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Am sure while chatting with them before dating them, u wud have realise they are an introvert.. Just try and teach them or show them how to be an extrovert..I use to have an ex who was an introvert, after dating her for 8month she became an extrovert cos she learned from me

Louis055:
my case is not different from this one. If I don't call her she don't bother to call and I'm quiet sure she is not seeing someone else. We've quarreled a lot about her "not caring" attitude and all she keeps saying is dat she will change. Is it that she is tired of d relationship and don't know how to say it or its just part of her? Should I be patient with her?? Advice needed pls.

I will advice u make her feel her place is threatened. How do u do this, make up a story about a girl who is always calling u and that u guys gist a lot. Try am make it look like the girl is chasing u, I mean like the girl wants a relationship but remember to let her know u are not interested in the girl. Once a while when u call ur girl and u guys are talking, u can just chip in that the girl called u and talked for almost 15min and try and praised the girl about her calling a guy and talked that long...if u babe is smart she will get the drift except if she is naturally stingy in making calls..best of luck

bankylan:
I cry for this nation and the future of young Nigerians.....Comments on social media show how subjected we are as Nigerians.

The number one problem is that we can not even identify the problem we are being faced as a nation. Has this generation of young Nigerians totally lost hope? Do we believe in ourselves with all the power of social media at our disposal? Cant we get someone young, brilliant, and visionary to be our president? We are many in numbers, we can gather the needed votes, we can canvass and get supports from young and old. Is a 71 year old man, who has never articulated his vision other than a campaign of hatred against the present government the right candidate to take Nigeria to a new level?

It is not about 'I will provide road, water, electricity, 'security'! It is far more than that.

I have never been a fan of Jonathan, but is Buhari an alternative? The dilemma this generation is that we are faced with only two choices that are not reflections of the depth of human capital this nation posses.

This is my verdict, and I want anyone who cares to take note of this: Jonathan will win next year election even in a free and fair environment, but there will be a crisis from the opposition who are hell bent on ruling this nation. Jonathan may not be the best candidate, but he is the 'anointed' one for a reason that will not be clear to many Nigerians for now.....The change we need will not come from PDP and APC......Until Nigerian youths arise and join hands together, things will remain the same....

Who anointed him?..Am sure u are already using religion that God anointed him since his rise to prominence. Have always said let someone antecedent be the yardstick we use in casting our vote..Go and check country where they don't even serve God, their country is better off..so leave this anointed talk

LouisVanGaal:
I still de tuk am! The hell fire wey go burn Metuh, Abati and Okupe still de under construction.....this man metuh is one of d reasons y de generalise we d ibo's as arse-lickers! Osu dika gi..

Just wait, someone will still come here and say u are not an igbo guy for saying this

kaboninc:
You see what am saying? You have not heard and probably will never hear any good news.

Dude! We are not talking personal Good news as per something good happening to u individually we are talking about good news coming from the country. In the last few month we have be fazed with news of how bad it is for the economy financially, our foreign reserved has drop, our naira has been reduced to next to nothing, bombing everyday. Pls what good news have u been hearing in the country cos I might have missed it, I need some good news to erase the bad ones am hearing everyday in the country

kaboninc:
It is you who have not heard any good news in a long time. And sadly, it going by your mindset, you may never hear any good news.

Did u say his Mindset?..2 days ago it was bomb blast in kano, yesterday it was another bomb blast in jos, is this what we can call Good news?...I know people will say let the north keep bombing them self but they shud remember those northerners are Nigerian and they deserve to live

kaboninc:
Imagine...
Thank God Buhari was elected or 'selected' as the flag bearer for APC. Jonathan is on a roller coaster ride to victory!

There's a difference between purposeful leadership and desperate leadership. APC is desperate to take power and I pity anyone who thinks its for a progressive cause.

