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I think your mother is getting wrong here by slapping you cus you are already an adult and two, people encouraging you here to get a bo friend is not helping you at all as that may end up destroying your destiny.

Seat your mum down either by waking her up in the midnight or very early i the morning and tell her your mind that when next she does that, you might end up walking out on her and maybe going to end up moving in with your dad or absconding from home.
Please note that you should only have this at the back of your mind that you should not move in with your Dad or absconding from home to know if that could make her stop doing what she doing by slapping you. It is not a normal thing per say, but I think it could be something spiritual pushing her to do that since you equally see her to be remorseful after the act.
Now, try those options and please, do not go away from her and do not engage yourself with any boyfriend thing but face your studies and try committing this action of your mum in prayers. It could be as a result of the separation she has with your dad.

He wouldn't have stolen that amount of money as quoted by FBI.Why place just $25,00 on his head? They will heap unsolved crimes on his head. That is US for you.

Was demon responsible for the attack? If she searched her system for a similar acid attack through the web before her attack, could it be that she was being under an influence of familiar spirit bent on destroying her in which she had seen herself been attacked in the dream and woke up scared?
Now, surfing through the net before the physical attack could be something that maybe she was privy to.

This is pure bribe and nothing will come out of it. How can one say that a government official cannot investigate a school b4 approving and making payment? Its pure fraud and they cannot say that they do not know.

kingblosky: Osaze is saying the truth and the truth is too bitter for this guys to swallow . Taribo is hungry and doesn't want to admit it . I beg make him talk him childish mind the way him want.

I think you needed a kind of mental evaluation.

Osaze is a disgrace if he should start dragging the likes of Yekini and Taribo West on twitter. What is wrong with him? So arrogant. Does he think he is better than these great legends? Has he seen the likes of Okocha, Kalu Nwankwo Amunike and their likes making the kind of noise he is making always during their time?
He Osaze cannot equal what Okocha, Kalu, Prince of Monaco (Victor Ikpeba) and others like them achieved. I believe that he should be re-examined for mental problems because same way he is acting in his club.

PapaBrowne: I get you. But the part you've continually missed out is what someone explained here earlier. The most likely possibility is that an account holder offered to stand surety for him in order for him to collect the money sine he doesn't have an accurate ID. I think that is permitted. The account holder probably then struck a deal with your brother which saw him part with 10,000 Naira to assuage for the risk the account holder has taken.
Now whoever the account holder is, I dont know. It could be the bank worker in question(very unlikely) or it could be someone the bank worker uses for such purposes and gets his cut afterwards, or it could just be an ordinary customer who saw your brother's desperation and either took advantage or took sympathy and offered to help.

About ID's, truth is the best forms of ID are International Paspport and driver's license. Reason being that they are the only two nationally standardised forms of ID. The national ID card is not a well presented document and could be easily faked on any basic computer. The Driver's License is much more difficult to fake. The International passport is almost impossible to fake. If you've seen the national ID card, you sef you will understand why they would reject it on many occasions. As for voters ID, forget it. It is just a laminated piece of paper.

Well said. I stated same here and I believe he should let this go because his brother did not explain to him what transpired between him and the bank officials and presented the issue as if the bank charged him or took advantage of him/his brother. No banker would have done that directly.

tellwisdom: Which hospital is the lady taking treatment now??

Do you read at all? Woman stabbed to death and you are asking the hospital she was taken to. Na waoooooooooo. I wonder how people reason.

payless: Just today I told him he should have opened an account with the bank but he said it is not a good bank. I do have problem with him offering 10,000 naira and them accpeting it. He termed it as tip for their help and I call it bribery. 10,000 naira is nothing much to me but I just hate the fact that the Voters' card and National ID were also rejected. Why must it be only drivers' license and International Passport are the only accpetable form of identification?

In fact, the deed has been done and you have to put that behind you and forge ahead.Your brother is at fault and should do the right thing at the right time. It is even for his own safety to get correct ID and open an account so that people don't mess him up because when the right thing is not done, it becomes a problem.

