₦airaland Forum

donstan18:
I can't train any lady in school with the hope of marrying her, I don't wish to date an illiterate, I just don't want liability, not from any lady.


But if I find what I want from a woman in an illiterate, I'll kindly marry her and get her pregnant before sending her to school.

KadunaMafia:
I have sworn not to date a student or an unemployed lady. Can't waste resources and emotions in this Buhari era.

FRANNN:
Hmm.. I guess it depends

donstan18:

teewhydope:
lol

TonyeBarcanista:
Everybody have their definition of success and to each his/her priority.

Some ladies (actually most) desire a man to be considered successful irrespective of other professional or life achievement.

Is it not funny that you, Amarabee, the author of this thread is married?

Funny enough, you pride yourself as "Wife" in your first introduction of yourself before anything else (check your signature). What makes you different from the Dr (Mrs) Medical doctors?

I put it to you that you are misguided, confused and you don't know your ideology.


I wonder your reason for these misguided topics (not that it concerns me anyway). I doubt you would take this path if you are really happy in your marriage, I doubt.

God save the young ladies that will fall to the scams of deluded group of people that called themselves feminists.


That said, you are still my sister

BluntBoy:
You are confused (not just unintelligent), hence your disjointed post.

Read an excerpt from your own worthless post:

Answering MRS is not the greatest achievement for a woman.

What is your problem if someone sees MRS as her greatest achievement? How is it your business? It is fine if it is not your own greatest achievement but that does not give you the right or authority to belittle or begrudge anyone who sees it differently.

Here is a part of the first excerpt which exposed your intolerance for other people's choices:

Answering MRS is not the greatest achievement for a woman. GET IT INTO YOUR THICK SKULL

Now, call me unintelligent again, I dare you!!!

BluntBoy:
I hope you learnt from her post? Your post is worthless because it didn't consider choice. You don't have to begrudge a woman for seeing her marriage as her greatest achievement.

pocohantas:
I think that headline wasn't intended to cause harm.
It is assumed that women have a harder time, combining motherhood and career...hence the tag 'working mum'. Heck! Some women even pride in it. That headline was more of sensational than belittling.

As for the woman that introduced herself as Mrs, that's choice. Marriage is beautiful to the right person,at the right time. If she is so proud of it, why expect her to shrink and trivialise her marital status or the fulfilment she derives from it? She doesn't have to do that to satisfy anyone's insecurity. As long as, she doesn't get in your own lane, everyone can coexist peacefully.

I only have a problem with people who shame, bully, stigmatise and pressurise people due to their marital status. Most girls that dive into marriage immediately after school are not so pro-marriage, it is just an easy way out of unemployment and brokeness for them. But since it works for both parties, the man gets a dependent submissive wife ad she gets a provider...we can only wish them the best.

Summary of my rant is, everyone is entitled to what they are so proud of. Don't tell me single ladies are frustrated, don't tell me most married women are unhappy. Live and let live.

Hector09:
I wish i can hug the op the way people are obses abt marriage ehh, sometimes i dont understand people again cus of the way they looked down on matured single ladies, its our mentality here in Nigeria cus for me i dont see anything special abt marriage apart frm having kids, thanks sweety for this u reason like me

oloyede252:
dear men...

oloyede252:
is she not a mother of 5. the newspaper editors wrote that headline to give it more sensation and it proved effective to the agency

Arthurwinner:
dis gal try and focus on ur gp so u can gt a beta life for ur self , stp coming hia to disturb us.

ednut1:
The nigerian society is really lame and silly. Single ladies are being made to look like failures and incomplete being. From peers,church,events,parents,work etc are being reminded about marriage. Smh.

queenbetsy:
...waiting for them to come and shout "feminist!"



Meanwhile, its good to be back on nairaland after soooooooooooooooooooo long!


Only to see what you don't expect on the front page. It saddens my heart!

tobianthony:
Well said but tell that to you follow women not us .

Men are starting to wake up and realize the truth .

A few women are too .

But some men and some women ...they just don't want to change their programming .

Iamgrey5:
Mrs oriaku if your aren't familiar with my moniker check my signature.

This is your best thread yet as it captures both male and female struggles. It wasn't meant to start a childish E-war or support a hypocritical feminist position

Although, we are still not friends in the politics section

donstan18:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Iamgrey5:
This is the best thread op have created since I joined NAIRALAND kudos

IamAirforce1:
It's about your thread and your trouble making right now

Don't deviate .

IamAirforce1:
Smh

highqueen:
thank God that I can only crush on myself.

MollyBank:
What a load of tripe! "Chioma being a typical Anambra girl wants to collect the money" I wonder when this tribal nonsense will end? Very unprofessional!