stephenduru: A man identified as Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu who hails from Mgboko Umuoria Autonomous Community in Obingwa Local Government Area, killed his cousin brother.
According to information reaching me, Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu inflicted a very deep cut on Mr. Solomon Monday Orji who happens to be his cousin brother and the cut was what led to the death of Mr. Solomon.
Reports gathered have it that the son of Mr. Solomon Monday Orji went to Mr. Chinaedu's house to pick some mango fruits and Mr. Chinaedu out of his hatred for Mr. Monday Orji's family flogged the little boy mercilessly to the extent that the boy fainted and was unable to go back to their house.
When Mr. Solomon heard what happened to his son, he rushed to Mr. Chinaedu's (owner of the mango tree) house to ask him why he flogged his son mercilessly to the extent that the boy couldn't work again just because of mango fruit.
Mr. Chinaedu was very harsh on him and after exchanging words, Mr. Solomon carried his son home. According to eye witness, on his way going back to his house, Mr. Chinaedu went inside his room, picked a cutlass and rushed Mr. Solomon to his house, before Mr Solomon could turn back and know what is happening, Mr. Omeonu had already cut him mercilessly from his back and life was not left any more.
According to those around, Mr. Solomon died instantly at that point and everyone where all in tears. As at press time, the youths and people of Mgboko Umuoria apprehended Mr. Chinaedu (the murderer), tortured him and was about handling him over to uniform men.
tunmiluabi: My story is quite long, please run through with patience.
I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...
As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.
We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.
To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.
One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.
To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.
Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.
After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.
Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.
She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.
The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.
God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.
Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.
My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.
Thanks for reading.
Tunmi
Whenever a man's finances start failing while in marriage and there is no hope bouncing back in the near future, that's when you will actually know whom you have as a wife. Most marriages do not survive this turbulence.
1: Thank God you have a better job now. 2: Take good care of your kids. 3: Forgive her and hold no grudges towards her but never bring her back as a wife. 3: Get well adjusted before you get into another marital relationship.
Just note that the most important is not what happened to you but what you have learnt from your ordeals.
Nigeriabiafra80: In abroad covid 19 patients is struggling with breath While in Nigeria they are protesting on the high way
That's the irony of the fraudulence we have found ourselves in this nation. KOGI State government already knew what most of us have not known. Will this nation ever come out of this? Poor masses always at the receiving end.
bigtt76: You lockdown, the count was not zero so why mull lockdown again? Instead of another lockdown, improve enlightenment and allow some cases to teach the people lesson on not adhering to the rules. People may have to learn the hard way.
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr! How many times will i advise my niggarzz about issues like this Isoright Bros op Be a real niggarrr Let me give you the code. Huzzle your money and don't do girlfriend for now
Just see girls as swimming pool for now Real niggarrrz don't do girl friend Real niggarrrz huzzle some dope money, drink some beer, smoke some weed And real niggarrr bang enough pussies because they see women as swimming pool They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming They don'ton't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming They just swim their own sharpely and move on.
Bros op always Swim your own and move on!
By your advice to OP. How would you feel if your sister happens to be the next swimming pool?
chloedogie: Truth is Buhari has so many surprises in his sleeve. Wouldn't have ever thought someone from Kwara will be his chief of staff. That office is like the soul of the president. I am now believing the news I read few days back that a new cabal is cropping up.
To those who called president Buhari an ethnic bigot, bubu don surprise you oooo. And to those who says he is too found of old people, baba don show say una dey correct cos the man na 75 years old.
My conclusion, he has a good biography and I pray he pledges his allegiance to both the president and the nation as a whole. May God help you do good and not be caught up in the politics and become useless AMEN.
And may he have the courage to tell the president whenever he is making a wrong decision or being advised to make a wrong decision.
And to those wishing Buhari dead, just pray you live as old as him o cos the man no dey die yet o and people that thought they will outlive him are gone and some terribly sick now ooooooo. May we all live long and may God bless the federal republic of NIGERIA. AMEN.
And to think he will go to the territory and abode of SARAKI to pick his new chief of staff baffles me ooooo.
Probably because the person their is wearing a mask.
chloedogie: Truth is Buhari has so many surprises in his sleeve. Wouldn't have ever thought someone from Kwara will be his chief of staff. That office is like the soul of the president. I am now believing the news I read few days back that a new cabal is cropping up.
To those who called president Buhari an ethnic bigot, bubu don surprise you oooo. And to those who says he is too found of old people, baba don show say una dey correct cos the man na 75 years old.
My conclusion, he has a good biography and I pray he pledges his allegiance to both the president and the nation as a whole. May God help you do good and not be caught up in the politics and become useless AMEN.
And may he have the courage to tell the president whenever he is making a wrong decision or being advised to make a wrong decision.
And to those wishing Buhari dead, just pray you live as old as him o cos the man no dey die yet o and people that thought they will outlive him are gone and some terribly sick now ooooooo. May we all live long and may God bless the federal republic of NIGERIA. AMEN.
And to think he will go to the territory and abode of SARAKI to pick his new chief of staff baffles me ooooo.
