msMonyei:



I for don marry, ogogoro na you cause am eh!

Ogogoro Na you cause am ooo

MajorOvakporaye:
Mama Juliana, you nor dey hear my voice eh,
Mama Jessica, you nor dey hear my voice eh,
Make you give me one shot oh,
Give me one-quarter, give me half fanta,
I don enter Jerry can oh,
E remain drum wey I go enter

---throwback song by Murphy Jingo,
Titled 'Ogogoro'

Memories

Ogogoro na you cause am ooo.... See my shirt ooo,you don tear my shirt ooo. Mama Janet eh, mama Janet eh! See my trouser you done tear my trouser

dauntless15:
Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me.

Na them

safarigirl:
More and more, I grow wary of the male population. I do not think I will find anyone to marry me, or someone I will even be comfortable enough to marry.

Everytime I meet someone I think I can be comfortable with, the ugly head of genotype rises.

So, yeah, I might just find a sperm donor and give birth to a kid eventually, or adopt if I can. I'm making peace with the fact that marriage may never happen for me.

AS right That's why I do not even bother myself about relationships any more.... Because in a situation where I will ask what's my genotype first maybe the guy would start thinking I'm desperate for marriage.

Righteousness2:
Do not let all these things on Earth Confuse you .
Do not worry over them or make anxiety and fears overwhelm you because of them.

Nobody makes Eternal life in Heaven because he/she is married.
Nobody makes Heaven because he/she has children.

All these things are gifts from GOD. You don't need to struggle, worry or kill yourself for a Gift.

Pursue what is relevant and what really Matters. What really Matters is the Genuie Salvation of your soul. This alone is what matters. This alone is what you should Do all you can to have. It is only possible through JESUS Christ.

Let me commend you for the first time pastor Righteousness. This is apt

The Chidinma's and the Chinedu's over to you

Sonnobax15:

Any soup wey dey draw can sabi cause wahala for eba/fufu . You no go know when you go chop pass your guage

Honestly.... I love Okra and ogbolor soup... But you see Egusi, I can stay 3 months without preparing it.

Bobloco:
Hmmmmmm!

One of the most insightful thread I have read in recent times.

I will end with this saying from where I come from, translated in pidgin english.

Shame no dey catch mad man, rather na dey family members of the mad man shame dey catch

I guess you are from Delta. Precisely Isoko/Urhobo/Ukwani

bigpicture001:


Ok.. but why didn't he hand the bizness to his wife.. thier mother

Don't u think the achievement he listed is too much..? People change na.. what if he hasn't achieve them and his sister got married.. so her husband would be controlling their bizness..?

Maybe the wife is the one spoiling the son

BeeBeeOoh:
Why can't Prof. Ajao just be a good citizen for once and donate himself as a cadaver??

Nonsense and Prof. Ajao

Even if he cannot donate himself, he should donate His children or family members

Mikefrik:

And who told you that nigeria is a Woman?

I don't understand this your question. How does it relate with my statement?

Person Son, person boyfriend.

Disgrace

This generation has really lost it.

Romanoff:
Why e be say na women them dey use do all these rituals?

Our head carry good things na!!!. Yet they talk to us any how. Na our wealth them dey use make their own.

headbasher96:
shrews are naturaly poisonous one drop of their venom can kill 50 mice

Wow

naijaguy123456:
Too much interference between governing body and Nigeria coach . We need a no nonsense coach and independent one.

Everything is politicized not by merit. Reason we are back wards

alphaNomega:
Transport fare will increase.

Lagos government knows it is the people that will pay this money, not bus drivers

Something is outrightly wrong with our leaders. They are straight from the pit of hell. I think they commune with Satan one on one.

odinson1:
Men una mumu sha

When we keep telling you People not to get married, you'll call us broke,immature frustrated and all other sorts of nonsense.

You got married to Parasite who's Sucking you dry, draining the very life force you have. If you don't cut off that leech,she will drain you till you become a shell of your former self.

