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Guys has any one of you, ever been asked to be best man to a friend’s wedding ceremony before. How did you feel? Great right! For me, I got this appreciative feeling that my friend finds me responsible enough to stand by his side when he walks down the aisle with his girl.

Being asked to be the best man in a wedding is a great honor. We don’t get bestowed with the title “best” very often in our lives. It shows that your friend or family member holds your relationship in great esteem.

“Great power comes with great responsibility” As best man, you are saddle with special responsibilities – you will be a combination valet and hand-holder as you help the groom come through this nerve-racking experience with flying colors. You will serve as the groom's personal aide and adviser before and during the wedding. Here are some of your responsibilities.

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Who you, say you are matters a lot in your interaction with people around you. Your personality speaks more about you. This attribute is also important when it comes to marriage. We have been told that “relationships are full of compromise” and to a large extent, they are. Now when two people with distinct personalities, desires, and needs merge their lives (wedding), there is bound to be some work ahead – it’s never going to be a smooth ride. There some are key elements that make you who you are, and should not be played with.

1. Morals

Your morals should not be watered down just because you want your partner to be happy. What you believe in should be respected by him/her. Loving someone does not mean absorbing their moral values. If you compromise on these, your conscience will suffer, eventually causing you to resent your partner. Better to find a mate with similar moral values, that the two of you can use as a guide throughout your marital lives.

2. Family

No matter how disjointed our families are we cannot run away from it. Family units are never perfect, and the mate is often required to cope with as many of your extended family’s problems as you do. Cutting your family out of your life to satisfy your spouse is destructive, and will most certainly lead to you resenting your partner for the loss of these precious family ties. With families, both partners need to realize that the healthy compromise comes in accepting their loved one’s family, flaws and all.

For other key elements visit http://amarachia..com/2016/05/making-good-marriage-without-compromising-personality.html

cococandy:
According to nairaland popular opinion, African marriage and its values is all about satisfying the whims of the man regardless of whoever else in the family gets hurt in the process.

we are not what your are painting us as

amiskurie:
Well,it has no values anymore since they now demand ipone as a symbol of love instead of flowers and attention.

We have no choice other than shopping foreign.

#GoAndMarryYourselves or #GoAndMarryYourDildos or #GoAndMarryYourDogs

Hahahaha na so oo

In the olden days two people meet 2 times and got married on the 3rd meeting – and these marriages lasted a lifetime. Today couples date for 3 years and get divorced 6 months after finally getting married. What has changed?


All across Africa, traditional cultural weddings are dying out with the influx of the so-called White Western wedding. African weddings are a spiritual and social family affair that brings together two lives, two families, and even two communities. The union of man and woman is a celebration of the natural continuity of life. Marriage is the only known incubator for the raising of balanced socially functional children.


A Brief History of How Our Traditional Weddings Were Carried Out


Marriage were contracted by exchanging of commodities – salts, metals, weapon, farming tools, fish, bush meat tubers of yam etc., with the bride-to-be, so when a man wants to take a lady for a wife, his parents enter into an exchange bargain with the parent of the bride. They offer the bride’s parent the quantity of any commodity they wanted so as to marry their daughter.


After that era, Cowries was introduced as a legal tender, it was valued as money for payment for goods and services. At pre-historical time a wealthy man is known by the numbers of bags of cowries he has. So bride price were paid with cowries

Read complete write-up here http://amarachia..com/2016/05/african-marriage-sacred-institution-meaning-values.html

talk2alabama:
Mr amakoro why not advice couples who intend marrying cut their cloth according to their size wen preparing their wedding ceremony

I have post that talked about that...read now http://www.amarachia..com/2015/04/reducing-wedding-cost-and-still-have.html

saaedlee:
All what you talked about is the "wedding"!!! What about the days afterwards.. Why not ways of sustaining your marriage after the " day"? We know the trend these days in marraiges are divorces, battering, but to mention a few.
I believe after he/she proposes, the most important thing to do is brainstorming on life after the wedding day.
Dont get me wrong; you gotta plan for your wedding but it shouldnt be just that.
#Cheers

ok noted taken... but if check my posts you will see that i have so many articles on building a better home

Hippy!! Oh my Gosh, he proposed. Wow I am happy for you. So what next? My dear you need to make a lot of decisions in other to make your wedding day a success. To help you make the best out of these planning processes, here are 7 things you need to do.

1.Set up your Budget

Sweet heart, you to need sit down with your fiancé or families and figure out how much everyone is contributing. This number will affect every decision and purchase you make, so be sure to work out your budget before you start planning. It can be an uncomfortable conversation, but it's better to get it out of the way now.

