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FamilyRe: Single Mothers Experience by anthoniaz(f): 4:30pm On Nov 27, 2014
DorisK:
...... He went to my employee nd raked hell hw they are enticing a woman to disobey her husband. He came bac nd after shouting at me told me dat my employee sed he will only withdraw d job if I came personally nd sed I dint need d job again, of course I refused. He used different mechanism to make me succumb including raping me at a point after of which I got pregnant again!

To cut d long story short after six months i cudnt continue wit d job cos I was nt emotionally balanced. I still had house chores to deal wit so I quitted d job n had my baby. I thank God I dint hav miscarriage so I named her miracle. Her father always mocked us by calling her obstacle bt it's well.
Wen miracle was 1 yr nd eight months old I wanted to start job again I decided dis time to inform my loving husband bfo going nd he sed over his dead body n dat I shud consider mysef dead if I take a job. I shud stay home nd bear him kids dats why he married a poor church rat like me. He asked me why I needed a job was to flaunt mysef for guys. After all he was taking care of me nd my wretched family. I replied dat if he dint allow me I wud go bac to my family after all mum had rained me almost to d end bfo I met him. He laughed at me nd said he knew I won't go anywhere cos my family can't do witout him as their only source of income dat he was sure they wud chase me bac ( truly he had been caring for my family despite treating me like a ware) I complained to my family nd received d same advise they gave me wen I was getting married so I swallowed my suffering until one day a letter came frm a company I had gone for an interview alas he received it.
Wat I hrd as I was bathing was " honey I tot I told u dat u can get a job only if u wanted to die" confused I asked "nd so?" He drew me out of d tub nd used his belt thoroughly on me I pretended to hav fainted wen I cud bear it no more nd he sed "wen u wake up we shall continue from where we stopped nd stormed out, Eh?? I packed out dat very nyt with d help of a neighbor. Early d next morning I went bac to my fathers house. They wept wit me on seeing my body nd rained curses on him. For one week hussy dint call. My sis nd her husband called him to kno wat happend bt it's either he dint pik or he abused dem. so my inlaw nd my mum nd bro went to see him to ask wat happened. They got theree nd saw him merriing wit harlots. He even pretended he dint know dem. they tried to speak wit him bt he told dem to leave his house nd Neva com again to beg him for money since their goose at laid the golden egg has decided to run to her numerous boyfriends. They came bac nd we started managing life togeda. My sister had married but her husband wasn't dat rich they jst helped a little so after some months my mum started her own war.......... Just like my sister earlier predicted........ TBC
Speechless lipsrsealed
For real! angry
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 3:47pm On Nov 27, 2014
Wire work(Rose Pendant)

THINGS NEEDED ARE :-

1).Wire (0.90mm)

2).Round nose plier.

3).Cutter.

4).Bead.

FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 3:46pm On Nov 27, 2014
Spiral Pendant

HealthRe: How Can Vagina Odor Be Fought? by anthoniaz(f): 1:18pm On Nov 27, 2014
constance500:
viewing n HD

there is this co worker of mine too, raaaaaaaaaaaaah, i just cant withstand it, most especially when she stand up from a seat angry
Same with one my apprentices. GOD! The smell strong. I wonder how the hubby copes with the strong odour.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 11:06am On Nov 27, 2014
Thebeadslady:
What is your facebook page please?
www.facebook.com/zinokreationz
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 11:05am On Nov 27, 2014
sleekbody:
7f33bcc8, will b waitin
I have sent a request to u.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 11:14pm On Nov 26, 2014
STEPS

1.Put gum round the outer side of your earring and leave it to dry for some seconds.

2.Place the side of the earring with gum on the reverse side of your fabric.Trim excess fabric leaving little to cover the edge to the back.

3.Turn to the reverse side of the earring, put gum and press the remaining fabric from the front to the reverse side of the earring.

4.cut out a smaller fabric of the same shape with your earring. Apply gum to reverse side of earring and attach the fabric.

5.And you are done.

N.B: I stopped updating this page cos it's like I'm wasting my data and time.I would love to see any projesct you learnt and have made from this thread.God bless

FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 11:13pm On Nov 26, 2014
ANKARA EARRINGS

THINGS NEEDED ARE :-

1).Uhu gum.

2).Ankara/Fabric.

3).Earrings.

