Politics › Re: Nigerians Ranked 8th Most Hardworking Foreigners In US by akinszz: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
chiagozien: Simple Say igbo ranked 8th most hardworking foreigners in us.
We know afonjas are lazy that is why when ever they hear about been on their own as a country they will begin cry one niger area.
We all know aboki no dey travel,waitin he dey travel do when baba dey wey go dey give an free food.
Nb:carrying drugs is better than skull mining and bombing people. oni k'eje... ode... |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Her Cheating Boyfriend By Giving Him 'Goodbye Sex' by akinszz: 12:34pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Top Foods That Improve Your Sex Life (Photos) by akinszz: 7:41am On Aug 23, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Masked Van Vicker Poses With His Children by akinszz: 7:10am On Aug 23, 2018 |
adeolu21: I smell jealousy with that ur rotten nose abi.... Okugbé.. |
Celebrities › Re: Masked Van Vicker Poses With His Children by akinszz: 6:44pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
Iranu
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Romance › Re: The Backside Of A Runs Girl A Man Slept With Without Condom (Photos) by akinszz: 6:19pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
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Fashion › Re: Amazing Makeup Transformation Photos Of Women by akinszz: 11:00am On Aug 22, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: My Wife’s Attitude Changed After Working For A Few Months by akinszz: 12:31pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
No need to click the link.....
Continue.......
To be honest,that was the beginning of our problems. She had tasted work life and to her,it means her freedom. She wanted to be seen as a career woman. She wanted to dress up and be showing off to her friends that she is a working woman. To me,I don’t have a problem with that. My only issue was that,she became too desperate. She even hired a nanny,a cook and maid to look after our children and home.
She stopped doing her duties and left everything to the hired helps. Fine,I can afford these helps but I need my wife to prepare my meal not a hired cook. This time,she has not even found the job yet. I was angry that she was too consumed with finding a job than taking care of our home but she saw it as woman’s emancipation to work. Out of desperation,she took a marketing job that made her start coming home very late.
I did not like it one bit and we were arguing everyday. She felt I wanted to make her a permanent house wife. Why she believed that,I don’t know. she will say that she did not go to law school to end up being a house wife. The same law school that I paid for. Anyway, I left her but I was sad. I was angry and I began to dislike her for her attitude. She became rude to me. Always pushing me. One day I almost beat her out of anger. That made me decide to punish her.
I went out and got a woman to sleep with. I made sure that my knew I was cheating. Cos,I left all the evidence everywhere for her to see. I left condom everywhere. I slept out for several days. she became upset and started calling me names. I told her she caused it. Since she has stooped being a wife to me,I decided to go out and find comfort for myself. I did that to make her have a rethink. I thought this will make her change and try to save her marriage.
But alas,I came home one day and found out that she has moved out. She went with my children. She packed her things and the children’s things. That was in February. I reached out to her parents and mine. They all have been trying to talk to her but she has refused to listen to them. She said she wants a divorce. I tried to beg her and explain that she pushed me to cheat but she claims she will never forgive me.
Maybe I went too far but I thought the only way to get her attention was to cheat. She was behaving so strange. Coming home as late as 11pm. Dressing in s*xy clothes. Always having meetings. The children were totally left to the hired helps. This affected their performance in school. I was feeling disrespected everyday. She wouldn’t listen. She fought me and said I was against her progress.
Now,I have been trying to beg her but she refused. What do I do? I love her and I don’t want to divorce. How do I make her change her mind? Or do I move forward with my life since she does not want to come back? I am giving myself till the end of this year before I take any decision. I will appreciate your advice.
From Kalu O |
Politics › Re: PHOTOS: Buhari Slaughters His Sallah Rams by akinszz: 12:09pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Mai dumbu the ram  |
Car Talk › Re: Would You Buy A Modern BMW-type "Front-Opening Door" Bubble Car For N4.9M? by akinszz: 12:04pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Lailai... No safety measures. |
Politics › Re: Sallah: Yobe Government Places 12-Hour Ban On Vehicular Movements by akinszz: 11:54am On Aug 21, 2018 |
Bakrabas: America is believed to be a fore runner in terms of the most powerful nation. Every country that believe in orthodox spirit or philosophy are looking up to the U. S of A.
