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Why do hospitals in Nigeria allow their staff to post or share their patient's business online? You risk losing your license and getting sued abroad for violating patient confidentiality and GDPR guidelines. Appalling behaviour

I really had a good laugh reading majority of the comments. At the end of the day, nothing in life is a must or by force. IF you desire marriage as a SENSIBLE man or woman, marry a SENSIBLE person. Someone who can always have your back in and out of season, and you're on the same page about life in general. Do what works for you both as one flesh. Love and light!

Excellent stuff

MsJackson:
I would love to get a remote job. How can we chat privately please? My email address is ejirodetermined01@gmail.com.

I'll send you an email soon

bionixs:
go and sit down. Even if he serves eternity sentences , the woman is gone .

People like you no go get sense. Na your type be this. Don't start what you know that you can't finish. If you don't want to submit to him , LEAVE! Marriage no be accident. She must have seen the red flags but wants to put up a flight with a butcher , banking on the rants of European-wannabe social media gender activist and feminists.

It pains me but the hard truth is that we are Africans. The man could marry as many wives as he can afford. She knows that before searching into his phone or marrying him

You're a foolish boy because you can't be classified as a man. Missed your meds? Read what you wrote. Does it make any iota of sense to you? Who let the dogs out? Or why do we have animals like you interacting with sensible human beings? Bloody knucklehead

MsJackson:
He has thrown my things and my child's things out finally and another woman has moved in. Thank you guys.

Sorry to hear this OP. Just read up on your previous posts. I know you mentioned you studied Chemical Engineering and you're teaching now. What was your class of degree? Will you be willing to do a remote role if you got one? Don't worry, God has just saved you from a lifetime of misery. It is time to focus on you and your only child.

Lock her up

Chrisrare:
As a woman if you know you can't respect and submit to your husband, then it's better you remain single.

Some of you just open your dirty mouths instead of keeping quiet. So that's enough justification for killing her? He will get his respect and submission doing life imprisonment.

I don't understand why he's crying. Kenya's visa exemption rules don't apply to any other African countries except its East African counterparts. The Kenyan single entry visa is $51 and $1 on paper but they're straightforward with people with passports from the West compared to passport holders from African countries. He should Bleep off.

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Cult members surely

#1: Honor o, respect o, you can't force it if you're not living and leading by being a good or excellent example of a husband and father.

#10: If it is a case of abuse, please report him/her to an authority figure or to the authorities depending on how bad it is. Don't die trying to resolve an issue like physical abuse among yourselves.

Why won't he be? Boundaries??

Welcome to Australia, I hope it yields good fruits for you and your family.

Been thinking about what to make for dinner. Definitely making this with rice. Just going to do a quick drive to the African store for the necessities

dangotesmummy:
o please educate the man child about some women developing stroke,deafness or high blood pressure after bringing life to a child.


I had a friend very pretty, chubby,full of life and vivacious.the moment she was pregnant most of her hair was gone,her blood pressure rose up,her beauty was gone even after child birth.obesity nko? Some cannot even walk again after child birth,some go blind too much to mention and then this sociopathic fool with no home training casualizes child birth like you don't have a mother to tutor you

I've had oby/gyn patients (pregnant women) with complete hair loss, loss of dentition, temporary blindness, paralysis, partial stroke, postpartum psychosis, etc. I think they need to start raising the awareness in Nigeria because of the things I'm reading here from supposedly educated people. Plus women need to start knowing the potential risks involved before having kids with nonentities. Dear God! I don't have the strength for Nairaland.

Ashirioluwa:
As for me, I will not allow her to do it. As a matter of fact, I will be doing the cooking for us until she’s physically ok.

Giving birth to a baby is not an easy thing.

Thank you for this. Can't believe the ignorant comments I've been seeing here. Lost two different patients a few years ago to cardiomyopathy and heavy bleeding within a week of child birth. And these ones think that it's child's play.

1Sharon:
Which woman has said this? Bloody liar!!

Don't mind that nincompoop. I don't pity the women who keep having children with and for these kinds of men. He'll come and argue with a doctor now.

