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Mtola8:
I won't be touching it anytime soon. I need to be careful and stay safe. So many "what if"

It cannot be any form of mistake cus u once asked for assistance through here and a/c inclusive. There are people that do bls person and don't want to be mentioned. I've done such when things was good, as I read abt their case. Use ur best judgment, and may God shower u with more blsgs.

Mtola8:
Through though, I was only concerned cause I posted it weeks back.

Thank GOD for u. Me, i need help too and u can help me wit anything from ur blsg. I can send u a/c. Thnks

Climatology100:
Thank you sir, it was as if you heard our conversation today, I messed up and I will take the blame but there has been a good development today as my parents are involve but anything that will shake her union is out of it.

Wish u the best of luck. Wish u, the lady and the baby a happy ending and remain the best of friends. May God give u the wisdom to handle this. Looking forward to a wonderful news yrs to come.

All Indian, Lebanese, Chinese companies in Ogun and Lagos states has noting less than 10 mopols guiding them and even, residing in the premesis of these companies. The IG, should do something about these companies. Most of these companies each has over 400 Indians hidden inside and working as I believe they've no resident permits as the don't come out of the company. During this covic19, they work in the night. During the day, they off the mechines.

Immigration officials are not doing their work.

The amt is too small 4 d offence they committed. No descent offer could stoop low 4 that amt.

You can imagine the pictures of people claimed to have been beaten by tugs looking fresh. If even a tug handle any of these ones, their stomach will be deflected.

Let them look for better lie to defend their useless governor.

AFONJACOW:
pallbearers come and dance with this guy , two corpse loading

Don't be surprised that u might die b4 both of them and they end up reading and superving ur burial program.

Listen my brother, secret is the only thing ONLY you knows. There are people who can absolve a shock and some that cannot handle things. There are men who can handle this issue if blown up and a lot who can't take it.

Look, no way that u can go to claim this child that will not shake the foundation of this marriage. If the guy is bad, he might end up to either divorce or end up to take the lives of this lady nd child or the child and keep the lady, whichever way that pleases him.


If I were you, first, I'll keep this bw two of u as secret and nobody else or at most ur mom, since she is a female child, it will be easier to handle than male child. I'll keep this secret of this child bw both of u-the lady nd urself for life. When the lady comes of age, both of can take her out codedly and disclose her status and she can handle it. Any form in bringing her up, do same codedly, but don't get emmotional wit ur ex 2 bleep her again since she is married. Gudluck

Op, the worst u can do to urself nd d lady is disclossing her status, even ur family members, inclusive. Secret is the thing only u knows. Since she is pregnant, both of u should get medical advise from the hospital and how to live together and ur unborn child not contracting the virus. It is not a deadly deceases like b4.

Listen my brother, secret is the only thing ONLY you knows. There are people who can absolve a shock and some that cannot handle things. There are men who can handle this issue if blown up and a lot who can't take it.

Look, no way that u can go to claim this child that will not shake the foundation of this marriage. If the guy is bad, he might end up to either divorce or end up to take the lives of this lady nd child or the child and keep the lady, whichever way that pleases him.


If I were you, first, I'll keep this bw two of u as secret and nobody else or at most ur mom, since she is a female child, it will be easier to handle than male child. I'll keep this secret of this child bw both of u-the lady nd urself for life. When the lady comes of age, both of can take her out codedly and disclose her status and she can handle it. Any form in bringing her up, do same codedly, but don't get emmotional wit ur ex 2 bleep her again since she is married.

Climatology100:
I messed things up but I never leave her alone when ,..

Listen my brother, secret is the only thing ONLY you knows. There are people who can absolve a shock and some that cannot handle things. There are men who can handle this issue if blown up and a lot who can take it.

Look, no way that u go to claim this child that will not shake the foundation of this marriage. If the guy is bad, he might end up to either divorce or end up to take the life of this lady nd child or the child and keep the lady, whichever way that pleases him.


If I were you, first, I'll keep this bw us, since she is a female child, it will be easier to handle than male child. I'll keep this secret of this child bw both of u-the lady nd urself for life. When the lady comes of age, both of can take her out codedly and disclose her status and she can handle it. Any form in bringing her up, do same codedly, but don't get emmotional wit ur ex 2 bleep her again since she is married.