2.Set a Timetable

As a bride-to-be, its good you start to have a range of dates on your mind. You also need to start thinking of your wedding theme, cakes, flowers and your bridal train. No matter how long your engagement may last, you also need to think of the season you would prefer, consider any major holidays or family events you would like to avoid conflicting with, and how long you predict you will need to plan.

3.Start Dreaming

This is the fun part: brainstorming with your fiancé about the big day. Compare fantasies, you can also get a better idea of what you want (and what you don't want), spend some time gathering inspiration. Talk to other married people for ideas, Check out wedding magazines, books and real wedding photos online, but don't limit yourself to the obvious sources.

Read more here http://www.amarachia..com/2016/05/yes-he-proposed-so-what-next.htm

London- News reaching Amarachis.com, has that, President Buhari will soon list the names of corrupt Nigerians. The names will be made public on democracy day in a speech he intends to

deliver on May 29 and that those named will be prosecuted. He also said he was coming after people bombing and destroying pipelines in the Niger Delta;


This is what president Buhari said

“So far, what has come out, what has been recovered in whatever currency from each ministries, departments and individuals, I intend on the 29th to speak on this because all Nigerians are getting from the mass media because of the number of people arrested either by the EFCC, DSS. But we want to make a comprehensive report on the 29th.

On whether the names of those indicted will be published, he said:

“Yes, eventually, it has to be done because we want to successfully prosecute them. But you know you cannot go to the courts unless you have documents for prosecution.

“People signed for these monies into their personal accounts, their banks gave statements that the money is there, when it came, how much and so on.”

Also speaking on allegation of selective prosecution, Buhari said:

“That is an accusation against the law enforcement agencies. But I assure you that we do not interfere. Try and get those who are now under arrest, you will find out it is across the board.”

Get the full interview a http://amarachis..com/2016/05/president-buhari-to-make-treasury.html

Fmartin:
'Two rams cannot drink from the same bucket' - the gods are not to blame.

true talk jare

I know some people will have my head for my position on this matter. I am not Anti feminism rather am I a bigot, this is just an observation I want everybody to look into.

Why do some ladies feel or think they can ride on a man’s money or affluence and after achieving their goals or motives, they suddenly become rude, arrogant, uncaring and something else I wouldn’t want to say here.


In today’s discussion, I will be talking about the likes of Omawumi, Tiwa etc that rode on the back of their husbands, fiancé or boyfriends to stardom. If you are a keen follower of these celebrities divorce issue, you will agree with me that some of this men (the husbands of these female celebrities) put in all they had – finance, time, scarifies their own career or that of others and stood by these female celebrities when they were nobody.

My people what did they get in return – heartbreak, depression and disappointment. In the spirit of moment Weddingtin.com here by present to you Top three (3) Nigerian female celebrities who use and dump their husbands.

1.Omawumi and Dr Frabz
To those who might not know Dr Frabz; he was an A list producer, he used to be top of his game. He produced hits after hits in his shinning days; he is behind some hit track for the likes of D’banj, Da Grin and a host of others.

Omawumi made it to stardom as a result of Frabz magic fingers, he worked tirelessly to bring her to limelight. They became inseparable in love, or so it seemed. I felt she was fooling him all alone because she never loved him the way he loves her. She needed something; she got it (fame and stardom). When she has no need for Dr Frabz anymore, she dumped him and off she went.

See other Celebrities and their pictures at http://www.amarachia..com/2016/05/top-nigerian-female-celebrities-who-use-dump-thier-husbands.htm

thank you bro....nice talk

Entertainment is an important aspect of any wedding ceremony and songs is an integral part of such entertainment. Music make weddings come alive therefore, your wedding ceremonies

is never complete without good songs been played on such a happy day. Nigerian love to have a good time, we dance to beautiful songs no matter the genre.

Weddingtin is glad to bring you 8 classic Nigerian wedding songs of all time, guaranteed to keep your wedding guests and families rocking all day long.

1.African Queen by 2Face Idibia

2face popularly known as 2baba has been one of Nigeria’s biggest export when it comes to music. 2face is humble, down to earth and extremely talented singer. African queen is one of the classic Nigerian love songs which have stuck through the years. There is a chill feeling down your spine whenever you listen to the song. It takes us back to the good old days whenever it is played at any wedding. The music has a mix of the guitar tunes and the West African folk music.


