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Well its his money and she did it to herself. Maybe next time she will keep her mouth shut. And like someone above me. shes ADOPTED.

Just don't say anything. You can hint maybe. Just don't say it out. This man does have a right to know,but it should be the woman telling him, not you. Man, some girls can be so daft. This is a grave issue, all she is doing is cursing her marriage before it starts.

A Home wrecker you call her? I think the lady in question is only trying to help a good friend of the family out. Yes it is not her place to tell, but. The lady(her friend) is a home wrecker herself by not telling the man that she has a child. How dumb can people be? But then again, it is her life.

I agree Adam its very stupid. If she really loved the man as she claims, then she wouldn't keep that kind of secret from him.

Call him, baby, honey, sweeetheart, papi

True, she might be testing your loyalty. But man, that is so wrong. Why is the child a secret? Is she afraid that she will lose him if he finds she has a child somewhere? If that is the case, make her understand that NOT telling him, she will lose him, because they will be married under false pretences.

Not your job sweetie. Yes I agree it is wicked. But everything done in the dark will eventually come to light. She will not go to her grave with that secret. because it is bound to come up. But let it not come up with you. And by the way, where is the child?

Wow are people really this dumb? And I think they are called underwire. Goodness.

Choose the one that you feel you cant live without. What you doing double dating? I hope they know that this is what you are doing and they are allowed to see someone else too.

Good one.

@ Sauron, I am not a witch, why did you call me that?

Sad part is, they use these stories too often, so the ones that did get deflowered by these means, its hard to believe again.

He was. Actually if you keep it on just internet level then its cool. Just don't meet him nowhere.

Understood.

Actually if you want to do it you can , just make sure baby boy don't find out.

Whatever happened to communication And yeah, he should have called the relationship off before proposing to a new girl. And if I was the new girl. I wouldn't marry him, since he leads people on.

Ladoma, please tell me that you are not as heartless as you are sounding on this forum. Please tell me that your wife is getting the treatment that she needs. Or are you enjoying that she is suffering?

By the way the word is disoriented not this- oriented.

OK well, what have they decided?

lol.

Tell me about it. The man is STUCK in the past. Acts like he was the only one on EARTH that has EVER been dumped. Wow.

Good God, how embarrassing to the black race.

Ujujoan, I have to disagree with you on that one. You said some people like to keep things to themselves? Ok, granted, but things like this shouldnt be kept to yourself. Especially when marriage is involved. I honestly wouldnt think I would be able to get past that, for one, the person didnt trust me enough to tell me whats going on. This just isnt something you should hide from your partner. NO justification for that.

And you men are not?

Well why not just date men?

Does she not have parents? Poster, you can contribute a little bit, but you should not be her sole provider. You all are not married. Let her carry her own weight.

She expects no one to judge her, but she come on here with this kind of story? I hope her sister kicks her ass.

Is she even your girlfriend? If so? Why the fkuc cant yall talk on the phone?