₦airaland Forum

Is that for a big basket?

aliscomonaj:
She is not lieing. Am from kogi, sometimes it goes for less than N500/basket.

8 or 9k for a hundred pieces of yam?

dlaw70:
yap,u can also get a moderate sized hundred yam for 8 or 9k.d place is called zaki biam (largest yam mkt in west Africa )

Really?

dlaw70:
Where i live i benue ,it is sold for #200

Prove her wrong or

toysleek:
Anything to trend on twitter sha

Trust me I know it's my right. I'm just surprised it could be happening as most people have given up on Nigeria.

It would be nice if this can be replicated in other parts of the country.

zlantanfan:
Is this not even suppose to be your basic right to start with, the way people like u keep going about it lia would hear and start exaggeration

Gates said he goes to church, his wife and kids are also Christians. Zuckerberg is of the Jewish faith and he confirmed this on Facebook.
Jobs was also Jewish so what exactly is your point?

Do all Christians dance like the Lord's chosen members?

Most if the technology you enjoy we're discovered by Jews and Christians so your hatred for religion holds no water. On the other hand atheists have achieved nothing other than blame Christians for all their woes.

InvertedHammer:
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Do I blame you? You are using technology created by people who care less about your religious beliefs to attack their belief. Who is the fo.ol? Look in the mirror.
I didn't see Steve Jobs, Bill Gates or Zuckerberg dancing like the crazy "The Chosen" followers to invent what you use to type the rubbish above. Your pastors buy the best cars and private Jets build by non-believers. Your so-called men or women of God are quick to adorn designs by Tom Ford, Versace, Givenchy, Hermes, Yves Saint Laurent, Michael Kors who are all openly gay designers. Who is deceiving who? Christians are the most hypocritical beings on this planet.

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Seun lalasticlala

Why doesn't nairaland have a "block" button?

Have you eaten this evening?

If yes, endeavor to take any drugs that inhibit mental retardation.

FarahAideed:
So the word liar is now an insult? Low IQ will not destroy Nigeria in Jesus Name .

Are you naturally daft or is it only on Sundays?

You not only called us liars but hopeless ones. If that's not an insult then is it a compliment? Keep venting your frustrations online you will soon be crowned NL pyscopath of the year.

FarahAideed:
Since when did calling someone a liar become an insult Sir ? Is the word liar and insult? Oga Please go and reconcile with your brain I am not the one that caused both of you to be at loggerheads

If not for one thing I would have insulted your entire generation but I'm not petty like you.

Pls, desist from quoting me and have a blessed day.

FarahAideed:
You and your sisters are hopeless liars ...its either you people dont know what 24 hours is or your are dishing out false propaganda..... where do you live

Who told you things won't change? People have never suffered like this in the history if this nation before. If any right thinking candidate wins, the economy may grow and would the naira may become stronger and the prices of commodities cheaper making life easier for the average citizen.

gidgiddy:
APC wins
PDP wins

Nothing is going to change, Nigeria will still be a $hithole

I was away from home for a long time and just recently returned only to discover that there's been a tremendous improvement in electricity in the area. My sister had told me sometime last year that we now enjoyed 24 hours of electricity daily but I thought she was just playing around.

Since I've been back we have never made use of the generator. Occasionally there are outages but they never last more than 5 to 10mins.

PS: This doesn't in anyway mean I endorse this government.

What is the situation of electricity in your area?

Is it your money? Why is it paining you?

xest:
Rubbish post, why will they pay tithe in the first place? And why is it that pastors always lays emphasis on it? No man in Nigeria is qualified to receive or pay tithe.

Why are you atheists not caused a technological advancement nor built industries since you're smarter and not brainwashed unlike Christians?

Fools!

