veave:
Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills.
No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.

angelusbrut:
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̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅L̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅I̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅f̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅g̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅w̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅b̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅b̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅
̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅Y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅I̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅j̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅
̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅N̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅I̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅j̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅I̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅c̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅'̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅f̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅g̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅
̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅N̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅v̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅v̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅g̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅w̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅v̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅d̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅c̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅'̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅j̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅i̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅k̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅,̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅I̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅p̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅y̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅h̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅m̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅u̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅r̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅w̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅l̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅a̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅f̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅ ̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅o̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅n̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅e̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅s̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅t̲̲̫̲̲̫̲̲̅̅̅̅̅̅.̲̲̫̲̅̅̅]

kestolove95:
Divorce d modafucka nd move on with ur life, get a young guy as a sec toy...no time men are stupeed

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Jullima:
My dear you have described most Nigerian marriages. We see it here a lot on NL. Keeping malice and Nigerian husbands are 5&6. You are not allowed to express your feelings, it’s called talking back. You’re also supposed to apologise for something you were a victim of. If the husband is not 100% the breadwinner, even worse, any body language or words are interpreted as “you don’t respect me because you are contributing”

P.S our NL favourite matron will come in and blame you for not choosing right, even though he presented himself as a godly man or you must have done something to change a godly man.

Sis, it is well.

Jullima:
My dear you have described most Nigerian marriages. We see it here a lot on NL. Keeping malice and Nigerian husbands are 5&6. You are not allowed to express your feelings, it’s called talking back. You’re also supposed to apologise for something you were a victim of. If the husband is not 100% the breadwinner, even worse, any body language or words are interpreted as “you don’t respect me because you are contributing”

P.S our NL favourite matron will come in and blame you for not choosing right, even though he presented himself as a godly man or you must have done something to change a godly man.

Sis, it is well.

GboyegaD:


This your number 3 though.... I can't imagine someone apologizing over and over again for a crime not committed and I sure would detest it s a man.

samoranononi:
After reading your post, I decided to check your profile to see your previous posts and after reading I come to a conclusion that you are the problem and basically not your husband.

2012 you were complaining about how you dated two guys and they ended up dumbing you. You dated one of them for 5 years and the other for two years. You said you were the one taking care of them financially and you spent on your savings on them and they ended up dumbing.

My question is what were you doing that made both of them to dump you? Were you able to analyzed your flaws and worked on them?

I saw another post about you soliciting for help to support yourself and your 3 kids but now you have 6 kids. Growing family without growing finance is something can crash home. I understand your income and that of your husband is no longer sufficient for your home.

My advice is pray for your husband. When a man truly cares about his family and his unable to give them the best, he ended up being frustrated and unhappy. you don’t have to remind him of his current situation every time. He needs your spiritual support more than you coming here to share this with us. Please spend more time to communicate to God than people.

May God bless you and your family

angelfallz:
Guy you funny, so if the husband now comes on nairaland and gives a version that makes the OP out to be a bad wife you would switch sides to the man Abi?
Why not give your advice and avoid siding with anyone?

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

Ishilove:

It isn't very simple my dear. This is marriage, kids are involved, families are involved and a whole lot of ramifications as well.

Mstick:
Hmmmmmmm this one is tough, a broke man with ego is more dangerous than a rattle snake.

olabrinks:
̷D̷̷o̷̷n̷̷’̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷y̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷W̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷y̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷u̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷L̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷l̷̷d̷̷i̷̷g̷̷g̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷a̷̷m̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷u̷̷g̷̷h̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷W̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷e̷̷s̷̷n̷̷’̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷y̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷W̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷W̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷v̷̷i̷̷d̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷u̷̷t̷̷u̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷i̷̷l̷̷d̷̷r̷̷e̷̷n̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷W̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷o̷̷t̷̷i̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷i̷̷a̷̷l̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷b̷̷o̷̷d̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷o̷̷t̷̷i̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷i̷̷a̷̷l̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷t̷̷a̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷a̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷T̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷r̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷v̷̷o̷̷i̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷m̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷r̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷v̷̷i̷̷d̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷r̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷r̷̷o̷̷k̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷T̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷e̷̷n̷̷e̷̷r̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷i̷̷l̷̷d̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷’̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷d̷̷a̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷9̷̷0̷̷%̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷m̷̷o̷̷r̷̷r̷̷o̷̷w̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷a̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷v̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷m̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷w̷̷h̷̷i̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷1̷̷0̷̷0̷̷%̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷e̷̷r̷̷t̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷)̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷a̷̷b̷̷i̷̷l̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷g̷̷a̷̷r̷̷d̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷i̷̷n̷̷a̷̷n̷̷c̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷i̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷O̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷s̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷a̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷o̷̷u̷̷g̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷s̷̷e̷̷.̷

Jullima:
My dear you have described most Nigerian marriages. We see it here a lot on NL. Keeping malice and Nigerian husbands are 5&6. You are not allowed to express your feelings, it’s called talking back. You’re also supposed to apologise for something you were a victim of. If the husband is not 100% the breadwinner, even worse, any body language or words are interpreted as “you don’t respect me because you are contributing”

P.S our NL favourite matron will come in and blame you for not choosing right, even though he presented himself as a godly man or you must have done something to change a godly man.

Sis, it is well.

crackkhaus:

Who told you it's not simple? It's really very simple...

All is she needs is to save money, and she'll be gone.

Mstick:
Hmmmmmmm this one is tough, a broke man with ego is more dangerous than a rattle snake.

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

Iffffffy:
At some point, I thought I was the one doing this narration, it is well sis.

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

Julietsim:

Husbands act as if they are the boss in the marriage and wives act as if they are inferior.A man is the head of the home,not the boss of the home.

crackkhaus:
Wow, so many stories of unhappy women in their marriages.

What must be responsible for this

Is it that the men involved have always been like that, but as expected, they are very good at gaming these women with love and excellent sex... OR is it that the women never really paid attention, got carried away easily, and were quite easy to deceive?

It really has to be one or the other, because I don't believe an adult already set in his/her ways can suddenly change.
They may pretend, adapt, or be able to project a false personality but to change? NEVER.