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Smilelo:
Please how can I download mine. Help me out. I mean d snap. Add me up on wassapp 08065834949 for quick respond. Am using a Q10

Visit Sideload.it
Download the Snap client app
Go to HOW TO on the topmost part of the Sideload.it page.
Follow details....


Better still follow from page 227

nurez305:
woooow, that's nice, please can it work on Q10, if yes pls assist me with the link to download it to my phone.....thanks in advance

start from page 227. Dont forget t follow instructions

vanwalex:
Hello!!! Pls I just got on d blackberry10 world... I want to upgrade my Q10 but don't knw how to. please can anybody help?

You can't do that with your mobile data. You'll need wifi connection

amaboy06:
first connect d wi-fi manually with d orda fone den enta flash share or xender den create connection...it shld wrk,na werrin d orda person bin talk..bb10 to bb10 no fit connect oh

thanks...

Please, I know this has been answered severally I tried searching for the page but I couldn't locate it. Please, can someone refer me to the page where instruction Is being given on flash transfer usage?

Sarhyd:
how well is your ttpod working

Inefficient!!! It doesn't load music files on device. Prolly, it does that on MC. Unfortunately, I've got no MC.

jeccy:
Dis is were I ve gotten to wut else is remainin

Set your vpn. Follow the instructions on HOW TO at the uppermost part of the page

jeccy:
Dis is were I ve gotten to wut else is remainin

Go to page 227 of this thread

At last. Much thanks to Sarhyd & Skeelzz. If you two were ladies, would've kissed and cuddled ya....#lolz

Avant - lie about us ft. Nicole
2face - close to where you are

Sarhyd:
The way I installed it was funny,the thing install by itself ni o,after a long trial of futile results.i just disconnected vpn and changed it 2G while it was installing and I closed the app out frustration, only for me to see it installed..s just keep trying,you should be lucky soon

I can see that it has already been installed. just wanna confirm bro if I can abort. Thanks!!!!

Sarhyd:
Finally installed the Snap

Please seems I'm stuck here. How long does it take to install? It's been o'er 30 minutes now

Please anyone with the English proficency test shud forward to my email: akelljoe@gmail.com thanks

The political battle for choice office in 2015 has begun.Seven ministers in President Goodluck Jonathan’s cabinet have resigned their positions to enable them pursue their governorship ambition.The seven ministers who resigned are:Ministers of Information, Labaran Maku; Trade and Industry, Samuel Ortom; State for Education,Nyesom Wike; and State for Defence, Musiliu Obanikoro.Others are Ministers of Labour, Emeka Wogu; Health, Onyebuchi Chukwu; State for Niger Delta,Dairus Ishaku.

Singer turned politician Tony Tetuila,who is running for Kwara State House of Assembly, Irepodun LGA, is currently in the state to meet with Oro Ward 2 leaders and other women leaders in his local government, who welcomed him with open arms.

One of Nigeria’s leading pop stars,Wizkidhas confirmed his collaborative effort with controversial American R&B star,Chris Brownwill be released in early November.In a chat with NET yesterday, Tuesday, October 14, the ‘Jaiye Jaiye’ singer who has recently been in the eye of the storm, with colleagues likeSaeon and Samklef hitting him for his perceived attitudinal problems aside his widely reported beef with former friend-turned rival, Davido, said he has great moves ahead in a few weeks.‘I have recorded a song with Chris Brown, it will be released in three weeks time and trust me, everything is so African.’The singer, who now has his sights set on the global scene, will also be shooting the video for ‘Mummy mi’ with his mother which will drop soon. With Wizkid, who is set to exit Empire Mates Entertainment, the label that nurtured him to fame, hinting at exploring avenues of a collaboration with American music star, Rihanna, 2015 is expected to be big year for the Star Boy boss.

It's for those that need it. Not for everyone.....

“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” ~Dalai Lama


And I admit I am not an expert.

I’ve made a million and one mistakes in relationships. I’ve expected too much. Or not asked for what I needed in fear of rocking the boat. I’ve been competitive. I’ve been suspicious. I’ve been dependent. I’d like to think what redeems me from all these mistakes is that I’ve also been honest.

Being self aware, in my opinion, is far more valuable than being perfect—mostly because the former is attainable and helpful, while the latter is neither.