InvertedHammer:
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Churches hinder national development because they have brainwashed the middle class into locking away their functional brain in expectations of miracles. While citizens of other nations are embracing technology to create wealth, most Nigerians are idly waiting for God to pick their calls without putting in the work. The church preaches that our endeavours are in vain if we do not involve Jesus. Go tell that to the Japanese, Israelites, Chinese and other successful citizens of non-Christian nations. Christianity as practiced in Nigeria creates laziness resulting in dearth of competitive edge. It gets worse. These days people do not give credit to God or Christ anymore, they pay obeisance to daddy or mommy G.O. Only in Nigeria. Go figure! The level of ignorance is perplexing.
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Worry about how you can survive without Niger Delta oil and nobody cares about your state of origin.

kutchs:
Hahahahaha
If you knew my state of origin, you wouldn't have written this. Anyway that isn't the issue being discussed so shift let me read comments from intelligent brains.

Keep quiet mumu

Someone asked his wife and kids to leave his house and was humbled when his wife broke the good news that the property was in her name.

CrazeMan69:
Shut your mouth �,
Did he throw her bags outside? Did he beat her?
Do you know what really went down?

You heard a sob story and you are condemning the man
Your type will be jumping from one church to another because of broken homes when you are the cause of your misfortune

Save your advice for your sisters with low self esteem.

divinelove:
Who allowed this kid into this thread, son this thread is for mature people not kids like you. Now get lost

Who are you to decide who remains single?

dafemnet:
She will learn to submit to her next husband or she remains single. A woman must submit to whoever she's married to else she will be single. Even in LGBT world, there must be a submissive partner. Don't fool ur selves

She is not wrong. Her husband is wrong for wanting to be the sole owner of a property his wife contributed more to.

adubiay:
One major problem we have in Africa is that we don't pay attention to details before we start saying rubbish, @op said she bought the LAND with her money in her name, but they BOTH contributed to build the house. I guess the husband never knew the land is in the wife's name when he was pumping his money into the project, that might have formed basis for his anger, though he is over reacting, pls madam don't scatter your marriage based on some advise here from children who are not married, admit you are wrong by putting only your name, and bring your husband back home. You have ego too, so ur caption here that your husband has ego is wrong.

She owns at least 75% of the house since she also bought the land.

oshe11:
Alot of You are getting things wrong here....


The only thing the wife Own is THE LAND






They built the house TOGETHER!!!


2NDLY.....

What did she do to Warrant a GOOD man wanting her to leave?

And when she refused, he packed out and transfered?

Shut up with your silly advice. The woman did nothing wrong and you're here blaming her.

chris31:
Kiss ur marriage good bye if u neglect ur parents & go to ur pastor
Most marriage have crashed coz of my pastor say this & that
Ur parents are in the best position to calm ur husband down coz its anger that is burning inside him
Since its not a cheating case its not that a major case
But my advice to u next time learn how to shape ur mouth anytime ur having misunderstanding with ur husband
U women are fond of that don't be surprise that its coz of the things u said to him prompted him to act this way
Again if u don't want to bring more problem to urself don't carry this issue go meet ur pastor

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chris31:
Sense fall on u
Ur Pastor is not God & faces his own home problem but won't tell u
Most pastors are not in control of their home u people should follow with sense
Ur parents are the God u see, honor them so that ur days will be long
Tell ur parents what ur passing through & the advice they give u is the best not a pastor who have his own interest at hand

So men don't talk and always remind their wives that it's their house and they should move out?
Nigerian men with low IQ.

nams77:
Heseessll. Quite a dicey situation. I wouldn't stay in a house built by a woman but I must say your husband is a chauvinist and has no sense of goodness in him.
I see two options. You can be magnanimous and do a joint ownership or rent another flat and Put up yours for rent. That's is if what you are saying is true.
If he doesn't pick up any of these options then he is a devil.
If I were him, I would be crossed finding out at that moment that I was not part of the ownership ( you stuck to your own plan, nothing wrong with that, but he should be aware from the onset)
I would request we move out to a rented apartment ( can't live in a woman's house cos I know how they talk,)
Or I will ask for a joint ownership With an agreement to refund a portion of the cost of building to you on instalments.
Just pray to God for solution

Where is your sense? So if you buy land do you buy it in your name or in the family name? Where do people with such mentality spring up from?

sacramento1212:
That’s the very 1st mistake the woman made. She secured the land in her name and this same house according to her was jointly built by both parties. The man knowing the property was in her name felt betrayed and she, the woman further told the man this that it’s her property.

