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Op, you came to this forum to seek for an advise and as such you should expect both sides of the mouth. Some will insult you and some will give you reasonable advise you can learn from. Take both punches and don't start insulting back to some insultive advises herein. To the subject matter, the lady in question by saying that she can only assist you in life ONLY when you are down,even when her business is been financed by you is a very costly statement to make by a lady you are not married to yet. For me, there is danger ahead of such statement. If you fail in your business in life, there is a limit she can endure with you. For me, not you, I will walk away from such relationship. No love is blind these days.

Op,take a walk out of that relationship now 'cus the signs of problems awaits you ahead, if you take her as a wife. It is not even the amount you intend to put up for her for the project, same friend of hers would come in-beteen two of you and be giving her wrong advise to your own detriment.

In America,it is also called 'Volkswagen Bug' the engine can be used to power other cars and also for boat engines.

Dismissing any SARS officer is a very big risk to the society. The best option should be to places like Madugiri- Sambisa forest or any war front. I think they are been officially trained to rob.

You should know that SARS are Offial Armed Robbers established for the purpose of robbing innocent Nigerians.

@NwaChibuzo, have you seen how you have allready convicted the girl without hearing from her? Don't worry,one day you will be accused for an offence you never committed and be stonned to death , but before you give up,these words of yours,will remmind you of the accusation. Hope you heard of Alu4,just innocent students wasted.

mirexxx:
she was my roommate in camp. she stole nothing jare. sum1 that travelled to Zurich from camp and even own a car plus a huge Samsung phone. she may have picked the iPhone since there are many careless girls in the hostel

I believed what you just stated. After going through this post, I found it very hard to believe what she been accussed of. How can she steal a phone and still put on her NYSC uniform to return a stolen phone knowing same to be stolen does'nt add up. It could be a set up. I pray she overcome this and doesn't hurt herself. People should go help secure her out.

DrayZee:
She didn't steal the phone.
From information I received, she collected it from one dude as a form of collateral when he didn't pay for a particular service rendered. On going through the phone, she discovered that it belonged to someone else and called one of the numbers she found phone (the number of the owner's sister).
She explained how she got the phone and then told the owner where to come retrieve it. On getting there, the owner and her associate began to accuse the girl of theft while taking a video of the girl.
There are many people who can vouch for this girl's innocence and this is simply a case of irresponsibility mainly on the part of instablog9ja who posted the video without even verifying the situation.


It's really unfortunate. Her life and career will be affected by this incident. This is probably an example of why people don't return lost items.

This should be the truth. I pray Go gives her the strong mind to overcome this.

SamuelAnyawu:
Hmmm this story be as e get. A thief agreed to meet openly in a restaurant on her NYSC Khaki?

It doesn't sound right to me. It could be a set up. She stole a phone and agreed to meet up with the owner while putting on her NYSC uniform on in person knowing fully well that it was a stollen phone doesn't add up to me.

When someone decides to run you down, they can take their time and plan it out. From the beginning, they will arrange for the person to get closer to you keep recording any movement and keep for a purpose of the said plan when the time comes. When you look at the way the guy posed from the picture of the wedding of Sarikis daughter, you will see that he was used to act that way so that when the time like this comes, they will try to use those things to get that person down.

Now, how come they kept all those records and video till now? That is to tell you that that was a planned deal to run the Saraki man down. It is a well planned deal and well written script that they are are now playing. I don't like the Sariki, senate president but with his posistion and family background, he cannot plan for such robbery for what gain? Too bad for this country.Politics with bitterness.

Nothing wrong with the account.That credit should be the interest earned for the month added and since her account is deficit, they have to wait to end of the month to have her interest credited, then debited same account to take care of her debit balance,

Boss13:
Those are not police officers. They are impostors. Police officers don’t start beating you before interrogation. They did that to intimidate you. Also, they used a Siena Van. That should be a red flag for you. Police don’t use Siena vans.

You must be one of them.

Op,you should have known that SARS were the first that started kidnapping. Now, tell me the difference between the difference between armed kidnappers and what SARS officials does. They are even more dangerous than armed robbers. Is there any difference between what evans was doing and what SARS does? No diffence.

This must have been done by gen repairer and should be living within that environment. Too bad.

Op,you stated that you prepared okro soup, right? Now,from the preping to finish, you mentioned step by step how and when you to add,but did not state when you added the so called okro to the soup. may I know if you just added the okro after boiling the soup or ,,,?

Happy Birthday true man of God.

The SARS officers,were they checking the herdsmen phones? I thought that they only check phones and people pockets dem know. They have met with those that fit them and they could't stand them. When they see innocent people,they start flexing and showing off and common herdsmen,they cannot stand them.