4).Scissors.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 9:37pm On Nov 26, 2014
sleekbody:
I tried sending a mail 2 d adress I saw dere buh its nt goin tru
Ok..drop ur pin or number, will contact you.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 7:50am On Nov 26, 2014
sleekbody:
aiit, buh wat state are u in, xo dat wen am callin I will kno its jus 2 finalize things with u
When you contact me, we talk about where I am.I don't want details about me here for some reasons. Thanks
FamilyRe: Help, I Saw Her Hide To Put Funny Substance In His Food Before Giving It To Him! by anthoniaz(f): 7:03am On Nov 26, 2014
It's too late to act.You should have stayed and traced that man.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 6:32am On Nov 26, 2014
Thebeadslady:
okay,thanks
You're welcome.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 11:24pm On Nov 25, 2014
sleekbody:
jus came across dix thread, pls where do u stay, I av a little idea of bead making, buh I wuld lyk 2 develop on it fully, where do u stay nd how much is it 2 learn?
Check my Facebook page, u'll see my Contact.Thanks
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 8:45am On Nov 25, 2014
chinamims:
It is not any circular brick stitch anything. Das wire work,beaded flower using wire. Thanks.
You are right.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 8:44am On Nov 25, 2014
Thebeadslady:
I think the petals in this necklace was made using circular brick stitch,what do you think?
I have not done this style before.So sorry I can't be of help.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 8:43am On Nov 25, 2014
Crystal3214:
pls I will luv if u explain and also upload d pix cos am getting confused.......luv wat ur doing u rock
Sorry I'm just responding.

Which one are you talking about?
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 8:41am On Nov 25, 2014
Thebeadslady:
please i have a question,what if i do'nt want the french flower to have stem,what will i do? thanks
Sorry for the delay in response.Cut them(stems)off after attaching all together.
FamilyRe: Friend Issue: Is It Advisable To Have A Friend ?? by anthoniaz(f): 12:15pm On Nov 23, 2014
CAPTIVATOR:
Nice one ..... U also said u hate people who always want to play smart , is it just those who behave as parasites dat play smart ??
Not really.

Let me give you a gist about a friend or should I say,used to be my friend.Whenever we went out together to buy something, she would want me to pay.We used to buy the clothes then,but different colours, yet she would want to collect them from me because of difference in the colour (s).

When she wedded, I gave her a gift and when she gave birth she was asking of something similar to what I gave her, not minding how much it would cost me (I made what I gave to her) because she likes the things I make but prefers taking them for free as if I collect the items for free in the market.I told her to send money into my account if she wanted it and for the past 6 months or so, she has stopped calling me.Being a parasite is different from playing smart.Those who think they are smart always want to cheat but parasites are kinda dependent on their host(s).Don't know if I'm correct sha undecided
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 9:56am On Nov 23, 2014
Check this

FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 9:54am On Nov 23, 2014
Thebeadslady:
Dear Anthoniaz,thank you for all your great tutorials,
there is a particular wirework design that i need help on,am i free to upload the picture?
You are welcome...Yes you are.
Music/RadioRe: Chaz B Of Rhytm FM Is Dead by anthoniaz(f): 9:43pm On Nov 22, 2014
RIP...Loved your program. cry
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 9:21pm On Nov 22, 2014
Check out this DIY

FamilyRe: Friend Issue: Is It Advisable To Have A Friend ?? by anthoniaz(f): 6:49pm On Nov 21, 2014
The people I call friends are those who always want to cheat me, those who always want to collect from me without contributing anything to my life.Friends who will buy something from me and refuse to pay, friends who want to collect things I sell for free.

If you have a good friend, treasure him/her, else stay on your own.I'd rather be on my own than being with parasites.I hate people who always want to play smart. When you refuse to be used, played or cheated by them, you automatically become a stingy and wicked person. angry
FamilyRe: Please Can Someone Tell Me What I Did Wrong Here? by anthoniaz(f):
Will comment when I get home.All I can say is that most people don't deserve to be helped at all.

**MODIFIED**
@OP:If I were you, I wouldn't answer her.You see, most people will give you reasons not to ever help.Leave her, don't help her anymore, let her sort herself out.

There's this lady that used to be my neighbour. She's a graduate and has two kids out of wedlock. The boyfriend is also a graduate but the two of them don't have a job.At a time the guy started riding okada until it was banned in the town he was riding his okada and the girl has been living with the mum in my compound even before she gave birth to the two kids.

Early this year they did their traditional marriage and she moved to the guy's place but she comes to the mum's place, sometimes she stays like two weeks. Before her trad, I told her to come so I would teach her everything I do for free because things have been very rough for them, so long she was going to buy her tools and whatever she would need.Early Sept.this yr we started with the training, she complained she didn't have money, I gave some things on credit.She would come to my house, command me to give her things, I would give her.Just last week, she came for training but with money for me to call my customer in Onitsha to send things to her, mind you, she is still owing me.I told her my customer travelled to Lag.She travelled to another location and bought the things she needed, I didn't complain, I taught her.Some days ago,I saw her along the road, I thought she just wanted to buy something cos she acted like she only wanted to buy something along the road, I didn't know she was travelling to where she bought the previous things so she could buy again after I refused to sell to her on credit and she has refused to pay what she's owing me.

I regret helping her because I know how much I charged the people I'm training and to think that she wants to play smart...hmm, I have travelled sef, when she's tired of waiting for me, she will go back to her husband's place because I told my other apprentices I was travelling but didn't tell her.