It is hard to steal western union now because of the measures taken by western union by protecting their customers.
I know you worked hard for your money and getting $1,000 sent back home is not an easy thing to do because of bills and bringing it down here and stories spring up is a problem. You could be doing two jobs to meet up your bills.
So, just let it go.Good luck

In fact the husband should be arrested to produce the mother. How can the woman run faster than him? I believe that both of them planned and killed the woman.

First, why must the mother be living with them? Why must the mother be parking the lady's pictures and the husband would tell her to allow his mother to take the pictures. Maybe she was having only female children and they wanted to get rid of her.
Both the husband and his mother must be arrested and sent t jail and government should take care of the children.

payless: He does not have account with them. The bank is the closest bank around. He offered them the 10,000 naira which is wrong on his part and wrong on whoever accepted it. Why should they release the money if they had any doubt the money belongs to someone else? They knew there the money belongs to him but due to his desperation, they took advantage of him. But he still believes they helped him which I disagree with that notion. I told him they did not help him but only took advantage of him.

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Now you are talking. Your brother dos not have an account with the bank and because the bank was the closest, he went there. Note what happened was this; he presented an expired drivers and also he has no account with the bank. They must have told him that if he wants to have the money cleared, that a person who has an account with the bank can provide his ID to stand for him and he will pay the person 10k for this as the person who owns the account will be held responsible if anything happens.
All you need do if you still need to be making use of sending money by western union, ask your brother to open an account with any bank and he would not experience anything like this anymore.
Without maintaining an account with any bank, you cannot be allowed to pick your money through any western union. That is the new policy. Bank should know their customer no matter how minimal the transaction is. The person who provided his info should be the one that helped your brother and your brother paid for the persons service and not the bank that charged or took advantage of your brother. TAKE NOTE. So stop calling your country negative names for nothing of their fault or the bank.

Nyce1: Dis is absolutely not true...no bank official wil demand for money b4 treatin western union NOT EVEN IN UBA wit project ALFA. Ur broda definitly duped u of dat 10k. U can ask any oda person to confirm dis in dat same branch from D operations manager or BM. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE.

I think we should allow this guy be since he has failed to read posts here but will stand for his brother's action. I have already stated here that no bank will take as charges or whatever 10k from this transaction. His brother is not telling him the truth and he is still presenting proof to show he sent the money. Nobody is arguing with him that he never sent money. Your brother went with expired D/L and other identification cards and he said that they failed to accept National Id and whatever.

Now I still ask him(Payless) questions and he has failed to answer my posts here. Is your brother maintain an account with the bank? Why must he go there with expired D/L. Did his brother inform him that his D/L has expired and as the sender,did you put a standing instruction to pay with any other ID? Why did his brother refused to contact the Bank Manager to inform him that the staff requested for 10k? He claimed here that he spoke with the banker in question,and why did you not tell your brother to go to another place? He too stated here that his brother was afraid that he might end up loosing the money if he leaves the bank to another bank? I countered that also to inform him that nobody will even accept to commence processing his transaction to be paid unless his ID has been verified to be ok. At that point, he enters the first 6 digits ONLY on the form he filled out and the remaining 4 stands as his secret number.So, this is uncalled for. Payless should counter this process and accusation here. I still put it up to paless that his brother is economical with the truth.

payless: Some of you like to say things you don't know. He told me he was the one that offered the 10,000 naira. He said he feared going to another location because he already gave out the control number to these people. He said he would rather lose 10,000 naira than to lose $1,000. I did not ask him to have such arrangement with anyone at the bank. I trust my brother.

