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Men, listen, you never created yourself. I have a friend of mine also who is an acute stutterer, studied in the United States also. He read Accounting. He has same problem  when we went to 'Club 112' in Atlanta, Georgia and 2 American ladies walked up to us and complemented our dressing and wanted to meet us. So I introduced myself and they wanted to meet my friend. He was trying to express himself and it was a big problem and the ladies got embarrassed. I had to tell them that he is a stutterer. My friend is happily married now and have kids.

You should have made use of the US schools that handles stutterers to improve your speech. U know what I am talking about since you studied in the US.
Anyway you never created yourself and God who created you has also made a wife for you. If you love the girl, you can just send her a short note in writing inviting her out for a lunch or for you to have a female friend or sister very close to woe her out to a place and let that person disclose your situation to her in confidence and arrange for a meeting with her. Knowing your situation earlier before meeting with you, that will not be a problem when you get talking. When you become friends she will be the one doing the talking for you.
Good luck

That lady is not 68yrs. Take a closer look at the lady and you will agree with me that she should be in her thirties. She is on the heavy side.

Anyway, it depends on the type of girl and also the type of places the poster is talking about. We have ladies who can afford to treat themselves on whatever kind of good food. Remember that we have ladies who are free loaders and also guys who are free loaders and most at times, ladies take them out.

Poster, I wouldn't know the kind of places you go to that you only see free ladies there and class them as Ashawo. Maybe you poster is a low class individual that patronize third class eateries or  Ashawo outlets. Don't expect any descent girl to just enter where they sell alcohol to hang out. Me think the poster of the subject is a low quality individual hence the topic.
I am a man and cannot support the poster.

We have descent Nigerian girls who got class.  Poster, remember that we have classes of girls. Maybe where you stay  or come from, you have low quality girls there and that's your class.

In fact, let two of them confront the guy. Who knows, he may be having more than 2 of them in his stock. First, he is irresponsible and cannot be able to handle a home. He is a cheat and will disappoint both of them. to save both of them, arrange a meeting for all to come together and blow the cat open.
If you don't handle it it this way and disclose this to your friend, she might think you arranged this whole game for Williams to pregnant your cousin as people also might start reading meanings into your closeness to Williams. Either way, Williams sucks. How can he be proposing to his long time friend and also impregnating another lady? Something must be wrong with the guy.

Sanusi has perfected a new way for BH to move funds through Islamic bank opened in Kanu. Sanusi still has a game plan. Until he achieves his Islamic nation, he will not rest.
Lets keep watching.

Well young lady, the ONLY way for you to handle this is for your TOTAL submission to God Almighty by taking and seeing those children as your own biological children. Love them as the body of Christ. You LOVE Must be TOTAL without bias. If you can handle this children and bring them up in the way of the Lord, you will have a place in the kingdom of God here on earth and in heaven.

Wake up to prepare them for school. Try to welcome them home with open arms. When God blesses you, NEVER EVER be partial. Do not EVER try to let your own biological child/ren see them as different. Let your own children when they come, know them as his/her own elder ones.

Note also, that you must be tempted by the devil one day. There is no way you cannot be tempted. But also display, patience, be humble, do not be quick to ANGER. Always seek for God's help and always be in prayer. Do not get annoyed even when you see them doing wrong, rather, show them love then, talk to them by counselling them.

With God, you will be able carry this and He will be with you. NEVER go out and complain about their attitude. Never call them names. Never swear for them because one day, they will all become adults and any abusive words you used, will now become a topic of discuss.

Even if he comes back, this government cannot do anything. What of Gbenga Daniel did the same thing by going abroad to secure his stolen loot and came back to face the law, knowing fully well that nothing go happen.
This Country can only be sanitized by having the poor, go after these people live to arrest them and their families. Most of them has property here.

The custom officer should be dismissed from service and also his son also be expelled from the school. The boy's information should be sent to all private and public schools not to have him admitted to any school in Oyo State

He should not be jailed rather he should be executed by stabbing him until confirmed dead by a medical personnel.

For God's sake, is this government reasonable enough to understand the plight of the common man in Nigeria and the kind of budget they present? Can we bisect this kind of Presidential budget and the effect to the governed?

@cjfavour

You said the truth and remains one of the best input to the subject matter.

Sanusi is part of the BH. That was why he wanted Islamic Bank so that they can now be able to move money without being noticed.

Why must he be making statements like that. States that owns the oils has been rendered useless and left undeveloped.

I am not from that region but I must say that Sanusi is an eveil man and should be closely watched. He is part of the elite BH hence his comment.

Also be careful how you follow this up cos it might take your life cos these guys are heartless and can kill anyhow.

od Almighty is the healer. There is no sickness God cannot do. There is no sickness above the Almighty God.

Please I suggest that she be taken to the Synagogue Church of All Nations and her problems will be over. God will use Prophet T.B Joshua to heal her and also restore her financially and the no money will be spent.

