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Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 5:18pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
Ginky baby no be you start the thread ni? Why you dey back out? Na you go pack the sh!+ wey you start. LOL |
Religion / Re: Year 2012 Will Be The End Of The World by ancel(m): 5:10pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
FMK, blessed are your eyes if only they will start seeing. Did God tell you anything about 2012 or did you discover it in the world that he placed you in (like the Mayans did), or rather are you only making such raucous noise because you read some articles and saw a movie? Get a life, will you? You're just peddling terrible rumours and saying about those who don't believe the superstition that neither will their eyes see the day? What kinda drugs are you on? Since you are bent on using the Bible to support your ideas, eat this: Eph 3:21 Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen. You know nothing about times and seasons. THE WORLD IS NOT ENDING. AND DEFINITELY NOT IN 2012. Ask KunleOshob to explain to you. I know I will be alive till later this century, and I and my Father in Heaven will see 2013 and laugh at the folly of men like you. Psa 2:4 He Who sits in the heavens laughs; the Lord has them in derision [and in supreme contempt He mocks them]. @KunleOshob, please tell them. Some people are dull of hearing or too inane to understand details. Sigh. Now I feel better. For the first time I have positively raked at someone on Nairaland. Kinda feels good. |
Romance / Re: One Night Stands by ancel(m): 5:01pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
SEFAGO, last time I checked pastors had romantic inclinations too and anyone was free to post anywhere on Nairaland . No wonder your post was deleted by the Mod |
Religion / Re: Year 2012 Will Be The End Of The World by ancel(m): 7:18am On Jan 05, 2010 |
I will return to this post in 2013 and laugh. I will also watch the 2012 movie in 2013, and laugh out loud, too. |
Romance / Re: One Night Stands by ancel(m): 7:03am On Jan 05, 2010 |
I don't do one-night stands . It's like vandalizing petroleum pipelines, rather than purchasing from the accredited vendors: it's a high-risk, low-commitment grossly-irresponsible act, IMO. @Topic: No stories from me now or later. By the way, why isn't this in the sexuality section, since we will soon start seeing explicit boastful reports? |
Religion / Re: Pastor Tortures Boy With Pressing Iron by ancel(m): 6:42am On Jan 05, 2010 |
Man tortures his nephew with a pressing iron for N200. Personally, I don't see where the guy's religion counts for anything here. Maybe I would speak differently if he had claimed that it was for an atonement of a sin or sins, or he said that he was divinely instructed, or some other mumbo-jumbo. Otherwise, this is just another story about the grossness of human wickedness. And nothing more. I don't give a flying rat's a$$ whether the uncle was an Amadioha priest, a Jew, Muslim, Christian or a Cthulhu worshipper. And then the compulsive idiot blamed the devil after he had tortured the poor boy. Pschew. |
Romance / Re: What Can You Not Forgive Your Spouse? by ancel(m): 6:39am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@H2O2: Like Samson and Delilah? |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 6:10am On Jan 05, 2010 |
GL: GL, I get your point. But maybe cos I am a guy, it doesn't quite fit. I strongly believe in the power of preconditioned thoughts in defining human experience by subtly imposing ideals into the subconscious, poised to infect realities as they emerge. And it seems to me, that many ladies follow such preconditioned thoughts without prior rationalizing, it's like eating junk food. e.g. A girl EXPECTS her mother-in-law to be a crone, a haggard most-evil witch, and she gets married with that notion. Even if the mother-in-law would have been nice, she also expects the wife to be nasty to her so when she senses the "defensive counter-attack" that the new bride cannot really hide, she switches into attack as well. Then the chain goes on and on. At least that's my opinion, it seems preconceived notions like this harm ladies more than guys. Why is it that we won't generally see guys carrying such preconceived notions (and maybe opening threads about them, say except the sarcastic one started by harakiri)? Or is it just me? Most times, I think guys even tend to dispel such notions, saying "In my own home, it will be different. I will do things my way." And maybe that is why the evil father-in-law figure never appears either. My 2 cents. |
Health / Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Have Bad Body Odour? by ancel(m): 5:43am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@oaroloye: If you fast for extensive periods, prepare to start battling mouth-odour (halitosis). If you don't believe me, ask Mahatma Gandhi. No disrespect on the great man, but due to his extensive fasts, his mouth was always reading 100% on the Mama-gee sniff-scale. And that was why he was known as the super-calloused, fragile mystic, hexed by halitosis Gotta love this little skit of a poem
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Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 5:31am On Jan 05, 2010 |
GL, I dunno about the ladies but as for me, I will only agree with that guy on two conditions: 1. It is established that his wife is ACTUALLY like that. 2. He has discussed it with her and she is not ready to change. Those two conditions illustrate that she is immature and needs to be handled like a child. The man should open a secret account and keep the "excess" there, for their own financial good. But in this case, we see unmarried ladies saying that WHEN they get married, they WILL NOT do so and so. Is that indeed wise, unless they know for sure that the husband will be demeaning and non-appreciative of their efforts, and will never see things from the right perspective of gratefulness? |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Man To Provide For His Family? by ancel(m): 5:16am On Jan 05, 2010 |
GL: GL, the above assertions are totally unfounded, I must say. What happened to the guy who "hustled", the one who probably did some illegal runs (and got caught or not by the law) or bent some rules at work in his favour, or the guy who borrowed and was immersed in bad debt, for the sake of his family? What happened to the guy who asked his elder brother to loan or give him money to save his neck in financial crises, just like the woman who asked her young niece to live with them and reduce her workload? And yet you speak as if the wife is the one who always saves the day, while still upholding her end of the deal. I do not like how you seem to be bending the resolution of all marital crises in the direction of the wife. The conjectures you proffer are entirely spurious! |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 5:04am On Jan 05, 2010 |
