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[quote author=chiibekee post=28943247]I think we should end the discussion here so that no one gets insulted[/quotes]So sorry if I come out rude, that was not my intention..Am sorry, guess I used some word am not suppose to use..

Vikkyk10:
I am in a long dístance relationship.Hm,it's nt been easy.Hm,how do i handle it.

Vikky, hope u have not started developing feelings for that ur neighbor u talked about on ur previous thread..This one u are already looking for how to handle ur long distance relationship...if u guys have been together for long u guys can make it work but if not their cud be issue once a while..I believe ur love for each other will weather the storm so long as the love u have for each other is genuine. Always ensure anytime u guys have issue that its resolved quickly, don't let it drag for days cos the distance btw u guys will make it worse..best of luck

jeron1:
Matured man asking childiush questions.... What has age got 2do with wat I posted... Bigger FOOL

dude calm down, someone asked how old are u and u felt offended by the question, while not tell her you are older than her or diss her as u wish..Bringing her father into that is just rude and disrespectful. I hope u refrain ur self from saying such next time someone diss you..no offense meant just a little respectful advise

Nobody has talked about the age of the girl...At this stage of her life(19), she gets so many attention which she probably cud not balance due to the affection she gets from other guys..Sometimes I don't blame them cos I believe they are maturing into adult. That said, my advise for u is don't take her serious, start seeing her as friends with benefit while u search for someone a little bit mature who can understand what true love and relationship is all about cos believe me u will only hurt more knowing she is in love with someone else. You can also do same thing she is doing, flaunt other girls too in her face so she can understand how it feels. Like they say "two can play the game"

chiibekee:
u won't take her serious only if the love is not true cos if the love is true, u will stick to any condition just to be with her. #thepricewepayforlove

Please stop advising people with this ur line of thought..So because he wants to be with her he shud settle for less no matter the condition she gave to him?. The fact ur boo did that only points to the fact he has no option or he has inferiority complex. This is kind of thing that make men seek payback when they finally gets the woman to them self...if u have been advising with this ur line of thought kindly stop it.

how long have u guys been dating?,...Those things he is telling u is just to make u want him more and hoping u will heed to his demand..you said u suspect him cheating on u but u don't have evidence, ur suspicion probably started when u guys are having issues couple with the fact he is telling u many girls wants him. My question to u is are u willing to break up with him or u want solution to make the relationship work?

Billyonaire:
Isnt it ironic that you work in Alpha Beta but knows nothing about how Tinubu milk Lagosians dry ? sometimes I feel some of you become brainless as soon as you get that $150,000 (CramJones confirmed) from APC. Am I incorrect ?

Who best to know, is it the person that work at the office or the person who does not?...imagine an outsider telling u the name of ur father. So ironic!

Billyonaire:
Isnt it ironic that you work in Alpha Beta but knows nothing about how Tinubu milk Lagosians dry ? sometimes I feel some of you become brainless as soon as you get that $150,000 (CramJones confirmed) from APC. Am I incorrect ?

Who best to know, is it the person that work at the office or the person who does not?...imagine an outsider telling u the name of ur father. So ironic

dazey:
Okorocha is a big disgrace

A big disgrace on what specifically?, u care to shed more light on this?

Packup:
I dont know why some ladies act so hard to date....i met this particular girl in church and we became friends somehow and i wanted to take it to next level by telling her i'm falling in love with her,after telling her my mind she said i will get over it that its a ''crush'' but d problem is that all her behaviour,words towards me shows she has something on her mind reasons are:i read her dairy and lo and behold i saw what she wrote about me(dat she love me and so on)2.she told her sister i'm her new boyfriend....but what is confusing me now is that dgirl always talk about boyfriends that she has date anytimes we talk.......i be novice abeg lead me through

Your case is easy. since u said u saw it in her diary that she loves u, all u need do to make her want u more is to make her jealous. Formulate a story like u have a girl whom is interested in u.. when u guys are together gisting just chip it in ur discussion and let it linger in her mind..do it again next time but stylishly let her know u are not interested..this shud make her come to u cos she won't want to lose u

Blazinraj01:
I've done that to every guy that has chased me and I'm not interested in while telling them that I have no desire of being in a relationship with them but they just don't get it. They hang on to the hope it will happen some day

Funny enough some guys don't take No for an answer..well guess u will be more subtle and direct next time, just say it directly without mincing word and with so much conviction in ur words that u can't date him..I believe it shud drive in the message

Blazinraj01:
And some guys who ain't perceptive will still take this signs as playing 'hard to get'. I tire

so u have been doing that to a guy chasing u abi?..just be straight up with him, tell him u can't date him

okiezman:
Thanks for educating me didn't know till now

You are welcome..

Vikkyk10:
no,not at al,i just lyk him naturally'no strings attached.

