₦airaland Forum

God forgive me, I now feel disgusted when I see these beggars because they are part reason we are in this mess of a country.

Although I don't fail to give to the crippled beggars sweeping the bridges anytime I pass one.

Haters every where. Sanctimonious sensible human beings.

Never knew we had losts of enlighten folks here.....shoir

The girl is busy with her life....you ppl can keep hating and keep watching her videos. Audio saints

Op did you see Buhari Estate too? I went to the slave museum today couldn't count the number of abandoned projects on that road.

tobstarizhia:
Blood Oath? sorry, but is this 19th century Nri Kingdom?

She doesn't believe in tradition but blood oath.

23 and so desperate? Red flags

TroubleMaker47:
Self employed woman that gets payed lying on her back! Well done ma

I guess that's what all the women in your linage do for a living...wow...congrats

TroubleMaker47:
Troublemaker go always get sense pass side chic!

Jobless

TroubleMaker47:
Lol. Monicker says it all.
Nothing upstairs. Bye!

Your woman obviously has nothing upstairs, because just as the breast milk from mothers they say affects the child, so as the breast milk and cum you have been swallowing.

Just admit what you said was pointless. Who even mentions a trouble maker na me find trouble no vex

teemy:
I concur to your thoughts. The BH ranks has been swelled by kidnapped kids and such. They use the women as war brides and the younglings as more soldiers.

For the first time since this issue has been brought up, I am just reading that those planned for amnesty fall into that group.

If we adopt a mindset of 'kill them all', this war ain't ending soon. If there is a way of giving soft landings to non orients or kidnapped members of the group, cases of combatants dropping their weapons and reporting themselves to the next military post will abound. That then will give info for the layout of their bases and give the soldiers an better plan of attack.

If on the other hand they know they are on the death list, this will never happen as they be forced to fight till they drop dead. BH on the other hand will keep 'recritung' either by indoctrination or kidnapping like the attack on chibok which happened a few days ago.

The onus on the government now is

- how to prove to the public that these ones will no later return to being menaces

- give succor to the families of those who lost their lives (soldiers and civilians) that this is a right step to ensure the sacrifices of the dead would not be a waste as this step would end the war fast.

- show true determination in taking care of the displaced

- work on how radicalism would no more take hold of the hearts of youths in the north and effectively transition the almajiry system

- improve the economy in the north as a hood work place

- obey the rule of law (the death of Yusuf caused all this wahala)

Wisdom is needed here and the govt should not just feel people will readily accept the offer. People are hurt and the government already made a move that speaks insensitivity. They should have approached stakeholders with an explanation ahead of making such a move.

I hope the best is done to put all this into our history books VERY soon.

Gej was busy doing all you mentioned above when they were busy throwing bomb to destabilize the economy.

Buhari should just find a means to pay his workers (bokoharam) and not turn this into a national business.

TroubleMaker47:
The truth is, Amnesty either for ND militants or Boko haram should never have been!
There is absolutely no justification for forgiving criminals and paying them or catering for there welfare regardless of the cause they claim to be fighting for!
Late Umaru Yar Ardua set a bad precedent by granting amnesty to terrorists with the name MEND. Today BH are asking for the same.
Afterall they are both intricately intertwined
They both fought for a cause!
They both threatened the goverment!
They both employed violence
They both caused the goverment loss of lives and properties!
So yes WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GEESE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER!
AMNESTY SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN, BUT HERE WE ARE!!!

Trash

Davash222:
A country fighting Terrorism woke up morning and decides to give amnesty to the same Terrorists they claimed they’re fighting. How can a sane country negotiate with Terrorists?

What is boko haram fighting for? Niger deltans are fighting for misuse of their land and resources.

This is a clear case of sabotage. Our so called leaders send terrorist to destabilize our economy promising to use money from same economy as payment for job well done. What a shame.l!

marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.

Aren't you getting old?....your kid could have been an adult you know. Well if you are not a priest, go get a wife mbok

TheGiftedOne:
Orisirisi something. So the snakes are supposed to be in a mansion on a 12ft X 12ft mattress under one of the finest duvet, served a hot cup of coffee with the heater running while watching cable TV.

Just how many miles apart I, Lalasticlala, NL and Nigerians are apart in matters like these is what I can't fathom.