GL:He takes you for granted? You say it like you've met the whole bunch of men! What will you say if a guy says that he is not going to bring home his entire paycheck of 450,000 but will only come home with 280,000 cos he knows that the wife probably won't appreciate the sum anyway? Or cos he knows that she probably won't put it to excellent use eitherway? Would you agree with such reasoning? GL:And there, I agree with you. It is her responsibility to see to it that it is done, IMO. Whether she does it herself or not is another matter entirely. |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Man To Provide For His Family? by ancel(m): 4:52am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@GL: I beg to disagree with you. You explained in detail how the woman can cover up for her roles when she is deficient by getting maids, nannies, etc (and not calling her husband to do those things?) but in the deficient guy's case, you glossed over it and said that when the guy can't provide for the family the wife will handle it. How's THAT (the imbalanced view you presented) for equality? |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 4:38am On Jan 05, 2010 |
GL:@GL: And now, THAT is another topic entirely, I hope you know? Human beings are fundamentally selfish and ungrateful unless they are forced to be otherwise, or unless love has taken over their hearts. We can't say that women should generally kick against those "compulsory" roles[i] just because[/i] some men are ungrateful and condescending! That will be like saying that guys should always have a mistress - that worships them - as an emotional reserve, a backup, somewhere because some women nag their husbands to the point of utmost vexation; or that men should not always provide for the home because some wives take the money that the hardworking husband provides and waste it on trivialities. Your point about slave-driving is an entirely different case, even though related to the topic, IMO. |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Man To Provide For His Family? by ancel(m): 4:07am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@harakiri: Sincerely, I think we need to consider the fact that although advancements in the modern society seem to be remoulding traditional roles in content, the roles have never really shifted in context. So, whether you have a traditional viewpoint or a modernistic viewpoint, it will be wise to consider the context and not the content. Examining the content of the roles can be confusing if you try to look from those two viewpoints at once. IMO, considering the contexts of the roles: basically the man is the inward-to-outward person of the family, he controls what comes in and goes out of the home, and how it comes in and goes out; while the woman is the inner-person who controls/manages/improves resources within the home and ensures that the man's efforts are not wasted. If you critically examine these contexts from a traditional viewpoint, one may say that the man is the sole provider and the woman should sit at home to take care of it. But from a modernistic viewpoint we know this can't always be so. And that is where responsibilities come in. In summary, I will say, it is the responsibility of the man to ensure that the contexts he ought to fulfill are properly catered for, and it is the responsibility of the woman to see that the contexts she ought to fulfill are not neglected. Whatever means they will agree upon to process their contextual roles is left in their hands e.g. a medical surgeon wife who is always very busy STILL has the contextual role of ensuring her family looks presentable. If she will get a clothier to examine their wardrobes from time to time, or she will do it herself on some free weekends, is another matter. An husband who just lost his job has the responsibility of looking for how to get his family's needs fulfilled till he gets a new job, even if his wife is an oil tycoon. The plan may or may not involve speaking to her about it (or for a sensible wife, she volunteering to help), but his responsibility is to ensure that the family does not lack. And let me add, for the other thread, it is compulsory for the wife to KNOW that her husband's clothes need to be clean, that is her contextual role. If people see a married man at work, with a rumpled or dirty shirt, or a married man who is famished and growing lean, the first questions are "I thought he is no longer a bachelor? Is his wife ill? Does he have marital problems?" and similarly, an unkempt wife or a wife who cannot afford to attend to female necessities will be asked such questions, and kids who are kicked out of school for fees will never be asked about their mum, it must be the dad, unless they have a single parent. There. A long post. I hope my points about contextual roles and responsibilities are clear. There is no hard and fast rule, I believe. |
Romance / Re: I End Up Kissing And Romancing Most Guys Without Loving Them! by ancel(m): 3:40am On Jan 05, 2010 |
This same OP said on October 2nd 2009 kriscross: *Crickets chirping, and can you also hear the heavy rainfall in the background?* |
Romance / Re: What Can You Not Forgive Your Spouse? by ancel(m): 3:35am On Jan 05, 2010 |
Inexculpation i.e. I will not forgive her for not forgiving me because I refused to forgive her when she didn't forgive me. LOL Just kidding. I dunno, but I guess I will always forgive her as long as she is ready to make necessary adjustments and a 360o change for the better. P.S. Forgiving her no-matter-what will be the insurance against the future in case I mess up really bad too. Don't say I told you, but I did |
Romance / Re: What Is The Number Of Love? by ancel(m): 3:23am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@Everyone: Please when you get the number, post it here 'cos I think I want some right now |
Religion / Re: The Bible Confirms The Messengership Of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) by ancel(m): 3:20am On Jan 05, 2010 |
Viaro! Chai! You no go kill me with lafta this guy! |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Man To Provide For His Family? by ancel(m): 3:14am On Jan 05, 2010 |
@harakiri: Bros why the angry face na? But sha, LOL the expanded version of your rhetoric is more interesting, IMO, especially the last sentence.
