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techmo:




Well sometimes Marriage seems to be for broke people or people who seem validation from others

Dangote is single... Even some married people just want to satisfy societal norms and standards with their marriages


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At the part in Bold...

Those 2 sets of individuals should never touch marriage even with a long spoon. Perfect recipes for eternal misery.

akanjikokoro:
Asa is afraid of rushing in to marriage because if she enters now no privacy again .

She ain't wrong there... Sacrificing and giving up one's privacy and personal space are a key part of the marriage deal. Not everyone can pay that price.

praiseneo:
See mumu reasoning mtchw

Deep understanding is not for everyone... No vex!

englishmart:
Marriage is supposed to make you better. If getting married will worsen you, remain single. Marriage is either life improvement or life imprisonment. Nobody should pressure you into marriage.

Words on a Marble!!!... Well and Aptly put!

BigBizzy:
Leave all these plenty talks...you're not married because you're yet to be the spec of any man thus far

Sigh... Kids Everywhere!!! Wisdom just flies over your heads! Such a shame!!!

othermen:
It is probably because you have built walls around yourself.
However if you let love in or ever experienced it in its full, then you would know there is nothing as desirable as it.
We make choices, and we make them based on our knowledge or affection and in your case, principles- that you have become enslaved to.
With the right person, marriage enhances. It is never the elimination of you and it doesn't have to be the elimination of your space.
But that shouldn't even be your fear. If it is, we both know it is false fear.
Your salvation is getting someone stronger than yourself, that loves you regardless or that can oust whatever passion in that private time of yours with his presence. But that is your fear and that is why you have walls and maybe you cannot even attract such in the many distractions you encounter.

One day we all wake up expired.

I'm sure you don't realize how far off her point you are... Go back and read, a bit slower this time.

avril9:
So I am not the only one who wants to live like this.... We value that peace early in the morning and make the best decisions when it's quiet Introvert and some ambivert will fall into this category. It's really not about loving the right person in marriage, it's that they just love their me time and they don't get tired of their own company.

Precisely...

She makes a lot of sense...

I can easily relate with this (Tho happily married)!!!....

Nothing beats that productivity that comes from solitude!!! A lot of Nigerians can't understand this cos many of us are so used to being in the midst of people (whether virtual or physical). Some people are only on their own when they fall asleep... This is not our style!!! Not good for creative individuals.

Dear Asa, you are not selfish! Just unique! A like-minded mate will find you soon.

technicallyrich:
stop spreading hate,and stfu which other tribes do igbos have hate for.
almost everyone that is sincere will never like a yaribanza.because
they are cowards.
they can never say the truth and pretend alot, even in the north they call them dan bayerebes.
they are extremely dirty and some even sting and fart or mess too much for a humsn being.
they worship all manner of juju and liar they are christins or muslim.
i can go on and on and all these are facts i just mentioned.
im ijaw and i know yaribas hates us and our close brothers are tribes from ss and se.
who wouldn't fell abnormal having some one from a tribe of snakes, backstabbers and betrayals enter their family.
of caise except a Yoruba person since is their game

Damn!.... There is a real hollow in your life waiting to be filled with something productive and loving!!! You really need help, Professional Help!!!

AlphaAlex:
That woman is a 304, no wonder she made the family split.

The woman did nothing... The family split cos they wanted to split!!! SIMPLE!!! Why can't you people understand something so simple??!...

ThierryJay:
It's like many people don't understand that this proposal is not a direct tax on dstv as a company but rather on Subscribers to the dstv premium bouquet. Pls read the piece very well.

It's like a luxury tax that will be borne directly by the user when he subscribes to premium bouquet.

The likely implication is that many dstv users will simply avoid premium bouquet subscription, resulting in less revenue for DSTV and less direct tax for the same Government.

A very useless initiative in my humble opinion.

Your people don't seem to understand basic economics and commerce.... DSTV will never be affected directly. The consumer will pay whatever tax the idiot leaders impose on them.

IBBG:
DSTV will also increase subscription as well

Simple as that!!!... The average citizen will continue to lose!!!

Nigeria!!! One of the few "developed" nations in this dying universe where anyone and anything can be packaged/re-packaged to be more leadership-worthy than Napoleon, Winston Churchill, and Theodore Roosevelt.