But seriously guys, lets reason it this way. The money he has been giving to his wife all these while,if he didn't get married and have children now,he would probably have used it to open a business,have investments or Get a new house or something like that. Now a woman has tied him down and It's now stopping him from progressing.

All he cares about are his wife and his children,they are all Liabilities to him. This is why men are advised to have a good job and a nice comfortable apartment first before getting married. You know why? It is because you will most likely get married to A Parasite who will Make you stagnant,it would be almost impossible for you to get past this financial struggle except you get a better job with better pay.

Men! Run away from a marriage that will stop you from Achieving greatness. Having children is not an achievement,it is normally biological for one to procreate,so there is no big deal about it. Having a wife and children when you are not financially stable,will only drag you down and make you stagnant!

And also, DON'T EVER GET MARRIED TO A BROKE LAZY WOMAN! They are Parasites whose only Objective is to latch on to you, and suck out your energy,time,resources and peace of mind.




@the bolded,A good woman? Really?

She and her children eats 3 square meals, while his mother only eats once. You call that a good woman? Wait answer this instead,would she have done same to her own Mother?

It's very quick for you guys to throw tantrums on women! Did the woman drag him to her father's house to pay her bride price?


Why didn't the man suggest family planning, He was busy releasing all the Akamu in his body on her? When he is is receiving a meagre salary. You think it's easy for a woman with triplets to be working? Especially when they are at the age of 0-3 year.

Some times you guys should learn how to talk constructively on this Nairaland. You don't even know if she had something but for the sake of the kids she quitted. You concluded by calling her a parasite. I blame most Nigeria Ladies though who sees marriage as means to an end.

headbasher96:
Oga do u know what a shrew is go and do reseaech on shrew its a rat with long snout that has this body smell that makes a squeaking sound they prey on other rats when food is scarce

That Rat that causes Lassa fever

I no go gree oo!!!! What sort of rubbish is this?

Okafor's Law

Prolific007:

They could be a drug but I tell you majority of these females go under a knife to remove all those belly fats

You have a point

jericco1:
What proof does he have that he was poisoned

Only an autopsy can determine that.

However, the rate at which people die in this country, you'd think they reincarnate in another state.

It is completely disheartening and heart wrecking!!!

You must not have anything. Most Nigerians are terribly wicked.

I was 18 when I was poisoned. I'm alive by God's grace.

Springboot:
Even after she's had a baby, look at her tummy. Flat!

I think there is something Nigeria doctors are not doing right about this big stomach after birthing.

I have few friends overseas who gave birth and their stomach goes back to normal.. but the ones here in Nigeria the stomach never returns back to normal.


I was told there is a drug/injection for that overseas that is been used. Why can't they use it over here.

Cannibalism is real in this country and somebody is telling me vampires are not real.

Very soon would start reading of vampires in this country

Foodqueen:
This system doesn't work for everyone.

What if she wanted to leave to continue with her ex.

Well, whatever rocks your ⛵

How does this ex thing even work self?

Stomoney:
Ijebu ode, Ogun state. Single and planning to settle down this year

Uncle as a working class lady! 100k salary to get married in Lagos is a no for me. Unless you have a side business and your wife to be is also working and she is the supportive type and can manage resources very well.


Light bill every month, security bill, waste bill. Rent palava in this Lagos is another issue.

I went to market today get stuffs, I came back frustrated. If swear dey truly work, buhari for don die.

ScamDemicEra:
If you have a serious girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancee, you really need to make sure they are NOT vaccinated before you tie the knot.

If you see some of those weird genetically deformed babies/monsters the vaccinated are giving birth to, you'd think twice before getting hitched to a spike protein manufacturing machine !!

Though the vaccinated are few in Nigeria (less than 5%) you still shouldn't risk it. Simple blood test can reveal easily whether a person is vaccinated or not.

These are the days when you have to think carefully before you shag lol !!

I have taken my vaccine. Make man work chop for today first before him think of future.

It was made compulsory at my place of work

Some things are better left unsaid honestly

lalasticlala:
Number 5 is annoying.

Out of all it is number 5 that is annoying. You must be a pegan.

post=109195156:

Areeeeeeaaaaa