For those of you doubting, here is the transaction doc;

My brother, nobody is doubting the transaction and also the 10k involved. listen, no banker will start processing the pulling off the transaction from western union network, without the verification and certification of the tendered identification which is the D/L. After certifying that the D/L is valid and also has not expired. Remember that you are required to first fill out the 6 digit MTCN number while holding 4 digit as your security code/pin number. When he is asked to enter the last digit number, it will indicate on the screen " Transaction Found".So saying here that he was afraid of losing the money is uncalled for as that does not happen.

As I earlier said, what I believe that happened here is that when he tabled his D/L to the western union officer, he discovered that his D/L has expired and refused to pay him. You brother must have started pleading with the officer to pay him and the officer said NO. Now, since he is desperate to collect the money as you said, they must have told him that unless he wants someone that has an account to provide his/her valid identification on his behalf in order for them to pay him and if that happens that the person collects 10k for using his/her identification on his (your brother) behalf because if anything happens such a person will be held responsible.At this point, he yielded and agreed for them to pull the money from the system and he paid the 10k

In this case, your brother should not present it that UBA took bribe of 10k for the transaction. Now, I ask, was your brother not aware that his licence has expired and inform you of this? If he did, you were supposed to have given a standing instruction that he should be paid with National ID.
To me, your brother should be reasonable enough to tell you the truth of what actually transpired there than his statement.Nobody took an advantage of your brother here and calling Nigeria " a corrupt country as far as this issue is concerned is uncalled for. Choose your words and don't stay out there making derogatory statement on your country because you do not have any other country than Nigeria.We have a name to protect. No matter that we have corrupt leaders, we still have descent Nigerians all over the world. You should not for any reasons present Nigeria to the global world as if we are the worst country on earth. Go to Italy and see the way they live. They are not better than Nigeria.
In America where you stay, we have stayed over 18yrs here and still believe in Nigeria no matter what happens. Columbia, Brazil and all these countries, Nigeria is still better than them. Our present situation is because of our leaders and I believe that most of them will go down the drain one day and the young ones will spring up and present Nigeria as a World Power.You know the number of years it took America to get to the place they are today.We must get there.
You should have known the best way to present your case and people would have tried to help us see reasons of what actually happened on the said case.

olabiz2010: Court ko prison ni.....ode!
Must you come here to show your low life and ignramous idota.
No bank in nigeria I mean NO single bank will pay you WU and MG without valid driver's license or International Passport unless maybe you have an account with them or maybe you are familiar with the bank officials
So pls stop splitting r.u.bbish on what you are not sure of!
You better update and upgrade yourself. This is 2013.................Bomboklat!

My brother, forget some people here with outdated brain.No bank will pay you without valid D/L or Intern'l Passpt and you must have an account with them and whereby you do not have an account with them, an account holder with the bank can stand and sign on your behalf and also provide wither of teh above stated identification.

payless: You are entitled to your opinion. He called me from the bank to tell me what happened and I requested to talk to any official at the bank. He gave the phone to the guy and I tried to explain that I just sent the money from U.S. The guy said he must provide either his unexpired Drivers' License or International Passport before they pay him. To my surprise he had to offer them bribe for him to get the money. I asked him why he offered the money and he said that is the system in Nigeria.

My brother, How can your brother after paying a bribe and you asked him why and he said " that is the system in Nigeria"
Listen, it is not the system in Nigeria but a system with your brother. He is the one that is corrupt and not how your brother portrayed the country. Now, If he is honest and a straight person, he supposed to have refused the bribe and requested to see the Bank Manager to explain himself and there is no way a bank manager will refuse paying him with a National ID card. Let him not say Bank Scammed him or UBA collected 10k from him.He scammed you and not the bank. It is a very simple case. If your brother is not corrupt, he would not have give out bribe no matter how urgent the need for the money is to him or the family or for the purpose.

Poster, I think your brother is not economical with the truth here. It could be that he is trying to scam you too. If his D/L has expired, they can ask him to bring an account holder with the Bank to identify him. Also, it could be that there is standing order to pay with only D/L as means of identification. Your brother knew the D/L has expired, why use it? Also, your brother must have an account with UBA for him to be legible to collect his money.