2.Olomi by Tosin Martins

Like African Queen, this has been around for a while. It is a soft, mid tempo number which makes a perfect first dance song, giving you the goose bumps as you dance in the hands of your lover. Guys to mesmerize your ladies make sure this music on your play list.

3.Oruka by Sunny Neji

Oruka came off sunny Neji’s third album “unchained”. The song has a fuse of high-life and has become an instant hit as it is played in every wedding ceremonies and since then has become more or less a staple at weddings.

4.Iyawo Mi by Timi Dakolo

Timi Dakolo is unarguably the best vocalist in the music industry today. Timi came to lame light after winning West African idol music competition. Iyawo Mi was produced by Cobhams Asuquo, the song has become a stand out track, and a staple on many wedding play-lists, especially as the top choice for the first dance.

5.Ada Ada by Flavour

Hmmm!! Ada Ada has become the national anthem of Nigerian wedding. No wedding, especially traditional wedding, was complete without this song. Ada ada came of flavour’s Blessed album in 2013. This song has since been inducted into the league of classic wedding songs because of its constant plays at weddings.


Read the full article at http://amarachia..com/2016/05/8-classic-nigerian-wedding-songs-of-all-time.html

DrLee:
northern girls dey fine sha

hmmmm na only her you see

Good day all! It gladdens me to put together this piece for your reading pleasure. Today, we will be talking on traditional wedding attire of a Nigerian bride. Traditional clothing or attire is

the type of wear that can speak about a particular people and their way of life; it is a form of identification. Every country or race has a distinct dressing style that is unique to them.


The Nigerian clothing industry has come a long way and have grown tremendously in the last few years. The industry now has in flocks of young talented and vibrant minds in the business. Our traditional fabrics are now exported outside the shore of Africa, international fashion now showcase our fabrics on their runway. Our designers are participating in fashion show and exhibitions round the globe. A lot more still need to be done for our brands to be accepted more globally.


Let me not bore you with a lot of words, so let’s dive into the matter of the day “Traditional wedding attire”. Our traditional attire is mostly characterized by a lot of colors. We are a colourful people and so our attire should not be less. Traditional attire brings out the beauty in us. Therefore, when you talk about wedding, our traditional wedding attire should be paramount. For any traditional wedding, traditional wedding attire should be the number one form of identity. This attire speaks more about our culture and custom. In no particular other will be x-raying the various traditional wedding attires in Nigeria.


The Igbo Traditional wedding attire

The Igbos has unique wedding culture and attire that distinct to other ethnic group. The igbo people are traders, farmers etc, the attire of an Igbo bride comprises beads worn in the neck, wrist and sometimes waist, a head wrap (gele), blouse and wrapper


The Yoruba Traditional wedding attire

The Yorubas has one of the most popular dressings in the wedding industry; a lot of other ethnic groups have borrowed a queue from them. Typical Yoruba wedding attire comprises buba and aso-oke, beads etc.,

The Idoma Traditional wedding attire

Within the north central Nigeria; the Idoma culture is the most fascinating culture, they are warm hearted and easy-going people and they have a lot of good food. The wedding attire of an Idoma bride comprises red and black cultural dress, red beads etc.,

See more pictures at http://amarachia.com/2016/05/photos-nigerian-traditional-wedding-attires-for-brides-grooms.html

I am sorry guys for taken so long to post in the wedding story section of weddingtin.com. I will be bringing you the beautiful love story of Femi and Laide. This couple has come a long way and we at weddingtin.com want to join in their celebration.
Femi Abdullahi and Laide Odeyina wedding is the type we can't forget in a hurry. The couple took to it to the next level, by celebrating their engagement ceremony in a unique and glamorous way. The couple looks exquisite in their color (white, yellow and purple). The event took place at Oba event center in Lagos – so friends read up as the couple takes us through their epic love journey.


Laide

First day I saw Femi was in a birthday celebration around my street, it was a house party. I notice this slim guy staring at me with keen interest, like he knew me somewhere. Before the end of the party, he came over, he greeted me and we exchange peasantry, then he left.

After some months, a friend of mine called me up and she told me that “the guy you met in that birthday party is going crazy about you”. I was like who could that be? I can’t remember meeting any one on that day. She also said he asked for my phone number and she has given it to him and he in lives in Ghana, “I was like let him live in Pakistan I don’t care”.