Relationships are not easy. They mirror everything we feel about ourselves. When you’ve had a bad day, the people around you seem difficult. When you’re not happy with yourself, your relationships seem to be lacking.

If you’ve ever gotten in a fight only to find yourself wondering what you were really upset about, this post may help you. If you’ve ever been disappointed because someone didn’t meet your expectations, this post may help you, too. Feel walked on and unheard? You guessed it—there’s likely something in here that will help you change that.

We don’t live in a vacuum. We have thoughts and feelings that can be confusing. Other people do too. And just like in the movie Crash, they don’t always collide smoothly.

When I apply these ideas, I feel confident, strong, compassionate, and peaceful in my interactions. I hope they can do the same for you.

1. Do what you need to do for you.

Everyone has personal needs, whether it’s going to the gym after work or taking some alone time on Saturday morning. If someone asks you to do something and your instinct is to honor you own need, do that. I’m not saying you can’t make sacrifices sometimes, but it’s important to make a habit of taking care of yourself. 

Someone once told me people are like glasses of water. If we don’t do what we have to do to keep our glass full, we’ll need to take it from someone else—which leaves them half full. Fill your own glass so you can feel whole and complete in your relationships.

2. Give people the benefit of the doubt.

It’s tempting to doubt people—to assume your boyfriend meant to hurt you by not inviting you out with his friends, or your friend meant to make you feel inadequate by flaunting her money. People who care about you want you to feel happy, even if sometimes they get too wrapped up in their own problems to show it well.

Sometimes they may be hurtful and mean it—let’s not pretend we’re all angels. But that won’t be the norm. It will likely be when they’re hurting and don’t know what to do with it. Odds are they’ll feel bad and apologize later. If you want to get good will, share it by seeing the best in the people you love. When we assume the best, we often inspire it.

3. Look at yourself for the problem first.

When you feel unhappy with yourself, it’s easy to find something wrong in a relationship. If you blame another person for what you’re feeling, the solution is on them. But this is actually faulty logic. For starters, it gives them all the control. And secondly, it usually doesn’t solve the problem, since you didn’t actually address the root cause.

Next time you feel the need to blame someone for your feelings—something they did or should have done—ask yourself if there’s something else going on. You may find there’s something underlying: something you did or should have done for you. Take responsibility for the problem and you have power to create a solution.

4. Be mindful of projecting.

In psychology, projecting refers to denying your own traits and then ascribing them to the outside world or other people. For example, if you’re not a loyal and trusting friend, you may assume your friends are all out to get you. It’s a defense mechanism that allows you to avoid the discomfort of acknowledging your weaknesses. There’s no faster way to put a rift in your relationships.

This comes back to down to self awareness, and it’s hard work. Acknowledging your flaws isn’t fun, but if you don’t, you’ll continue seeing them in everyone around you. And you’ll continue to hurt. Next time you see something negative in someone else, ask yourself if it’s true for you. It might not be, but if it is, identifying it can help create peace in that relationship.

5. Choose your battles.

Everyone knows someone who makes everything a fight. If you question them about something, you can expect an argument. If you comment on something they did, you’ll probably get yelled at. Even a compliment could create a confrontation. Some people just like to fight—maybe to channel negativity they’re carrying around about the world or themselves.

On the one hand, you have to tell people when there’s something bothering you. That’s the only way to address problems. On the other hand, you don’t have to let everything bother you. When I’m not sure if I need to bring something up, I ask myself these few questions:

Does this happen often and leave me feeling bad?
Does this really matter in the grand scheme of things?
Can I empathize with their feelings instead of dwelling on my insecurity?
6. Confront compassionately and clearly.

When you attack someone, their natural instinct is to get defensive, which gets you nowhere. You end up having a loud conversation where two people do their best to prove they’re right and the other one is wrong. It’s rarely that black and white. It’s more likely you both have points, but you’re both too stubborn to meet in the middle.

If you approach someone with compassion, you will open their hearts and minds. Show them you understand where they’re coming from, and they’ll be willing to see your side. That gives you a chance to express yourself and your expectations clearly. And when you let people know what you need at the right time in the right way, they’re more likely to give that to you.

7. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable.

