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IamD18:
Who's the bitch? Someone's wife?

Are you MAD? What right has he to even send her on an errand in the first place? Is he her boss at work, husband, father or elder brother?

Are you FOOLISH? Why will he even visit and stay with her when the husband isn't around? I'm asking you!

Are you that DUMB? Don't you know what it means to set boundaries and mode in which you should relate to a married friend?

According to OP, she politely suggested another alternative but he turned it down, proving he had something in mind.

And here you are, typing about bitches!

Should I blame your father for this statement you made on someone's wife or should I blame your dusty brain?

It's so pitiful and shocking that after all the promises you made to your parents to be responsible, reasonable and sensible, you ended up as a shallow minded BOY who is ready to suck the scrotum balls of his friends than to protect his wife in cases like this.

C'mon! Will you take your pathetic self out of here!

Nonsense and turninoninown!

Why are you so unfortunate and ridiculously stupid? What has the guy done to deserve thjese insults from u.n Guys like you are the real example of sissy guys that have no life of theri own other than waht pussy dictate for them. Idiot

lilianofentse:
hello

Can I DM You?

ubunja:
it's been over a month since I last posted.

I think we are long overdue for a Miseducation or two
I'm thinking Monday or Tuesday I can post. These are the 3 posts I will tripple post: How Girls Pass The Gold Digger Test. , THE SCIENCE OF SHlT TESTING and A Woman's Long Game

The Shît Testing post will be a a very long one in a format I have not used before

Please help, and make it tomorrow. Monday is too long. I'm just scrolling through your Nairaland profile as if my life depends on it

austyn0:
Lol.. I hope Buhari reads positivity in this comment and improve if at all he sees it.

Harddon must be a great guy.

Buhari? Anyone comparing bubu with harddon is doing a great disservice to this nation and should be of course incarcerated.

sinaj:
how is he the best

I like your breast.Enough to rest my head on and forget all my sorrows.

lilianofentse:
Improvement.

Hi

austyn0:
Hahah! Ubunja seems to have gathered quite a huge number of disciples on this forum and probably the real world with just teaching men not to take shiit from women but rather give them shiit.

The same way harddon gathered through selfless service to humanity. harddon has done great service on this forum than what Buhari has done in 4 yrs. YOu dont have to argue

ednut1:
life and nature is ruthless. Do away with emotions doesn't help u in any way

I wish I can, But it's not that easy. Any book to read? Not necessarily one that can help in this regards, but one that can boost my courage and motivations

IamD18:
You have been fornicating with her for long, all of a sudden, you started laying blames on your "Fellowship" for your inability to satisfy her sexually.

I don't understand! Is it that your fellowship use to steal your sexual libido or that your fellowship use to sing "No do No do! No do, the do ooo!" Whenever you want to sleep with her.

I don't get the reason you are blaming your innocent fellowship for something wey e didn't did.

English keeee you dia

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

There's no way she will dump you for another guy if you're goodlooking. Girls like handsome guys

XhosaNostra:
Good morning

Hope you slept well dear

ednut1:
Emotional people are weak people to me.

In fact, Emotion has done me more harm than good my brother. I couldn't withstand seeing my ex holding hands with another guy out, I started calling and begging her,not knowing she's only manipulating my conscious emotional switch. Thats one of my weaknesses.

XhosaNostra:
You'll have to be psychologically messed up to achieve that.

However, as a normal person, you can choose to monitor your emotional reactions. It's impossible imo, to have a complete emotional shutdown.

Good Morning dear

ubunja:
Emotions can be shut down. There is no switch but it's a process

Ubunja my man, I've really missed your post. Hope is not because of these E-idiots you stopped posting relevant knowledge for us? Dont mind them hypocrites. Thy're just pained

Topmaike007:
No one nose tommorow

some people have eye tomorrow, but they ain't telling

IMAliyu:
The western world seems to be suffering from this and I've seen people trying to import this stuff into Nigeria.

I think Africans, not the white, are the biggest administrator of this trait. Most turn to woman wrapper because of pussy. sissi nigga all around

IMAliyu:
The western world seems to be suffering from this and I've seen people trying to import this stuff into Nigeria.

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obonujoker:
Lolssss....
Serves the woman rig.ht... Nobody has monopoly of secrets and wickedness

You lack common sense. cant a woman cheat with handsome young guy again?

XhosaNostra:

See teeth. she yaff suck dick tire

XhosaNostra:
You wanna replace him & keep me bizay?

Is it something you desperately want?

If so, yea, I can help you

Ugly boyslike us no get any date for camp. Girls dey avoid like plague. Even if yu hi them, they wont answer. One even told me the reason she dont answer my greetings is because she cant allow her friends to see she dey roll with me

XhosaNostra:
Haaaaaa!

