₦airaland Forum

TrishaP: Yes she has a bf too. That's y i was having second thought of letting her come stay. Buh she is kinda stranded with not enough money with her b4 she goes bck to school.

If it your parent's place, no problem, but your boyfriend's house, hell No.

TrishaP: Good morning and Happy sunday to Nlers, My close friend but not my bestfriend sha wants to come stay in my fiance's house for a while b4 going back to school. Pls is it advisable to allow her stay, i've бǝ̩̩̩̥ǝ̩̩̩̥η thinking about it. One mind tells me No and the other tells me yes. Dunno what to say yet.

You will loose your boyfriend to her. Note, that ONLY you knows where your pant is torn. You friend will end up messing up your relationship.

The mistake we make sometimes is just not to be bold to give an answer 'NO' and that will make us regret certain decision we make in life.

If your boyfriend develops lust one day, she will end up taking over your home and nothing you can do about it.
Tell her that your boyfriend's mum comes now and then and wouldn't wanna see any person extra.

aggiel: Referring to the OP's reasons for testing a woman before marriage, that's his opinion in the adverture of searching for a perfect wife, I hope u know OP some high class runs gals would succesful pass this ur test. Reasons, they're very conscious of their vaginaa, they know A-Z of taking care of any infection that causes foul smell, trust me condoms are always in their possession. Vaginaa tightness, they've got enough money to spend to go for surgeries, buy different cervical wall herbal tightner supplement, the hole would be so tight, there's nothing money cannot solve, only that money cannot buy life. As for the spiritual part, she needs deliverance, as well as u, cos she might have transferred some demons in to u, go and ask men that have had $ex encounter with possessed ladies. So Mr. OP, since testing women is ur most important criteria for taking up a woman for marriage, I trust no one needs to tell u the kind of woman u would end up with.

Well stated answer to op's post here. Sometimes, I wonder the way people reason. How come op reason like an animal

jhendor: Honestly can you get married to someone that has done abortion before. Either done it once or some couple of times.

My girlfriend just revealed to me that she had abortion once about 6 years ago. She told me immediately I asked her. I really am not sure if she might have done it more. But I kind of agree it was once. But even at that, can't it raise consequences of giving birth in the future?

I really do love my girlfriend and we are just 4 months into the relationship. We have not had sex yet.

Ladies what do you think?

I need honest answers here please.

Listen, if she has opened up to tell you this truth, she is a very positive person and you should trust and marry her. Let her confess her sins and ask for forgiveness from God for her past and God will forgive her.


If she had lied to you, you wouldn't have known.So, telling you is a blessing to let you know how open and truthful she is. Good luck

Never dated and we have been married with children and still in love for yrs.

When God is involved, number of yrs does not matter. People can date for 10 and separate once they get married.

ifyonu5: I have a girlfriend i have dated for 3 years now she is a student in one of the eastern university and we also stay in the same town so as a result she almost lives in my house although she has her own place but she hardly stays at her house infact she goes to school from my house i lost my job towards the end of last year and since then we have been managing and despite the challenges she has been there for me now i have gotten another better paying job in the NORTH which i am supposed to resume by January and now my girl is feeling that i might forget about her when i leave the east and is also worried about how she would cope alone in the east when i leave by january.I would really love to marry her but due to the fact that i am just starting again it would take me the most of a year to settle down enough to get married despite that, i am thinking of engaging her this xmas at least that would give her some sense of security and prevent her for looking for someone else. is this a good idea or should i postpone the engagement until i am settled? Is one year a long time to engage a lady?
Honest and matured responses please

Engage her because a woman who stood by you during your trying period, you should not forget as that is your wife.
With her, you will be blessed and please hold unto the Lord so that you don't start a relationship there. Stick to her because the devil you know is better than the angels our there.

Till date, OBJ is yet to tell Nigerians what happened to the $16 billion dollars NEPA (PHCN) money and also the National ID card money that happened during his tenure as the president.

In fact, I cannot reconcile the letter he wrote to GEJ at this point. Does he think that Nigerians just forget easily? I believe when OBJ dies, the way Nigerians celebrated the demise of Abacha, same way Nigerians will celebrate the passing away of OBJ.

cap28: Good for the old ba.stard, next time he will learn to keep his dirty mouth shut.

how can someone who has played such an ignominious role in the running of Nigeria castigate a fellow criminal for doing the exact same thing. This man's hypocrisy knows no bounds. I am happy his harem of ex wives and numerous children are coming out of the woodwork to expose him for the ugly, greedy, megalomaniac that he is, its just that Nigerians hate the truth, it is obvious that this old fool has many enemies but many are still keeping their mouths shut because they are gaining something from him, let his money run out tomorrow and you will see a steady flow of open letters being written by many of the same bootlickers that are defending him today.

