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But it just seems like a lot of work, don't you think?

Nothing wrong with taking a life insurance policy. Just that both parties should be in the know.

Hmm, I think that was a tad bit extreme. She didnt have to go that far, she could have done case senarios, asked him questions about what he would do, instead of lying, that seemed like too much work.

Hey Topup where u been? Good advices are running thin.

I think the song BILLS BILLS BILLS means that the man she was going out with was using all of her things then didn't want to pay the bill on anything. Like he would drive HER car, and not put gas in the tank. Sorry, but that would be a pet peev of mine too.

What is done is done, cant cry over spilled milk. Its her life and she is still my mother, what do u want us to say anyway poster? Will it stop her from being your mother? NO.

Looks like a case of karma if you ask me. Hubby left his wife of 3 kids for a youngie, and his current wife has 3 kids for him and she also strays. So, let them handle themselves. You just back out of it. No need to get a headache over demons fighting devils.

LMAO whim.

You are welcome Origi9ija, but please, force her to tell an adult. Or you tell one. Like I stated before, the pregnancy is only growing.

Exactly ayosomethin, I wouldnt buy them designer clothes, but nice clothes. I dont see a reason to buy designer clothes when they grow fast and grow out of them, to me its a waste of money. Its like buying them a bunch of toys that will only end up in the closet or broken.

Ruby is right. Either way, she will suffer major pyscological trauma. She is just 14. She is infact still a baby.

Yes, I definately would want him to be there.

As much as I despise abortion other than for clinical reasons, I do not think she should have this child. And also terminating it would also have to depend on how far along she is. Hence, complications could be worse. Now, also do not let any one from here influence your decision to abort or not to abort. The only one that can make this decision is the one wearing the shoes. I haven't been in this situation. But you really need to advice you friend and tell her that you will be there for her no matter what. But please tell a matured adult. Because no one should go through this alone. She is only 14 she will need all the help she can get. So weigh you options. She might end up having more support from the one person she does not want to tell. Her mother. So please whatever you do, make a swift decision, time is on the line here. The pregnancy will only grow with each passing day, so the quicker you make a decision to do something about it the better.

Lol. Texas

You a cowboy now?

Hey Texas!!! long time!

I guess the poster means that they are not meant to be.

huh?