Madam, I'm sorry to say ur husband has mental problem. How can a sane man be walking naked or with only boxer on where a 9 yr daughter is? Maybe he might turn to rape the baby one day. Even at 1 1/2 yrs old, a sane man cannoct act such and upon that, beat u up when u complained. Your daugher of 9 yrs, is been exposed to danger and since it is a room/parlor, she might be pretending to be sleeping and be watching u guys making out.

I wouldn't knw what to advise u now 'cus your marriage is in danger. Something is not right with ur husband.

Op, having gone through ur post, i deduced that ur action pushed the girl off balance after the first and 2nd pregnancy.

Pls don't claim u love/d her herein as u've stated. If there was any atom of love, no matter her excusses, u would've kept her after the miscarriage.

The lady found luv somewhere
having known that u weren't ready for her after u had an unprotect sex with her, decided to settle with her new found luv.
After getting to know she is married and posted the pix., of the baby, u now discovered the resemblance, you now want to claim the baby either by force or by any means.
Op, knowing fully well that u knowingly knew the current status of this lady u claim u love/d, and u have discussed with her and she opened up, why not allow her be for God's sake. Do u know that ur action could lead to the death of this lady or both(mother and child)? Why not go and marry and get ur own child/ren and allow this woman be? This table u're shaking might end up destroying u.

Momoh an outdated laptop that needed to be formated. He should appeal to Falana, to help reset his brain. Momoh is an expired drug.

Bc

Wike is not fit to be a leader. His action has exposed his inability to lead. His action calls for a question/review of his educational certificate as a lawyer.

No sane lawyer will act the way wike displayed his stupidity publicly. I'm glad that a SAN like Falana, has further expossed his person. No justification for his action.

The owners of the demolished properties should sue Wike and the state government.

kestolove95:
Divorce d modafucka nd move on with ur life, get a young guy as a sec toy...no time men are stupeed

'Divorce the man and get a young guy as second toy'. I know say na ur type dey fvck outside while still married.

jeff1607:
can a man force another woman's child on a lady or trick her into accepting another woman's child and raising it as her own?

Impossible. Most women are demon in nature.
Only a woman that knows the father of her child/ren. I know of a family like that. They've 5 kids nd the children are from different men and the guy is not aware.

Pdp should note that Wike has ended up destroying their party come 2023. He is not fit to hold any public office. He is not a good manager as he has anger problem. He should not be a prosecutor and a judge at the same time. A lawyer for that matter

This is a paid advert by ur so called governor and doesn't hold water for his action. Wether they were holding party or prostituting , by demolishing the property by Wike, is that enough justification by the governor?

also, the trailers or cars he arrested and declared that he will auction too, did the drivers also shot at him?

Wike is a tyrant and should be sued for his action. Lagos state governor had same issues, but sealed those premesis and took them to court.

Bello knows there is no live person in Aso Rock Abuja, hence his action. If there is a 'live' in Aso Rock, Abuja, he will respect the FG.

crackkhaus:
- Class is now in session -
Please have your pen & paper ready...

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM 101

- Both of you are terrible... you are no saint and he ain't no pope either.
- Both of you are abusive to each other.
- You want to get pregnant again by the same man who has been bashing your head in, and landing you in the hospital as you claim - so while he is a monster, you are a psycho.
- He has told you to go sleep with another man/men if you want to... he clearly does not care about you or what you do with your vagîna.
- He earns more income than you do, but does not contribute anything to the house despite. Apparently, you pay the house rent (you just added this now) and you also handle every other thing.
- Your own family have wondered and asked why you are still with him.

You stated the truth herein and from op's responses and the fact she doesn't want divorce goes to show that she either survive or die in the marriage.

cuteboy2:
Are you the one that wrote Rivers State Executive Order number 6? Is it stated there that all MDs of Electricity companies are automatically essential workers. Even if he falls under that category, did he produce the exemption permit on demand?

I don't know why you people are so miffed when a state government decides to enforce rules strictly. It sends a very strong message for would be law breakers, not the yeye we are seeing in Lagos where no one takes Sanwolu's directive seriously.