Wrll spoken. Those who live in a glass house don't throw stone. OBJ is dirty and should have known his true colour before castigating others.

kettle calling pot black. Only the grace of God has sustained OBJ till now. He should have understood that when you are pointing one finger to someone, 4 will be pointing back to you. If he had gone to GEJ to discuss one on one, this issue wouldn't have gotten to this point now. He wanted the world to now view his action as a great man after looking at the whole world standing up for Great Mandela.
He blew away the honour he would have received when he had the great opportunity of ruling this country for 11 yrs. Too bad.

deb6: wat of tonto dikeh n mercy johnson

\\Never bring Tonto to this level of class of people

[quote author=Bélla3]dont mind all thes agents of darkness


Wait till you are 18 then get a boyfriend





You got yourself into the mess by allowing your imagination get the better part of you.
Self service is disgusting....ewwww[/quote]Don't encourage her to get a boyfriend when she gets to 18. She should seek the face of God. Let her go to SCOAN and she will be delivered.

deb6: I have try to stop masturbating but i can't.I have prayed, gone for deliverance but only to stop for sometime and it will still come back.What should i do? i really want to be a good christian and go to heaven.i need ur advice.thanks

Go to SCOAN as this is a spiritual thing and ONLY the right prophet can deliver you. May God help you.

Good work.God's blessings my guy.

Why women run from this section when it is supposed to be hijacked by them in order to help educate them on steps to follow towards their personal hygiene.

Obinnau: Pls folks. I got a call from my mum this afternoon. She said a lady friend approached her and asked if my mom should allow my younger sis to travel to italy and serve in a hair salon as a braider. That they will be responsible for her visa and paper works. I told my mum NO! And plainly explained that italy is a big base of prostitution cartels, that they lure unsuspecting girls into there trap and force them into the trade once the girls are safely on their hands. Now i need your help and advice, is my suggestion wrong? Can the proposed braiding be what they have in mind? Yes i would like to say my sis is abroad but not as a LovePeddler. The girl in question is 17 years.

Pleaseooooooooooooooo, Never EVER allow your mum to destroy the destiny of your younger sister.. Send her to school and in the next 5 yrs from now, she will become a blessing to herself, your family and the society.

Going to Italy is pure prostitution. No job in Europe at all as they claim. She will be imprisoned and forced into prostitution until she pays off that money and also extra profit that the ring needs.

Please, it will be better if you report that your mum's friend to the authorities because she is been used as a middleman between these syndicate that are into human trafficking. She is a trafficker and should be stopped. We need people like you to open up and save innocent young Nigerian ladies been killed through trafficking by traffickers by reporting this woman.

If you cannot do this, do me a favour by reporting the woman direct to me and we set her up by arranging a lady and get her arrested.

Never tasted b4 I got married but got a blessing from God and we have been happily married. I am lucky it worked for me.
Op what you ask for is what you get. Keep tasting until you taste HIV. The issue here is, any man who like tasting will keep on tasting even if he is given the best and married to the best, his eyes must be out there to keep tasting.

Marriage is a thing of the heart and spirit whereby you allow God to handle for you. No two perfect people on the entire surface of this earth. Since you say her private part is as wide as anything and also it smells like this or that, it is people like you that put them to that state because you keep tasting and expect to get the one that has not been tasted or the one with no odour.

uchrikk: It would have been a better news if Frank had the heart to return to his first wife.
Anyway, I wish him happy wedlock.

Best answer so far. After making a woman to have 3 children and you realize she doesn't worth it, is something I cannot reconcile.

The devil you know is better than the million angels out there. I see no luv between fank and this mother of one.

ochukoccna: Is it Maradona or your comment that is high on the green leaf?

One need not argue with a mad man hence I will not proceed further responding to a lunatic like you as this is my last response to you pig.

Bebetter: Hello people, first of all i'll like to advice everyone to be a little bit more security conscious/vigilant this xmas season, because there are lots of people (men/women inclusive) wey dey vex for streets, lurking around town looking for who to mug, rip off, scam, stick-up... etc. Don't be so comfortable to leave your phone on a bank counter/cinema cupholder, park your car in an unknown/secluded area, sleep of in the bus with valuables on you, leave your gate unlocked till late at night.... etc. just shine your eye because these streets dey vex oh! seriously!

Ok. so last three weeks, a colleague at my office resigned. So a few of us her friends decided to do a TGIF/Send-off for her at "Beerhugz cafe" at ikeja City mall. This was Friday 29th November. We were there from evening time and really had a blast, we partied and danced till some of us started leaving one by one. I left at about a little past ten o'clock. My guy "J" & another of our colleague "chi" left later after us. Now the story i heard on monday when i came to work was that:

When they left to their car, (picanto) j found it very difficult getting the car door to open with the key, the drivers door seemed jammed. He now had to go through the passenger side only to discover that the car had been ransacked! both their bags gone! with LAPTOPS inside, all work, deliverables, jobs, gone! Ol'boy, i hear say my guy para. Chi just dey cry. He now went to the security guys, since they noticed a cctv camera was facing their car. But to j's utter chagrin the security were just responding lack lustre, refusing to show them the footage or do anything! saying he should go and bring police report, that it's not the first time something like that is happening, that he should take it easy, WHAT!! Ol'boy naim my guy para (hulk style ) wan fight all the security, possibly break person head. That's when they now agreed to go and look at the footage. Bottomline the thing was blurred... can you imagine? they could see what was going on oh. three guys. one was patrolling while the other two were doing the act but the whole footage was blurred and dark.... so what the heck is the essence of the stupid camera!? omo till today nothing. nothing oh! them don go do police report everything but no recovery, no nothing.... abeg what dyou guys have to say about this. nairaland

The security guys there are responsible for whatever that happened to the car.