On a beautiful sunny day, I saw a call on my phone with a strange area code (+233), I was like “who be this 419 people” I picked up, I heard a very pleasant male voice behold it was Femi calling from his base In Ghana, he introduces himself and I got interested immediately, we talked heart to heart, he told me about his feelings for me. From there the feelings started growing, it got to point that if I didn’t hear from him in a day, it will seen as if my day was crashing. Femi is a lovely man, with a lot of humor; he has got a lot of love to share.

One of this usual visit to Nigeria he came to my house, I was washing my clothes, he greeted my parents, the next thing I could see was Femi going down on his knee, he opened a little box, at that moment my heart sank. He said “Laide please make me your husband”, I was speechless I did not know what to say, the only thing I remembered doing was just nodding my head in agreement with tears in my eyes.

Femi

I met my queen in a friend’s birthday party, but I didn’t take it seriously then. Seeing her couple of time and observing her character I became interested in her. I started disturbing my friend’s sister whose is a friend to Laide to say well about me whenever they are together.

I got her phone number and since I was based in Ghana I did not have the pleasure of going to meet her one-on-one, so I called her up one day. At first she was a bit hostile then later she began loosening up, then we talked more and more. One of our conversation over the phone, I told her my intention after a while she agreed and we started dating. Most time whenever am back to Nigeria, we will stay all night talking and expressing our love for each other.

During one of my visit I decided to take things to the next level, so I bought a ring and went over to ask her to be my wife. I took her by surprise, she was just crying when she saw the ring. It was so touching and today we are married in the present of God and man, am so happy.


Thank you all for being part of our life
http://amarachia..com/2016/04/from-birthday-to-wedding-bell-beautiful.html

Report reaching weddingtin entertainment gathered that Tee blliz broke the internet today by publishing on his Instagram handle about his wife's (Tiwa savage) escapade with her record label boss Don jazzy, Dir Sid and 2baba. That his wife has been sleeping around with these guys…. This news came

as a shock to us because we know how grievous this accusation was, we decided to reach out to get the view of Tiwa savage; unfortunately we couldn’t reach her publicist.

Luckily for us, one of my staff has a link within the Tee blliz camp; so we made a call through to our source, name withheld. Weddingtin.com can authoritatively tell you that Tee blliz did not make such remark. Therefore, his account was hacked. He told us that he was with the family and all is well, there is no cause for alarm. He could not believe what has been circulating around the social media. This is what he said;

“My oga is a lovely man; he loves his wife a lot and can’t say such things about his wife. I was with the whole family today, they are happy with each other, Tiwa is doing her best as wife and a mother. This is the handiwork of wicked people who want to cause chaos and confusion so as to ruin a lovely family”.

We also read from a popular blog that he (Tee blliz) wanted to commit suicide today around past 9 this morning while driving on the Lekki-Ikoyi toll bridge. That an eye-witness named Chukwuma Ani, witnessed the incident and was one of the men who pulled Tee billz off the bridge. This what the blog wrote on the issue as accounted by their eyewitness;

“I thought I was watching a movie" Ani told LIB "the man held the railing and tried to jump over it and that was when the yellow man held him and started shouting for help. The two of them nearly fell into the water. I quickly joined the yellow man to pull the guy out and while we were struggling with him, one PSquare twin (Peter Okoye) and Banky W joined us to pull the man out”.

Please I was at that bridge by that time and there was no hold-up or anything to signify that anything odd was going on. So where did, this so call witness got his fact from? A beg my people which kind heavy lie be this… so PSquare (Peter Okoye) and Banky W has become so jobless that they have no place to be but to be found at that spot, exactly the time as reported by the blog to be among the rescuer that saved LIB imaginary suicidal case. I believe Peter Okoye and Banky W are too busy to be dragged into this okay.

Aunt Linda please, get your facts’ right, try to report true story. Tee blliz is not depressed and has never contemplated committing suicide; I don’t know where you got your story from.


please send in your comments
http://amarachia..com/2016/04/tee-blliz-i-love-my-wife-tiwa-savage-my-Account-was-hacked.html

Jos the capital of Plateau state, is one of the most exquisite places in Nigeria. This land is blessed with gorgeous vegetation and topographical beauty, with breath taking scenery.


If you are looking for a once in a lifetime experience with nature or you are planning to hold an out-door wedding in a serene and cozy natural environment, look no further because we have 3 exquisite out-door locations in the heart of Jos central business districts, where you can relax, breath in fresh air and have friendly environment for children.

In no particular other, weddingtin.com brings to you beautiful and exciting locations you could hold your out-door traditional weddings, white weddings and co-operate functions.


JUST RELAX GARDENS

With the slogan; a test of nature, a touch of class, a blend of beauty. Just relax gardens is indeed in a world of its own, with blends of nature artistically design and intertwine with lush vegetation.