Reminderz:
When I noticed about this generation females, baddies or hoes as they chose to call themselves, is that they are extremely lazy.. Even without childbirth, they don't even want to do anything in the first place... all they know is just to sit down, cross leg, relax, watch kdrama shit and then wait for man to slave his entire life working for them... no productivity, no value just set of liabilities... instead of them to lower the man's blood pressure and reduce his stress, they will rather increase and frustrate the hell out of his life and y'll wonder why women live longer...

when our mothers gave birth, they didn't even put all these dramas and bullshits these "modern" women are putting up now... all these pregnancy cravings bullshit that's making these women do and ask for stupid things didn't even exist and they were industrious, strong and also a source of peace for their husbands... in fact, childbirth then was as easy as a goat giving birth... go to some part of the villages, you would still see some of what I said happening... but you see now, mehn, I can't help but shake my head... the man in love AKA the slave, will work to satisfy all these cravings, make sure even a pin doesn't touch her, coupled with the fact the slave will even provide a maid for her, but just to do the basic things at home will still be a 5-unit course for her...

it's true, weak men create hard times.. if not the foolish men that encourages these behaviours in women, the women would have sit tight but in a world where the men are weak, the women are the superior... what's bad in cooking for your husband? she didn't even seem force? I also blame social media, if not, I don't know why people can't live their lives privately anymore, using every opportunity to seek validation online... it's a pandemic... if not because of the bullshit we consume these days, the artificial drugs we take, the chemicals we ingest daily, giving birth would never require being in a hospital... all those our local herbs and fruit would have done a great job in keeping us much healthier.. but the knowledge of these is slowing waning off since we adopted the modern way of treatment which is invariably damaging our health.

Trying to count how many times you've used "bullshit". But I'll make this short and simple, you would have been better off aborted, or perhaps, your parents should have used emergency contraceptives instead of giving birth to a disgrace like you.

shortgun:
Abeg shut up, many women have come out to debunk the widely believed pains associated with pregnancy and child birth as exaggerated and a hoax. Of all the mammals on the planet only the modern human female needs 1 full year to recover from pregnancy and child birth.

You're the one who needs to shut up. Do you know anything about maternal mortality? Many women where? Are you a medical doctor? Are you a woman? Have you been pregnant or gone through childbirth before? You just come online to spew trash because Nairaland is a faceless forum. To what end? A simple Google search would have helped you, a nonentity and the idiotic illiterates who liked your comment.

Chevron extension, a hard lesson

Father of the year

Smh

Villa12:
please can you help me get a passport? I am a fresh graduate with strong 2.1 and i am hoping applying to US for MS/PhD full funding. This country has no future and i don't want to waste away like my elder ones.

But you campaigned and supported a Tinubu government? The answer's no.

NPFLADMIN:
SINCE 2011?

Left Nigeria in 2011.

There's dignity in labour but can't expect that from a drug baron's "Bonnie". A janitor in the West earns better than a doctor working in a government hospital in Nigeria.

The average medical doctor's salary in Nigeria is $6000 AUD/year. Compare that with other countries. For instance, the average doctor's salary is between $120,000 - $300,000/year in Australia.
Best decision of my life since 2011.

First page comments on this thread didn't disappoint. Until present Africa wakes up, we'll continue to be pitched against one another. "Independence" is yet to be attained but can our leaders pay the price of freedom instead of being lap dogs to the West?

Paint probably contained VOCs. Inhaling it most likely caused damage to his kidneys, liver and central nervous system. It's poison.

Fira09:
Coming from a frustrated lowlife dunce of a slowpoke.

Big age? It's the way you frustrated used bitchés assume things with your discombobulated heads for me, tf?

Frustrated much? You know it wouldn't be nice to work up your BP too.

Sad. Please if you can't swim, stay away from large bodies of water. Even expert swimmers sometimes encounter difficulties

Fira09:
Lol, this one is a cry baby.

And you're a nincompoop, you better respect your big age. Ozuo

Fira09:
Y'all taking a 'hilarious quote' this deep?

Btw, there's absolutely nothing in that post that will put him behind bars. Jokers!

Educate us, Mr. Scholar on what's hilarious about his demented comment. When you won't mind your business. Birds of a feather. Don't quote me again

LMAO, that's because politicians are the same everywhere.