Probably because the person their is wearing a mask. Whom you think that is there may not be the one after all. Time shall tell one day.
talk2archy: Members of Rivers State COVID-19 Task Force Recount Their Ordeal at Prodest Motel, Alode
•describe how PDP Youth Leader beat them up in the premises of Prodest Motel after the Hotel Manager invited him
Some members of the Rivers State COVID-19 Task Force on Monday explained how the PDP Eleme Youth Leader, Mr Princewill Osaroejiji led several thugs to inflict injuries on them at the premises of Prodest Hotel, Eleme.
The Task Force members who are hospitalized at Famo Clinic, Eleme told journalists that they met Prodest Motel in operation.
Speaking from his hospital bed, Friday Osaro Oloka said that when they got to Prodest Motel, a party was ongoing. He said that they approached the hotel manager, who sought permission to call his proprietor.
He said: "The manager called and the PDP Youth Leader came with some boys. They beat us severely.
"The PDP Youth Leader asked us why we came to the hotel where he lodged. We told him we didn't know that's where he lodged. Despite that he and his boys beat us till 8pm."
Another Task Force Member, Samuel Ndu admitted that people were drinking and partying at the hotel when they got there.
He said: "The Manager asked us to wait. Thereafter, several persons came with the PDP Youth Leader who beat us.
"We got Information that the hotel has been operating despite the order to close hotels etc."
Appollos Orr, a Task Force member who sustained injuries, we went there to check their manifest and inquire why the hotel was operational.
He said: "We were observing the manifest when we started hearing shouts from outside. Thereafter, we saw Mr Princewill Osaroejiji and his thugs who beat and injured us".
Dr Emmanuel Ejembi of Famo Clinic said that the Task Force members were brought into the hotel with severe injuries. He said that they said it was a case of assault.
He said the Task Force members complained of Fracture on right knee, pains on their neck and stomach. He pointed out that they are now safe.
Chairman of Eleme Local Government Area, Philip Okwaraji acknowledged that the Task-force members were beaten up at the Prodest Motel by the PDP Youth Leader .
He said the State Government issued the Executive Order on 4th May and the Eleme Local Government issued notices to all hotels on May 5th, 2020. He said anyone who flouts Executive Orders knows that there will be consequences.
Where is the picture or video of party going on or any sort of gathering. Show us picture or video when the thugs were beating you. Show us picture of the manager during the fracas. The man in admission looking so fresh with bandage without blood stains or body injuries. Is the man on admission the only person beaten or admitted?
oshozondii: TOTAL E &P TO NIGERIANS : WE WOULD HAVE HAD REDUCED CASES IF OTHER STATES WERE AS PROACTIVE AS GOVERNOR WIKE
Total Exploration and Production Limited (Total E & P) has commended Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike for his proactive approach towards tackling the coronavirus pandemic, saying that the nation would have had reduced cases if everyone acted like Governor Wike.
Executive General Manager of Total E & P, Port Harcourt Administration, Godwin Barika made the declaration at the Government House, Port Harcourt on Monday when the company made further presentation to support the State Government's fight against the spread of coronavirus.
He said: "We want to thank the Governor of Rivers State, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike. He has been very exemplary.
"We have joined forces with him because he is wonderful and proactive.
"He saw ahead. If every other state did what he has done, we would have had reduced number of cases."
Barika said that Total E & P will continue to support the Rivers State Government to defeat COVID-19.
He said: "We thank you. We support you. We have also given what we think can support the State because we believe in the state.
"This is where we work. This is where our facilities are and we will continue to be here to join forces in ensuring that the economy of this state grows.
"We came to show that support. We also came to make requests for what we will require to ensure that our operations continue."
The company solicited the support of the Rivers State Government as they work to address challenges offshore.
"We also to be very sure that if we have challenges offshore, we are able to take care of such challenges. He has signed several approvals for us and we are very grateful.
"Even after COVID-19, we will continue to relate with the Rivers State Government to ensuring that the economy of this state grows," he said.
Responding, Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike commended Total E and P for their support in the fight against coronavirus.
He said: "On behalf of the Government and People of Rivers State, commend Total and E and P for supporting the state Government as regards the fight against coronavirus.
"You have shown that you care for the lives of those who work with you and Rivers people."
Governor Wike said that the Rivers State Government will publicly appreciate all donors in Newspaper Publications.
He said: "At the appropriate time, Rivers State Government will publish donations made by individuals and corporate bodies. Those who are friends of Rivers State, who supported the State."
Governor Wike said that this is the period the State Government requires the support of organisations and people.
He said that the great relationship should continue well after the COVID-19 pandemic.
"This is the period you require the support of people . We believe that this relationship will continue. Not after COVID-19, nobody will see you.
"Try as much as you can to carry out your corporate social responsibility in the communities where you operate.That gives you peace and good relationship with the communities, " he said.
Simeon Nwakaudu,
Special Assistant to the Rivers State Governor, Electronic Media.
What of the Chinese medical team with all their equipment. Arriving the country with Tax payers money and still in the country doing WHAT Maybe monitoring deaths and increase in positive cases
This would have been more interesting if we are in electioneering period and going for 2nd term. You would have seen so much pampering of Rivers people.
The truth is that church is in the mind and God is everywhere. You can worship your God anywhere as directed by ur spirit in case where church is not available. Worshipping is not a physical matter but spiritual.
I have no problem if the cash is from his pocket but my problem is that he is representing the Federal Government of Nigeria and giving the old woman 10k per month. How can one explain that to the outside world
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