No banker will take the risk of asking him to pay 10k. I believe that what transpired here with your brother is this; since his D/L has expired, maybe someone who owns an account with the bank and is willing to provide his/her Identification to stand for him as an account holder with the bank, asked him to pay him 10k for him to identify him by providing his information for your brother. Not the bank that asked him. Maybe someone that wanted to use his own ID to identify him since his own D/L has expired.

Note that the bank has to make returns to the Central Bank hence proper documentation to be provided by the receiver and the paying bank.

Something is wrong with the story because your brother could have also arranged to collect the said 10k to himself if the money was meant for family members by telling you that it was the bank that asked him to pay. Is he not aware that his D/L has expired? No bank will refuse paying him if he presents National Identity Card as an alternative if his D/L has expired. You brother is not telling you the truth,PERIOD

Poster, I think your brother is not economical with the truth here. It could be that he is trying to scam you too. If his D/L has expired, they can ask him to bring an account holder with the Bank to identify him. Also, it could be that there is standing order to pay with only D/L as means of identification. Your brother knew the D/L has expired, why use it? Also, your brother must have an account with UBA for him to be legible to collect his money.

No banker will take the risk of asking him to pay 10k. I believe that what transpired here with your brother is this; since his D/L has expired, maybe someone who owns account with the bank and is willing to provide his/her Identification to stand for him s an account holder with the bank, asked him to pay him 10k for him to identify him by providing his information for your brother. Not the bank that asked him. Maybe someone that wanted to use his own ID to identify him since his own D/L has expired.

Note that the bank has to make returns to the Central Bank hence proper documentation to be provided by the receiver and the paying bank.

Something is wrong with the story because your brother could have also arranged to collect the said 10k to himself if the money was meant for family members by telling you that it was the bank that asked him to pay. Is he not aware that his D/L has expired? No bank will refuse paying him if he presents National Identity Card if his D/L has expired. You brother is not telling you the truth,PERIOD.

Please, stay off her cus things could go out of hands if the baby comes as jealousy could lead to envy and murder.If I can't have the baby, you too can's and she can plan to get rid of the baby. So stay off her if you need the baby to live.

rokiatu: Hes rich so you make want to re-think that again.

Rich plus ugly = very very handsome.

Princes Rokiatu, you funny pass anything for life.money na power. But, na when you don chop everything and nothing else to chop, you go now remember that sometimes, no matter say money sweet, a very ugly man or woman get k-leg.For sure, he is not ugly.The money no go sweet if the guy get mouth odour. The guy shaaaaaaaaaaa is not ugly, just the hair style which has made him look too something. No comment sha. At least, he is a man and I respect God's creation.

How can a sane person make such statement and will stand to portray herself a Role Model? You go out breaking homes and you feel you can have peace in your own home? That shows the kind of upbringing you had and the kind of home you are coming from.
If a single young man fail to pick you as a wife, that shows that you are not a wife material and any married man who go running after any actress is sick.
Most of the present new generation actresses are a product of wasteful individuals who make use of what they have at all cost to get to what they want. Old actresses like mama G, Olu Jacob's wife, Joke Silver, worked hard to get to their present position in life and are still living descent lives. The present crop of actresses like the Lola Alao are individual actresses who wants to make it at all cost even sleeping with anything to get to the top.

God is the same yesterday, today and forever more.He can never fail. He is able and always able to do things that nobody can do hence His hands upon your life.You are an over comer and will rise to the glory of God. Devil is a liar.

Get Anointing Water from the Synagogue Church of All Nations and spray on the surface and you will be healed.