Your mouth fit tear. Close am

XhosaNostra:
Girl, my head is still reeling upon hearing what happened to Wendy Williams. You know who she is, right?
Well anyway, her husband of over 20 years has been seeing someone on the side for 10 years & the mistress just had a baby a couple of days ago.
They say Wendy hired a private investigator some time last year because she was suspicious. She found out that her husband bought this other chic a house not too far from their own home. She started drinking & ended up in rehab. During one of her husband's visits at the sober house, guess who was waiting inside the car? The other woman of course. The man has the audacity not only to move his side piece into his neighborhood, taking her with him to visit his wife, but apparently, she even comes along on family vacations & the wife knew nothing about it.
That's the type you smother in their sleep!

Your post is too long. Are you married? seems you dont have time for ur husband

HerCuteness:
some men Are shameless

Shut up. A handsome man has the liberty to do what ugly guys cant do. A handsome man can cheat, its not a sin

Argue and perish

olas24u:
Even pilots that just came back ,nobody wants to give them their first opportunity , some doctors also are unemployed.

The only place where there is vacancy right now is primary school teacher and 7K monthly salary

XhosaNostra:
Why are you constantly obsessing about my love life? You wanna replace whoever is warming up my bed every night?

No baaby, I think you're saying whats on ur mind. Your likeness for bad bois has make you grow fond of me here on nairaland, that you wont a call from me and include you among one of those warming my bed. But you are not getting that, You stillyoung and idont want to be accused of peadophile

XhosaNostra:
Why should I quit NL if I'm Mr Segun? NL should be home automatically based on my Afonja heritage

I pity the guy that'll marry you. the guy should just marry you for sex if you're pretty and of course get another side chick that has sense and can provide him with advises that will grow and nourish his soul. You're a lost cause. Don't quote me

Regards

olas24u:
It is also good but we don't use them for nation building,China for example has PhD students in every developed country,and the PhD student had be mandated to send any new innovation to a particular department of government and they must produce a prototype within 24hrs and continue further research .Any again you are very important to the Chinese government if you have received education from Russia,u.s,uk,infact they want you to work in a government department.Here go to NNPC headquarters and see the dress code and language they speak.

Lols. Most of the scholars sent abroad by FG ends their studies and come back to Nigeria to join the teeming unemployed youths.

gisthabit:
https://gisthabit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/naira-640x462.jpg

On this day the 28th day of March 2019, the President and Commander in Chief signed the long-awaited new minimum wage bill into law. This automatically increases the national minimum wage from 18,000 Naira to 30,000 Naira.

Why it is good to celebrate, is it also important for you especially the direct beneficiaries of the new wage not to be carried away by the euphoria of the moment.

The new development calls for a new spending formula especially on the part of the salary earner.

In this article, I want to educate my readers on the implication of the new law, the opportunities within and necessary steps that are required of them.

How best to utilize the new minimum wage and its opportunities

#1. Decide to save the added income

As difficult as it might seem especially in the beginning, deciding to save the added amount of money I can assure you will turn out to be the most rewarding decision that you have ever taken in the nearest future.

Strive as much as possible no to increase your needs because of the increase in your purchasing power. Condition your mind to stick to the previous minimum wage of 18,000 and limit your spending to that.

#2. Learn to say NO

Yes, if you must reap the benefits that come with the increment of pay, then you must learn to say “no” at times. It will interest you to know that all your family and friends are fully aware of the pay increase.

This by implication means that they will also increase their individual demands and requests.

If you don’t learn to say no to some of their demands, then you will realise that you might even run into deficit while trying to solve their problems even without solving your own immediate needs.

#3 Invest in something meaningful

Investing the extra cash into something worthwhile is also not a bad idea. It could be on your education or that of your spouse or children.

You can choose to invest the extra cash on a building project or even channelled towards raising capital for a business of your dream.

For some, this might sound like a mirage but I can assure that little drops of water form a mighty ocean.

To summarize, you must be familiar with the saying that nothing good comes easy. The process of achieving your dream might require a painstaking and a persistent effort coupled with some radiance of good fortunes.

I leave you with this; nothing is impossible, it can only be difficult.

Source:https://gisthabit.com/how-best-to-utilize-the-new-minimum-wage/

No job in Nigeria. Argue this and go to jail

olas24u:
Yea,nigerians started going to kenya,tanzania,india,ghana,morrocco,gambia,benin republic because of the funny system we have created here.a student in a part of nigeria gains admissions with low marks,while in other zones people find it difficult.Fees add to the GDP of united kingdom,students pay rent,transport and feed ,attend hospitals, etc.These money could have been spent somewhere in Nigeria.

In fact, government sponsors academically bright Nigerians to UK Schools every years for masters, from the oil money just to fulfill all righteousness. That money could be use to improve our Universities and have other nationals come to Nigeria for studies too.

TrueNigerian300:
You are quick to point out robbery and the rest. What about sciences and engineering where men leads as well??

I don't have problem with anyone praising women after all my mother is best thing that has ever happened to me and my greatest gift. But my point is compliments should not be one sided and we should not try to paint a picture of women vs men. All I see here is people always just want to sound political correct to appease women or somethings.

When are you gonna write about what men have done?

The 21st century has worshiped women too much. That's why they keep throwing shit at men, and if you retaliate they call you different names that are not yours. They say you're intolerant