People can be very very ungrateful, we learn from our mistakes every day. People you help are not supposed to worship you but a little appreciation goes a long way.

Sorry for my long story jare.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 4:00pm On Nov 18, 2014
noncy21:
@OP...omg! I love the last ring. Well done ma. Pls how much is a strand of pearl bead size 6 and 8? Tnx. I can't wait to do it as soon as I get wire. More power to ur elbow.
Thanks.Between 180 and 250.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 3:57pm On Nov 18, 2014
MissSlimbody:
...Just made mine smiley


Cc: Anthoniaz
It's lovely.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 12:53pm On Nov 18, 2014
MissSlimbody:
Hi, gud day. I jst came across dis thread.
Awesome work u're doing, I must confess.

The last ring u made; what size of wire did u wrap around d .90 wire? And can 1 use crystals in place of pearl?
You are welcome...the wire is 0.90mm and yes you can use a crystal bead.
FashionRe: Free DIY Handfans, Wire works, Bead works, Ankara bangles e.t.c Tutorials by anthoniaz(op): 10:31am On Nov 18, 2014
DIY RING

FamilyRe: Parents: What Is The Funniest Thing Your Child Has Ever Said To You Or Done? by anthoniaz(f): 8:08am On Nov 15, 2014
skillzbae:
Tnx, i do beat her, dunno wat else to do to caution her, u can imagine d embarrasement wen she told my mother in law dt d soup she cookd is nt sweet,nd ws asking her if she forgot to put maggi, tnk God her fada ws dre to calm his mum, cos d woman said i ws d one who must av said it to her hearing,God knws im innocent. Pls anyone dt knw hw i can tame her mouth shuld pls tell me,her fada believes she wil out grow it
Hmmm, I can imagine. Some kids are like that.My neighbour's son once came to my room with the mum, instead of sitting down, he started complaining that my room was smelling(I just used the toilet).He tells the mum that her mouth smells.We were all outside one day when he started talking about another neighbour that was passing by, his words were "mchwww, what kind of trouser is she even putting on sef" I was angry because the mum couldn't even caution her, rather she was smiling. This boy was just 3years then.There was a day I went to their house and he started whispering something to the sister who was just 2years and both of them were laughing,it was later they both said that I like shakara too much.To be frank I felt it must be their mum who said something like that in their presence that was why they were saying it.Kids ehn! They should always be cautioned else you will be the one to receive all the embarrassments.
FamilyRe: Need Your Advice by anthoniaz(f): 11:05pm On Nov 14, 2014
RotrEmmanuel:
Thanks so much for your advice and courage!
Actually I'm very jentle and pride is not a part of me. I saved some cash during my Nysc but my lil bro sucked it all Cox I was actually assisting him to gain admission!
I broke pass broken bottle now my dear..... but God dey.
It's well.Just look for somthing to do no matter hw small it is, it's better than sitting at home.
FamilyRe: Need Your Advice by anthoniaz(f): 10:45pm On Nov 14, 2014
@Op:I feel your pain honestly, don't feel it's because you are from a polygamous home you are being seen as an unproductive fellow.Most parents are like that, I don't even want to bore you with my experience even though I'm from a monogamous family.
Look for somthing to do, let's say Tailoring, Phone/Laptop repairs or anything. Don't just sit at home and brood, there are people who have stayed at home for 6-10years without a job and don't think you can be a millionaire overnight, you have to hussle and by His Grace, the Good Lord will bless your hussle.My dear put pride aside, you have to start from somewhere. Did you save during your NYSC? No matter how small, use it to start up something. I have been at home for 6years now without a job but atleast I didn't wait for any uncle, father or mum before starting something and I thank God for where I am today.
Don't put your hope on man cos the'll definitely fail you.God will bless you, all you need is just a step.
FamilyRe: Who Should Sit At The Front.....? by anthoniaz(f): 10:10pm On Nov 14, 2014
bukatyne:
Sista mi,

I no sabi this kain politricks o!

My little understanding is that a man you want to marry is your intimate friend and confidant

If you cannot tell him how you truly feel about his friend now, when will you do it?

Discuss with him honestly on this and every other thing you have been feeling and adopt this method going forward.

I will have my PA send you the bill for my counsel grin

Christmas is fast approaching; woman must hammer. cheesy
My dear, no be politics oo, sometimes I just feel we should overlook the friend's matter(maybe I should I talk to him about it instead of pretending not to be angry about it).
We actually talk about things just that when it comes to his family and friends, I tell him to forget it.He is the type that dislikes people easily so most times I don't like us discussing his friends and family. When he complains about somebody, I jokingly tell him to forget about the person so we can talk about more important things.
Me too I dey look for moni oo, wedding things. grin
U fit send your PA with cash sha cheesy wink

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