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Tell us, what is COMFUSE? you comfused me!

Good one. That's true, it should not be a problem. If they really like each other why not try for the relationship, see where it ends up, they don't have anything to loose.

Save all that handling for the bedroom, however, kissing and hugging infront of the kids are ok. Remember kids pick up on whatever their parents do.

Why not?

So are you all still going out?

So true.

Are you going to give her the recharge card or not?

HMMM nah, you on your own brother. You deserve anything you get.

Leyla i said it before. Concentrate on what is best for you and your baby. You do not need to miscarry your baby over the amount of stress that this boy is putting you trough. He is obviously insensitive and disrespectful. I do say when the fire is out and the smoke starts to clear, that you try and go for counseling, you and your husband. Even if it cannot work out for you. You must come together for the child. Even if you all are divorcing.

Thats right guys. It always works.

Yeah it makes sense. But truth is, all you can do is do is do your best. And thats it. If he strays, then that would be all he is, a fool. You get me? All you can do is your best.

You never gave us the full conversation, so how could we say she was being temperamental? You probably were being annoying, buzzing too much or like she said, not making sense. CIAO.

I believe one should marry whoever they want. Whether rich or poor, it's all a transitory state anyway.

Yes history, and some of these mccainers were booing Obama last night! I was like, are you serious? Freaking rednecks.

Barrack Obama is president we are living in history folks!

OK FREAKKY! Just because you wouldn't marry a girl with no womb does not mean I wont marry a man that can't give me children. Marriage is not about children. Last time I checked this was a forum and that I was entitled to my own opinion. And if you don't agree fine, that's your cake. But I spoke my peace and meant what I said. I do not have to please you.

I would, marriage is not all about children. We could always adopt.

No sweety, you are doing just fine, if it helps you can move out of the house, maybe to a friends house or relatives. Just to let him know that you mean business and you have had enough of his crap. No woman should have to go through this. Honey I wish you and your baby the best and keep God first. Forget that boy you call a husband and focus on your child.

This is the worst I have seen. Please edit your post, it makes no sense at all.

huh?

I don't think its a fake story, his english is just not all that great. Man, leave her alone, you all obviously didn't have a great relationship so let the past be the past.

He would need to have a very good reason for that. I couldn't do though, I cant sit at home all day being "housewifey." not contributing, doesn't click well with me.

Kite Runner, good book.

Tell him girl.

Interesting how the man wont stay with a cheating wife but expects the wife to stay with a cheating lying no good man.

What was not sensible and realistic about what he posted?

Poster, You need to have a serious talk to her about what the relationship means to her. She should have trusted you enough to keep the pregnancy. Obviously she does not trust you nor does she trust the relationship. She also didnt even consider you or tell you until later that she had an abortion because she was shy? I would really think twice about her. She does not seem very stable in her reasoning. And if you are considering marrying her, then really have a talk with her about what you both expect in your relationship and if the both of you love each other in the same way.

Exactly.

Its not a problem she is looking on the internet, but why is she only looking on the internet? Is she shy with guys?