Insult all you want. Curse with your naked soul. Shout till you loose your voice. Run as fast as light. Die and resurrect. Go on hunger strike. Whatever you like, a Buhari will NEVER rule Nigeria. If that's he's and your dream, then it will only be a dream.

Guess u are soothsayer and you can see the future..since u can see the future, pls tell me what happens when jonathan rules till 2019. Was our economy better, did corruption reduce drastically, will boko haram go on extinction or will it still be our time to witness bombing because bombing is everywhere..just tell me so I can vote for GEJ.

kaboninc:
Imagine...
Thank God Buhari was elected or 'selected' as the flag bearer for APC. Jonathan is on a roller coaster ride to victory!

There's a difference between purposeful leadership and desperate leadership. APC is desperate to take power and I pity anyone who thinks its for a progressive cause.

Insult all you want. Curse with your naked soul. Shout till you loose your voice. Run as fast as light. Die and resurrect. Go on hunger strike. Whatever you like, a Buhari will NEVER rule Nigeria. If that's he's and your dream, then it will only be a dream.

Guess u are a soothsayer and you can see the future..since u can see the future, pls tell me what happens when jonathan rules till 2019. Was our economy better, did corruption reduce drastically, will boko haram go on extinction or will it still be "its our time to witness bombing because bombing is everywhere"..just tell me so I can vote for GEJ

a9nyc2020:
If buhari was so so popular and virtually @the heart of errbody, how come he has been losing elections... Well iam in 4 APC PDP e-war cos APC are full of looters and criminals that left PDP...

You care to name those criminals u are talking about in APC, will really like to know them so we can castigate APC properly and please while u are at it, try back it up with fact as well.

Awaja:
To me he has d power to fix Nigeria nd turn it to Iran ,
another candidate would've done APC a little favour not d already rejected bulari

Another candidate will stand no chance against GEJ, it will be a walk in the park for him. Politics is a game of numbers, who better than the general to get in the numbers for the opposition.. I think APC knows this that is why he has been the preferred candidate beside, I tot Mandela was 73 when he became president.

Okeikpu:
All ds old f00ls hardly die on time ⊙︿⊙ Look at Buhari for example.... (¬_¬)

Have noticed the difference in those supporting the President and buhari.. Anyone who calls Gej names or rain insult on him his been insulted back by most folks even to the point of insulting the father of the person. All the insult Buhari has been receiving, I don't think any of those supporting him has taking to heart or start insulting the father of the poster because he or she insulted buhari..big difference, GEJ fan take everything personal while Buhari fan are more concerned with change rather than insult. My humble opinion

lordprosh:
to be sincere buhari has to offer dz nation..buhari distroyed our ecomony, called nigerians names wen he was in power as a military leader ..he tot he will remain in power..abeg open your eyes

Please back this ur claim with fact rather than just saying wat u feel and think..

mikeansy:
all this people saying Buhari will fix Nigeria should watch the video above and see if they see a leader to lookup to.

The paper he is reading was clearly written by someone else and he deliever the speech like he does not even believe in it.

If I am Jonathan all I will do is engage Buhari as many times as possible on live TV and lets see how anyone else other than his obvious base will vote for him.

When they try to engage jonathan in last election he ran away only to engage a naija artist (Dbanj) in a debate.. Abeg don't make me laff

OLADD:
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And lest we forget, he equally stage managed a so called attack on him just to dispel his documented sympathy for Boko Haram. Buhari and APC are too dangerous for Nigeria.

Guess u are a CiA/Fbi agent cos calling u an Sss agent will be like calling u a civil servant who works at the ministry of health..Try produce an evidence to back up this ur claim or just recount ur statement..You can't keep calling a person a thief and when asked what he or she stole, u won't be able to say anything..This ur assumption or conspiracy talk is just a beer parlor talk..no offense meant

OLADD:
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Yes, Jonathan has positive missions for Nigeria and Nigerians. The missions may not be meaningful to you and your households but majority of reasonable and sane Nigerians believe in those progressive missions.

