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pafra: she must hv been confesin her sins in d holy land

Criminals in her class don't confess their sins, rather they go and find new plans for the next fraud.

Nobody is stopping them from arresting her. What of Farouk Lawal and others? Why were they not arrested? Let the government arrest them and also arrest the Oil thieves.

Amazing Grace, How Sweet Thou Are.

Run away cus I see you having full blown aids in few months and yrs.

stam101: During our secondary school days, there was dis girl that every guy wanted to date cos She was very pretty, quiet and appeared very neat.
So during our ss3 my friend and bunk mate finally got her to date him and in the course of dating her he wanted to have sex with her but She warned him that if he has sex with her that a curse will definitely follow him but She can only let him use His fingers Which he did. when we were finally out of sec school and they both lost contact till he got admission in one of the polytechnics,then suddenly they both met on Facebook and exchanged contacts and most times he calls to say Hi and She as well but on the Long run she asked to come see him in school Which he agreed. then She came and he introduced her to His girlfriend and that was How the problem started so angrily She got up to leave and before she did She threatened to deal with him spiritually if he dare try to leave her for another girl and believe me she meant every word She spoke Co's right from sec skul we all know She came from a very powerful compound Where juju is practiced strongly. and up till now She calls and visits him out of His wish cos he doesn't feel a thing for her and She has even told her family about him that they all want to see him because they feel he's their daughters husband to be.
Right now is dying in confusion because he feels nothing for her,.me I tried telling him that since he didn't have sex with her nothing would happen and currently he's thinking Of going to see a prophetess for help.....pls What should he do?

Let him go to SCOAN. Let your friend not take this issue lightly.

Periopthalmus: Yea. Thanks
just finished works on water system (pumping machine) using the well (borehole sometimes in future). But some times I think its a misplaced priority..

For d interiors, gotcha #nice#

I Wouldn't know why you are feeling bad with your present condition. Your parents are wise and have shown that by telling you that their priority is to make sure you guys as a disgrace rather, this present condition will be a reference point to your greater tomorrow. Be wise.

Bombaybombay: Does that look like whinning to you, i must say you are a guy so i dont expect u to understand

I know how you feel. Well, to me , a caring husband should know when to help out. Personally, I cannot hang out with guys as I prefer to see my kids b4 they go to bed. I sometimes help my woman even late nights when I figure she is weak and needed some rest. We men should start understanding the body chemistry of a woman when they needed help. I think it all depends on the upbringing of a man that affects his attitude when he gets married. To me, I was trained to know that my wife is a helper to me and should be assisted whenever the need arises. A man can help to cook if the need arises where you do not have housemaids. A man should understand that his best friend is his wife than the friends he hangs out with. Your home is the only place you can have peace if you create one. It is only when a man sees his wife as a tool to be used that she starts feeling like the OP here.
We all needs each other to survive and I do not see why a man cannot stand up in the night to take care of his child when the woman is too weak or have overworked herself.

Heliesha: nt reali befitting it luks like rag

Sure looks like one. Too bad/

I thank God he mentioned that the Christians that consult him were from "White Garment Churches" and also Alfas from muslims"

No true Christian will consult ifa for anything.

So, white garment churches knows the kind of god they worship.I rest my case and I thank God he mentioned the type of pastors and Alfas that come to him were from those kind of churches.

Why wouldn't they steal again after Maina stole billions and was allowed to go free. Others should even steal the nation dry and her we are shouting. Has the courts, EfCC, ICPC been able to convict any one? Hell no. Any probe in this country results to more fraud.
Conviction on Ibori happened outside the shores of this country. Same Ibori that was discharged by the same Minister of Justice of this country was convicted outside Nigeria on same case where he pleaded guilty.
Those sent to investigate end up looking for avenues to even start asking to share part of the looted funds.
Who among our leaders can be clean? The only person I lay my trust on despite any of his short coming is Mr. Nuhu Ribadu. Because our leaders knows that they are equally not clean, they cannot appoint any strong force that cannot dance to the tone of PDP or their caucus.

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firetrap: enabling assssss nigga

Disgusting Ape. Kill yourself if you must pig assssssssss

firetrap: enabling assssss nigga

Disgusting Ape.

SexyGirl787: @Lynpetra nd Danyxx thanks. I dont tink i wil tel him unless if i'm faced wit a hard decision & i hav no choice dan 2 let him knw d truth. Tellin him wil make him feel bad too...

Don't tell him after all, he is not legally married to you and let anybody say what they like. It is your life and should make your decision. Let him confess to you too if he is without sin then you confess to him that nobody is without sin.