We keep praying for her and also will help if you can send her a/c info to anddeess@yahoo.com

I wonder why people just  make noise out of nothing. Fashola threw out the Ibos selling market at Oshodi, many lost their lives. In Idimota also, ibo traders were asked to leave for Trade Fair.
For God's sake, they were asked to relocate to a new site and now they are turning to ethnic problem. Through out Nigeria, it is ONLY the Ibos that have invested MORE in other states outside their state of Origin.

That is why the Ibos  have been at the receiving end. The ibos acquire properties all over Nigeria more than any other ethnic group. This is because they love their neighbors more than any other ethnic group.
Another group that  have tried to associate or relate on a smaller note is the Yorubas. That is just the 2nd and only ethnic group in Nigeria

From the names of DIG Police officers retired by the government, why is that 3 of them bear the same surnames? Could it be they relate or?

Mr. Sardauna Abubukar, DIG Training (“E” Dept.);
Mr. Audu Abubakar, DIG Operations
(“B” Dept); Mr. Saleh Abubakar,

Boy, you are only a photocopy of which you don't have value as far as what you are into. Listen, he just wants to have you wed her but the man will father the babies that will be coming.At a point, you will be eliminated and become history. This is a planned something and they needed to make use of you and waste you.

I know you are just after what the lady has as you are not productive and wants t be a free loader. They buy you a car, give you bugger to eat and sleep as a baby which is what you are. Al Pacino said, if you want to get the world, you get the money. If you want to get the woman, you get the money and when you get the money, women will look for you.

Go and be independent and stop licking a woman's Bottom nigger.

In fact, I think you have gone mad as such mentally sick and needs rehabilitation. The spirit of lust has taken over you completely and wants to use you to break a home. If you are normal, you are supposed to make your marriage work. Because of your weakness, you don’t see anything good from your legal wife. You want to destroy another man’s home because of your adulterous life style. You have slept with his wife and at the same time, wants to break his home by telling the man that his wife has cheated on him to enable him drive her away so that you can have her? What if your action of telling this man, drives him to the point of killing his wife than what you anticipated. Have you considered this aspect? What kind of mad person are you to even start sleeping with another man’s wife and now feel like having the woman? Even animals cannot reason the way you act. Even dogs cannot reason this way. You need help and from your write up here, you are not a Christian and also you do not know God. Whatever you sow, you will surely rip. You have a wife and blessed with a child. Were you blind when you went into relationship with your present wife and ended up marring her, slept with her to the extent of having a child with her and now, she is nobody to you?

Listen let me tell you idio-t, you are nothing but a useless individual who needs to be cured of a deceases that has eaten deep into your bone marrow. You are the type that spoils men. You make men look like fools in marriage. If you are reasonable, you must make your marriage work. Since you cannot make your marriage work, how do you think that you can have this woman and make your relationship work? In fact, you need deliverance and should go to SCOAN and let T.B Joshua deliver you from the spirit of lust. You are sick already and about to die. May God have mercy on you.

In fact, I think you have gone mad as such mentally sick and needs rehabilitation. The spirit of lust has taken over you completely and wants to use you to break a home. If you are normal, you are supposed to make your marriage work. Because of your weakness, you don’t see anything good from your legal wife. You want to destroy another man’s home because of your adulterous life style. You have slept with his wife and at the same time, wants to break his home by telling the man that his wife has cheated on him to enable him drive her away so that you can have her? What if your action of telling this man, drives him to the point of killing his wife than what you anticipated. Have you considered this aspect? What kind of mad person are you to even start sleeping with another man’s wife and now feel like having the woman? Even animals cannot reason the way you act. Even dogs cannot reason this way. You need help and from your write up here, you are not a Christian and also you do not know God. Whatever you sow, you will surely rip. You have a wife and blessed with a child. Were you blind when you went into relationship with your present wife and ended up marring her, slept with her to the extent of having a child with her and now, she is nobody to you.

Listen let me tell you idio-t, you are nothing but a useless individual who needs to be cured of a deceases that has eaten deep into your bone marrow. You are the type that spoils men. You make men look like fools in marriage. If you are reasonable, you must make your marriage work. Since you cannot make your marriage work, how do you think that you can have this woman and make your relationship work? In fact, you need deliverance and should go to SCOAN and let T.B Joshua deliver you from the spirit of lust. You are sick already and about to die. May God have mercy on you.

Your greatest worst enemy is the Nigerian Policemen. The fear of Nigerian policemen is the beginning of wisdom. Let the man contact human right lawyers and write petition to the Senate. Also take their ID cards to all Nigerian newspapers and have their ID published. Most robberies have police as an insider.
Never make friends with them and never invite them to your house. That is a word of wisdom for you. 98% of them are corrupt. Only 2% clean. Even if he/she is your brother or sister, know how you familiarize with them. They get into the system and the system corrupts them and they become something else. The change over night and become terror.

Try not to run from your home as you have started dreaming of your spinsterhood. Remember, that you can NEVER, EVER get younger. Your 2 front head lamps must have nose dived and pointing to the South. Don't ever remember your past because you can never get it back. Dream of having your lips wet so that you can work on his joy stick until he-------------- , 

I thank God for this. The first will be the last and the last will be the first. Tunde Bakare, take take note.