Tell that to the thousands of people dying every day in the north and all places bomb has been set off

robinsoncrosoe:
Some south westerners amaze me.they jst want to be slaves to the northerners.the northerners have hijacked the party structure of apc and the sw are foolishly following them.tinubu has totally sold the sw into slavery.this is jst the reality on ground

...Pls, leave this baseless assumption at ur door step before u step into this forum..Politics is about numbers, who more than the general can generate that number?..putting any other candidate other than the general wud have been dead on arrival..So forget that ur thought about slave talk cos its just baseless and probably pointless as well...no offense meant!

millionaireman:
A large number of those APC governors shall soon abandon Buhari's presidential ambition. Many of the governors see Buhari as unforgiving and very vindictive.

How do u even know this?..do u now have supernatural powers to read the mind of the governors?..All this baseless assumption is just out of it completely...

Yomieluv:
Most of them have turned to glorified buka..

Dirty toilet,and kitchen..

Last time I went to Tantalizer,panseke,abeokuta.

It looks abandoned,and dirty..

Mama risi's place is better than most of them..

do people still visit Tantalizer?...I tot is now used for description most times..you will hear something like this "when u get to the front of Tz, just pass by the side my house is the first building at the back entrance"...By the way do u know if Mama cass is still at Paseke in abeokuta?

MacluvPH:
Its a pity,that's why I prefer GENESIS RESTAURANT foods in PH and ENUGU.its a home away from home and exceptional.in summary they are simply the best.

Which Genesis?, the last time I visited Ph, theGenesis around artillery, their soup was pure rubbish. I ordered for pounded yam and egusi, regretted ever buying the food..it taste so bad that I wonder if a 4yr old prepared the soup..My friend I went to visit confirmed to me hw bad their food is..Abeg stop praising them jare!

I think now might be the best chance of an igbo becoming the president of this country, if only APC can pick Rochas as buhari running mate they have a better chance of producing a president soon...Hope Apc can take the advantage and pick Rochas as the running mate, it will serve them politically and help to capture the mind of the igbo thereby paving way for rochas to become the next president in few years time. I think the igbo deserve a chance to rule this country too.

utenwuson:
Buhari nailed it!!!!!!!!! The speech itself is enough to win every sincere Nigeria heart, body n soul........ This is our country n together we will mk it free of corruption! Sai buhari, sai APC, sai positive change, sai fresh AIR............................ I jst felt is only fools dt support PDP!

You don't have to call anybody a fool for choosing to vote for a party they believe in..even though am not a fan of this government, name calling should be avoided.. Let's our vote speak for us

Henrypraise:
In as much as d policeman acted babaric, u will discover from d story dat d woman was d cause of d problem, if a policeman is beaming his light @ u, he has his reasons, I knw she must av talked rudely to him now de ar blamin d police.

Since we knw our policemen ar not very civilise, we ought to learn how to manage dem, by talkin rudely to dem, u too ar not civilise.

What are u saying?..so because she sounded rude she shud be beaten and dragged on the floor?. Are u a police officer or any of ur family a policeman?..I hate to say this and am sorry to pass judgement on u without knowing u but I think u will like violence..beating up husband wife because they were rude, u think if not for the Gun we bought for them to use to protect the community he won't be beaten to stupor. Let's call a spade a spade nigeria police are not our friend!

MzNelly:
The Bible terms such ones as hypocrites.

I wonder why they can't do their ish silently

When one complain, it will look as if u are a devil or u don't like God...the noise pollution is just becoming too much...I remember while I was in sch, a pastor went to the front of a compound whom are masquerade worshiper to preach the gospel, they came out with cain and they flog the living day light outer of him. I wish they can enforce the law, if one want to preach, a person can do it during day time where people can listen and pay attention rather than use it to disturb one's sleep

Kimmo:
No, your action isn't wrong. That attitude of so many Christians is very unfair and annoying.
When I'm in my house, I should be able to relax, watch TV, sleep, do whatever I want without people bothering me.
If they really felt the need to preach, would it have killed them to wait till 7am?
I'm in this situation in my house too, there's a fire/brimstone church two houses away that keeps people up all night.