Its always the first step...guess the fact ur boo is not around and u get to gist and talk to him, the likeness starts to grow. Just be careful cos the fact u like him may lead to u getting romantical with him....I will suggest u talk more about ur boo when u guys are gisting, that way it can kill the feelings he has for u

Juliaann:
well I vowed never to date again until further notice


Guys eh they really dealt with me

Sorry for being insensitive but do u expect them not to deal with u with this kind of shape...*close eyes and runs out of thread before juliaann gets hold of him*

Platnum1:
I just wished my husband will do his own research and not be so stiff necked.

hahahahahah...why don't u marry me, u know I have the experience already..*angelsing knees down looking straight into her eyes and ask with a bedroom voice "will u marry me sweetness?"

anonimi:
Na you gangan be Clueless-in-Chief with your analogy of the bride and groom sweeping AFTER the guests have left.
Now answer these questions-

- Were the people/delegates still at TB Stadium when those pictures of dirt all over the place was taken or it was AFTER they left?
- In your wedding analogy, should the groom & bride not ensure they hire cleaners or have volunteers who will clean the rented venue IMMEDIATELY the guests leave so they can hand over the place to the owners and avoid extra charges for DELAYED and/or DIRTY handover based on their rental agreement?
- Are you simply reflecting our collective laid back, lazy & dirty as well as lack of proper maintenance culture with your brainless post?

In most cases the owner or the management of the venue cleans their venue as long as u paid for the hall/venue

Everybody is forming detective in this country..If u have evidence as u claim, kindly post or publish it..Am not in any way in support of this government, I will vote against them come next year but u have to come up with evidence to back up this ur claim.

okiezman:
LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding hearing it for the 1st time...

Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed.

okiezman:
LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding hearing it for the 1st time...

Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed

ireneony:
any guy that behaves like that have a side chick or he is not proud of her

That is like looking at one factor without considering other option..there might be other reason for his actions, it might not be a side chick. You can't rule out other possibility just because of what he did...The fact is how many guy or girl will boldly introduce his/her bf/gf to the parent without having that parental fear?

ireneony:
you made the best decision....l think your then boyfriend has already introduced another lady to his parents, it will be somehow if he introduced u to them. them truth is, u were the side chick and he was just using u because of sex. how can a guy u call ur boyfriend not call u for days, dont call him, if u like u call him u are only bringing ur self esteem low.
forget about him, cos u are not getting any younger, look for another boyfriend.

Irene, when talking about things like this, u shud use the word "probably" because u are not so sure if the bf has a side chick or not except when u are absolutely sure u can authoritatively say he has a child chick

hazel01:
all of the above

As it is u will have to deal with the decision u have made..Sometimes in a relationship love alone is not enough to sustain it..I hope u find happiness in ur next relationship that is if u guys don't sought out ur differences. Best of luck

What is this again?...this kind of topic on the front page, what are we suppose to learn from this?.That a place was dirty after an event. In this desperate times u will soon start seeing topic like "APC fart while passing PDP office".smh

mesoade:
. . He doesn't love u same way you do . . His not accepting his fault and you begging him when it's at fault gave him the right to treat u lyk dis . . I'm a guy,i can attest to dis,besides a female friend of mine had similar experience

U shud use the word probably cos u can't be sure he does not love her..beside how do u propose to someone u don't love?. It might just be his Ego don't jump to conclusion

hazel01:
the thing was, he knew he was wrong and instead of calmly accepting his fault, he decided to turn the tables around So I would have to start begging him.....that was not the first time he would do something like that,and I would end up begging him after he gives me silent treatment for a week,he has gotten used to blaming me and not accepting his faults,that he thought of wriggling his way out of that kind of issue gave me the impression he was not serious... the ring was just a scam

He might truly love u but he might be blighted by his Ego..since u have always been the one that begs every time u guys have issue, u probably wud have kept quiet and wait till whatever time he realise u are not going to apologise this time. Though I still think u made the decision in haste..what next for u now?, have u told him u don't want him again or u just made up ur mind u don't want him?

You broke up with him already?, isn't that too soon..what happen to talking and trying to find a common ground on this issue..I think u rushed and was too hasty to break it off..Come to think of it u accepted the ring and just because this issue u guys can thrash u ended the relationship?. Not cool at all, if u love him like u said try and work things out

PhockPhockMan:
It seems you've comprehension problem.

no u have summary problem...lol

PhockPhockMan:
I hope you people won't start killing people after the obvious happens.

Which one is u people?...have u killed anyone before?, cos I can't imagine u thinking people will be killed if GEJ lose

Donmarrius:
Buhari will only rule a divided Nigeria,or a New Nigeria comprosing of North,West,and perharps Southsouth-anything Igbo.

Take it from me,Buhari won't rule Igbos

Really?. Are u saying if he wins u will go ahead and create Biafra cos I don't understand this Buhari will not rule igbo

PhockPhockMan:
Thank you.

Matured response I like that but why are u so worried about Buhari, just wait till next year we can all vote for the candidate of our choice. This idea of trying to slander him will not help GEJ, it only make buhari more popular.

EstarKeys:
.but dont u fink he became an extrovert to u because of the overfamiliarity....he myt as well be boorin and dry to others

Not at all, her change even surprised her, she sometimes joke that she hardly talk or go out before that I have completely taking that away from her...She is now a sociable person, who relates and gist well with all her new friends