Wetin happen that people should look and be appointing accusing fingers on a fellow human being? Let any of you without sin come here and confess to his/her Gd and not to anyone of us because we are as guilty as the OP.

lynpetra: God bless cos I know u are not trying to justify cheating.

My sister, I am not in anyway justifying cheating but for us as human being to understand the point a follow who is in the shoes of the subject's situation, to let her know that at this point she should allow a sleeping dog be than trying to appease her guy to her own detriment because the guy in question might not have the heart to forgive her for her action.

As I stated, since they are just friends, allow whatever that happened be and forge ahead for her future and never go back to her vomit again.
We African men find it very difficult to forgive our women when they cheat on us, than our women who will forgive us even when we are caught red handed for same offence.

firetrap: u be first descendant of monkey. your what they call an enabler. its guys like you who give hoes the notion that as long as they're not married they can do whatever they like.

enabling asssssa modafucker

I find it disgusting responding to Men like you who has the gene of an Ape and a product of a disjointed foundation.

Listen, ladies got good heart of forgiving their partner when he cheats on her.

95% of men do not have the heart to forgive their partner when they cheat on him.
Women got a very good heart to even cover the sins of their husbands than we men because of ego issues will find it very hard to forgive their partner if she cheats on them.

SexyGirl787: Thanks Dear lyk i said i'v neva cheated b4 dats y i felt so bad & i will neva repeat it again irrespective of d circumstance.

Listen my sister, your past is your past and if any of the ones here have not committed any of the offence you committed, let them be the first person to cast stone on you. You are not officially married yet you regretted your action shows how deeply touched you felt about your action as a good woman and you wanted to seek people's opinion.

As I said, never tell him because he is an African man. If you are officially married and you come here to say what you just stated, I will be the first to even tell you straight that you did wrong.
Many of these ladies here condemning you had slept with more than 20 guys and they are here talking rubbish.
Forget your past and look ahead for your future. Your guy in question, can he come here and tell you he cheated on you? Even if he as a man tells you, you will forgive him. But men are hard to understand when you as a lady reveal same issue to him, if not a man with a clean heart, will never have any trust on you again as your past will become a case file.

Mindependent: Nairalanders pls will u help me?
Tenkz

From your post, I can deduce that you are a potential killer and should not dwell among the living.

Not even your friend's issue that snatched your boyfriend that you want to hurt, you can even kill your said boyfriend if you have access to him. The mind of man is wicked hence what you have conceived. If you can conceive this kind of issue to hurt a lady that took your boyfriend, you can even poison her or him if you have your way. Why not allow them be so that you don't want to have blood in your hands?
Too bad for a young lady like you to have such wicked heart by coming to think on how to kill. Too bad.

None of the above. Cant stand any of them.

SexyGirl787: Thanks 2 everyone dat gav me a reasonable advice i appreciate.

Please, NEVER EVER tell him because this will come back to hunt you. An African man can NEVER forget and forgive as your past will come to hunt you whenever you have any misunderstanding with him.
Only you knows where your pant is torn. For me my sister, if you love him, never do it again. From your post, I can see that you are a very wonderful person and it was just a mistake you made and you regretted your action. So never look back.
So, keep on with your good behavior and never be bothered about any negative comments. None of us here is without sin and whatever you have done, should not be used against you. Let love live. Wishing you the best in your endeavors.

None yet, If any to come in the future, I think ONLY Prof Utomi can fit into this and some Nigerians like him cannot be allowed near the seat of power because 99 % politicians in Nigeria are corrupt.

Sionkpo: I met this lady in the secondary school,she was pretty n after we graduated from d secondary school we both miss contact,and after 7years i found her back on facebook,i still love her,should i tell her...she stays in south while i in north.

You registered on this forum as a female and from your post here, are you a lesbian or you are a criminal by entering this forum with bad intention?

Agybabe: you just need to be awesome...that's all

You look sweet and lovely. You can make a man wanner...................
From Cross River. You too muchoooooooooo.

Arosa: Ok you are now officially nairaland's peeping tom. cos you were not invited.

You were told to correct your mistake here and learn and you are still insulting 'Sexkillz' Too bad.

topegreat: NYSC: A blessing or a curse?

Some people are clamouring that the NYSC scheme should be scrapped.
What is their reason?

1. It affords the youths the opportunity to add value to the community where they are serving (Corpers have provided school equipment, health centre, borehole etc through the scheme)
2. Afford you 1 year allowee (if well utilized)
3. free career development & entrepreneurship training (the part i love most)
4. Opportunity to network with people from different background, status and expertise.
4. Opportunity to get free work experience and be retained (sometimes) at your place of primary assignment
5. Opportunity to reach out to the poor in remote villages (rural rugged)

Or is there something (disadvantages) I am not seeing?