650k if u are ready to let it go

chiboy11: betwen us who s back ward, see ur life, u stil leave in d dark, dis s why africa n Nigeria s stil wer it s 2day cuise we can't solve problem but waitn 4 God 2com down 4rm heaven n solve it him self 4us, who told u I dnt kno God live, infact u don't kno God more dan me self, God alread hz given us power to trumple on any serpent so y cary it in ur forhead wen u dey die

After going through on one of your posts, I discovered where you mentioned that "you needed a true man of God to pray for you as you have spiritual problems. Why are you coming here now to talk bad about a church as regards to the subject matter here? I believe you needed help spiritually and I pray you find one. Only God can help you out from your present situation.
Look at your Post bellow:

[b]Please I Need Your Help, Can Anyone Link Me To A True Man Of God? by chiboy11(m): 1:51am On Jan 08
Am realy goin tru alot now spritualy,I ned help on dat angle,plss do u kno of any geniue strong pastor I can see,I stay near unilag Lagos,if u can do dis 4me I wud b greatful,I don't ned mone I just ned christ in me,drop ur num or mail n I wil get 2u. Tanks[/b]

chiboy11: betwen us who s back ward, see ur life, u stil leave in d dark, dis s why africa n Nigeria s stil wer it s 2day cuise we can't solve problem but waitn 4 God 2com down 4rm heaven n solve it him self 4us, who told u I dnt kno God live, infact u don't kno God more dan me self, God alread hz given us power to trumple on any serpent so y cary it in ur forhead wen u dey die

Check ur write up cus u need go back to school. I can understand why the poor grammar from malnourished brain. is that how you spell trample? poor boy. No more word from me.

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chiboy11: its ppe like u dat s takin dis country back, instead of bringng a soloid sugestion in lokin 4d misin person ure askg his pple to go 2a church, na dier him dey, let's face d truth in dis country abeg

I am sorry for ignorant brains like your type. So God has no power to rescue the young man? Is a church not a place to seek God's face? In fact, your ignorant life is why you are backward in life with low iq.

The God of Prophet T.B.Joshua will rescue you in Jesus name ,Amen. The God of Prophet T.B.Joshua will release fire on the kidnappers or whatever/whoever they are in Jesus name, Amen. Let the family go to Synagogue church and get the Anointing water, spray it on his picture, the kidnappers or whosoever holding him will not have peace until they release him without any ransom.

bin gbagbo: this lady that i have dated for only 5 weeks now surprised me on vals day with a parcel which contained toothpastes, toothbrushes, mouthwashes, PK chewing gums and a card. at first, i was excited, but on second thought, i am smelling foul

something is wrong with you as per mouth odour and the most polite way to handle your state of health was for her to give you the best items you stated as valentine's day gift.

She could not tell you straight because you might get annoyed and ask if you stink.
I think you should thank the lady for helping you out out of something nobody could open up to you.
Also you can try see a dentist.

having gone through your topic, I can deduce that you are just in a very difficult situation in which your no could be translated in a negative way because of the individual involved. There are men who are demonically possessed that they will love to have you at all cost no matter the way you tend to handle this with him within an office environment. Your No, could trigger problem for you. Your pretense could as well be difficult to be interpreted by the man who is after you- your boss.

Now, if you are a Christian,just carry God around and start giving him religious tracks and even christian books and dress properly while in the office environment. It could be your mode of dressing whereby you show off your cleavages that triggered his lust on you. Change the way you dress and go religious and carry God along.
Tell him that you are a born again and appreciate him as a person but cannot go into relationship with him.
If he persist, you can lie to him that your previous boyfriend tested positive to hiv and you have been under series of tests. You do not want to risk your life or himself.
Some men are too possessed that they cannot take their eyes off a woman hence you need God to overcome them. Good luck.

See how a man over 60 yrs is behaving. I caption it "The Love of Two Demons"

When you look at their faces, you will know that they do not have honest faces and look much like criminals than who they are inwardly.

50calibre: This sellout of a girl, she now dates only white men.

See how archaic she looks in secondary school, now she looks hot, something not common among girls. I remember my secondary school girls that were hot then, now they all look ugly and haggard while the guys now look fresh to death.

That is true.Ladies goes faster than guys.