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Romance › Re: 99% Of Babes Loves Slim , Beautiful & Chocolate Colour Guys. Why? by Amya(f): 8:58pm On Aug 23, 2011

Princek12:
tell me how many Naija girls are walking around looking for chiseled, chocolate sexy guys. BS. Even if a chiseled, chocolate guy approached many of these Naija girls on the street or at a random place many of these girls will be intimidated and won't know how to act.

Naija girls are attracted to money, first and foremost. They are also attracted to pot-bellied, fat guys who was introduced to them by their friend.

Naija girls are socially defunct and don't know how to meet guys who are strangers, even if that guy were a sexy, chocolate blah blah blah.

The poster's hypothesis may apply to African American girls or other African girls who are socially engaging. Naija girls have attitudes 99% of the time to guys who are strangers who approach them, even if he is a sexy, chocolate. Naija girls are socially defunct. Only money makes them say woah. Naija girls are money hungry suckers.

He was talking about girls in general! Somehow, naija girls had to come into this. BTW why do Naija guys hate Naija girls so much?

@OPIsn't 99% a bit too much? I think most would go for tall and huge (like i do!)

Romance › Re: I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 7:00pm On Aug 23, 2011

toba:
Im exactly your colleague in such kind a situation. Mine is even complicated cos i cant even stand any lady that menstruate, cant spend money on any lady thats not my wife/family, can stand ladies that sweat, etc some many things irritates me and my anger is worse than that of the devil.

My advise just keep to your self and later if God wants, u will find a BF or Husband.

It pays to be alone sometimes

The thing is, if i can't adjust now, how can i adjust later. I'm okay with the way my life is right now, but i have to think about the future too, right?

Romance › Re: I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 6:30pm On Aug 23, 2011

kpolli:
Seems u have issues accommodating others in your life. . . u like to be alone, that sucks

What you say is true . . .I hope to change, but i don't how to.

Romance › Re: I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2011

Goldy darling!!!

Romance › Re: What Can I Do Pls? by Amya(f): 4:39pm On Aug 23, 2011

you've made your intentions known to her, just be patient with her. Don't force it, time will tell eventually.

P.S Don't be too nice and caring. I make it a point to avoid guys like that.

Romance › Re: I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 4:11pm On Aug 23, 2011

M M M:
op
and now u need a BF

yeah

Romance › Re: I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 3:22pm On Aug 23, 2011

Nayah:
Third: There's no guide for being a good girlfriend just be natural and someone will learn to love you as you are

That's what I've been telling myself for years! What if my personality is too standoffish and no one gets to love me the way i am. . . won't it be better i adjust a little more character-wise?

Romance › I Really Don't Know How To Be A Girlfriend. by Amya(op): 2:41pm On Aug 23, 2011

I'm 25 years old and have been in a couple of relationships, all of which have ended terribly. The reason i think for this is i really don't know how to be a girlfriend. It's a really big problem, one which i hope to overcome very soon. There's this Guy i really like who wants to date me presently and i really don't want to make a mess of things and blow it as I've blown the rest.

The problem isI like my space and don't like people too clingy. I like to do things by myself. I really don't need a guy around except for se.x, as i don't self service. I'm not the call type and i can go without my phone for a long while. If i don't have any feeling for a guy, he doesn't stand a chance, if the feeling i once have disappear, i disappear!
I don't think i have ever been in the conventional boyfriend/girlfriend relationship except for once or twice and one of which the guy disagrees with me on that issue as you would read further down.
Another problem i have is that i get bored easily, and if there's not enough drama, spontaneity and passion to sustain the relationship it drifts away without me even knowing. It's only once or twice I've had the conventional break-up, immediately any of my relationships loses steam, i'm out. Stay single for a really long time, see someone i really like and repeat the same cycle. The thing I'm not really young again and i hope to settle down in the nearest future, but if i can't keep a boyfriend, how can i keep a husband!
BTW, what's the difference between having a 'thing' with someone and actually dating someone as a guy i dated for close to a year who i was so in love with then, and who's presently dating my friend told her that we are actually didn't date, but we just had a 'thing' for a while and i was simply delusional for claiming a non-existent relationship. To say i was flabbergasted would be the understatement of the year. By God, I'd sworn we were actually dating! It wasn't a secret, everyone knew . . .we broke up officially due to some problems that cropped up much later in the relationship.

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Romance › Re: These Gurls Ehh! by Amya(f): 1:43pm On Aug 23, 2011

you are pretty dumb yo know? keep showing you stupidity to the whole wide ~~world~~ web

Romance › Re: My Girl Frnd Has Suga Daddy In Port Harcout Help by Amya(f): 9:51pm On Aug 21, 2011

There's actually a probability the story could be true, but there's really no advice i can give. This things happens all the time. You should probably worker harder to satisfy her quest for materialistic things, or dump her. Enough said already!

Romance › Re: Can You Marry An Independent, Divorcee/'single mother' Nigerian Woman? by Amya(f): 3:56pm On Aug 21, 2011

Orikinla:
A woman is a woman.
What matters most is either she is a good woman or a bad woman.