It should be scrapped. From the itemized points, do you know what parents go through without any grant to see their wards through school only for these children to come out after serving their father land, 90% will be thrown into unemployment market
Most youths have lost their lives serving this nation and the government will say they will compensate their families. Note, no amount of money is worth the live of any single graduate because that child could be the next Dangote.

The initial concept of this whole NYSC nonsense has been defeated because when it was conceived and given birth to, youths were recruited right from the universities at their final year to work anywhere you want and given a car loan and housing and from that point when the job is given.A young graduate knows where he or she would be in the next 5 yrs.
Right now, nothing like that. You see people who finished since 10 yrs ago still looking for job after serving their so called father's land that at the end, they get nothing. The government officials make sure they do not send their children to those volatile areas if they even serve.
No grant given to these students to study.Parents borrow and get indebted training their wards and only for the so called senators sending their pimps to NYSC camps to get them young ladies they want to bleep.

dalaman: I am no longer s e x u a l l y attracted to my wife at all. I can't even get it up these days with her. I love her but I am no longer attracted to her s e x u a l l y. She has added a lot of weight and so many things are just wrong. Her body is no longer the same at all. I don't blame her because having kids does take its toll on a woman's body. I can't even mention it to her that she has added so much weight because she will say very hurtful things to me. She does not want to accept reality. I love her, but I also wish that she would care more about her appearance like she used to. We now live as brother and sister and I can't go on like this. I try to stay in shape and I haven't gotten my self fat. I know some people will say that if you really love your spouse, you'll still desire them no matter how fat they get. But I think this is very simplistic, and also very far from the truth. I know some men here will agree with me. The problem I have is that once I bring up the issue she explodes saying she has given me kids so how dare me tell her that she has gained weight, why won't she gain weight. She now has disgusting stretch marks all over her body, she is now very large with love handles all over her body, bloated belly, Double cheeks, Everything is just wrong. It is so bad that I can't even get it up when she touches me. I have spoken to some married friends. They all agree with me, the few that have agreed to talk back just said they all have girls outside and I should do same for my own good. I want to hold on but its no longer possible. What does a man do in this case?

My brother, I can understand your pain and what you are going through and it can only take God's own will for you to come to reality with the problem you have.
Never try to put it straight to her of the way she is looking or that you do not appreciate the way she looks will spring up problem and as such, you have to handle it with care because if you try to make her feel bad about the way she look, she might end up killing you if she is the wicked type as she will claim that you were the one that made her to look the way she is now.
My advise, try as much as you can to appreciate her and also try to see if you can help by getting a mini gim in your house. Or just get a sporting wear one of these days and try to show more luv and care and request for a dinner out and take her to an eatery place where they have work=out area.

Never go out to start cheating on her as this could destroy your home. The devil you know is better than 1 million angels out there. She is your wedded wife and no matter her condition, show her love. What if you are the one in question, will she leave you and start cheating on you as some of your friends suggested?

You should never hate her or refuse to be intimate with her. Never do that. If she is caring, loving nd a wonderful woman, show her love and stay with her.

Op, I find it very difficult to believe you or take you as a good man the way you painted yourself.
Come to think of it, a man with such your good profile as a catholic, who claim to be a devoted one looking for a fellow catholic shouldn't be having problem coming across one yourself since you are a born catholic from birth.
If you are here soliciting for a good catholic, I can state here that your character should be questionable.
My reasons. A true catholic with a sound background like yours, who grew up within a catholic family, should have by now seen a true faithful lady with your kind of needs.
A true catholic whom you claim to be, should have by now known the true steps and directions to have followed either by asking your direct parents to source for a lady with the qualities you want from your catholic mission or even asking your close relations to help in getting a good lady within the catholic family.
A good catholic as you claimed to be should also have access to your inner catholic family members for them to have known that a man with your kind of profession should have a sister from within as a wife and they should be in a position to introduce one to you.
Op, remember that catholic churches are one of the largest gathering of christian family and as a true member you claim to be, you should not have any problem getting a true wife from there.
Having stated the above,I will deduce that your inability to see any good lady from all catholic family in which you grew up, goes to show that you are either not a faithful member or you have a questionable character.
Coming through this medium to seek for a true woman goes to show that either you have a hidden agenda or you are a very bad man that no woman wants to stay or spend their lives with.

angelamina: ;DYea we aer speacial, and am proud. 2 me an akwa ibomite[color=#006600][/color]

Too special baby. Cant wait to have you in my arms. You are a special breed I swear. Can we hook up?