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Romance › Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not The Greatest Achievement For A Woman! by Amarabae(op): 10:46am On Jul 28, 2018
tobianthony:
Well said but tell that to you follow women not us .

Men are starting to wake up and realize the truth .

A few women are too .

But some men and some women ...they just don't want to change their programming .
I am talking to the both gender wink
Romance › Dear Men, Marriage Is Not The Greatest Achievement For A Woman! by Amarabae(op):
The Nigeria social media was recently rocked by the case of a popular newspaper carrying the headline - A mother of 5 declares for presidency
It reminds me of the chimamanda adichie "rift" with Hillary Clinton for starting her twitter bio with wife, mother.
Though the newspaper have apologized, but the incident keeps refreshing a lot of thoughts in me.
Why should marital status be a criteria to assess a woman's success?
Is marriage the greatest achievement a woman can achieve ?
What has her being a mother of 5 got to do with leadership?
The newspaper editors filled with victims of a patriarchial society felt that the only way she can be accepted by a misogynistic society is for her to sample her marital status and "mother of 5"like a World Cup trophy,
I felt bad reading that headline, inasmuch as I blame the men who love using marital status to assess a lady,
I also blame some ladies who love using marital status to judge themselves and other ladies,
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I also remembered asking 4 NYSC girls one thing they will want to achieve in the next five years, to my greatest shock, Three of them replied MARRIAGE.
And what if the marriage doesn't come, what will you do?
They kept quiet!
None of them had a dream of going for Masters degree or getting a job or starting a business ,
I don't blame them sha, they are also products of a fanatical partriachial society,
In their shallow mindset, a woman no matter how educated she is IS a failure if she is not married.
.
I believe in social media activism,
To any lady reading this,
Marriage is good but not the ultimate achievement, Marriage is also not a criteria to assess your success in life.
Some women are breaking records now in academic fields, in business, in technology, in science,
You got to stand up and focus your attention on improving yourself,
If marriage comes and you are interested, fine you Marry.
But if does not come or you are not interested, hear this from me, you owe no one an explanation.
Go get those masters and PhD baby
Go start that business
Perfect yourself in that skills,
Hustle for those money, be happy sweetheart.
Condoleezza Rice is the first black to be a secretary of state and yet she is not married,
She didn't allow the "miss shaming " to get in her way, she is living her dreams.
Oprah Winfrey is the richest black woman and she is not married,
She is living her dream.
And so on,
.
Let me rephrase it again, Marriage is good but should not be a criteria in which a woman should be judged with.
Stop cyber bullying single ladies,
Stop the shaming.
Answering MRS is not the greatest achievement for a woman.
Get it into your skull.
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NB : stupid mentions and replies will be ignored.
Thank you.
Politics › Re: Femi Adesina Receives 2nd Igbo Title In Abia State (Photos) by Amarabae(f): 9:11pm On Jul 27, 2018
Anybody can buy chieftaincy title,
BTW the word "chief" is not Igbo or African word.
In Igbo land, ONOWU title or NZE title are our prestigious traditional titles.
So let us hear word.
Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 9:04pm On Jul 27, 2018
Iamgrey5:
Mrs oriaku if your aren't familiar with my moniker check my signature.

This is your best thread yet as it captures both male and female struggles. It wasn't meant to start a childish E-war or support a hypocritical feminist position grin

Although, we are still not friends in the politics section grin
cool cool
Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 9:03pm On Jul 27, 2018
donstan18:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 8:53pm On Jul 27, 2018
Iamgrey5:
This is the best thread op have created since I joined NAIRALAND kudos
hmmm huh
Politics › Re: President Buhari Hosts Isoko Traditional Rulers In The State House (photos) by Amarabae(f): 8:49pm On Jul 27, 2018
OK
Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 8:48pm On Jul 27, 2018
IamAirforce1:
It's about your thread and your trouble making right now

Don't deviate .
whats wrong with this thread
Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 8:30pm On Jul 27, 2018
IamAirforce1:
Smh cheesy
she never born?
Romance › Re: When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 8:25pm On Jul 27, 2018
highqueen:
thank God that I can only crush on myself.