Little wonder cats and dogs could even inherit a fortune over there. Odiegwu!

I read patiently to get to that part of fetish or dangerous.....so disappointed These ones will choose snakes over humans.

We really need to hear lalastica's take on this matter since we all know he loves snakes.....In all honesty, would he care this much for snakes or eat them with love??

Too much conspiracies lately, sadly the dead can't talk nor defend itself Nawa o ...is it not the same NBC that BuBu just fired or suspended its director?

May God grant us discerning spirit and intuition to know a relationship won't work before involving kids.


Happy Birthday sweetheart but your parents are...........2 idiots

What a decent man. None of them will be guilty of adultery thanks to him.

This boy get big eye o..

Is that why they have been wailing Northerners are very selfish I never see.

Dictator!!! The last was CJN now NBC all his interested in is suppressing the voice of the ppl.

He obviously wants to put his man there so he can stop any anti buhari talks from coming on air. Shame less man.

Corruption charge that holds no water. Turning a blind eye to Ganduje, Tinubu, Amaechi, Oshomole and other clearly corrupt/ treasonable official that even the blind can see.

My prayer for ppl that voted this man is that them and their families will be negatively and directly affected by his administration one way or the other. They should live to regret their actions. Amen.

Jonathan saw blood thirsty people and knew the fight was not worth people's blood.

The leaders of APC will stop at nothing to retain power.

APC~ thugs thieves and touts

Dansuqi:
I saw it coming.you cannot fight the majority and succeed.he is not wanted.

Difference between APC and PDP thugs. Peaceful/Evil

Toke for the singles. She never disappoints

They both grew fat together.

Idiots

This is a national problem. Genuine excuse to embezzle funds

Foodqueen:
And you were writing as if you are single and ready to mingle.

Yanga de sleep, trouble go wake am

Don't mind the shameless married man. I pray he gets caught soon.

Munzy14:
Oga use style to let her know u can't run it alone, so she can pick where she wants to come in.

don't do it like u shared contribution in one family meeting.

But wait, Las las if it be say u are getting married to Nigerian version of feminists just like the types we. have on nairaland.
if so, baba share the money 50-50, wetin chimamanda av created let know special adviser put an end to...

But for goodness sake, buy her wedding gown abeg, it's a pride for.

U know how it goes, my husband bought my wedding gown.

Are you gay?

Wedding dress is the least thing a working class lady from a decent family can do for her self.

Except she is from a poor home.

And all these guys putting eye on girls income, what if she is bread winner of her family? What if her villagers contributed money to see her through school.

They will never ask...oju kokoro

Sotland:
I'm surprise that most people don't know the difference between being married and engaged...

You mentioned that you've done traditional rites, for instance, you've paid the bride price...

I kinda get disappointed at your write up...Please, with due respect; you are married.. As a matter of fact, You are fully married.. White wedding isn't a must...

To everyone who doesn't know this fact.. Once you paid a girl bride price and do every other traditional rite, YOU ARE MARRIED!..

Being engaged is when you went witj a few family member for introduction...

Thanks..

I tire o, I don't know who is about to get into a mess in this relationship.

The foundation is already faulty. This is already an abomination in the Ibo culture.

Living apart after trad As much as I don't like op, I don't wish he gets married to the girl because any family that can allow such are not good ppl at all.

obinoral1179:
leave and go back to collect your traditional Money if she is not ready to support...

Best advice.

Is she not supposed to be in your house already?


Speaking from experience, if she doesn't assist you now, she will never assist you in future.


Although you don't deserve such advice or pity because we know your type

Michellekabod2:
See the issue posh wedding has caused?
So the years of love will be wasted just because of argument on wedding bills...

If my husband brings 5 million for wedding,i will use 4.5 million to start a business for myself and the 500k will be for the court wedding, light refreshment and traditional rites

But is a woman not supposed to follow her husband home after traditional wedding??

OiOi:
I don't think this kind of discussion should lead to any sort of argument....
And moreover, is the traditional wedding not enough to make her your woman already?

This is what happens when a man is with a woman because of what he can get from her earnings.

Sadly, they always get disappointed.

OiOi:
I don't think this kind of discussion should lead to any sort of argument....
And moreover, is the traditional wedding not enough to make her your woman already?

This is what happens when a man marries a woman because of what he can get from her earnings.

Sadly, they always get disappointed.