TRUE TALK BROTHER

Romance › Re: These Gurls Ehh! by Amya(f): 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2011

@OP, you mustn't start a thread you know? especially when you have nothing to say.

This is officially the DUMBEST thread I've come across on NL

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 5:20pm On Aug 20, 2011

toba:
unwind? that's a jamb question. Let me say through NL, facebook and Yahoo messenger. I dont have friends its work work and work. After church i even dash to the office to do some work at times. Still at the final lap of my PHD from University of Calabar though. That's all i can say ma

Hey, you know what they say 'all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy' except you derive the ultimate joy from work, unwinding once in a while is really not a bad idea.
BTW you sound like such a workaholic, just take it easy.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 1:55pm On Aug 20, 2011

Oh Okay . . . So, how do you unwind?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 1:53pm On Aug 20, 2011

You say you'll be leaving for a party in 45mins. . . Parties are fun things right? Good life?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 1:48pm On Aug 20, 2011

^^^^the good life!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 1:42pm On Aug 20, 2011

^^^^thanks for asking, my weekend's kinda boring but I'm such a recluse so i guess I'm enjoying it as it is. How's yours?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 1:36pm On Aug 20, 2011

^^^funny, you really as deep as i am.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 9:57pm On Aug 19, 2011

^^^you Goldieluks is one feisty girl. I'm sure Mr Dickles means no harm, so quit the BS

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section: Ask Aunty Fickle Anything To Help You Love by Amya(f): 9:33pm On Aug 19, 2011

Goldieluks:
No thanks,
am not that into you.

When someone is becoming a hostile, a huge probability they may be nursing a secret crush.

Goldieluks dear, are you having a crush on Mr Dickles?

Romance › Re: Why Do Some Guys Form For No Apparent Reason? by Amya(f): 7:25am On Aug 19, 2011

This thread is not useless. The OP echoed my thoughts exactly. Why do guys form? Young guys most especially. If you know why, you say.

Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Calls Off Wedding by Amya(f): 6:58am On Aug 14, 2011

The options were actually too limited for her. she just had two options. . .
1. Continue with the wedding at the risk of being criticized, maligned and disapproved of by the public or
2. Call off the wedding and save face.
She chose the later because that was the most reasonable option.
I actually feel sorry for whether or not she actually knew of the guy's previous marriage. It's quite embarrassing with all the attention and hype this attracted.

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 8:44pm On Aug 11, 2011

. . .and sexkillz, you really have issues

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 8:40pm On Aug 11, 2011

^^^^Are you saying you've never typed wrongly before. Besides English is not my mother tongue. Keeping judging!

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 8:12pm On Aug 10, 2011

sexkillz:
I am Swirry! Are YOU?

I won't even dignify this with a response.

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 8:02pm On Aug 10, 2011

sexkillz:
^^^ I think you need some ANGER management classes!

I can't even waste any emotion on you. And i have two words for you, GROW UP!!!

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 10:00am On Aug 10, 2011

^^^Quit making a nuisance of yourself. Becoming quite pathetic now.

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 9:16am On Aug 10, 2011

All those who think this thread is dumb, don't you think that stating how dumb it is, on it, is actually a dumb thing to do. . .you mustn't comment you know.

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 9:11am On Aug 10, 2011

sexkillz:
DUMB!

really? then i guess you are being quite the good mentor to moi. Your posts actually sets precedents on DUMB

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 8:29am On Aug 10, 2011

1. Do you really think sex is important in a relationship?

i actually think sex is quite important in a relationship. To me, it's quite a determinant on whether or not a relationship works or not. I easily fall in love with people who match my passion in bed and I'm quick to break up with people who don't.

2. Does it determine if a relationship would work? Can wives leave there husbands for it? and vice versa.

yeah, i could leave my husband for it. . .well i wouldn't even marry someone who doesn't satisfy me!

3. (To guys) If you have carnal knowledge of a person before you get married, does that automatically make a person a LovePeddler?

no, or rather i don't think it should be

4. Are the techniques and how good a person is (performing the techniques) really important?

yes, it is important

5. Can love really conquer all. . .Especially in a situation where a person isn't very good, or completely horrible in bed?

errm, not to me it doesn't.

6. (To girls) does size of a guys tool really matter?

Yes!!!

7. Is the size, height and shape of a person really important?

Yes!!!

Romance › Re: Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 7:07pm On Aug 09, 2011

You mustn't answer them all. Choose anyone, then answer.

Romance › Does It Really Matter? (your Views) by Amya(op): 6:34pm On Aug 09, 2011

1. Do you really think sex is important in a relationship?

2. Does it determine if a relationship would work? Can wives leave there husbands for it? and vice versa.

3. (To guys) If you have carnal knowledge of a person before you get married, does that automatically make a person a LovePeddler?

4. Are the techniques and how good a person is (performing the techniques) really important?

5. Can love really conquer all. . .Especially in a situation where a person isn't very good, or completely horrible in bed?

6. (To girls) does size of a guys tool really matter?

7. Is the size, height and shape of a person really important?

These questions might actually look laughable, and the answers to these questions might seem predictable, but you'd be surprised at the different views people might have.

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