Rivers is not Ekiti or Ogun or Lagos where bigmanism allows you to be above the law.
If Rivers State decides to prosecute offenders in mobile or regular courts, then the PHED will find himself there eventually. Nothing to bellyache about.

Exactly on point. With his action, PDP is gone. After his tenure, he will not walk freely in Rivers state.

Wike is sick and need mental evaluation. His action has exposed his party, pdp and has equally damaged his political carreer 4 life. You don't overdo things as a time will come and he will be out of power. Those he has been stepping on, will come after him. I don't know the type of weed he smokes.

The man is on essential duty and is allowed to oversee the electricity within ph.

Confusedwomsn:
Thank you, I was just hurt.
I know I have to work on me and s lot of people have mentioned where I erred.

All these while I never saw me getting pregnant for someone I loved and was in s relationship with as me trying to trap him with pregnancy but when I see s lot of opinions about it, I then realized thats what I portrayed.
I've learnt s lot and I've made it clear he can leave if he wants too because I won't Leave become divorce is against my faith in Christ.
I will work on avoiding him as much as possible so I'm not provoked to anger and frustrstion.

I will definitely try to be better.

I wish u the best herein. As u have stated that divorce is against ur faith. Note, cat and rat cannot co-habit in life. You can have misunderstanding, but when domestic abuse is involved, only the living can live to tell his/her story.

Ybaby:
Thanks so much.

She is in real pain and genuinely wants to save her marriage I believe. She just needs to calm down and learn and she will

Right now, she is still hurting. In a few months time she is coming with testimonial.

you have done noble with ur input. I feel her pain and wish she overcome this. My advise for her is to stop laying curses on this public forum 2 any person as she shouldn't expect every person to support her view. Let her pick the advise that can help her heal or take a walk. Marriage is not a do and die issue.

Confusedwomsn:
I don't feel bad , if I offended him I won't feel bad but I did nothing to him.
Do you think I'm mad to wake up and insult s man I married and decided to spend forever with.
Have y your head been banged on the wall, have you been beaten till you've been hospitalized.
You can advice all you want but don't judge me.

Don't make mockery of someone's situation because yours is better.

Woman, I think I've given u enough advise to think about ur life to see how u can pull through this difficult time. Pick the advise u can and stop responding with curses. It's wrong. Ur health first.

freecocoahubby:
Let her develop BP na.

In fact, OP whats your email address? Let me send you my picture so you can take it to Amadioha to pray for my downfall because I told you the unfiltered truth . Idioot!

I understand how u feel. Just allow her be, I beg u. This is public forum. We all can't be the same.

Confusedwomsn:
Let God be the judge.
Even if if this forum is s faceless forum, do you know what your words can do.
Did I offend you or insult you in any way, did I.
Say all you want but trust me, I serve s living God that never fails.
He will y judge accordingly. Thank you

Woman, just hold on to urself as this is a public forum. Take the advise that can heal ur wound and pick up ur life. Don't expect everyone to side u. Don't 'cus of this, develope BP. I wish u good health and pray u pull 2ru this.

Op, I feel your pain after the above stated and will advise you to think about urself and ur baby first, so that u don't develope BP at this young age. I am against the domestic abuse aspect of ur marriage 'cus, only the living can tell their story. If u cannot stand it, take a walk. Woman u got to be strong.

Confusedwomsn:
I now truly believe I'm being manipulated and abused emotionally.
We had s deep talk about separating and all of s sudden money that I always quarrel and fight for food suddenly pooped out and he even got fuel willingly. I bet you if I'm open to sex he will but in the next two weeks he will turn back to tormenting me.
This is s true life story..

I was asked why he is still with me.

He doesn't love me and does not want to lose my love. He knows I love deeply and I'm all about building our home with my being and he is scared of that.
I'm not falling for it anymore, today I've realized my worth.

I never trapped or deceived any one with...

Op, I feel your pain after the above stated and will advise you to think about urself and ur baby first, so that u don't develope BP at this young age. I am against the domestic abuse aspect of ur marriage 'cus, only the living can tell their story. If u cannot stand it, take a walk. Be strong.