cheesy
lol grin
Education › Re: Davido & Chioma Featured In YABATECH Exam Questions by Amarabae(f): 8:25pm On Jul 27, 2018
MollyBank:
What a load of tripe! "Chioma being a typical Anambra girl wants to collect the money" I wonder when this tribal nonsense will end? Very unprofessional!
I saw that and was disappointed.
Romance › When Someone You Love Or Crush On Rejects You! (oriaku Rant Vol.3) by Amarabae(op): 8:20pm On Jul 27, 2018
I want to talk to some souls here who are facing or just faced one of the bitter realities of love.
Rejection can be very painful to some people who are emotionally fragile ,
everybody wants to be loved, it's psychological.
You love somebody, you have a deep crush on the person,
You think about him or her all the time,
You flip through their social media timeline to monitor them,
You dream of a relationship with the person,
The person is your fantasy,
Your crush
You later summoned courage to make a move and you received an attitude laden rejection,
"you are not his or her type "
The person will tell you that through attitude and boom you start feeling bad about your self.
Listen to me,
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Never try to fit in where you can at highest be tolerated, look for a place where you are valued.
Stop wallowing in low self esteem and inferiority complex,
he or she does not like you but there are many out there who are secretly dreaming to date you.
You got to move on and smile grin
Stop acting so desperate for a person who don't like you to have a change of heart, you belittle yourself doing that,
Your destiny is not tied to that person, move on.
Get those fantasy about him or her off your mind and pre occupy it with productive things.
People are out there in the street hustling for money and you want to waste time killing yourself over a rejection?
Let them go.
There are many "fishes" in the river, you will catch one that will love you for who you are,
Someone that will love your imperfections,
Some who will love you but don't know why they love you so deeply kiss kiss
They will love that saggy breasts,
Those flat behind
Those dark skin
That crooked voice
That your k-leg
That your height
Those pot belly
Etc
They will love everything about you,
Never keep your head low over a rejection, look into the mirror and say hi to that beautiful being inside the mirror cheesy
Remember your crush may be crushing on the person crushing on you.
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Oriaku loves you all
Happy weekend
kiss
Romance › Re: Why Do Men Make Sound? by Amarabae(f): 7:40pm On Jul 27, 2018
Iberibe bu oria shocked
Celebrities › Re: Kelly Hansome, His Father, Mother And Brother In U.S At Owerri People's Congress by Amarabae(f): 9:55pm On Jul 26, 2018
He was a cool upcoming artiste
Celebrities › Re: Jnr Pope Odonwodo & Wife, Jennifer Awele Celebrate 4th Wedding Anniversary by Amarabae(f): 9:53pm On Jul 26, 2018
No daughter yet? huh huh
grin grin
Cute family.
God bless them
Health › Re: , by Amarabae(f): 7:45pm On Jul 26, 2018
BRMN:
Yes assault is a crime, but school of Nursing & Bsc Nursing, are they really the same?
they are not the same.
Don't mind him.
cheesy cool
Health › Re: , by Amarabae(f):
MrBigiman:
School of Nursing or BSC nursing, they are all the same. In fact many school of nursing babes are currently making cool cash in the UK and USA, without facing the unwarranted dichotomy they get here.

A doctor or a nurse assaulting someone is a crime and should be dealt with as a personal problem and not a professional tug of war. Doctors remain the most peace loving people in the hospitals and an outliers should give u opportunity to brag about a bachelor's degree that doesn't carry too much weight on the streets.
You sound pained..
Accept my sympathy.
Running up and down looking for a johesu E-war to fight.
And let me educate ur ignorance,
School of nursing and university graduate nursing are not and never the same...

BTW I don't know why you are pained upon hearing the word university graduate nursing.
Of all comments in this thread, it is this my own, you want to masturbate on.
Don't know what you gain wasting time online insulting other health professionals.
Grow up.

