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Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
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1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
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2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
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3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
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4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
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5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
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Ayam not impressed.

So the guy is Crushing on another man's wife

PDP will be effective under sheriff than markafi.

Ofcourse its send me your account details. "I Love you" don't pay bills

SAMUEL ETO'O. The cameroon guy, he is so cute,manly and sexy. Sad that he is already married.

She was declared a terrorist to English language by the USA Government.

She married a former student in her English class called Goodluck

STORY TIME. There was once a first lady in Nigeria named patience aka mama peace

Vickysnipe147:
She started roaming the streets, and was asking herself what she did wrong to deserve this kind of hatred from her own sisters.

then she decided to pay a visit to Amadioha to hire thunder for her step-sisters.

Berlynn:
she spent the rest of her life in a cave nd tats the END OF HER STORY

"End of the story"? Asked by shocked audience in the cinema

LordZero:
[color=#E42217]One day, when they started insulting her, she asked "am I not your sister", they replied in unison "na who we go ask".
She replied "ask ifa (TapDance)" and a fight broke out between them.[/color]

they beat her up, gave her injury and kicked her out of the house.

This governor must know something about the formation of Boko-haram.

So because she is pretty,u wil pay over the odd 4 her akara?

LordZero:
[color=#E42217] Despite the harsh living environment, she manged to top her class. [/color]

"na who we go ask"-says her two wicked step sisterz

They can slaughter people anyhow they like but want to protect crude oil pipeline.

Nasty and irritating. Low self esteemed lady

solasolasola:
I am Yoruba and I am very fascinated by Igbo girls. My fascination with them is so huge that I am beginning to think it's a sickness. Each time I see an Igbo girl, I instantly realize she is an Igbo girl. Is it so obvious; blatant or is it just that I easily realize because of my admiration of them? There was a day a girl was approaching my friend and I, my friend said she must be a Yoruba girl but I said she is Igbo. When she was close enough, we asked her and she said she is Igbo. I really have this inexplicable penchant to recognize them. I think this fascination is as a result of how I see them: I feel they are the cutest in the whole of Nigeria. Point of correction, I know they are the cutest in Nigeria. I mean their kind of beauty is the cutest in Nigeria. My present girlfriend is an Igbo girl and I'm beginning to be head over heels...even though I've got my reservation(albeit it's a reservation borne out of other standards one of which is level of education). I may just get married to an Igbo girl when it's time despite the culture difference and the apparent animosity that exist between some members of the two tribes who are nothing but pathetic bigots. In short, I strongly love, admire, adore Igbo girls and I can do anything to marry one as I know they are the cutest in Nigeria. This is despite the fact that I'm Yoruba.

Beautiful girls can be found in every tribe, the fact that you tribalized ur fantasy makes it look questionable.
Enough of this "I am yoruba,love Igbo girls" Noise abeg.

One day, She visited Ifa to demand for answer

Happy married life to them.
Marriage is not all about fulfilling the society demand but having someone you can call your own and spend your lifetime with.

Virginity is a feminine thing by world standard.

Who are them? Btw Hbd to them anyway

Boxer007:
boo boo I bet I can take your man.is he Gay?

are u alright?

Dey are many in Abuja,you can't know their exact job. Very fake beings.

ClassCaptain:
amarabae, omo re bi custard !!!

share your experience with us now pls, don't be shy !!!!

I remember a birthday party i attended,the girl hired male strippers.
I thought they were dancerz until they started stripping down to their underwearz only,was dancing erotically and flexing their muscles, looks like young undergraduates.
It was an eyesore to me.
Its humiliating and irresponsible 4 a guy to join that. This is unAfrican and a western world culture infilteration.

You are so funny.

Am confused here, were two people openly dating on this forum?

luminouz:
Y then are so many ladies after me? Light skin! Y? Coz they all want light skinned babies.......y do women bleach? Coz of light skin!

ok sir. Mr lightskinned cutie.

Are you living in the same room with ur girlfriend? How did u find out. U guys sleep together everynyt?

prettythicksme:
I wont lie,not easy mehnnnn.Anyways,i am used to it anyway.

u must be in one. Right?

There is a lot of suspicion in this kind of relationship. But it can work out if both of you understand eachother very well

What a life. There can still be a miracle.