There are all kinds of ways you can feel vulnerable in relationships: When you express your feelings for someone else. When you’re honest about yourself or your past. When you admit you made a mistake. We don’t always do these things because we want to maintain a sense of power.

Power allows us a superficial sense of control, whereas true, vulnerable being allows us a sense of authenticity. That’s love: being your true self and allowing someone else to do the same without letting fear and judgment tear it down. It’s like Jimi Hendrix said, “When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.”

8. Think before acting on emotion.

This one is the hardest for me. As soon as I feel hurt, frustrated, or angry, I want to do something with it—which is always a bad idea. I’ve realized my initial emotional reaction does not always reflect how I really feel about something. Initially, I might feel scared or angry, but once I calm down and think things through, I often realize I overreacted.

When you feel a strong emotion, try to sit it for a while. Don’t use it or run from it—just feel it. When you learn to observe your feelings before acting on them, you minimize the negativity you create in two ways: you process, analyze, and deal with feelings before putting them on someone else; and you communicate in a way that inspires them to stay open instead of shutting down.

9. Maintain boundaries.

When people get close, boundaries can get fuzzy. In a relationship without boundaries, you let the other person manipulate you into doing things you don’t want to do. You act out of guilt instead of honoring your needs. You let someone offend you without telling them how you feel about it. The best way to ensure people treat you how you want to be treated is to teach them.

That means you have to love and respect yourself enough to do that: to acknowledge what you need, and speak up. The only way to truly have loving, peaceful relationships is to start with a loving, peaceful relationship with yourself.

10. Enjoy their company more than their approval.

When you desperately need someone’s approval, your relationship becomes all about what they do for you—how often they stroke your ego, how well they bring you up when you feel down, how well they mitigate your negative feelings. This is draining for another person, and it creates an unbalanced relationship.

If you notice yourself dwelling on pleasing someone else or getting their approval, realize you’re creating that need. (Unless you’re in an abusive relationship, in which case I highly recommend getting help.) Instead of focusing on what you can get from that person, focus on enjoying yourselves together. Often times the best thing you can do for yourself and someone else is let go and give yourself permission to smile.

What do you do to create peaceful, loving relationships?

[b]30 DON’TS FOR MEN

1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason. Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3

2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22

3. Don’t ever forget to check the level of peace of your wife. Prov. 27:17

4. Don’t associate with men that lack credibility and generational mindset. Prov. 13:20

5. Don’t ever hurt your wife no matter the level of insults passed on you. Col. 3:19, 1Pet. 2:19-20

6. Don’t ever wave off the ideas, advice or suggestions of your wife because of your selfish interest. Pro. 1:5, Pro. 19:20

7. Never treat your wife as a servant. Eph. 5:29

8. Never make your wife a negative case study before friends and family. Prov. 5:18, Prov. 21:23

9. Never doubt your wife no matter what you know about her past. 1Cor: 13:5.

10. Don’t deny your wife sex. 1Cor: 7:4-5.

11. Don’t be careless about the welfare of your home. 1Tim: 5:8

12. Don’t compare your wife with anyone. 2Cor. 10:12

13. Never cheat on your wife no matter the condition. Prov. 6:32, Prov. 5:20

14. Never cut short the love you showed to your wife, rather, water it, and nurture it for effective continuous growing. Eph. 5:28-29

15. Never disregard the effort of your wife, rather appreciate her more and more. Prov. 31:28b

16. Never discuss the weak points of your wife at public opinion polls. Prov. 5:17

17. Don’t call your wife unpleasant names such as prostitute, witch, fruitless entity, harlot, useless wife, bastard, rather call her blessed, precious, capable, beautiful and virtuous woman. Col. 4:6, Prov. 31:28-29

18. Never place your friends or work above your wife and family.

19. Don’t be self-centered. Eph. 5:28, Phil. 2:3-4

20. Don’t ever cook up plans against your wife because of your lustful desires.

21. Never set up a family without having a family vision. Prov. 29:18, Hab. 2:2-3

22. Never make your wife feel inferior, uneducated before your friends, family, anyone or even you the husband.

23. Never compare your wife’s attitude with your one time girlfriend’s attitude. 2Cor. 10:12

24. Don’t be lazy to cater for your wife and family. 1Tim. 5:8

25. Never make money to be the bond of love in your marriage. 1Tim. 6:10

26. Never allow your parents or family to dictate the affairs of your home, remember, ‘’therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife………’’. Gen. 2:23-24.

