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tobianthony:I am talking to the both gender ![]() |
The Nigeria social media was recently rocked by the case of a popular newspaper carrying the headline - A mother of 5 declares for presidency It reminds me of the chimamanda adichie "rift" with Hillary Clinton for starting her twitter bio with wife, mother. Though the newspaper have apologized, but the incident keeps refreshing a lot of thoughts in me. Why should marital status be a criteria to assess a woman's success? Is marriage the greatest achievement a woman can achieve ? What has her being a mother of 5 got to do with leadership? The newspaper editors filled with victims of a patriarchial society felt that the only way she can be accepted by a misogynistic society is for her to sample her marital status and "mother of 5"like a World Cup trophy, I felt bad reading that headline, inasmuch as I blame the men who love using marital status to assess a lady, I also blame some ladies who love using marital status to judge themselves and other ladies, . I also remembered asking 4 NYSC girls one thing they will want to achieve in the next five years, to my greatest shock, Three of them replied MARRIAGE. And what if the marriage doesn't come, what will you do? They kept quiet! None of them had a dream of going for Masters degree or getting a job or starting a business , I don't blame them sha, they are also products of a fanatical partriachial society, In their shallow mindset, a woman no matter how educated she is IS a failure if she is not married. . I believe in social media activism, To any lady reading this, Marriage is good but not the ultimate achievement, Marriage is also not a criteria to assess your success in life. Some women are breaking records now in academic fields, in business, in technology, in science, You got to stand up and focus your attention on improving yourself, If marriage comes and you are interested, fine you Marry. But if does not come or you are not interested, hear this from me, you owe no one an explanation. Go get those masters and PhD baby Go start that business Perfect yourself in that skills, Hustle for those money, be happy sweetheart. Condoleezza Rice is the first black to be a secretary of state and yet she is not married, She didn't allow the "miss shaming " to get in her way, she is living her dreams. Oprah Winfrey is the richest black woman and she is not married, She is living her dream. And so on, . Let me rephrase it again, Marriage is good but should not be a criteria in which a woman should be judged with. Stop cyber bullying single ladies, Stop the shaming. Answering MRS is not the greatest achievement for a woman. Get it into your skull. . . . NB : stupid mentions and replies will be ignored. Thank you. |
Anybody can buy chieftaincy title, BTW the word "chief" is not Igbo or African word. In Igbo land, ONOWU title or NZE title are our prestigious traditional titles. So let us hear word. |
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donstan18:
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Iamgrey5:hmmm ![]() |
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IamAirforce1:whats wrong with this thread |
IamAirforce1:she never born? |
highqueen:lol ![]() |
MollyBank:I saw that and was disappointed. |
I want to talk to some souls here who are facing or just faced one of the bitter realities of love. Rejection can be very painful to some people who are emotionally fragile , everybody wants to be loved, it's psychological. You love somebody, you have a deep crush on the person, You think about him or her all the time, You flip through their social media timeline to monitor them, You dream of a relationship with the person, The person is your fantasy, Your crush You later summoned courage to make a move and you received an attitude laden rejection, "you are not his or her type " The person will tell you that through attitude and boom you start feeling bad about your self. Listen to me, . Never try to fit in where you can at highest be tolerated, look for a place where you are valued. Stop wallowing in low self esteem and inferiority complex, he or she does not like you but there are many out there who are secretly dreaming to date you. You got to move on and smile Stop acting so desperate for a person who don't like you to have a change of heart, you belittle yourself doing that, Your destiny is not tied to that person, move on. Get those fantasy about him or her off your mind and pre occupy it with productive things. People are out there in the street hustling for money and you want to waste time killing yourself over a rejection? Let them go. There are many "fishes" in the river, you will catch one that will love you for who you are, Someone that will love your imperfections, Some who will love you but don't know why they love you so deeply They will love that saggy breasts, Those flat behind Those dark skin That crooked voice That your k-leg That your height Those pot belly Etc They will love everything about you, Never keep your head low over a rejection, look into the mirror and say hi to that beautiful being inside the mirror ![]() Remember your crush may be crushing on the person crushing on you. . Oriaku loves you all Happy weekend |
Iberibe bu oria |
He was a cool upcoming artiste |
No daughter yet? ![]() ![]() Cute family. God bless them |
BRMN:they are not the same. Don't mind him. ![]() |
MrBigiman:You sound pained.. Accept my sympathy. Running up and down looking for a johesu E-war to fight. And let me educate ur ignorance, School of nursing and university graduate nursing are not and never the same... BTW I don't know why you are pained upon hearing the word university graduate nursing. Of all comments in this thread, it is this my own, you want to masturbate on. Don't know what you gain wasting time online insulting other health professionals. Grow up. Focus on your field and let other people focus on their own fields. Thanks |
The last pics though. ![]() |
To be honest, obiano is cold this 2nd tenure. |
Bukky001:Point of correction. The only nurses that may be timid are school of nursing products. This rubbish can never happen to a graduate nurse who saw the four walls of a university. He/She would have taught the useless animal that bachelor degree is bachelor degree. I pray and hope schools of nursing should be closed. . He has been summoned to court. The case is in court as we speak. ![]() |
BTW it's not a big deal, 14 still remain plus ortom and possibly tambuwal if the reports of his defection are true. We are interested in Northern APC politicians defecting, . |
Crap. Ortom and "tambuwal defection" are news, Who know this one. We are more interested in Northern APC senators and governors defecting to PDP, not you Mr man ![]() |
*singing* Kele nu chineke nihi na odi nma Nihi na ruo mgbe ebiyebi ka ebere ya Di ![]() |
his name was not mentioned ,poor tactics by APC |
Jorussia:stop consoling yourself and go check ur bp. |
babyfaceafrica:whats tribalistic in my comment |
CilicMarin:what brought nnamdi kanu into this? demi god and he is asslicking kwankwaso and saraki not to decamp. Lol go and sleep boy |
maclatunji:Trash. Cry us a river. The way some of you yorubas reason make me to question the story of awolowo free education. The saraki that gave your tinubu upper cut in NASS ELECTION knows what he is doing. Your buhari is leaving 2019 and tinubu greedy plan for 2023 will be squashed |
Cry us a river. It's on channels and tvc. Even oshiomole just gave a speech on the defection. This tinubu boys should crying us a river |
otokx:With all pleasure. Atiku or saraki |
Jorussia:no PDP senator want to decamp to APC. akpabio was just teasing you bmc. Go and monitor your bp. Your 5naira per post bmc job is about to end |
BMC CREW job is not easy o. Chai |
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