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She needs to walk away from a man who is not ready to take the relationship to the next level after 4 years of being together.

Aladeintl:
There was this popular MoG from Ibadan who do early morning prayer on Ajilete FM that I adamantly forbid my wife from listening to.

I told her, 'I am not saying you shouldn't listen to him but not under my own roof.'

I didn't banned her because the man was fake. I didn't think the MoG is fake, but I find some of his modus operandi unbiblical.

Likewise, some songs like Daddy wey dey pamper is not fit my own family. While I am around, she mustn't.

I will soon delete that song from her phone sef.

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I once collected her purse and gave her only transport fare when she was going for a crusade organized by one prophet olororo.

What is my drift? I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze and his YouTube early morning prayer ministry but it is a disgrace and dishonour to you, the man of the house, if your woman can wake up to listen to other man before you.

It's a disgrace to my fatherhood if my kids are doing morning devotion via internet led by another man and wife and kids aren't to be blamed.

Therefore, we men, should truly man up and be the leader God made us.

The likes of Pastor Jerry Eze and co come into equation because many men are not spiritual leader. He is filling the gaps created by spiritually-absent fathers.

Your wife jumping from one prayer mountain to another is because you haven't ascertain your spiritual headship in the head.

And for those joining Pastor Jerry from their boyfriend's room, just dey play ooo, dey play ooo.

May God helps us to discharge our duties accordingly.

Ire oooooooo

Funny that husbands and fathers no longer understand what being the "head of the home" means. It's first a spiritual assignment before the physical. You must safeguard your family spiritually as a man. The prayers your wife has been praying to cover your family is because you will not do it. Stop her from praying o and see what happens to your family. She needs to speak to you first because you're her creator or you are God. She shouldn't pray under your roof. Anupam

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Farthing02:
I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.

She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .

This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.

I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.

Baba nla narcissist. A woman just frequently quarrels for no reason abi? Saint Obi. And you're indirectly telling us she inherited fighting from her mother to be specific. Call him since you don't have sense. Serena and Venus William's father was a deadbeat dad to his first family but abandoned them to go be a father to Venus and Serena.
Na the girl I pity because any small thing, you'll bring her parents' failed marriage into it.

ibinaboonline:
Nairaland is full of all kinds of people: fantastically smart souls and outright dimwits too. What has newly discovered dieses or even medical breakthroughs have to do with the fact that both men and women are at-risk in this case? Dimwit with a foul mouth, still can't engage in constructive conversations because you're nothing but an empty gong. You studied in the field of wasted school fees.

Bro, too many embittered souls on this platform. People who have never experienced love for a day in their lives. Who would resort to name-calling instead of respectfully or politely educating you if need be. Check his comments and topics, he's clearly unhappy and the sight of people being happy or loved drived him nuts. He's also clearly and disturbingly obsessed with women. He's in the same category with Funfere Koroye that is being called out now on Twitter.



Just a word of advice, keep important decisions and questions off this platform. Especially around relationships and marriage.

All the best 👍🏾