Security is one of the top most secret that America can never joke with.
There's a common saying among the FBI "we can break the law to protect the nation"
If the governor of that state breaks the law to protects its subject, there is no cause for alarm.
One of the constraints facing the fundamental human rights are curfew, house arrest, custom and tradition, and the one that the governor in that state did. But the governor is justified "for security reasons and safety" does that make it right... |
Politics › Re: Sallah: Yobe Government Places 12-Hour Ban On Vehicular Movements by akinszz: 11:51am On Aug 21, 2018 |
mfm04622: Which make sense, give up your freedom (not to move ooo, but not to move with vehicle) for just 12 hours and everybody is safe or don't make such rule and you hear that Boko Haram used car bomb in Eid ground killing hundreds?
If you are the leader, which will you chose? bla bla bla bla sentiments.... what are the security forces are meant for? Do u think of those that will have to work and earn per day before they can put food on their table . Don't they have right to do so... |
Politics › Re: Sallah: Yobe Government Places 12-Hour Ban On Vehicular Movements by akinszz: 11:31am On Aug 21, 2018 |
mfm04622: So you think the security is meant for Muslims only? because of security people should not go about their business freely |
Romance › Re: Guys, Be Honest by akinszz: 11:23am On Aug 21, 2018 |
93Miles: What is morning erection? I have never experienced morning erection or wet dream before.
I get erection only when I think about sex.
I don't even get erection while urinating. u have never experience it before? If yes you need to check ursef |
Politics › Re: Sallah: Yobe Government Places 12-Hour Ban On Vehicular Movements by akinszz: 11:15am On Aug 21, 2018 |
This is wrong... How about those that not Muslim don't they have right to move freely... This country is a mess... |
Events › Re: Pick Your Date Of Birth And Connect With Your Birth Mate by akinszz: 11:12am On Aug 21, 2018 |
ftosino: na only me dy born Sept 2 u be Virgo.. Attach ursef with Virgo mate now |
Events › Re: Pick Your Date Of Birth And Connect With Your Birth Mate by akinszz: 11:10am On Aug 21, 2018 |
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Events › Re: Pick Your Date Of Birth And Connect With Your Birth Mate by akinszz: 10:48am On Aug 21, 2018 |
24th September |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele - “My Wife Begged Ajimobi For 5 Hours.. I Don’t Know My Offence” by akinszz: 10:21am On Aug 21, 2018 |
BuhariM: Ajimobi is a curse to oyo state what do you expect from a Muslim and a terrorist for that matter  |
Romance › Re: Please, How Can You Identify A Runs Girl? by akinszz: 9:30am On Aug 21, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe's Beautiful Dining Room (Photos) by akinszz: 7:08pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Osho business na real money making business  |
Romance › Re: I Don't Believe I Can Find Love Again, Take A Look At How It All Started (shot) by akinszz: 6:38pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
EzendiEgo1: and you don't bother to check who she is?
Very bad to call someone Hypocrite, that's Banky W wife Adesua Etomi.
I used her on my wallpaper because am her fan and I love her way. hope your Vaseline never finish  |
Romance › Re: A Lady Reveals The Things They Have Done For The D*ck & Most Of Them Are Crazy by akinszz: 6:02pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mimi Orjiekwe Flaunts Her Purchases After She Went Shopping In Dubai by akinszz: 5:36pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Olosho business too sweet  |
Romance › Re: Twin Break The Internet As They Goes Totally Nude To Celebrate Their Birthday (p by akinszz: 1:21pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
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Science/Technology › Re: Massive, Long Python Killed In Enugu; See What The Youth Are Doing With It by akinszz: 12:35pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
See him big yiibo head  |
Family › Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by akinszz: 5:46pm On Aug 19, 2018*. Modified: 8:37pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
mysaviouralive: Hello Admin pls move this to the front page and I will be in the comment section reading.
