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Kobojunkie:
Abeg, what YouTube channels be that make me too try them.

Didi2d:
Well, this is the reason I don't always talk when she's not around. Though most times she denies when the issue goes out.
Like I said before, I saw the red flag even when we are dating

Mindlog:
I am impressed whenever I read or see Nigerian parents taking up early professional intervention for their children who are neuro-diversified as it helps both kids and parents have a clearer understanding of what they are dealing with.

I hope the YouTube contents provides your son with lots of sensory activities.

klassyguy:
I came here for advice on how to tackle a problem, not for a lecture on whether I am doing a good job of raising my kids. I've raised my kids the best way I feel. Not everyone is perfect. Sometimes you need inputs of other parents. Most of the time when I flog him, he behaves. His teacher has told me on several occasions he behaves after I "talk" to him, but it is not all the time one should spank a kid when he misbehaves. Training kids is not only achieved at home. They also have to learn and be corrected in school where their parents are not present, and that's where teachers come in.

As for the test, if you read my initial post, I clearly mentioned I AM OPEN TO TAKING HIM FOR AN ADHD TEST. It's my wife that's against it. I can't do that without her input and support. How would you feel if your spouse goes behind your back to do something with both your kids without your support and knowledge?

FutureFocus:
Just take down my name on this forum.
Ambient, it’s not like I don’t know your husband name or you name, but I don’t do revenge, just take down my name, reverse what you did

3Hopeblog:
I used his full name. The result that appeared is different from what you shared.

IamGreen1:
She hasn't, her las comment is on previous page acting unbothered.

FutureFocus:
Scroll down , you will see the one I’m talking about, stop pretending you don’t know it’s there

Reverse what you did

Enyinne:
Court no easy oo . To get justice , my dear u will spend all ur money and yet..... so be wise

3Hopeblog:
Jesus! It's true.

Just checked now and it's number on the first page. Guys it's unfair now. Please just take down the post on the scam alert thread. I initial thought it's the moniker that shows it but it's his real name which is unfair.

Have been quitely following this and didn't expect it will degenerate to this level.

nickyvil:
Macbook

FutureFocus:
SEBI YOU SAID THIS TAB CANT DO YOUTUBE? And not charging?

The 3 tabs were YouTube compatible, you really goofed, stay away from me.

You even made a video of me at our first meeting which they ordered you to delete at the station, why make a video of me on the first day inside Kilimanjaro? Clearly this was premeditated by you

FutureFocus:
Noted

I NEVER MENTIONED YOU neither did I invited you to my conversation, but you are here calling me out that you have paid a lawyer, that I shouldn't let the money waste, same you that was crying at the station? Same you your mother spoke to me from owerri and begged on your behalf, I never mentioned you but you are here calling me out, I'm advising you to desist from attacking me as I'm trying to get people to take take those post that labeled me as a scammer down

Shegzdave:
REST NAH!!!

Alexjohn2020:
so you be nwanyi owerre...lol

I pray this matter be settled amicably tho

kolokolobi:
You have already mentioned that your BB is territorial hopefully not fiercely territorial. You there fore should not intro another canine into its territory unannounced. Secondly I do not know how socialised its been while growing up and not how good the dog is with other dogs or animals. So it has to be baby steps all along the way.

1. Let both dogs meet for the first time in a neutral territory. Outside your compound. This first meeting should not have the new dog in direct face contact with old one.
2. Allow the old one while being held to sniff new one and investigate. Watch out for tension easing and calm. Do not proceed to step 3 until calm is restored.
3. Walk both dogs for a while and head home. Allow older dog to go in first. Then wait for signal that the older dog wants the new one to come inside. This may be by the happy wagging of the tail of "hello new friend...come inside"
4. Keep new dog in enclosure that old dog can always come to and check. Allow both to have supervised access to each other until they are fully calm and even playing when they do.


Finally, this needs patience and calmness/ firmness on your part as your tension is transfered to them ad well.

Good luck.

lilvicky68:
Update us

odimbannamdi:
I agree. Just that buying stuffs from China is now extremely difficult coz of the FOREX limitations on our cards now. Really frustrating.

Desusi:
Naira landers, kindly advise me on what to do.

l am over 60 years old, a widower. By the grace of God, l was blessed with three children of which two are graduates with good grades from reputable universities here in Nigeria, one is still undergraduate before the departure of my late wife some years back.

As a retired man with meager money, I decided to manage a little business which barely gives me much money. One of these my children, a professional, though not teacher, is currently residing with me doing teaching job in different places as part time, pending when he would get a much better job.

We are living in my personal house. l would single handedly pay electricity bills, lawnman, etc. My son would not want to help in any way, not even with pure water of #10 claiming that he is with his father.

Efforts to convince him to assist me is not yielding positive result, instead he would pick quarrels with me. His senior sister has married, while the junior brother is still in the school as dependant, what sort of counseling do you think he needs to change.

I am afraid even if this boy owns shop rite in future, he would not help either.

Onyewarri:
In recent times I couldn't help but think about how the artisan and Craftsmanship industry of Nigeria will be 10 years from now.

I remember back in the 80s and 90s, it is common and even a thing of pride whereby people sign up for apprenticeship for a couple of years to get the required skill in their field of interest.

Some Parents like my father even insisted on adding artisanry to formal education as plan B. So all each children had to learn a skill while waiting for admission or during the one year industrial training period in higher institutions ( A legacy I will earnestly follow with my lineage).

Aside the fact that it is a huge boost to ones C.V., you will never beg for food unless you weren't serious with your training.

But today you hardly see youngsters, learning Craftsmanship or artisanry. Every body wants to be a content creator, a programmer, content writer, Yahoo yahoo and the likes.

Nobody wants to be a plumber, an electrician, a technician, a mechanic, a bricklayer or tiler, welder, iron bender and the likes.

Have you noticed how difficult it is to get an experienced and skilled artisan these days. Sometimes you have to wait for days for them to come and do jobs for you in your house.

The crux of the matter is the crop of experienced and skilled artisans and Craftsmen and women presently available are those from the 80s and 90s. Most of their apprentices are actually with them just to make ends meet thereby prioritizing the need to make money above that of properly learning the skill from their master.

Personally I think it's just a matter of a couple of years before we realize the dire situation of artisanry and Craftsmanship in this country. Maybe by then we will start looking for foreigners to fill in the gaps.

What do you guys think?

FutureFocus:
I never invited you to my conversation, stay away from me, that message was not directed at you but you are here to attack me again! The Acer Tab you claimed could not do YouTube is here , the one you gave me at the station, Android version 4.4.2 turned out that your YouTube excuse for returning that tab was a lie, you can’t claim I change it because it’s got your kids pics and videos he made on it, stay away from me ! Again stay away from me! I repeat, stay away from me, you can not be shedding crocodile tears at the station and then come online to attack me, please stay away from me, I’m just begging you, stay away from me for the peace of everyone on this thread. Thanks You.

odimbannamdi:
It is, sir. The guy is literally stalking me on another thread. You can check his posts. I had to bring it here since it all started here. My apologies for doing so though, as I can see that it could start a fresh bickering.

I thought he was a busy person, apparently he isn't... ...we will see how it all goes