also very very very important.

8. After five minutes on medium heat, add your tomato/pepper mix.

9. Add your fried chicken. This is a quick way of making peppered chicken.

10. Wash your rice multiple times to remove the starch. I usually do it 7 times to get it all out.

11. Go back to step 9. Once the stew is well cooked, take out the chicken from it.

12. Add your rice to the stew and add the chicken stock. This is another important stage. Make sure the total mix of broth and and stew is not more than half an inch from the top of the rice. If it's more you run the risk of soggy jollof rice.

13. Turn down the heat of the stove to the absolute lowest setting. Rice in general does not need too much heat to cook. What cooks rice is steam.

14. Place foil paper over the pot and then cover it.

After 15 minutes check the rice. Once you've noticed the water has dried up, mix up the rice and cover the pot again then turn of your stove. But keep watch on it. Remember, rice cooks with steam and keeping it covered for too long might over cook it. This is also the best process for fried rice too. Once you can master it, you'll never try another way. My wife loves it when i cook jollof rice. It's one of the reasons why she's stayed with me for 50 years.

Dyt:
Epele o method man

Goan cook your japanese/Chinese meal oga

Dyt:
No one here is claiming chef or pro
Drop your own method
Everyone don't use same method

payperpost:
dem don dey toast you oo, abeg gree for her, she's a psychologist with an international firm in Lekki, she dey drive Porsche Cayenne, and she get panamera also, she get official driver and a private driver, abeg gree oo , you are so lucky neat kitchens is her weakness.
thanks me later.

I'm donating one native goat for una marriage

Ishilove:
Corn and noodles?