I once woke up 2 in the midnight one day after a hard day work, I was so tired and sleeping when the noise became on bearable,I had to go inside the church and ask them to turn down the volume of their speaker. Surprisingly, it was only 4 people in the church..I was so livid that I control all my temper not to insult them

Sanchez01:
Your approach was right. I'm a Christian and I must register my displeasure at the fact that most of these so-called Evangelists lack wisdom and the proper way of going about things. Some don't want to know your state at that period, which ought not to be. I travelled to another state within the country last week and an elderly woman beside me opened a polythene bag, brought out some tracts and told me 'take, share it' without courtesy! I felt disgusted and was angry. I was close to squeezing the tract and throwing it out of the window. Such is the case of insensitive Christians today.

..The painful part is, no one wud be woken up abruptly from sleep due to noise and they expect the person to listen or pay attention to the preaching.

My compound is sandwich between 2 churches..I remember complaining to a friend about the noise and my inability to sleep when their night vigil is being held, he said I shud go and join them and stop complaining...I want a biblical backing to justify their action cos I hate for people to think I hate the word of God all because I want to sleep..Still waiting for my brother's and sister in the lord to help me out with this. More comment will be appreciated

I slept late on friday night due to personal stuff I was doing till around 12:30 before going to bed. I was awaken by the noise of a speaker coming from 2 women preaching outside my compound around after 5. After turning restlessly for about 30min trying to get back to sleep, I had to stand up for my morning devotion. While I was praying I could hardly hear my self cos the noise was so deafening. After praying I went outside my compound to confront them, while she was still preaching I went to talk to the other woman explaining my grievances. She apologise and send they will soon be through. Now here is my question, isn't it wrong to disturb peoples sleep biblically because u want to preach the word of God?. Can't they wait till morning to preach where people can listen and pay attention to the preaching. I want someone to tell me if there is justification for disturbing peoples sleep to preach irrespective of how the person feels cos they make it look like I hate the word of God... Pls no sentimental judgement, I need someone to back up their action biblically...Thank you!

Dopeyomi:
This is an offense against tHe Nigerian Police Force!

The poster of this; All I need now is your picture A̶̲̥̅̊η∂ house address.. You're doomed! You will never ever post this rubbish in your entire life time!

Am surprise some people liked and share ur coment. Seriously, wat will u arrest him for?. You mean u will arrest him for telling us how our officers sleeps on duty?..Smh

sexyedjutto:
i shud complinent u,u seem matured,u didnt call him names,but abeg ryt nw of all the aspirants none is an option o,lets nt go frm fry pan to fire biko

I can't do that oo, when am not stupid. I was not happy when no primary was held in Pdp, I was hoping for another candidate. Anyway, we will vote as per our perception of the government

sexyedjutto:
Ha.y dnt u lyk our government/administratin na.....which do u prefer

I just feel this government pave way for the present criticism he gets from the opposition. There are some things the government has done that a good citizen shud be worried about irrespective of tribe or religion.. Beside, PDP has been ruling for the past 15yrs and am tired of them

Warlord3000:
No matter how influential or how respectful the lady is to the pastor...

She would have said an outright NO.. Am in a relationship reply . except there is a chance she is giving the new idea some thought and opened to it..

Nothing wrong in what the pastor has done so far to me..

But the lady not giving an outright NO answer looks somehow..

The bf better be ready for a surprise

This is like a case where someone ask Omenka to date a girl and he cud not to tell the person he is dating someone even went as far as agreeing to meet the girl. If its the woman how will she feel?..Not saying anything and agreeing to meet up with the person just tends to make one worry