Husbands love your wives even as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it.

Mumu...be twisting Bible to suit your warped mentality.

dafemnet:
Wives be submissive to ur husbands and husbands love ur wives so they can both live in peace. A woman that can't be submissive to her husband should leave the husband and stay single afterall there are so many single women in their 40s,50s,60s etc

Thank God for delivering you from the spirit of egoism.

iamkeyz:
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You didn't read her post.
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He used his money for his parents while the built the house.
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Are you saying she does not deserve to build a house?
Or arw you saying she can not file for divorce and get a better king?
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Men sef....
I just tire for all these ego...
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I used to be like this before sha...
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But not anymore...
A woman is a also a human being.
She has her life to live
She has the rights to be happy and respected.
She should be applauded to making right moves.
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We don too take this people for granted.
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Seriously that man is foolish.

Look at this mumu. The owner of any land is the owner of the property on that land. The woman bought the land, still brought most of the money used in building the house.

Egoistic cry babies.

phreakabitoo:

Una build house together you register am for your name?
No be thief be this?
Na your type SARS and EFCC dey find for street. . .
You are lucky it's not me. Na lawsuit straight.
You go prison, I divorce you and get a new queen shikena.

Careful about what exactly? Didn't he already leave her? Stop acting like someone is dying. Losing a useless man should be a testimony, not something to be sorrowful about.

CSTR1005:
I don't want to go tribal, but if your husband is Yoruba, then you need to be more careful.


Yoruba men don't even hesitate to move on. They move on very quickly.


Igbo men still wait a little while longer.

It is a win win situation for the woman. The kids will see her as their everything. They will despise their father after all he threw them out.

She can get married again if she chooses to. Better still she can remain single. Life does not start and end with a egoistic Nigerian man.

Oh....she can also sell the house, if it's a very good house and depending on the location too she can pocket up to N50m, rent a property, employ a nanny to babysit the kids while she continues her job.

The man is a sore loser.

CSTR1005:
Alright then.

At least she has a house to sell or lease to take care of her children and then hope some man somewhere finds her interesting enough to come in and play the role of a father for her children and a companion.

By then, the husband would have moved on, rent a new house, find a new woman he trusts to respect him and build a family with him.

Win -win.

Excuse you...read the Bible first before drawing conclusions. People can interpret anything to suit their already twisted views on any topic. Nowhere in the Bible does it say to concede any property to your husband.

Daeylar:


There are so many reasons why I hate that book of many ridiculous stories. This is one of them


Op, my advice to you is since he has gone, let him go, but...... People don't like divorce sooooo.... No comment.

I wonder wear such men are bred, God help us.
No wonder boacken have the worst IQ in all of humanity. Someone asked his wife and kids to move out and they could've been out if not for the smartness of the woman and you're here saying thrash.

Pls receive sense because at the moment you have none.

CSTR1005:
The woman is terrible and I understand the husband's point of view.

He asked her to pack out like any average Nigerian man threatens when they are very annoyed. He was probably never going to see it through on the long run.

Only to have his wife deflect his ego that the property he thought was a family asset belonged to his wife.
A massive treachery.

I am sure he is never going to stay in that house again. He'd rather rent his own house than live there.

If the woman knows what is good for her, she'd better retrace her steps and change the ownership to a family name or in the children's names.

If not, That guy would go out there and get a new wife in time and rent a new house, and she would be stuck with three children.