Focus on your field and let other people focus on their own fields.
Thanks
Politics › Re: See What Happened After A Woman Broke Security Protocol To Meet A Governor. PICS by Amarabae(f): 6:25pm On Jul 26, 2018
The last pics though.
grin grin
Politics › Re: Disaster In Mgbemena Street Obosi After Yesterday's Rain by Amarabae(f): 6:22pm On Jul 26, 2018
To be honest, obiano is cold this 2nd tenure.
Health › Re: , by Amarabae(f): 6:48am On Jul 26, 2018
Bukky001:
Very disheartening. Doctors are taking advantage of nurses low self esteem.... U cnt blame them though, the nurses allowed it
Point of correction.
The only nurses that may be timid are school of nursing products.
This rubbish can never happen to a graduate nurse who saw the four walls of a university.
He/She would have taught the useless animal that bachelor degree is bachelor degree.
I pray and hope schools of nursing should be closed.
.
He has been summoned to court.
The case is in court as we speak.
cool cool
Politics › Re: Your Son Has Returned - Tejuoso Makes U-turn As Buhari Meet Senators In Villa by Amarabae(f):
BTW it's not a big deal, 14 still remain plus ortom and possibly tambuwal if the reports of his defection are true.
We are interested in Northern APC politicians defecting,
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Politics › Re: Sen. Tejuoso Denies Saraki, Returns To APC by Amarabae(f): 3:56am On Jul 26, 2018
Crap.
Ortom and "tambuwal defection" are news,
Who know this one.
We are more interested in Northern APC senators and governors defecting to PDP, not you Mr man grin
Nairaland General › Re: Man Survives Ghastly Accident, Climbs On His Damaged Vehicle To Take Pictures. by Amarabae(f): 3:01pm On Jul 25, 2018
*singing*
Kele nu chineke nihi na odi nma
Nihi na ruo mgbe ebiyebi ka ebere ya Di cheesy cheesy grin
Politics › Re: I Remain In APC, Another Senator Included In The Defection List Cries Out by Amarabae(f): 6:14pm On Jul 24, 2018
his name was not mentioned ,poor tactics by APC
Politics › Re: I Defected To ADC, Not Because Of Buhari Senator Monsurat Recants by Amarabae(f): 1:26pm On Jul 24, 2018
Jorussia:
.90% of the senators that defected are not doing so because of buhari.They are defecting because of their political survival.
stop consoling yourself and go check ur bp.
Politics › Re: Suspending Plenary Till September 25 Actually An Unwise Move By Senator Saraki by Amarabae(f): 1:15pm On Jul 24, 2018
babyfaceafrica:
so you are a tribalist?..hmmmm
whats tribalistic in my comment
Politics › Re: Suspending Plenary Till September 25 Actually An Unwise Move By Senator Saraki by Amarabae(f): 12:46pm On Jul 24, 2018
CilicMarin:
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Go back to the kitchen ipob woman.

Where is Nnamdi Kanu today? Do you think a Buhari a demi God in the North is your useless ogogoro drinker from Otuoke in Bayelsa?
what brought nnamdi kanu into this?
demi god and he is asslicking kwankwaso and saraki not to decamp.
Lol go and sleep boy
Politics › Re: Suspending Plenary Till September 25 Actually An Unwise Move By Senator Saraki by Amarabae(f): 12:39pm On Jul 24, 2018
maclatunji:
If indeed people in the executive want to persecute the Senate President, they will simply do the following:

1. Allow the police treat him like a murder suspect.

2. Get members of the National Assembly to reconvene- you think it is impossible? Sit down there. INEC funds have not been approved as far as the executive is concerned you know.

3. Senator Saraki has panicked and is in a much weaker position today than he was yesterday.

However, what do I know? The so-called "wailers" are celebrating- what exactly? I don't know.

Oh, I forgot PDP is now the majority abi? Getting some PDP members to defect to the APC is not a major problem now.

My point is this, the only value that Senator Saraki had was for the Senate to do its job and keep runniing. Now, that the Senate has been shutdown for 2 months. Those in the executive can do effectively what they want with him and his acolytes.
Trash.
Cry us a river.
The way some of you yorubas reason make me to question the story of awolowo free education.
The saraki that gave your tinubu upper cut in NASS ELECTION knows what he is doing.
Your buhari is leaving 2019 and tinubu greedy plan for 2023 will be squashed
Politics › Re: No Defection Yet By Any Senator Today. (live Streaming From Senate Plenary) by Amarabae(f): 12:01pm On Jul 24, 2018
Cry us a river.
It's on channels and tvc.
Even oshiomole just gave a speech on the defection.
This tinubu boys should crying us a river
Politics › Re: Kwankwaso, Melaye and 13 Other Senators Defect To PDP by Amarabae(f): 11:52am On Jul 24, 2018
otokx:
Will PDP give Saraki the presidential ticket?
With all pleasure.
Atiku or saraki
Politics › Re: So The Mass Defection, Is Just 15 Senators? Laughable by Amarabae(f): 11:51am On Jul 24, 2018
Jorussia:
saraki Joining will make the number increase to 14 or at most 15.Some PDP senators are also planning to decamp to APC.
no PDP senator want to decamp to APC.
akpabio was just teasing you bmc.
Go and monitor your bp.
Your 5naira per post bmc job is about to end
Politics › Re: So The Mass Defection, Is Just 15 Senators? Laughable by Amarabae(f): 11:49am On Jul 24, 2018
BMC CREW job is not easy o.
Chai

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