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Ok, if you find she is bleeding, please take her to the ER, as it is normal to spot during pregnancy, you should not be bleeding heavily. Please get her to the doctors fast. I know first hand, I did have a miscarriage at 7 weeks, and I was bleeding and cramping really bad. Also i passed tissue. Did she pass any tissue? If so, she needs to take the tissue to the ER, and get lab results. ASAP!! this is important. Also make sure the doc checks her blood too, make sure her blood is not HR- which can be a factor in a miscarriage. I really do wish you all well, and i also hope she does not loose the baby, it is a very traumatic experience. If you and your wife need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to talk to me. sweetipye0593@yahoo.com, you can send me a mail.
God bless you and your wife and may he watch over all 3 of you.

Lol. Thiona, let him dream, it might be his only chance at a real g/f. lol jk

Well, I am American and all, and I dont think that was a very respectful way to greet someones mother. I mean, I cant imagine texting my fiances father and say "Hey dear I miss you hope you are feeling better". It seems somewhat suggestive. Rather than text, I would call. Also I would never say "hey dear." It seems really weird. So Iceland, it has nothing to do with culture or people being stupid. Its just being respectful, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Nah, because you cant teach him everything you know.

It really does Uzoo, thank you so much. I do feel better now, and have accepted the fact that it was not time. And who knows, when it is time, circumstances will be far better. Again, thank you all very much for your advice.

2 years older.

Whomever is fed up with the relationship.

Tell her that she has to teach him how to kiss the way that she likes.

abasifo:
Is it normal to throw up every time you get your period?
Every month whenshe get my period she throw up.[/b]she can't take meds because they will just come back up. [b]she can't eat anything so all she throw up is yellow bile. Sometimes it goes on all day & other times it goes on for a few hours but no doubt it happens every month Is there anything she could do to stop this?she get dehydrated, the chills (shakes), fever & cramps that are unbearable.

OMG! take her to the hospital. NO, thats not normal at all. At least I never heard of it. Any docs in the house?

Thanks Queen and to everyone that contribute, thank you. I do feel better.

Thank you all so much for your advice, Queen, Karma, all of you guys God bless. I do plan on getting married to him and getting more settled before trying again. This pregnancy was not planned, but as soon as I found out and the anxiety was over, I started getting attached, and that is why i feel a great loss. Thank you all so much for encouraging me. I am in the USA, and I didn't know they actually had counseling for that. So thanks for that advice too,
Love you all.

Ruby, I honestly do feel that withdraw from babies. And sometimes I get a little jealous of other women who is having or has had a successful pregnancy. Is that normal?

Alright already. The location has nothing to do with the kind of person I am. Was just being stupid when I did that. I'm in a very serious relationship, hence my fiance. And this is my first pregnancy. Queen, I took offence, b/c you were just bad mouthing and being insultive instead of answering the question that I asked. So lets focus on the question that I asked and less on the location. I'm sorry I cursed you out, my apologies, was feeling a little overwhelmed and your post didn't help much. If you are indeed an expert Queen, then I think you should know how to talk to people professionally without putting your personal views in it. Whether I am a fornicator or not does not have to do wit the topic at hand. But thank you all for your replies anyway.
Cheers.

thanks Daviddylan*
Um, homegirl. I don't come around disrespecting you, so please do not disrespect me. If you don't have anything positive to say, then shut the hell up. And by the way, my quote on my profile has nothing to do with my personality. But since you are so holy and without sin, go fk yourself. I need sincere, and respectful advice, this is a hard time for me because my fiance and I sincerely wanted this baby.
Thank you.

My 7 week pregnancy ended in miscarriage. I know the docs say that it wasn't my fault and there was nothing to do to stop it. I just cant help but to feel bad. I was attached to it. Well anyone know anything that will help me get over the loss?

Not only old people coughs, everyone coughs at one point or another, so whats with your question?

I guess you didn't understand my post, lawry. Read it again then come back and comment. i was referring to why would a man do something like that to his daughter, when he is supposed to protect her and be there for her. Now, I just was confused by your topic lawry. Why should a man. Why not asking it a different way, like What on earth possessed a man to sleep with his daughter. Then my friend you would get more replies. Now, I do know that this happens, sir and not just in Lagos but everywhere. I don't need to read the newspapers to know whats going on, but i do. I also listen to the news and do global research myself. So. instead of attacking me, why not re read what I said, then reply again.
Cheers.

Listen kaaz, you said, you will break your relationship if she does it again. What you need to understand is that is not just any old relationship, you all are married. It is high time that you start to wear the pants and reclaim your home. This is your WIFE, not your girlfriend. I believe that you had many good advices on what to do on this forum. Its time that you put your foot down, because you are right, she will continue the relationship because she does not believe that you are serious about what you are saying. She is pushing your buttons, when are you going to react? I hate to say this, but if she wants to act like a child, then treat her like one, monitor her like a baby. Sooner or later she is either going to stop what she is doing, or leave. But what you need to do, is to sit her down and have her explain everything to you, that is going on between her and this man. I take it that you do not know him, know him! This is your wife, not a girlfirend. She cant be all secretive like that and expect you to believe her. And i for one say that her behavior is completely unacceptable. But you kaaz have to see it as unacceptable too, or else she will continue.
Good luck.

I don't understand your problem Tranquil, if you really believe that what you are doing is right (deceiving him) then go ahead, because it looks as if you made up your mind on what you want to do. You are a grown woman, and you can also take the consequences as a grown woman.
Good luck to you.

Its not a figment of anyones imagination, nor is it an excuse to say that the white are oppressing blacks. Bust as you can see, its not as out right at people would like to think. These are just facts. This is only "white privilege" in the political sense, but in many other ways, "white privilege" is very common.

I completely agree, this is great. Might want to share this in the politics section dear.

Exactly Ula.

Obama for president 2008!