It will be good for you to run from SARS than armed robbers. An innocent man will be killed and tagged as armed robber by SARS, but an armed robber will rob you and can only kill you if you resist.

Op it is a pity you are going through this right now having thought that 'love is blind'. In a relationship or to say marriage, no two perfect people on the face of this earth. One thing here is that op was blinded with love and never took steps to run his home from the first time. Have laws in your home and do not fail to stand by it. If you see your wife go out of order, correct her. She must have her own respect from you but do not insult her person because of her weakness. Never allow her to boss you. When you notice that her parents are encroaching into your family affairs, correct her immediatelly. Waiting and endouring and hoping that it will correct itself with time, you are killing yourself just like op. Op with children now involved, it will be difficult to seek for divorce,rather, call a meeting of both families involved and spell out your problem and state how to run your family without any external interferance. Note also that if your woman is the wicked type,she can get rid of you.

Good to note the progress you have made so far. Listen,never give the man any space to intimidate you. Never accord him any form of respect again 'cus he doesn't deserve it. Even the police,never be affraid of them. If you can buy a car of that amount, you are a man and nobody is feeding you. Man up and face them in as much that death is not involved and you never stole,man up and goodluck.

candy:
Yes, she should have run...
She should have reported him earlier...
I bet she never expected it to get to this, but it did and I'm sure there is room for self defence in the laws of the land.

I hope a women's right/human right organisation comes to this lady's aid asap. Trust naija police, even if the late husband wakes up to admit she stabbed him in self defence, police will not let her go unless they are HEAVILY bribed!

Let well meaning Nigerians, lawyers and Activist groups come all out to help this young woman.

Even the police would want to bed her in pretence that they want to help her.

Let people rally round to get justice for her and the children. Women advocates should help her out and moderator,help move this to front page. I believe she reacted in self defence.

This Emenike's wife must be a big f0ol. Emenike must watch his back.

Blackfire:
Is like I offended the man in his former life

Listen,the intimidation and the new bill could be the man's plan with the police hence the sudden change of the amount. They want to extort from you and knowing that you just bought the car and you should be loaded. If you have a close friend who is a lawyer, discuss with him or insist you cannot pay more than the 140k, but have in mind that you will still settle police. Or go to the DPO and discuss terms and take care of things and they will call the man to order. Just budget 200k for everything. If they don't accept that,take it to court.

That is how a well trained and educated officer should sound. Madam you are doing a great job. God bless you. Most of those SARS don,t look different from those deadly armed robbers on the st.

Blackfire:
I really don't want this in my life right now.
But like you said, I have to be strong.
Who knows what could have happened, if this didn't happen.
Thanks Andy

You welcomed. Just handle it with care. God has a reason for this. I can understand you're not a trouble somebody. The issue here is the extra bill he added to the 140k, to pump up the bill to such high amount. Is he now asking 4 the cash to be given to him or to the mechanic? People are wicked.

Your 3rd party should take care of the man's car. You should get your own mechanic to cost the damage and give you the cost. If he doesn't want, let them charge the case to court and they will agree on your own terms since you never killed anybody. The bill is high. He is a wicked person. Just allow your car to stay there what if your enemy died. Bd strong and face the man.

The nurse cannot exonorate herself from the theft. Why insist that the father to the baby must leave the hospital to buy the items needed despite giving her 2k and at the same time,sent the mother inlaw of the woman to go and look for hot water? She allready perfected her plan. The nurse was responsible for the theft. Holding the nurse and the matron was right.

You were warned to leave the guy by your parents and you insisted that he is love of your youth and father to your children. Now that it has ended this way, where is the love again? Walk out of any abusive relationship. No Love is blind. When it becomes blind,there is danger by the side knocking.

The police should have at least for once,used an intelligent officer to have him/her construct this piece of lie. Their response has aided to expose them more to their cover up for crime against humanity their own commits. Even a primary school student who can read and write would know they lied and are covering something.

Having read the police own version of what happened, you can now know that somebody is not telling the truth. The police stated that the okada man was carring a passanger who had a big bag inbetween and the okada tried to escape arrest and ran into gutter and died but his passenger that both of them had the accident got up and escapped with what he was carring? Now who will believe that. How can the passenger escape on foot while police were fully armed? Haba. Pure lie.

Kingpee2:
But he is dead na ,what’s the use of this position,if he stands there for ages it still implies to nothing ,who don die don die abegiii...

Even in the bible, it is written, bury the dead so that his spirit may rest. His spirit will still be roaming about.