He is hi on weed.This his comment can only trigger the eagles to demolish them.If only can get his boys to play the way under 17 boys played by one touch ball play,why wouldn't the eagles defeat Argentina.

Keshi should work on his diffence and let the midfield feed the attack,nothing can stop us disgracing Maradona.

What kind of love is that for you to still beg him after seeing him doing a wrong thing? Which kind of blind luv is that. You saw the danger and still went into the relationship. Maybe you were desperate.
Which kind you love your husband when he does not love you?

I believe you are not in Nigeria

ifyalways: Tufiakwa to obsessive love. Not for me,I believe its very unhealthy. Love is a free bird-let it fly and if its yours,it will surely fly back to you.

Like plants,lovers needs some air,some space for the love to flourish. Once there's suffocation,the plant will choke ,wither then die.

Well spoken

[quote author=baby_123]Are you sure you are not a ghost husband. [/quote]You may be rightoooooooooo. Ghost exists

Obsession is not love and is a very dangerous issue in relationship. Obsession can lead to possessiveness which is a serious issue as each partner is at risk at anytime. When either gets obsessed, that person becomes possessive and when any form of suspicion sets up, either can take their lives. Op, if you are into one, runoooooooooo because love is not blind these days as those days when love was blind are gone.

How come Nigerians are ignorant of these churches who do deliverance by beating and flogging those they needed to deliver?

A woman died last November after a prolonged illness and under strange circumstances. Her death has strained the relationship between her family and her husband’s in whose custody she died after her mother was denied access to see her for a month. Reportedly, Mrs. Oluranti Adesina, Tawakalitu’s mother said that Razak, his father and the leader of a white garment church where her daughter died, know something about the young woman’s strange death. Grief-stricken and bitter over her daughter’s sudden death, she said: “ Razak came to take her away from me, saying that he didn’t want me to come and see her, except her elder brother and one of my sons-in-law. He said he took her to a white garment church where my daughter was being attended to by his father and leader of that church. The strange thing is that my daughter was there for a month and he insisted I must not come to see her. My daughter couldn’t even see her child. I bought her a cell phone with which she could call me but I gathered that her husband took the phone from her, and removed the sim card in it. “Each time I asked Razak about my daughter, he would say I shouldn’t be worried, that once she is well, she would come and see me. I want to believe my daughter suffered in great pains before she died in that church, this is because my son once came to tell me that he caught the church leader once while he was using cane to flog her. He said that the church leader held a cane while my daughter was protesting that she be allowed to rise up and rest her back on the wall. She was on a drip then. My son said he had to stubbornly carry her up to rest her back as she demanded. I wonder what the cane the church leader held was meant for? Is that treatment or ill-treatment? “My daughter eventually died in that church. It was when she died that I eventually found out that the church they took her was right here in Lagos. Meanwhile, Razak was telling lies to me that he has been taking her to different churches outside Lagos. I later found out that the church in which my daughter died is owned by Razak’s father and his friend, who is in charge of the church.” She disclosed that when she discovered that her daughter was being flogged with cane in the church under the guise of delivering her from craft, she made attempts to save her life by taking her away from them but was resisted.

Source: http://www./deliverance-pastor-beats-accused-witch-w.xhtml

4020 period

disgusting and stupidity same time for someone with mental problem,

When you knew within you that you cannot protect the girl, why did you ask her not to hide? You should be ashamed of yourself because you have already messed yourself up and equally the girl/ If you had stood by the girl to beat up her brother, she would have been happy with you because you did not disgrace her and she can stand to tell the brother ' shebi you dey strong, why did you not fight d guy" You should be ashamed of yourself as you no get liver.

If you had beaten him up very well, anytime he sees any guy with the sister, he will back off.

This is what money can do to fools like these so called legislators. Shame to them,their constituencies and their family members. Full blown men kneeling down?

Iyabo confirms she wrote a letter to her father condemning the letter he wrote to GEJ

Source: Channels Tv 10 PM news.

martha: @OP, U look like a taxi driver

Martha, you harshooooooooooo. I dey laugh in tongues

she did something with her bossom before? Her bossom look like she had silicon to increase the size and the result is the cancer.Too bad though for people looking for fame.