Tunde Bakare has no spirit of God in him anymore. He is in the flesh now, hence his actions. No true man of God acts the way he behaves. The Methodist Prelate-Ola Makinde is right in what he is saying. If Bakare is a true man of God, he should make peace and be praying for this nation, like what Prophet T.B. Joshua does. Prophet T.B Joshua prays for this nation and the world. He even predicted this crises and prayed for this nation. He saw the prophecy and kept praying. He even went further to say, there is no war between Christians and Muslims. He prays for Islamic countries all over the world. He prays for world leaders, he prays for the sick, he gives assistance to the poor and massive scholarship to millions of people in Nigeria and all over the world. He eats with the poor, less privileged, the sick. He restores hope to widow’s plight. This is a TRUE man of God. Not Tunde Bakare, an Islamic BH in the disguising himself as a Christians or pastor. If he had the spirit of God before, it has departed from him. I do watch his church programs everyday when he was in the spirit. Immediately the spirit of God departed from him, I saw a fanatical BH I stopped watching his programs. God will judge him. He incited

Note this first, you married an African man and a Nigeria and should know that we depend on each other to survive. Here in Nigeria, we depend on each other to grow and also love each other in same manner. His marring you, you should try to understand that we appreciate helping our parents because they suffered to train us. Nobody, not even the government renders any form of assistance on any Nigerian’s up-bringing.

I am not advocating for any form of maltreatment from your mother in-laws to you. But from your complaint, I deduced here that you don’t like him attending to his family's financial needs hence your complaint that she never complemented your kind attitude towards you and your kids. Maybe you showed this your attitude of spending towards your mother in-law when you took her out for shopping and she was picking everything. You also talked about your husband’s not saving towards taking you out on holidays. Listen, our African culture does not stomach that. This guy is a very responsible son of his parents hence his caring for his parents. His parents must have suffered to bring him up and also giving him good education hence you’re enjoying his present position. This young man is not like some a guy whose parents  stole Nigerian money to lavish with white women outside this country. Like most oil minister's children under the search light.

Please drum it to your ears and note that you married a well brought up African man who remembers where he is coming from that our culture is that, children should look after their parents at old age. Do you know if the parents borrowed money to send him to the UK? We are not Americans or their likes who abandon their parents to be taken to Old Peoples Homes when they are old and will be taken care of by government.

In our culture, Nigerian government doesn’t provide for her citizenry hence we work hard to survive. Those Nigerian guys you see out there living like kings were the ones their parents stole our money and ran away hence they stay like kings, prince and princesses.

Listen, my wife is an American. I brought her home and she even went to the farm with my mother and does every form of work. I made her to go and get cassava, yam from the farm. I tasted her in all forms and subjected her to see if she will complain, but she never did. She came home and even did laundering for my mother and cooked Egusi soup for my parents.
Let this guy bring you to Nigeria and take you to Ogbomosho, to the farm for you to see what his parents went through to bring him up. STOP COMPLAINING AND FACE THE MUSIC. WHY DID YOU MARRY AFRICAN IF YOU CANNOT STICK TO THEIR CULTURE.

Moderator, Iink yo should be civil in what you are doing. Stop posting topics that ca ignite problems. For you to post  sensitive  topic like this shows that you have virus in your brain. There are topics you should be careful bringing out here. This shows that you are a trouble shooter and need not to be taken seriousely.

Have you been able to find out what went wrong? What of what Fashola did at Oshodi? What of most areas where Ibos trade in Lagos and they were displaced? Why didnt post it that Fashola has thrown Ibos, housas and other ethnic groups out? You should be careful the way the poster and you the moderator rush to post issues that could trigger war.

This must be the elite of the North trying to bring down the Government of Jonathan because the south is now holding the mantle. They only wanted to make it look like fanatics but in their own real sense, they are after the present government of Jonathan. If they are not after the present government, let them bomb their elites, those who contested and lost and have been fermenting problem with their southern church candidate claiming that he is a true Christian while an anti Christ and a fanatic. He only wanted to hijack the fuel subsidy to press on Nigerians to ferment problems. His Northern presidential candidate should be monitored to know where these problems are coming from. If this southern messenger of death that calls himself pastor is in his right sense of mind, he should be praying for Nigeria and not fermenting problem. No true Pastor or Christian should behave the way this so called anti Pastor vice presidential candidate does. The spirit of God has departed from him long ago. He is in the flesh.

There is no war between Christians and Muslims, but some few individuals who claim that this country belongs to them. God will expose them.

This is useless and stupi-d of the judge to grant terrorists bail. He too must be terrorist. Terrorist anywhere in the world are not given any form of nail. Which kind of Country is this? How can they grant such individuals bail? Was Farouk granted bail in the US? What the so called has done is to encourage other muslim fanatics to carry out their deadly acts.

Thnk God for what He has done 4 you all. May His name be blessed. I use yours as a point of contact for God Almighty also see my own twins same way in Jesus name Amen.

That iddio--t should be hanged.