27. Don’t ever let your children come between you and your wife. You married your wife not your children, remember they have their life to live and when married and gone, only your wife will still be with you, cook for you, comfort you, refresh your body, soul and spirit in the bedroom. Matt. 19:6

28. Never hide any phone calls, text messages, or password to mailbox from your wife. Transparency is the ultimate key to continuous trust and confidence in marriage. Rom. 12:9-10

29. Never owe your wife anything, always give her the very best; best in love, best care, most precious things and that which belongs to her. Rom. 13:8

30. Never show heart of ungratefulness to God and your precious wife, always and always be ever grateful for their presence in your life. Prov. 31:28b[/b]

Is the form really out?

walcolm:
are you taking a picture of a formula one car about to cross the finish line...it takes less than 2 secs for the camera to focus and you can even force it to focus and lock the focus

Exactly....you garrit!
Thanks boss for your patience

[quote author=henry007 [quote/]use volume up or down key to take quick snapshots
Adupe..

walcolm:
of course all BB10 devices have auto focus and you can also focus them manually.

you have to wait for the white square to turn green before taking your picture

OMG!! Hiw do I take 'on the spot' pictures? So, I have to wait for one damn green square? This is so disheartening. Even my Tecno camera does better

Morning pals, I tot Z30 has auto focus. But I discover that anytime I want to snap with my camera, it blurs and gets steady again. Most time, I have to take like 2-3 shots of a particular pix so as to choose the steady and brighter one. I've upgraded to ....2977

Please, help o!!! What cold be the problem?

Please, when is the form closing? Urgent please!!! Can I still apply?

For examz date and all..... http://unilagadmissionguide.com/2014/10/09/20142015-unilag-postgraduatemasters-pgd-phd-entrance-exam-scheduletime-table/

Check and thank me later

mikeomo11: Pls I need your help seriously everyone. I tried filling my Pg form today but when I tried to upload my passport, it did not show on the form. I then closed it. When I tried to login and continue my application, it did not open again. Pls what should I do?

which browser are you using?? also, resize the pix to fit the required dimension.

sunnyshayne: its interesting to know.

In my entire lineage we dont have a leftie but my son is beginning to show signs that he is going to be one!

have you tot of a DNA? just saying

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The Ekiti State Governor,Mr Kayode Fayemi, has declared a 7pm to 7am curfew in the state after thugs on Friday took to the streets burning houses and looting shops. Friday’s violence followed the killing of a former Ekiti State chairman of the National Union of Road Transport Workers,Omolafe Aderiye, who was killed in his office in Ijigbo area of the state capital,Ado-Ekiti. Reports said Aderiye was shot at close range in his office . He is reported to have died before medical attention could get to him. The former NURTW chairman was believed to be a staunch supporter of the governor-elect,Mr Ayo Fayose and took active part in his campaign coordination.

mxxpunkxx1: Common sense shoulda told you to turn off your data service during they day (since the day bonus has been exhausted).
You can then turn it back on at 9.01 pm (when the main night data resumes working) and turn it back off at 6.00 AM.
Asides that, ur credit would have to do the work for you !

Òdè aburo werey, even at night that's how it goes.
If your ... have that moral laxity to instill into you how to approach people, I'll stand in the gap for them. #dindinrin


Besides, if your data didn't go off before, 6:01am, you can use your phone throughout the day. But once your data goes off, you'll have to wait till 9pm

@waitingforhimtoreply.com

Please, my certificate and transcript are not yet ready. Can I submit those at a later date Even after the submission deadline

MsTIQ: Does that mean that night plan works on the BB10?

IMO...I'll urge you to stay away from the night plan. I'm currently on that plan and I discovered that after the expiration of the 1.5G allocated for the day, MTN started feasting on my account balance. Anytime I load on that sim and my data is on, they will deduct my money to the last penny.

Till, I decided to use another sim for my calls. And the other strictly for Internet.

If the gurus here could find a way around that problem, then you can go ahead.