Yahaya Bello
Bob Izua
M.C Oluomo
Orji Uzor Kalu
Dimeji Bankole
Abubakar Shekau
Evans the Kidnapper
Femi Fani-Kayode
Ateke Tom
Asari Dokubo
Gen. Ihejirika
Stella Oduah
Diezani Madueke
Rochas Okorocha
Yusuf Buhari

.... Just to mention a few!!!

This nation has no future tbh!!!

Too many beauty pageants.... What exactly is the point of them all??! Cos, I have no idea.

jaxxy:
That why she had to fight with jude and split the twins??

Yeah... Jude sat down quietly and she came raving like a mad woman to fight him, and disrupt the relationship between the idiot twins!!!

Yeah... Clap for yourself!!! You are doing well in life.

After opposing Endsars, you are now calling for resignation... You people are not serious!!!

Buhari is going no where!!!

Personally, I have no pity for the lot of you!!! Una never see anything!!!

Nigerians must get sense by force!!!

khingTony:
This boy too like attention


Everyday he want trend Nigerians sef

He is a top celebrity... Attention is basic currency na!!!

Aarenasbaba:
Able God, pls shower ur blessing... The shirt I bought last week for 5.5k , I still hang am. To wash am they fear me

You need to hammer and relocate out of that slum....

Elxandre:
A draw was enough sir.
PSG was on 6 points and we were ahead on H2H before the game.

Thanks... I see it now.

greypencils:
Martial. Cos if this fool had buried those two chances, we wouldn't be having this conversation. All we needed was a draw.

Nope... You needed a win!!! A Draw would mean not losing your last game, which happens to be an equally tough one.

This is because PSG is in no way losing to that bottom feeder from Turkey! Never!!!

At this stage, your qualification hangs on a very precarious balance, no thanks to Ole and Martial.

Jackson105:
Ole is a useless monkey!

Why is Fred still on the field after narrowly escape a red card?

Why is Herderson not used, instead of De gea that has obviously past his prime?

Why playing Martial that keep missing a sitter day in day out?

Ole doesn't have ambition, so shalow and foolish.


And this present PSG are poor, it is useless Man U with coach that decided to be unfortunate

What can be more useless than a team that had a golden opportunity to seal qualification early by beating a less than average Turkish club home and away, but chose to dash them 3 points in one leg?!!... Is there any other definition of useless?!!...

Ole lacks ambition and trophy winning mentality!!! This is quite obvious even to a blind idiot.

A coach that can't read a game fast and decisively make needed changes shouldn't be coaching a top legendary club like United... He shouldn't even be coaching in First league anywhere!!!

Fuckingmallam45:
Do me and do you, God no go vex , I beat them for their home, den beat me for my home. No cus for alarm
Anyway sha, WE MOVE

So, when Leipzig returns the favour next week... Heaven will still be pleased, yeah?!!!

Mikael0407:
Man U sold this game simple and short. The coach tactics were tailored to make sure psg wins

Nah... Y'all were outplayed and out-coached!!! End of.

Hurray!!! My prediction entered!!!... Happy Europa league, Sir. Olé and Woodward!!!

Good luck to West Ham and Moyes this weekend.

enemyofprogress:
Win or lose, Ole must go

Win?!!... The game is over na!!!

potbelly:
He just made it 4...
Baba dey claim stake for chelsea frontline...

Only a blind man won't see clearly that Tammy has no business starting ahead of Giroud.

Wordson:
I hope u are still laughing.. . U better pray say make rain of goals no fall behind De gea... Now dat Fred has BN red carded

Even clueless Gernot Rohr knows not to keep a defensive player in the field when already booked in a sensitive game at a precarious score line.

That's basically Coaching 101!!!

Meanwhile, Giroud just scored a hat trick against Mighty Sevilla of all teams!!!

While Martial is acting like a clueless Division 2 layabout!

N2B2:
Removed Rashford instead of Martial and put Pogba instead of VDB.

What a useless manager.

My theory still stands... Ole prefers Europa to UCL!!!

I knew it the day he sat back while his team lost to F.C Basaksehir. A game he should have won at all cost!!!

MightyHand:
Ole is too arrogant.. Fred has finally see red

Not arrogance actually... The idiot is just clueless!!!

So, are you telling me Olé didn't know he was supposed to have subbed Fred since??!... Damn!!!

This coach and club are a joke!!!

Fuckingmallam45:
I hope these chances we are missing shouldn’t come back to hurt us oo

Hope no more!!!… The hurt is upon you all!

One more goal to seal up my prediction.

Europa is not too bad tbh. You have the squad depth.