Just relax garden’s objectives is to provide recreational and relaxing environment, conducive for families. Promote a non-alcoholic and non-smoking atmosphere for kids; no wonder co-operate organizations like Silver-bird communications and UNICEF uses here for children end of the year funfair.
Games and side-attractions provided are ludu, snookers, table tennis and chess. There is also bouncing castle and play ground for children.

Just relax garden provide catering and rental services for traditional weddings, white weddings and co-operate events. For soon-to-be-couples, just relax garden has the capacity to make your wedding one to remember for a while. This garden is big enough to hold two weddings simultaneously. It has a parking space with good security personnel.
VISION
To encourage the public to have more out-door time-out with their children and families – weekends and picnics.

LUJI GARDENS

Luji gardens provide a whole lot of services from weddings reception ground, rentals, catering to Nursery for exotic flowers.

for more details visit
http://amarachia..com/2015/12/3-most-beautiful-exciting-locations-weddings-jos-plateau-state.html

jamex93:

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Guys do you know that your wife expects you to be closer to her family, as much as being her husband? Generally, women cherish their families. She needs you to have good relationship with her people, most especially with her father. A daughter and her father have greater bond

to each other, therefore, your wife will be much happier, if the two men she loves so dearly get along. Believe me guys your home will be better place and you will live happily with your wife.

Brother, your father in-law wants you to be good son-in-law, not only to him, but with the whole the family. To do so I have painstakingly worked on some steps you need to take to be in term with your father in-law, to help you achieve that here are five (5) things your father-in-law wants from you.


1.TAKE GOOD CARE OF HIS DAUGHTER

No father want to see his daughter suffer or to be badly treated. If you want to be in good term with your father in-law make sure you shower his daughter with a lot of love, as much as he does. Make her happy at all time; she is the apple of his eyes. No man is going to just sit down and watch someone else maltreat his beloved daughter. Therefore, treat your wife like queen she is and watch how pleased your father-in-law to going to be with you.


2. BE A RESPONSIBLE DAD TO HIS GRAND-CHILDREN

As poor mannered a man is, he wouldn’t want his children to be treated with less love and care. The joy of every grandparent is to watch their grand children grow in loving family. All grandparents want their heir to be well taken care of. So guys please provide the best you can for your children so you will be proud of them in the future of what they have become.

Get the complete article at http://amarachia..com/2016/04/groom-5-things-your-father-in-law-wants.html

nas4q:
Received this some days ago

yea i got that too

Bezed:
I didn't get, but work place is a good recruitment agency .. Good lucks

thanks

Wedding ceremonies come with a lot
of goodies. As the gifts are coming so
is the advice coming from different
quarters. One striking word that is still
ringing in my head to this day is that
of my father, he said, “son today you
have become a married man and this
status also comes with a lot of
responsibility, in all you do always
love your wife and never lust after
another man’s wife”.
I will like to share with you some of
the advice I got on my wedding day
that I have imbibed in my marriage
life and it has been helping me
tremendously. So for my esteem
readers, I have listed 6 great advice I
got on my wedding day for your
reading pleasure.

1.LISTEN
One of the things my father told me
was to be a good listener. “Listen to
your wife when she has something to
say”. Listen to other people (married/
elderly) when they give you advice
about marital life. He also said in
marriage “there will be so many
suggestions and counseling from all
and sundries, listen to them, but only
make use of those you feel that are
important to your situation – that is to
say listen to advice, but do not work
with all of them.

2.KEEP OFF BAD COMPANIES
There is a word that says “show me
your friend and I will show you what
you will become”. The friends you
keep goes a long way to influence your
life and your attitude towards your
wife, it sometime defines who you are.
As a young man I was told after my
wedding to stay clear off carefree and
promiscuous friends, no late night and
to be with the family often no matter
how my work schedules are. I have
been implementing these words and
now i am reaping the benefits.

3.BE CONTENTED
Be happy with what you have, always
be grateful for what you have become.
Do not be greedy or envious of others
over material things. Love your wife
and your kids endlessly, do not
compare them to others. Do not be
cajoled into doing evil things just
because you want to satisfy your wife,
please make do with what you have.

Read the complete article at www.amarachia..com/2016/04/6-great-advice-for-men-after-their-wedding.html

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successful15:
pls i need advice ....how do i make a good first impression to my boyfriends mother

Just be your self. Do the needful, be humble and show lot of respect

Snowangel4:
Educative

Thank you