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I dont understand why people are biting at the poster. But I think he asked a good question. What should a man then do?

Well poster, You can sit down with your woman/wife and have a heart to hear conversation of the things that upset you both. Also let it be known what will and will not be tollerated in the relationship. Thrash out the issue so that it can die there, not take it with you to the next problem or holding any grudge

When will men understand that its not the woman that determines the s/e/x/  of a child?


what the freak, cant even say the word s/e/x/

hmmm so, um poster, you say people are not getting what you are trying to say. Why not explain it a little better?

OK. Sorry but thats a flimsy excuse to say that hes too young he wont recongnise his mother, yeah like he will recongnise you too. But like I said you might have to go through the courts with this one, since you all cant reach an agreement. All the same, try and talk to her and explain to her that you want to be in your sons life as well. But you all need to come to an agreement.

LOL, thats funny

And NO, you can get in serious trouble for kidnapping. DO NOT under and circumstances KIDNAP any kid. Ok? You will be thrown in jail. Also if you want custody of your child, you man need to go through the courts. Where are you located?

Well I need more information. Why dont they want you to have him until hes 7?

Are you leaving her too? I don't understand did you break up with her? You have to understand that there is a kid involved. You need to do whats best for the child.

I just made an observation. I dont care if hes dating her or not. White, black blue whatever as long as there is love involved. Whether she looks like a gorrilla or beyonce doesnt matter. All that matters is that they like/love one another.  I was just getting at the fact that these same men that b.i.t.c.h and complain about overweight black women do go out with white women that look like, well the ones in ebonyeyes pic.

@Ebonyeyes I saw that.

Thats what Im talking about. Saying all kinds of things about a black woman then get a white woman that looks like that. REALLY?? SMH.

the first ones to complain about an overweight black woman. Is the first ones to go out with an elephant sized white woman! Thats what i dont understand.

But in any case race color doesnt matter, as long as the person loves you and treats you right, who cares about race??

both cheat

Why I say men dont know what they want. Got a girl that will stick by you through rough times you ditch her, then turn around and complain when they dont stick by you.

This post is 4 years old. The poster is gone, Stop trying to "help" him.

How can he blame u for not being able to have kids? Lol, some men are funny.

Eww. What is wrong with this world?

You dont need a soothsayer to tell you that you need to leave THAT alone.

OK,  poster you are the one coming on here asking for advice and people that try to help you, you insult. I hope your husband is f.ucking you over, I swear you are so damn daft.

Well poster you dont need anyone to tell u to move on. But as for the business relationship, well you might have to sort it out with lawyers.

But hun, what the hell you doing with a married man? I guess you want some woman reaping where she didnt sew too when you get married.

Why is she not answering the questions and where did she go? I swear some people are silly. They come asking for advice and dont answer the questions that can possibly help them. Then flee. Obviously poster you dont need help!

Concentrate on your studies, make you a better person. Boyfriends are just distractions. You are doing good girl.

Leave the woman alone. You are not good enough for her. I cant believe that you girlfriend of 3 months told you she loved and you ran on nairaland for help Grow up! Relationships are not for kids.

LOL @ Girl846

Yep, thats it.

So wrong,