Pls I want to take a boldness step and I will not mind where it can lead to. I have to open an account now to post this. My wife is also a guest of nairaland and she will be seeing this post.
It happen that I got married to my wife over Nine yrs ago and we only have a Kid. I was working in a big company then before the new management came in and change the policy of the company and I was laid off. I was idle like 3yrs before I got another job. she is working in one of the biggest bank in Nigeria. Like 5yrs ago I noticed she will be smiling whenever she is chatting with one of her male colleague. I ask what are they normally discussing, but she told me that it was their office issue that they are discussing. I know the guy and his family and the guy has came to my house not more than four times.
It happen one day that I demanded to give her phone to browse because I was having problem with my phone. she gave me the phone around 10:30pm and I noticed she has has cleared all their chat. This make it look suspicious and I asked her immediately that why did you deleted the chat, but she told me it was a mistake. I think over it for sometime because I trust her then, but on the other hand my mind was telling me to find out more. As an IT expert I connected her phone to my system and do some forensic research on the phone, alas what I discovered was bad. My wife and the guy have been having an affair and chatting and sending their nude to themselves. I called her immediately and demanded to explain the pixture but she denial it and was telling me another story that she snap the pixture and to show me how she was Hot so that we can have sex that night.
she said I should show her where I got the nude pixs and before she came back from the office she has wipe all the pixs that I showed her thinking that I cannot recovered it anymore and I asked her why should you do that but was just begging me. I recovered all the pixs back and the chat she believe she has deleted and I have more proof that she has been cheating on me.
So I asked her to tell me the truth what is going on with the guy and her but she was just begging me. But I told him I dont want her to do or have anything with the guy again that if I catch her again she will not like what I will do for her, with the hope that she will change. Recently I noticed she stil chatting with the guy again and I rake on her to stop it but she told me that she was just explaining office issue she has when he (the guy) not around because she is the one that relief him on work.
This week they are still chatting late in the nite cos I always seen the chat, though she will delete it as soon as they chat finish but I always have the chat and also today they have chat alot to the extend that my wife was crying when she expecting good reply from the guy but the guy fail him and I noticed she has intimate with the guy rather than me her husband.
My wife can lie and so Promiscuous. I have called her severally to change but she did not, recently I heard she was talking with one of her online friend from Abuja when the guy told her he will be coming to visit her this coming week, and I expect my wife to tell me but uptill now she has not saying anything on it. This make me not to have much trust in her again because if she tell me something I will still think over it like five times again before I accepted.
So my plan now is to call the wife of her colleague and explain everything to the wife and I also planing of arresting her colleague because I still have the proof and dont mind what can come out of this, because I tired and cant continue like this anymore, ever since I have caught her I did not enjoy my home anylonger and I tried to erase it from my memory but not get it wright.
Pls save me and save my marriage if possible.
Thank you. eye 4 an eye... You too do the same to guy's wife so that 4 can be divided by 2. |
Car Talk › Re: Man Crashed A 3-wheeled Car With A Gyrocopter While Trying To Make It Fly by akinszz: 5:05pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
alabo1: Wrong. The Alpha Jet lacks the radar range and counter measures of a K-52. The K-52 will detect the Alpha Jet first and take it out before the Jet even knows of its presence. Even at high altitudes of say 20,000 feet the K-52 is superior to the Alpha. do not underestimate alpha jet because it's made for training... I bet alpha jet with right air to air weapon will down that ur alligator pepper  . Do not compare speed of an alpha jet to that of alligator  |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefeles Fresh FM Is Currently Being Demolished by akinszz: 8:31am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Ha! 800million property  |
Romance › Re: Please, How Can You Identify A Runs Girl? by akinszz: 8:22am On Aug 19, 2018 |
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Car Talk › Re: Man Crashed A 3-wheeled Car With A Gyrocopter While Trying To Make It Fly by akinszz: 8:19am On Aug 19, 2018 |
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