Ladylite: Wow, you have really suffered. But are you sure you don't have low self esteem?
For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle.
Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen.
Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense.
You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you.
Please leave him as fast as you can based on below reasons.
1: I expected you to have been invited by him during his birthday if he is serious about you. 2: He has money to spend for his birthday but never considered giving you for yours to prove being the man.
barnny: Pls there is this question bothering me for some times now. It has become a constant headache during and after every interview. Pls my Dear Honourable members in Nairaland, Is gap teeth in anyway an excuse interviewers use to disqualify people from any job, Most especially on banking jobs?
I have attended several interviews where I am convinced that i tried during the interview but unfortunately ended up not being shortlisted. I am beginning to think that my gap teeth might be a hindrance to all of my dream jobs...
Recent I applied for a Banking job, Service Executive to be specific where I got shortlisted for Aptitude test for three times. Latter on after some days i received an invite that i have been shortlisted for Virtual interview which was last week. Early this week I took part in the interview were i was told they will get back to me through mail.
Today i just got a reply that my experience, profile and presentation were remarkable but However, they regret to inform me that I was not recommended at the end of the interview session.
Without been told I already knew My open teeth is behind this again. Pls help me out on this, if i should stop wasting my time, energy and money applying for jobs. Honestly I'm beginning to get depressed of all the emotional trauma.
The question is Should i stop applying for jobs like banks? Do I still have hope? How will I start imagine things when My age exceed their limit, knowing fully well that banks has limited age range.
Pls help a brother before depression will weigh me down. Below is the screenshot of the message i got from the recruiters and my gap teeth
Some gap tooth affects word pronunciations in some persons and this may affect free flow of communication during oral interviews. The worst is if such person stammers. The position you seek make require great eloquence and your interviewers may not have been finding that attribute in you. Why not start from a lower cadre just to enter then you gradually climb to the top while working on yourself.
Donbabaj: I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.
Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.
For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.
Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.
Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.
I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...
Please advice. This is happening right now.
Why touching her romantically if I may ask you Somebody like you will flog a child & still come here to complain that you don't know why the child cries whenever flogged. One day she will carry her luggage and leave the house and your eyes will open.
Anotekun said "Taiwo had visited a sex worker and after a romp, he refused to pay her and the lady seized a phone he stole at the house he burgled a few days earlier.
“Our men got the sex worker and asked her to call Taiwo for him to come for the phone. Our men eventually arrested him when he showed up to collect the phone.
So if he had paid and his phone not seized there wouldn't have been this arrest You guys need to improve on your intelligence gathering and be more gallantry.
AnonPoet: The first of such classes employ the hit and run tactics. They look for targets of opportunity by tracking enemy movement. Once that opportunity presents itself they take out their targets from long distances, hop on their motorbikes and hightail out of the area FAST!! https:///obyYkgCQ9k
Sometimes it is traumatic reading what our organizations have reduced themselves to. Can you imagine the profile of the business they are closing down? We are saboteurs to ourselves in this nation. In this travail I see a hand of one business mogul who import this same end product into the country. Hope you know what I meant?
And what happens afterwards Have Boko-Haram been defeated We have been hearing this type of news over the years and now tired of this audio crushing of this and that.
Let us know only when u finally defeat them.
Should we start clapping or hailing by this? We have clapped and hailed enough.
igbowoman: It's actually an indictment on men.When u are still at your mama's houses at 33 dragging plate of beans na who go marry the girls?
Remember that most girls do hard to get until they pass the age of youthful marriage. You will surely be amazed if such girls narrate on how many young potential husbands they turned down just because of material selfishness. High bride prices and marriage lists in most cultures have contributed negatively.
GRAMMARJAMES: Hello Nairalanders. Make una no mind my English abeg.
My 2020 resolution was to save as much as 500,000 so I can get myself one small land for area. I work with a private firm earning salary between 30,000 - 45,000. Na so the firm stop our salary because of say Colombian Drivos (Covid19) drop sales.
Na so hunger set in. I tried not to be tempted to touch my land savings but mhen, hunger kill pass corona. Na so I vex break my MorteinBank. Guess how much I save from Jan till date!? 25,000. I cannor GoaN comaN kee myself. I've already written down what I'm gonna shop tomorrow (food stuffs), I'll be managing the rest pending when my firm calls us back!!
Someone will soon come and beg you for N1000 from there to solve immediate problem. Things are very hard these days to even save. U tried abeg!!
Made4naijalove: Winner of Big Brother Naija ‘Pepper Dem’season, Mercy Eke was recently spotted shaking her back side for a neighbor from the window of her house.
Her neighbor who was behind the camera hailed her from his apartment and Mercy returned the favour by showing off her twerking skills in a short mini dress which exposed her big bum.
Some days ago, the reality star also got her fans pumped up as she slayed in a body revealing outfit.
She joins a host of other celebrities such as Moyo Lawal , Nkechi Blessing and Anita Joseph in the twerk dance show off.
Mikkymilli: Rivers state 26? And Wike just released us from prison. Anyway, Rivers state is now Wike's poultry farm where he can bring out his chick hen anytime he likes and send them in anytime he likes.
They should be asking the whereabout of the Chinese medical team that arrived the country at the expense of tax payers and still in the country for almost 2 months now. Maybe they know other secrets following their arrival