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Kelly Hand:
@poster

I STRONGLY ADVISE THAT YOU TAKE UP THE JOB. THERE IS CURRENTLY ECONOMIC CRISIS AND YOU KNOW WE HEAR MORE OF JOBLOSS. YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO MISS THAT OPPORTUNITY.

AS FOR THE MASTERS, LIKE WHAT ONE OF THE POSTERS ABOVE SAID, IT CAN ALWAYS WAIT.TELL DAD TO THROW THE CASH INTO AN INVESTMENT HOUSE WHERE MORE INTEREST CAN BE GENERATED.

MIGHT ALSO INTEREST YOU TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE VERY MANY MASTERS HOLDERS FROM SCHOOLS ABROAD WITHOUT JOBS BOTH HERE IN NAIJA AND ABROAD.

ANOTHER ADVANTAGE WORTHY OF NOTE IS THE FACT THAT FOREIGN COMPANIES ARE MORE INTERESTED IN THOSE WITH EXPERIENCE (AFTER MSC ABROAD).

CHOOSE WISELY BROTHER.

viperman:
Sorry to say, but the truth is She's immature, selfish and an emotional cheat. That she still compares you with her Exs and calls them isn't a good sign at alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, especially for a married woman. She has no respect for your union so treat her like one who doesn't until she either coems correct or leaves you on her own volition so you can meet a more matured person.


The next time she compares you with her Ex, compare her with our own ex(that you never told her about), if you don't have an Ex to compare her with, create an Ex character in you head of what you expect of her e.g:

YOUR WIFE: my 3rd boyfriend , james(EX), always knew how to fix things, how come you don't know how to fix anything.
YOU: mehnnn, this is why i miss diana(remember you never told her about any diana). matured, calm, supporting and was freaking great in bed. , **then you sigh** , those were the days.
Then either continue wht you're doing or change topic as if what she said didn't annoy you and it just brought back good old memories of your EX(diana).
she will first want to retaliate to hurt you, but keep treating her comparisons in similar fashion, but add variations to it. if you see she's unrepentant and continues to compare you, shock her one day when she's making such a statement by telling her this:

YOUR WIFE: If it was my ex jide, he would never have behave that way
YOU: **call her by name**, i've been wanting to tell you something.
YOUR WIFE: what!!!?
YOU: Its obvious you're not happy in this marriage and i think it's time we gave eachother some space to rethink our union. Maybe we're not meant for eachother, but for our Exs(mention the name of the Ex you normally counter her with, and the name of her Ex she normally calls)

watch her reaction



if she starts rant-begging, then you can play stubborn and after a certain period, start talking sense into her. But if she plays it cool like, she says i think we really need to, The my brother, it's time to send her out or leave her and move out.



this is my opinion

Mai Suya:
Good point.