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canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

It's good you're willing to stop, and it's an important first step. But you should go to therapy before subjecting another person's child to this habit. Without seeking proper help, I'm afraid you won't stop after marriage because your wife will not always be able to (pregnancy, childbirth, life, etc.)

LMFAO
I don't know how Buhari and all the other enemies of state are still chilling in their homes?

With a magic wand?
Y'all voted him, enjoy the heat

As you lay your bed, so you lie on it

SenecaTheYonger:
It’s the opposite. Women cheat with emotions. For a woman to allow you inside her, she must be emotionally attached to you first.

It’s not so for man. After we cum, it’s over

So you think lol

onthehill:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3Sj3KVXcS8?si=dmWGL8Hrc_KQ4_Sb

"If you catch your PARTNER cheating and you forgive him or her, the respect they have for you will go"

Fixed!

Gistsnaijamedia:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2024/03/wigwe-built-private-tomb-before-death-struck/amp/

This was no premonition. People in the West purchase their burial places years in advance. My colleague bought hers beside her parents almost 15 years ago

cutesharon:
I do not pity him cos some men want to catch women young as wives. They forget that these young ladies will still need to live their youth which is normal. The lady is obviously not matured enough for marriage but Mr Man wanted young blood. My advise is to stay away from him. Who knows whether he tells his wife the advise he gets and the people get blacklisted. Just pray for him.

Very true. There is absolutely no one, male or female who will not desire to live their youth and their age. The man did as long as he liked and then settled for a 19 year old. A teenager.

Zooposki:
A 20year old girl marrying a 40year old agbaya and you expect her to love you. For what na? They have nothing in common. Limit age gap to maximum 5years. If desperate and an agbaya and a paedophile, limit to max 10years.

My thoughts too. You married a teenager and expected her to not act like one.

Was she mature for marriage at 19? That's what you get with that kind of age gap. He had no business marrying someone he can actually give birth to when he was well into his 40s. At least a 20 year gap? A teenager? He didn't see a lady in her 20s or 30s? He should live with the consequences. I have no advice for his type. Nice married senior colleague indeed.

Hilarious comments. He's a married man with three children

Mohbad 😇

deltaF0SS:
R u jokin me 😋
cook ruined it 4 u




trouble in the kingdom ov darkness

I'm serious 😂 I've just never really liked it.

Won't be surprised if he was slipped something

1. Sea food.
2. Sushi.
3. Shawarma/doner kebab.
4. Egusi soup.
5. Eba.
6. Spaghetti Bolognese.

Disgusting

Congratulations to them. Beautiful black queen

DaytonaAries:
It's the response from men for me. Nigeria still has a long way to go in educating the male child.

In a saner country; do you think you can beat your your wife for arguing with you? Men in this post are glorifying domestic violence. Do you think if some women shut up their husband won't beat them.


Go to homes for women that have been abused. You would know that domestic violence isn't a thing of just keeping your mouth shut. Some women if they breathe the wrong way, thier husband would beat them, if they sit they wrong way, they get beat up even infront of their kids. Some men even ask their kids to beat the mother.


How a whole Minister of women affairs can come hear and say such things and think keeping quiet would stop domestic violence is appalling.


You need to teach people no one has the right to hit anyone just because they have an argument with you. Would men beat uo their bosses or colleagues for the same argument? No they would not.


The response from men in this post just reeks of ignorance on domestic violence issues. It Just reeks of poverty riddled mentality and lack of exposure. I don't blame them, it is the society that makes them think it is right to beat up their wives and get away with it I blame.

💯

MrBrownJay1:
read again what i wrote, this time slowly and with a clear mind.

an argument is NOT always a woman talking back to a man, it can also be a man talking back to a woman.

Don't mind that one. When the majority of the time, it's the other way around. Women are not second class citizens! You'll speak outside too and they'll tell you they have your type at home lol

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE FROM YEYE WOMAN (who should be fired from her post)
a marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship. so as much as people in marriage shouldnt shout/insult one another, they should BOTH communicate and work out their differences in a mature manner. telling women to shut up as if they are always wrong (and/or men are always right) is clueless! and even though men are consider the head of the family, it doesnt mean that your woman doesnt have her say in the union.

so your woman's views/opinion are irrelevant in marriage now?! what kind of yeye person would even want such woman in their life?

circus monkeys saying utter rubbish!

Thank you! You have said it all.

I don't know how this made it to the front page. Attention seeking is a clear mental health issue.

I'm for calling out whoever needs to be called out. And I heard the Wigwe family already said they don't want the church near them, that is fine. They had expectations. What happened to Herbert Wigwe was tragic, especially for his aged parents. All I see is a pattern. His elder brother and his wife died in a fatal accident too. I don't see why they need to drag someone else. How long is enough to mourn? One week? One year? A life time? What does proper honor mean? Y'all need to give it a rest abeg. Should they have put up a monument to worship him? People react to death differently. I don't get it.

If I were the one, the party would have been suspended as it was sudden.

Skooltynz:
no wonder israel no dey looseguard they understand this people language very well violence for violence.

Palestine is the one Israel is at war with, not Pakistan.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
I'm not the cause of your frustrations.
If you cannot engage people in conversation without an infusion of curses, abuse and insults then avoid me.

Was it a conversation you were engaging in? Mr. abortion. cho cho cho cho cho ...busy body. You won't find something else to do than to say nonsense about a dead girl that cannot defend herself. Mr. Divine Evidence, you will go to church tomorrow now and lift up holy hands abi? Hypocrite.

Frustrations? Lol. That's you darling. Next time use your sense! Read, you won't read. There are things that should not be coming out of your mouth at your big age!

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
You're sharp-minded!

1. Delayed menstruation.
2. Hospital ran pregnancy tests
3. Also did womb examination.
4. "Even 'evacuation' does not require anaesthesia" according to a relative doctor.
5. Uncontrolled bleeding. When did hysteroscopes start severing major blood vessels?

In all, I should be suspecting a prominent character in all of this, but what do I know sef?

The more you look, the less you see.

You both don't have sense. Zero sense. Have you ever heard of PCOS? Fibroids? Or do you need me to Google it for you? If you know nothing about medicine, then shut up! Ozuo

YelloweWest:
A male child is far worse.

This was not an abortion. Don't slander the dead .

Don't mind him. When he won't read.

I hope she gets justice and have some licenses withdrawn. Too bad. Can't trust these hospitals, the organ trade is a huge one globally

Juliearth:
Consider this a sequel to the thread earlier created.

Thus if you had 1000 naira to create a perfect man, how would you go about it. Bear in mind:

Six packs/perfectly toned body = N500
Faithfulness= N300
Intelligence = N700
Looks = N200
Spirituality= N300
Loyalty= N200
Financial worth=N400
Hygiene= N200
Romantic = N200
Funny= N300

Ladies, let's ruffle up these numbers.




Cc
Dominique
Farano
Rocktation

IF I were to choose, it will be faithfulness and intelligence. The rest can be taught or learned.

Story's incomplete and not recent. Google him and read up.