@FL Gators: You're welcome, niftypeach. |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Man To Provide For His Family? by ancel(m): 3:06am On Jan 05, 2010 |
off-topic: @Fl Gators: Here is the first sci-fi novella, I forgot I posted one on NL. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-371703.0.html @Fl-Gators: Please stop the dustup against Harakiri. I think he is just trying to prove a point, howbeit subtly but exaggerated to clarify/magnify his point. Personally, I see it like SATIRE, and in satire, insults and scorn will definitely be wittily passed along to drive home the point. You have gotten his message, but others may not so readily see his point if the thread does not exist. I think you are over-reacting. Really. But that's my 2 cents sha. @Topic: Hmm. I ask, "Why is he called a MAN?" |
Religion / Re: Life Out Of Dust-the ‘miracle’ Of ‘evolution’ by ancel(m): 6:24pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
JeSoul, it's in your inbox now. Thine inquisitiveness has made thee whole Please reply if you have the heart Sorry it's 40 minutes late, it's thanks to unexpected circumstances! |
Religion / Re: Life Out Of Dust-the ‘miracle’ Of ‘evolution’ by ancel(m): 5:57pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Beneli: the umbrella term you refer to is "Theist", I think. And you are spot on about faith, which allows for revelation, and then reason follows up on the revelation. Heb 5:13 For everyone who continues to feed on milk is obviously inexperienced and unskilled in the doctrine of righteousness (of conformity to the divine will in purpose, thought, and action), for he is a mere infant [not able to talk yet]! Heb 5:13 says he is a mere infant (Greek: nepios), unable to talk (reason properly) who drinks in revelation continuously but does not scrutinize it with reasoning, as in Heb 5:14 with strong meat (solid food) According to John, too, there are three levels of growth in the knowledge of God: little children, young men, and fathers. I will like to draw parallels with experential knowledge of God by faith, by faith and revelation, and by faith, revelation and reasoning. 1Jn 2:12 I am writing to you, little children, because for His name's sake your sins are forgiven [pardoned through His name and on account of confessing His name]. 1Jn 2:13 I am writing to you, fathers, because you have come to know (recognize, be aware of, and understand) Him Who [has existed] from the beginning. I am writing to you, young men, because you have been victorious over the wicked [one]. I write to you, boys (lads), because you have come to know (recognize and be aware) of the Father. 1Jn 2:14 I write to you, fathers, because you have come to know (recognize, be conscious of, and understand) Him Who [has existed] from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you are strong and vigorous, and the Word of God is [always] abiding in you (in your hearts), and you have been victorious over the wicked one. |
Religion / Re: Life Out Of Dust-the ‘miracle’ Of ‘evolution’ by ancel(m): 5:44pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Jesoul lovey, check your inbox in 5 minutes for the answer to that puzzle. You are about to be shocked |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ancel(m): 5:32pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Abekeade, omo mama e! You have spoken very well. May your days be long. |
Religion / Re: Life Out Of Dust-the ‘miracle’ Of ‘evolution’ by ancel(m): 5:25pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
JeSoul, how u dey today? Happy New Year, dear Beneli, I think Deists are examples of theists (who are exclusive to atheists), just like Christians are examples of theists. But then, you can be a Christian and a Deist at once, cos Deists believe in God on the basis of reason (not revelation) and Christians believe in God on the basis of revelation. I guess maybe you do the two? |
Health / Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Have Bad Body Odour? by ancel(m): 5:15pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
@lovemoi2: Haba I don dey see your posts from thread to thread. Easy on the guys, girl. Generalization is a terrible form of assumption, which in turn is the least form of knowledge. I respect you o, no dey fall my hand like this. |
Religion / Re: Life Out Of Dust-the ‘miracle’ Of ‘evolution’ by ancel(m): 5:11pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Men and brethren these una lengthy non-evidence-based conjectures sha! |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: LMAO! WTH IS THIS?????? by ancel(m): 5:07pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Gabry is no longer vying for sugarmama. She is now vying for Sugarson-heartbreaker |
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